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Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Use lubricant for now

dlondonbadboy:
Whether or not she confesses, she won’t still do anything worthwhile with her certificate in Nigeria.

Yinmu
Not everyone is unfortunate like you

MummyGreat:
so taking care of two children and the home is not enough job or it is because she is not paid for it? Like what point are u trying to make?

Common ...go n get a job and stop giving lazy excuses

Taking care of your children, doing house chores etc doesn't add to the family income

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

Not possible...tell your hubby to handle feeding

officialmario:
A 300level student of Federal College of Education (name withheld) was expelled after Confessing to the school management of using a fake olevel result.

It all happened that members of the Deeper Life Bible Church student fellowship had preached to her to change from her old ways and she accepted to give her life, she decided to confess all her sins to the college provost who happens to be a deeper life campus fellowship director.

After about two weeks, she was summoned to the Disciplinary committee to come and face panel, She was found guilty and was expelled from the college, and her picture was pasted ot the entrance of the school gate.

I felt bad after hearing her story.
What if she had not confess all her sins to the man? That means she could have graduated successfuly without any hindrance.
What's your say and opinion on this?

And after graduating successful , what give you the impression that she LL do anything worthwhile with such certificate

DownChelsea:
As long as he keeps being a loyal fan of United.
As long as he keeps the United badge on
As long as United pays his wages
As long as he plays for United
As long as he remains the GOAT.


Same way he saved the day 90% of the time in real Madrid.

Same way he saved the day 90% of the time in Juventus.

Same way he saves the day 90% of the time for Portugal.


DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH RONALDO BEING RONALDO?

A typical shortsighted Ronaldo fan. Man U fans know that it's not huru yet

Joebayo217:
Nobody talk about Baily performance he was solid.

Solid? Yet ManU conceded two goals

DownChelsea:
Few weeks ago, we were all singing anthems and reciting poems about how United had a very difficult schedule of games and how United won't see a single point.
And the run of games began.


Atalanta came. United won
Liverpool came. United lost
Tottenham came. United won
Atalanta came again. United drew.


We're already halfway into the difficult fixtures and we're still yet to see the horrible run of results we were all singing about, that United were going to get

That heavy loss to Liverpool is more than a disaster. You guys are postponing the evil days. For how long will cr7 continue to save the day? Look at the bigger picture, your team is struggling

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]He wasn’t injured...this coach just prefers his worthless English defenders over a World Cup winning world class defender.

United wouldn’t have conceded the second goal if Varane was in defense.

The second goal was really cheap and was due to an open defense...the first goal was just a goalkeeping error.

Ole is a ret@rd![/color]

See kettle....

sammy329:
How did Pulisic miss that

Out of form

Stephen2324:
The chat was going well until he/she said .....

I will be going back to school this weekend....I need money for provisions

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Let him seek help medically and indulge in a lot exercise with little or no sugar diet. Make sure he's not into masturbation as well

On your part, encourage and boost his moral by your choice of words. Let him finger fvcked you before and after his dick is tired

Ovamboland:
The future will have better roads, new railway over 1000km , new seaports and airports, vast agricultural schemes they can depend on, with oil being a bonus.

Unlike 2015 when the previous government was already unable to pay salary because oil prices dropped. Now we are far less dependent on oil. Our military is now far better equipped and are giving insurgents and terrorist a bloody nose. Once victory is secured in each zone, the next zone taking the opportunity to cause unrest should expect visitation.

That's what the future will inherit not expensive bra.

future Impossible Tense. You are still referring to the future after 8yrs in power....shame on you

Never experienced such

Carelessness, no any form of safety wear

efficiencie:
men na you suppose dey do service to humanity ohh...but boss what do you do to earn so much make i see if i fit follow in ya footsteps!

It's classified

jnrcess:
It is that time of the month when most salary earners smile home. Some have been paid and some are yet to be paid.

Personally, I haven't had a full time job in over 4 years because of school. My first full time job before I gained admission paid me 8k per month.

I recently landed a full-time job (remote) that offered me a monthly pay of 500k. As a final year student, who has never earned this amount of money in a month, I'm blown away �.

So what's the highest amount your full time job has paid you?

500k as at now

Xbolar777:
Please I don't know. It why my Samsung A30 doesn't have 4g network and when I browse about it I discovered that it's supposed to have it, please is there anything I can do about it?

lol....LTE = 4G

4G LTE is short for “fourth generation long-term evolution.” So it's actually two terms combined. ... And “long-term evolution,” or “LTE,” is industry jargon used to describe the particular type of 4G that delivers the fastest mobile internet

Davash222:
My gender, this no be sex matter. Let's stay sideline and learn from the vagina gender.

Shalom.

Ignorance

https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/sex-during-periods#benefits

Kobojunkie:
This is a myth that should have died with the introduction of the internet but I see that even with the source of knowledge in the palm of their hands, Nigeria youths continue to languish in ignorance.

It does, you need to start using that internet

Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?

Be having sex regularly

Doxjosh1:
Nigerian Army Arrest One Of The Unknown Gunmen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ojd3CCuAOco

Unknown jazz man

festacman:
Is BAZE University a DEBASED University?

I m suspecting that university

Icumsa45:
In these tough economic times, how much do you think will take you through the week?

Let's see comments.

@mods please push to front page.

10k outside Saturday Owambe

Diligent1:
I am surprised at which the rate of fake job interviews are being sent to me everyday.
As a job seeker, I try to apply for job at least 5 times everyday but all the interview messages I receive, I always check for the location before I would decide to go, immediately it will show among the fake locations of Scam Interviews.

Last week, I received 2 invites to come today which the location is Ikorodu and I was very happy that at least I will start a work this month. I was already planning how I will spend my salary, food stuff first, hoping they might be real. On getting there, I discovered that they are GNLD. I was disappointed again, right now, I don't know what to do.
I have not seen any real company inviting me for an interview.
I don't know how to get a job, the government should come to our aid, It is difficult to survive.

Always go to reliable and credible job hunt sites not Nairaland. NL is for every tom dick n harry, it's difficult to separate fake from original here

Mercychen:
Eiya.. old age has set in. One of my favorite actors.

Though this looks good on him and I know he will rock it with style but I still prefer his old looks with the punk waves hairstyle.

Great actor!

That's a mask and make up. Look very well

LilMissFavvy:
So What is wrong with a woman building her own wealth? Why must it be her husband's wealth that she should build?. By the way, why is this pastor flaunting that set of teeth?

An average naija girl doesn't create wealth, they depend on big gods

Odewaleadesoye:
Good morning lovely members of Nairaland Forum!

Happy new month to you all!

Guess you guys are doing well. As for me, I'm not doing well as I woke up with messages from hacker this morning.

The hacker who gave his name as Royal has gained full access to my Facebook account. He's threatening me to pay the sum of 40k before he can release my Facebook Account back to me.

See his message below:
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I have tried to login to my Facebook account but no access. He has changed the phone numbers and email attached to the account.

My question is this: What's the assurance of him not selling or hacking the account again even if I pay him?

Currently, I haven't replied his messages.

Please help me out gurus in the house.

Below is the screenshot of the message he sent to me via WhatsApp platform:

Report the case to Facebook

doggedfighter:
Religion has always been a joke.


Pastors and religious leaders know this.

Reason they're brazenly carrying out their church and mosque business employing all

manner of antics to boost their profit margin and empires.


While their gullible followers look forward to meeting Jesus in heavens to receive their

mansion or Mohammed to receive 72 virgins in paradise.

Religion isn't a joke, We have jokers in every sector....and those that doesn't understand how it works turn it to a joke

YourBestWriter:
I work in a public analyst lab. So recently, I felt bored, so I said to my boss, am leaving the job because am travelling to the east. Unsurprisingly, she was okay with that, but then she gave me a phone number of one of her friends there in the east. She said her friend opened a lab recently, and she's referring me to her.

Now my problem is this:

How can I go about it? I won't call the number and say: "hello, my name is Mr xyz, and I was referred by Mrs abc to apply for a position in your lab." That won't sound appropriate; isn't it?

I have searched the internet for probably an email address, but the lab is new, and there are no email addresses.

Guys what do you think? Any suggestions please. Thank you.

That's where you got it wrong. You are referred on merit, nothing to be embarrassed about

Amotolongbo:
Exothermic reaction with no product, is that one a reaction

Enthalpy < 0

Tinubuadvocate:
How is this government is the worse. How many people in this present government accuse of money laundering ?Even those who subvert their office budgets they were fired.

I m not blind like you. A govt that absorb the likes of FFK and co are angels?
A govt that reloot Abacha loots is a saint?

NDDC chairman and minister are still working free today.

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