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Politics › Re: Nigerian Governors At UNDP Retreat In Kigali, Rwanda (Photos) by Focusmind: 4:07pm On Aug 26, 2023
At the end, what happenshuh Training and leadership retreats makes no meaning to a typical Nigerian politician.
Food › Re: See Where Ogbono Comes From by Focusmind: 3:17pm On Aug 25, 2023
I can't eat Ogbono soup without enough Okro and other sea edibles in it kiss
Romance › Re: Things You Shouldn't Share With Your Partner No Matter What by Focusmind: 10:06am On Aug 25, 2023
These people saying toothbrush and boxers, I hope they are not married. I don't even know which ones are my own toothbrush and the ones that belongs to my wife...neither does she. We have like five in a toothbrush cup holder and anyone could use any....I don't know which one is mine....except if she finishes brushing with one and I want to brush, I would pick any dry one in the cup, which she may have even used yesterday.

As for casual shorts and T shirts or joggers, she uses mine, wear some of my t shirts and short joggers.

Even though she is a signatory to my account, I may not be favorably disposed to letting her know of any major inflow if I have plans for the money, which may be different from hers. There are certain things she would want to buy which I considered luxury and unnecessary and on that note, I wouldn't want her to know of any major inflow that I received. Na sense person dey take marry wife and maintain peace at home.
Politics › Re: Naira Crumbles To 920/$, Fuel Marketers Push For Fresh Price Hike by Focusmind: 9:25am On Aug 25, 2023
And just yesterday, it was 860 and Aboki asked me to buy. Lots of people are in their homes cashing out on this naira problems. Imagine if one had bought $10000 @860, which is N8600000m and sold at 920 today, which is 9200000m....a cool 600k just made in one day!!
Properties › Re: N500K Electricity Bill Debt On Newly Purchased House. by Focusmind: 5:57pm On Aug 23, 2023
Don't tell them how much you bought the house o. If the price you paid for the house is in millions, my brother, you must pay that N500k. NEPA always assesses once capacity to pay in that kind of situation.
Crime › Re: Anambra Man Battered, Robbed, After Okada Man Diverted Him To Kidnappers' Den by Focusmind: 12:45pm On Aug 23, 2023
….And some will be here shouting, "come home and invest". The kind of crime and greed going on in Anambra state is terrible.

Try and want to start up something or buy land, you will see hell.
Family › Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Focusmind: 9:09pm On Aug 22, 2023
You didn't do anything wrong. Don't feel guilty or allow yourself to be blackmailed. He is just being unappreciative. Beating you for what?? Sad that some men are here, defending the man. As a man, when you fall, you pick up the pieces and work towards getting your feet back. Here, he saw an ATM machine in you and relaxed.....this is the reason why most women hardly reveal their earnings to their husband....The quality of men these days is becoming terribly low.
Politics › Re: ‘wadata Plaza Will Go Down’, Reactions Trail Wike’s Demolition Threat by Focusmind: 9:12pm On Aug 21, 2023
He can't do any serious enforcement with the current crop of FCT staff. He may have to import his Ikwerre thugs from PH to head the different tasks forces he would set up in Abuja.
Education › Re: Stop Sending Your Children For Holiday Lessons by Focusmind: 1:55pm On Aug 21, 2023
Scam wey don cast tey tey!!! Na people wey never know still dey fall mugu for that scam

My kids are here playing their hearts out; learning how to write the best of letters. poems and readings - these are the added skills I want them to develop. Not to go to school environment and starts learning the usual subjects and being taught by the same set of teachers; Here, they are learning all the house chores, washing their plates, loading their clothes in the washing machine, getting extremely comfortable with the use of computers for productive activities and running errands for me and their mum that involves collection of change after buying things - sounds funny grin grin grin - they are getting used to money and the change system - not the one taught them in school. My 8 year son, before he goes out to buy something for me, he would do his mathematics well to determine what the change would be grin grin - I will send him on errand that will warrant him to buy multiple things with cash and be able to pay and come back with the correct change. else, he would repeat the errand.

Schools no go see my leg with them during the summer holiday.
Travel › Re: Miscreants, Traders Take Over Multi -million Naira Lagos Bus Stops by Focusmind: 11:38am On Aug 21, 2023
This is what I have come to notice in Lagos and Nigeria. It is not just the bustop shelters but parks and green field areas. You can't go to any open park in Lagos without being afraid of strange faces loitering around. This is what you get when you ignore human capital development. Structures don't build societies....it is the quality of humans....reason why there has to be a mind set shift among greater population of Nigerians. The human quality index of majority of nigerians is terribly low. For those surviving on the streets, public infrastructure and good ambience makes no sense to them. Drive through Marina down to CMS and see how that road has been turned to motor park with all kinds of agberoism and thuggery going on, on daily basis....a supposedly high brow area with concentration of corporate head offices.
Business › Re: FG Mulls Redenomination Option To Stabilise Naira by Focusmind: 6:08pm On Aug 20, 2023
HBB1:
Obasanjo was the best ever.
He had everything needed to be a great president-- charisma, intelligence, strength/stubborness, competence...

He must sleep poorly at night seeing what Nigeria has now become.

God bless him sha.
Very apt.
Trust me, if one uninformed and backwards person was the president during obasanjo's time, he wouldn't have signed the presidential power, permitting the issuance of GSM licenses to mtn and Co. He would have regarded GSM as not being good for every body. Obasanjo beats all the presidents after him hands down.
Business › Re: FG Mulls Redenomination Option To Stabilise Naira by Focusmind: 4:33pm On Aug 20, 2023
I just don't know why Yar adua didn't allow Soludo to proceed with that plan....Soludo did a solid job in planning for naira. For reasons best known to Yaradua, he rejected the plan and went ahead not to reappoint Soludo....Reason why Obasanjo remains the best. He gave his team the opportunity to see through their plans andprogrammes. Yaradua or any northern president wouldn't have allowed the 2005 banking consolidation to happen.

Tinubu should not try the policy now. It is long outdated.....it would have been good if Soludo had implemented it then..... lots have changed since then, both at the micro and macro levels.....lots of economic determinants. The ship has sailed...Tinubu should explore other economic alternatives.
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Reconciled With Her Husband On His Sick Bed The Same Day He Died by Focusmind: 1:54pm On Aug 20, 2023
So sad!! He seemed to be a stranger to the kids... see how they gazed at his corpse like strangers that were told to come and have a look at something. Men, be close to your children, especially, your daughter(s). When you buy things, let them know that you bought them. Be present in all they do and show interest in their activities.
Romance › Re: How I Met My Girlfriend by Focusmind: 1:42pm On Aug 20, 2023
I am not against love o, but first thing first. OP, leave women matter and face your NYSC program squarely. I hope you went to camp with your GMAT and SHL book to be rehearsing. Job hunting has started and there should not be any distraction. Please, leave any form of serious relationship or commitment and focus on your survival as an upcoming young man. The road ahead is tough and could be frustrating.
Men that focus on their survival first will later have retinue of ladies coming to them after achieving a stable career while those that ignored their own success will have retinue of women ran away from them later in life. I am talking from experience. Be focus!!!
Politics › Re: What Will Wike Bring To The FCT As A Minister? by Focusmind: 10:28am On Aug 17, 2023
25% of votes cast in all the six council areas. grin grin grin
Business › Re: Dollar Crashes To ₦790 At Parallel Market After Tinubu, CBN Governor’s Meeting by Focusmind: 9:57am On Aug 16, 2023
Reporting live from CMS bookshop, close to first bank shocked shocked

940.13/$ to buy
920/$ to sell
Foreign Affairs › Re: Taliban Marks Two Years Since Return To Power In Afghanistan (Photos) by Focusmind: 8:42pm On Aug 15, 2023
Surprisingly, Afghanistan have been relatively peaceful since the beginning of this year - There has not been any bombing or suicide person attacking people. The attackers are now the people ruling.
Travel › Re: Nigerians To Pay N107,500 For IELTS From September 2023 by Focusmind:
The business centre wey UK, US, Canada, Australia and New Zealand open for our heads no be for here. Their immigration systems are well organized, which were set up to milk people.

Imagine subjecting me to IELTS every two years when I can challenge the best of speakers in those countries in English language. You can't even hear or understand what most natives from those countries say when they open their mouths to speak English.
Sports › Re: Disappointing To Lose Through Penalty: Oparanozie Apologises For Losing Her Kick by Focusmind: 6:20am On Aug 08, 2023
It is okay. You guys did well.
But honestly, I thought she would score, looking at the way she was dishing instructions to other takers, may be where to place the ball, prior to the kick.
The loss pain me sha. I would have loved that they passed through the three lioness. Go to the English conversation platforms and see their comments. I am always happy any time an English national team is eliminated. Though I always have sympathy for their club sides because of my love for the premier League - at least, one of the least racism - prone top leagues in Europe.
Crime › Re: Optometrist Died After Scuffle With Her Husband by Focusmind: 6:06am On Aug 08, 2023
I wonder how couples allows issues to get to stage of going physical on each other. Always have your best wedding pictures hung in your living rooms and bedroom. It brings memories of happy times when you gaze at the picture of both of you smiling at each other on that very day. It helps to ward off distrust and hatred. That's what I come to realize, at least in my own marriage.

Being an Optometrist doctor, the woman may be higher than him in social standing. This is one of the worst nightmares of some men - common with men from my part of the country with inferiority complexes, if his education is limited. Something that men should be proud of, and see as a blessing that they have a professional woman as wife. But, no! To some, it is a threat to their unfounded fears and egos. Looking at the man's picture, you could tell his kind of person. I am not exonerating the wife but being cool and resilient under serious provocation by your wife is not a sign of weakness but a greater sign of maturity.

My wife usually comes back to apologize whenever she gets me upset and I "failed" to react negatively. She would apologize deeply, pamper me well and tried to regig the union. But anytime I reacted harshly, she distances herself. We should all endeavour to understand our spouses, especially how to press their " mumu button" to get what we want and have a stable union.

Nigeria, as it is now, is difficult and, every body is angry; some transferring the anger to their supposedly loved ones at home.
Politics › Re: Foreign Airlines Repatriate Over $4bn In 15 Months by Focusmind: 5:12pm On Aug 07, 2023
I noticed it when I bought Ticket for my wife's Lagos to Toronto

It was 46% cheaper if she had taken the flight from Banjul, Gambia than from Lagos.

She wanted to go through Gambia as she wanted to participate in an international event in Gambia before the event was cancelled.

We had to book the expensive Lagos - Dublin - Toronto.
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by Focusmind: 8:13pm On Aug 06, 2023
Letusconnect:
So are you saying I shouldn’t bother to send it through webform since it is optional?
You can send if you want. But I am telling you a first hand experience. The visa was issued in May 2023.

The main form there is the "application form for study made outside Canada".

All the questions from the temporary visa application form is still in the study visa application form.
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by Focusmind: 12:54pm On Aug 06, 2023
Predator188:
Good ..have you done it before and got approved without 5257 form
Yes!
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 23 by Focusmind: 12:09pm On Aug 06, 2023
Predator188:
You can't travel without the 5257 form...
That's for the visa stamp in passport page!
Fill and send through Web form
The form is optional. If you have completed the study visa application form, it covers form 5257 as you will be issued a visa if your study visa application is approved even if you didn't include form 5257 in your application package.
Politics › Re: Dr Bosun Tijani's Old Tweet Surfaces by Focusmind: 11:02am On Aug 03, 2023
That he is called to serve does not mean anything.

He may have criticized Tinubu in the past but if he is given an opportunity to "serve", why is he being attacked by people?

Do we want unqualified people to be appointed? The guy is sound.... so, he is free to "contribute'' his quota.
Health › Re: Dr Vwaere Diaso: Lagos Government Condoles Family, Sets Up Inquiry by Focusmind: 7:29pm On Aug 02, 2023
I hardly use elevator in any government owned or public buildings in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: I Passed Common Entrance In Primary 3 Because Of My Brilliance – Senator Abbo by Focusmind: 9:09pm On Aug 01, 2023
Mindlog:
Yes, our parents really did try their best. The painful thing was that my sister passed both the common entrance exam and the subsequent interview but was given FGC Sokoto. My parents really tried to even get some where near, FGC Odogbolu (Ogun state) but it didn't work out.

My sister, now a Rev.Sr. and a consultant psychologist keep saying she was depressed throughout secondary school because she didn't make it to FGC despite her brilliancy and it got worsen, whenever our neighbour's daughter came back home from Queens College on mid term breaks and end of term holidays. It was at that tender age, she realized the injustice called quota system and harboured that anger until she spoke about the repressed anger, when she went for personal therapy during her doctorate program.
What a story! My respect to her.
May the good Lord continue to enrich her in His vineyard. Making that solemn vow is not an easy thing o.
Politics › Re: I Passed Common Entrance In Primary 3 Because Of My Brilliance – Senator Abbo by Focusmind: 5:47pm On Aug 01, 2023
Mindlog:
What was the cut off mark of Adamawa?


Actually in 1989, it was out of 600 because my eldest sister sat for it and scored 534 and our state, (Imo state) cut off mark that year was 523 and highest in Nigeria, while the old Gongola state was less than 200 as we had a neighbour who was from Mubi (Gongola state) whose daughter scored less than 200 and made it to Queens College Lagos while my elder sister didn't get FGC Ijanikin that was her first choice nor FGC Okigwe that was her second choice but was compensated with Federal Government College, Sokoto ! Imagine sending a 12 year old from Lagos to Sokoto by road way back in 1990......my parents did waka to them and got my sister enrolled in a day secondary school in Lagos.
You just summarised the dedication and commitment some of our parents showed in the 80's and early 90's about their children. I did my own FGC common entrance in 1990 and was admitted to FGC Maiduguri because I didn't meet the Anambra State cut off for both Kings College, Lagos and FGC Enugu, which were my first and second choice, respectively.
My Dad was moving up and down from Anambra to Borno state for change of school for me and to get letter of release from FGC Maiduguri. Luckily, I later sat and passed the entrance exam of one of the most prestigious Catholic school in Nigeria. That was how I skipped FGC Maiduguri and went to Catholic school.
Politics › Re: Atiku At Tribunal For His Final Written Address by Focusmind: 12:28pm On Aug 01, 2023
I have not seen the prayers Atiku is seeking from this tribunal

He did not score the highest number of votes: he did not get up to two-thirds of all the States

He did not get the mandatory 25% of FCT

I dont know the ground he is seeking to be declared the winner

Someone should help me..
Travel › Re: Ebonyi Airport: Two Months Gone, No Airline Has Landed There: Pictures by Focusmind: 8:32pm On Jul 27, 2023
007kjb:
To be frank even the Anambra airport is unnecessary while ASABA airport and IMO airport is functional
ASABA to anywhere in Anambra doesn't take up to an hour and thirty minutes
I will rather use Asaba than to use the Anambra airport to come to Anambra. Asaba is just two minutes drive to Onitsha compared to the Anambra airport. Most importantly, I fear the airport road leading to the Anambra airport. Pray not to be stranded there at night. Don't know why Obiano had to take the airport to that remote area known for violent crimes and community clashes.
Politics › Re: Nigeria's Ibori: From Petty Thief To Governor To Prison - Reuters by Focusmind: 9:29am On Jul 22, 2023
xxolisexx:
Tinubu and his fellow thief
Just imagine what is going on in the minds of the UK Crown Court Judge that jailed Ibori after seeing this picture??
Imagine the perception of the UK justice secretary about Nigeria when he sees the newly elected President, receiving the former convict in the presidential villa. Our moral standard is terribly low in this country.

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