Celebrities › Re: Davido Awarded Outstanding Georgia Citizen (Photos) by femi4: 8:32am On Dec 02, 2023 |
fnep2smooth: He is now a dual citizen now nice one He has been from birth. He's got green passport even before his fame |
Sports › Re: NFF Plans Introduction Of VAR In Domestic League by femi4: 8:30am On Dec 02, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Parents With Sickle Cell Kids How Do You Cope? by femi4: 8:28am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Yemike: I need people with experience on how to manage SS Crisis. Both my parent are AS and we the kids are 5. I'm the first child and I'm lucky to be AA, the 2nd born AS, 3rd, 4th, 5th - SS. I have 3 SS siblings and right now most of their responsibility and wellbeing is on me as the first born cuz my P-man is old already. Just last week I have to rush down to my brother's school to bring him home cuz he called me in the middle of the night weeping cuz the pain is just too much and his roommate isn't around. My question now is how can it be managed? cuz it's really affecting everybody cuz It's affecting their studies, I'm exhausted right now cuz anytime it happens it's ends with me borrowing funds to send to them and lastly it's sucks happiness out of the atmosphere as hearing a teenager weeping and knowing you can't do anything about it is saddening.
I've seen some people asking if they as AS can also marry AS please and please don't try it as you'll just be bringing innocent kids here just to suffer. The trauma of you seeing your kids in pain sef no be here.
How can SS Crisis be avoided/managed?
I'd have loved my write up to be well detailed but the little I wrote up there took up to an hour cuz my phone is bad.
You experience and advice will be well appreciated. Thanks. But why your parents continue to bring kids to suffer in this world is what I don't understand No 3, 4, 5- SS |
Family › Re: Single Mothers' Household Produce The Worst Kids — American Lady(vid,pix) by femi4: 8:22am On Dec 02, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Single Mothers' Household Produce The Worst Kids — American Lady(vid,pix) by femi4: 8:21am On Dec 02, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome: Very true. Just say broken homes. Cos single fathers ain't doing good job either |
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo Re-Elected As Lagos NURTW Chairman For A Second Term (Pics) by femi4: 8:19am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Omihanifa: After his 2nd term him to will appoint his own fubara there and they will fall out How many years is a term |
Business › Re: Naira Continues Free Fall, Depreciates By 11% To N927.19/$ At Official Market by femi4: 8:16am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Mr gravity can't do anything to save the damn Naira.
This is December.....its expected |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Job Should I Pick? by femi4: 8:16am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Selfless1: I got two jobs, and I don't know which to go for.
Job 1 is a Porter position in a hotel. Salary - 40k
Job 2 is a Customer Service position in MTN. Although, the employment is not from MTN directly. It's from a company MTN outsource the job to. Salary is 35k, with a 5k increment every 3months.
Which should I choose, and please give reason. Thanks The first one. You are dealing directly with your employer. Outsourcing jobs ain't reliable, you can't negotiate with the middle man |
Properties › Re: Lagos Issues Stop Work Order To A Developer In Lekki (Photos) by femi4: 8:11am On Dec 02, 2023 |
MadamVanessa:

Most dumbest and dullest commissioner ever. Illiterate commissioner forming woke.
Do your work and stop showing people nonsense. Even if you reduced all the buildings in Lagos to smithereens, heaven won't fall, so go on with your unprofessional method of tackling problems. Show us the professional way of allowing water flow into a building and come out at the other end |
Celebrities › Re: It’s Disrespectful For Young People To Call Me By Name – Shaffy Bello (Video) by femi4: 8:08am On Dec 02, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What Is One Thing You Regret Doing This Year? by femi4: 7:39am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Odewaleadesoye: Fellow members of Nairaland Forum 'what is one thing you regret doing this year?'
Mine:
Kindly share yours with us please. No regret |
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad's Wife Wants Son's DNA Test Done In 3 Hospitals - Iyabo Ojo by femi4: 1:31am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Irupetepete: Oyabo Ojo is gistlover no cap Same way they told you that Buhari was fake from Sudan. Nigerians can believe anything sha |
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad's Wife Wants Son's DNA Test Done In 3 Hospitals - Iyabo Ojo by femi4: 1:29am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Jonathan: Useless olosho fool Girls always think they can get away with their games. That toto wey dey scratch her to misbehave since, her eye never clear now? She's no longer free and I'm sure that she's regretting some of her actions by now. THE DNA TEST IS A MUST WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT. HER STORY WILL TEACH SOME OF THESE WAYWARD OLOSHOS BIG LESSON.
IF SHE HAD BEEN A GOOD AND LOYAL GIRL, NO ONE WOULD BE ASKING FOR ANY DNA TEST NOW. Comprehension zero, you probably don't have data to watch the video |
Romance › Re: Lady Wows Many With Her Transformation After Being Dumped by femi4: 1:27am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Lanre1st: Women mentality, why can’t she transform herself intellectually, add value to herself instead of transforming body. Now she will be looking forward for new paid boyfriend,
set awon sextoy People work on what they think they can only bring to the table |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Beats Cape Verde 5 - 0 In WAFCON Qualifier by femi4: 3:59pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
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Culture › Re: What Language Is Spoken Often In Your Family? by femi4: 3:46pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
cutecommend: What language does members of your family speak often to each other?
(a) Pidgin English (b) Polished English language (c) Your Tribal language. (d) Sign language
etc. British English BTW, which one is "polished " English |
Romance › Re: Why Would A Man Reach Out To An Ex Of 10+ Years Out Of The Blue ? by femi4: 3:42pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Ifemelu80: Hi,
My ex called me yesterday, out of the blue, after 14 years of radio silence. He was my first love and I thought we were in a relationship for 3 years only to find out I was just his side piece to the side piece. He broke up with me by blocking me on his phone and social media and that was it.
A mutual friend reached out to me about 2 weeks ago. We had also lost contact for years. We talked about everything but him. So I was very surprised to get a call from him. He said the mutual friend told him about our reconnection so he also wanted to get in touch. We chatted for 10-15 mn, he asked me about my life and told me to save his contact.
Now, I'm wondering, why would a man call an ex girl friend he didn't really care about, after more than 10 years ? We were never close friends and don't have any common interests, personal or professional circle anymore, so what's the point  Okafor's law loading |
Nairaland General › Re: TVC’s Morayo Afolabi-brown Appointed Managing Director Of TVC Entertainment by femi4: 3:38pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
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Family › Re: What One Thing A Kid Born After 2000 Will Not Understand? by femi4: 3:34pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Blackhacker: What one thing a kid born after 2000 will not understand no matter how long you explain it? Table soccer /saun |
Romance › Re: Sex On The First Date by femi4: 3:32pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Theopneustos: Good day nairalanders
I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'
Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.
I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.
That's my humble opinion What do you think
#IWriteToCreateChange ©Theopneustos Balderdash! What reduce your worth is sleeping with the person that isn't your husband. There is no difference between sex on first date or tenth day......Its still fornication |
Romance › Re: Got Married Last Weekend, A New Chapter Started by femi4: 3:28pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
realmindz: This time last year, I didn’t know I’d be married this year. A lot has happened in one year, met my wife in a strange manner, loved her and finally got married to her.
https://www.nairaland.com/7847420/how-met-fiancee
I will like to keep my anonymity so unfortunately no pictures here. But I can give you a good description, she’s the last child and only daughter, so you know how she must have been pampered. Her mum was so emotional and she had tears roll down her cheek on the D-day, it was lovely though to see such wonderful connection.
My wife is tall, ebony and in her early twenties. White sparkling teeth, bright eyes, always smiling. She’s the perfect gift to me. The wedding was simple yet beautiful. I am so fortunate to have her in my life.
And the best gift came after. Let me whisper it (I met her at home, tear rubber)  Dmw did more than this. Tear rubber will tear your life apart if that's what you chose over good character |
Phones › Re: Is Mark Zuckerberg Promoting Secret Affairs With This New Features On Whatsapp by femi4: 7:51am On Dec 01, 2023 |
ryloy: Is Mark Zuckerberg Promoting Secret Affairs with this New Features on WhatsApp ?
Is this good for safety and security? African mentality The people that have industrial mind will see it as a way to guide their business transactions and idea against theft and scam |
Christianity Etc › Re: Celestial Church Invites Pasuma, Portable To Praise Night (Photo) by femi4: 10:54pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Slurity: I AM A CHRISTAIN AND I CAN TELL YOU FOR FREE, CELESTIAL IS NOT GOD'S CHURCH. IT IS JUST A WORLDLY SOCIETY WITH ROOTED BACKGROUNG IN OCCULTIC PRACTICES. You will be shock to know that they may not even inviting those musicians, but a plan to deceive people to attend. That is the headquarters of pastors marrying multitude wives and also headquarters of single women at the same time. They will come for your head with that statement |
Crime › Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by femi4: 10:48pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
CandidAdmin: I don't know whether what I saw this morning falls under sex harrasment, but here is mine.
We got down from a public vehicle (me and my sister) and then tried to cross the road only for one grown up to hit my sister butt and claim it was an accident.
My sister overlooked it and the we crossed the road. As we were going up a bridge, we decided to stop and buy something only for the same man to do it again. He still said it was a mistake and walked away. The road is a big one ooo, and no car was passing by but the man decided to walk on the corner where no reasonable person will pass so that he would accomplish his mission.
My sister and I were really pissed off, even the traders attending to us were insulting him but he couldn't care less.
I couldn't do anything because my sister told me not to as per he his an old useless man. If not ehnn...
Share your experience Next time, you will slap him by mistake too |
Politics › Re: Lagos Commissioner, Tokunbo Wahab Shares Photo Of Houses Blocking Canal by femi4: 10:38pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Biodun556: So serious It's about to go down now |
Family › Re: Home DNA Test Kit - Is This The Expected “Apocalypse”? by femi4: 10:37pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
julybaba: With the introduction of this test kit, it is now easy to carry out DNA testing from the comfort of your homes.
How many new generations marriages can survive this ?
Do you think this kit should be banned ? 😀😀😀 Lolz, you can't stop technology. In the nearest future, we will be doing DNA and other severe health diagnosis using mobile app |
Family › Re: Christmas Gift For My Daughters by femi4: 10:32pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
oliverwrites: And you think I would not have tried this first? More reasons you have to bring her into the picture, without her approval, no advice here will make sense to her |
Health › Re: Dots On The Skin by femi4: 3:26pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
EmperorFred: Doctors in the house, please what kind of skin reaction is this and how can I go about it, I have it on other parts too. It will go on its own. Its a mere skin reaction |
Romance › Re: Beautiful Lady Weds Her Oyinbo Husband At The Ikoyi Registry Lagos (Pics/Video) by femi4: 3:24pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Anny69: Oh, she is happy. It's better than getting married to a Nigerian man. You are obsession with Naija men |
Christianity Etc › Re: Couple Whose Wedding Was Cancelled Over Pregnancy Weds In Another Church In Aba by femi4: 3:22pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
LadyRosa2:

But they ought to have followed the church's rules. Thats why I love Catholic Church, your wife fit wear gown today, enter labour room tomorrow. 
Although its not encouraged to get pregnant before marriage, but the Catholic Church will still wed you,so as to discourage a " change of plans" that might hurt the pregnant woman and child tomorrow. God's rule superceed Church's rule |
Politics › Re: What Took America 185yrs, Nigeria Achieved It Within 24yrs – Akpabio by femi4: 3:21pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Christmas Gift For My Daughters by femi4: 3:19pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
oliverwrites: My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.
Please give me gift ideas.
I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.
And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.
They are 7, 4 and 3. That's where their mother comes in. Ask their mother, don't ask us. She is closer to them than you or any nairalander |