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mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, my female cousin was giving shout outs to family members who helped her during her graduation but she did not mention my mother’s name.

What does that mean?[/color]

Nothing much, don't help her next time, maybe she forgot but to avoid this kind of things, don't help her again

TooResilient:
How am I damaged?
All I listed is about who I am, not what I want the man to be.

Please read to comprehension.

I think you just have to reduce the standard you have been so that you can accommodate men that may want to approach you

You said you will make your children citizens, why not even relocate to that country where their men love and appreciate women more than the Ibo and Yoruba men

NwekeUG:
Ghanaian Man Excited At The Beautiful Mansion His Younger Brother Built For Him While He Was Abroad

The Ghanaian man had been sending money to his younger brother to help him build a house back home. He recently returned and met a house that was beyond his expectation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7RuLUSvv3A

So far the owner of the house is satisfied with the house he supervised in building

He doesn't care how much he made from that project

We must be willing to assist people with all our sincerity, there is always a reward for being transparent

AqualinaXYZ:
I rather pass the night in a mortuary than sleep in a terrorist camp





Small thing knife don near your neck

😂 Funny you

fourboys:
As a business man, Erisco scored an own goal, should have just ignored that Chioma

I swear and his Ibo brothers ha e begged him but he refused

I think he is stubborn

He has met his match with Falana

Let me see how he will survive this since he doesn't want chioma to survive

woojin:
she knows. Its like she done give up on me

Ok then, God will surprise you soon, just go to any house of God as the spirit led you and talk to God in a praise language steadly and he will direct you on what to do and how to source funds for it

Dont give up because the future is very bright for you

woojin:
Tomorrow is going to be my 30years birthday, i heard life become easier for men when they clock 30 but why is mine getting fvcked up instead of me to develop i am becoming poorer, i sold my phone, i sold my fan sold my shoes now all i have got left is my two shirts, a trouser and this itel phone. Who cursed me? Even the lowest of the lowest job i couldnt find. Lately i have been going across threads on nairaland begging people for money like a mad man and tarnishing my image because of poverty. I believe if i continue like this for a month it will affect me mantally. I wonder if its a curse i am just being unlucky. Majority of my friends are getting it easy without even trying hard. I dont hv a single friend that i am doing better than, even the ones that fornicate. My unluckiness is not from this earth, someone must have casted a strong spell on me.

Is your mum aware of your predicament, if not visit her and let her know what you are passing through and am sure she will have some words for you

1Alex:
I don't believe this story,it is petty. Who is BobRisky to give FG sleepless nights?

He was actually giving them toughy time and they were watching to hold just one offence to cage him

He has actually abuse our culture and tradition

He was a negative influence on the youths

He need to be tamed and it has just started

Rubyjade:
From DM

If you feel hurt about your mom life style outside marriage,
Jow do you feel about the disgraceful act of irresponsible life style of your dad, who has lost his glory as a father and a husband

Well I think you should just leave your mom alone pls, she has been through heart breaks from your dad and her joy is now outside, she is fighting for her life and happiness

I will not advice you to confront her since you are not able to challenge your dad to come back home and keep her warm

Once a woman cant get the love she craved for in her marriage especialy from her husband, then don't blame her for seeking for such else where because you don't know the options she has before taking such decisions

Loneliness kills fast

You should be more worried about your dad's life style because I bet you, at old age your dad will get his rewards from your mum and trust women she will pay him bitterly, by then all those small small girls and women he is going about with, have already been done with him

Since your mom is working and an independent woman, am sure you know by now that money is not your mom's problems. But affection, thats what she is looking for.
She has blood running in her life.

You want her to sink into depression in her marriage while your dad is enjoying life outside marriage

Think twice and leave her alone

Just learn from their mistakes and be a more responsible and committed husband and father so that your wife will remain loyal and faithful to you

TruthsFM:
exactly, maybe they want his corpse to be in the mortuary for a year before they decide to bury him.

Likely so that they will create impression that they are fighting for justice for him

iCauseTrouble:
Even though I am not a fan of homosexuality or cross-dressing, I will say the judgement is a little harsh on Bob.
We have all abused the naira note one form or the other.
They should have given him the option of fine as a first time offender.

Do you think it was about the Naira abuse alone or about other dirty things around him

TruthsFM:
so definitely it’s the Statr government that will do the burial 🪦 then

Well, Tonto Dike went to buy a coffin for him and the coffin maker gave it to her free

The state may not give money, but may support in any social way

Its unfortunate that he came out from a disorganised family, live with friends who stabbed him and had a wife whom was not playing a mother role to him

Let him go and rest, let them feel what they did to him while alive

TruthsFM:
the question is when is he gong to bury his son?

Its now a state decision no longer his decision

The state is still holding on his son's corpse as they are not yet done with their findings

For the fact that his dad rushed and buried him made it look suspicious and his fans too weren't happy about that

Pacesetter2021:
We named our child based on what we found on Google whereas the true meaning of the name is devotee to a certain goddess.

I believe that at 8 years old, it is not too late to correct this error and change her name. Unfortunately I have no idea how to start.

Please any advise as to how we can go about this will help


Then solemn advise to my fellow parents, please dig deep and know the true meaning of your child's name or better still, stick to the ones in the bible.

The devil is not playing out here.

Nothing much, get another birth certificate and go to NIN to get him enrolled for NIN, take both NIN and the new birth certificate to the school and effect the name in the school records, that's all

LVStone:
I am very grateful for your submission

You are welcome

Testiebobo:
Right from when i was a kid, i was forced to stay indoor when my peers were outdoor having fun. I was flogged everytime i tried to sneak out.
In the journey of life, i'hv learnt to be lonely.
1 When i was in primary level, i was a fighter in the class and later became violent. I cant count the numbers of pupils shirt i'hv torn. I was really poor academically.
2 In high school, my mates had besties, girlfriends, friends etc. But i had none. This time i became less violent but very harsh and mean in my words. When others went for sports and social clubs, i always hid myself under the school's basement.
3 In my adolescence period, i entered university of which i am still in currently. I had a place of work. And my boss always complain to my parents why i love to be silent at work and prevent smiling always. I guess i am just tough inside but not outside.
The same parents who me locked up indoor in my childhood. Are now begging to be interactive and be associative. Is it not too late?

All your parents did in your formative years was to train you and keep you away from problems

Now stop blaming them, you are now facing life and the world you are in

The change is you, get a girlfriend to start interacting with

Get a girlfriend to be your companion

If you don't, you may have issues when you want to settle down

If you are still a virgin, help yourself

If you are no longer a virgin then you are the cause of all these problems if not how did you break it without having a friend

LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

She cried heavily saying I now refer to her as a smelling wife. I begged her that that wasn't my intention, I observed and spoke on what could be done. That issue passed.

But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.

Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.

Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

I think you have to let her know the truth about her hygiene and your observation

The smell could come from her ampite or panties

If she wears pants to sleep then drops of urine after night pee can be on the pants hence she should stop wearing pants to sleep and learn to use tissue after each we if the day

If she doesn't take her bath at night before sleeping, then her sweat during the say for stored in her ampit and that's part of where the odours are coming out from

Correct her in a polite manner and do so with high decorum

Very soon she may start irritating you at home and the affection will drop

Most people with body odour are not perceiving the odour they have and as such are not even aware

Let her feel bad but you have to achieve success

Testiebobo:
My aunty's husband kissed his wife in the presence of their children. And my mum was not okay with it, she rebuked them privately and told them that children are fast learners and very sensitive. They tend to do things they have seen their parents doing in their presence. I see nothing really bad in it, except that the children are less than 12 in age. Is it right?

If he has been kissing his wife immediately after marriage and in front of their children, then the will see that as part if father roles in the family

Kissing her as a perk before going to work or journey

But the other type is seductive kissing can't be done in their presence

God1000:
Only him with three wives.

But it seems only African men marry plenty women, you will hardly see European or American man doing this, I'm not even sure.

They don't want more problems. It's not easy to survive one wife

Rowllland:
My close friend just got married, he need some privacy, i can’t go stay with him right now.
On the other hand, my younger brother who is in UK promised to send me little money to rent an apartment but I told him not to stress himself beside he just got to the UK and he need to find his feet first.
I am really working tirelessly to leave the house for them. I am trying to link up with some of my old friends.

Putting up with friends will make you a liability and no one wants such

Continue your good relationship with your brother if he cab raise money for you, get a room, even if uts face me I face you house

Stay alone and reason with yourself on where to start from

When your friends are tired, they will invite their girlfriend to pack in and once that is done, you will be given a short time to pack out

So where do you intend to pack to, to your parents or what

Gbadugbakun:
Continue beating her like that whenever she disrespects you. With time she'll learn to watch her mouth and give you your space.

Beating a matured girl like her is worse than any kind of punishment, she may even run away from home because of that and the whole family will blame him

Rowllland:
I am 32 years old, I am the eldest among my siblings (2 boys, 2 girls), My younger brother (2nd born) just travelled to the U.K as at November last year, my younger sister (3rd born) just graduated from the University and waiting to be mobilized for nysc while our last born is still in school.
@32 I still live with my parents, I lost my job for the past one year, things have really been tough for me to the point where I can’t pay my rent, I have to come back to my parent’s house to stay.

Since I started living with my parent, I get lot of disrespect from my younger sister (3rd born) whom I senior with 9 good years, my parent always take her sides whenever she disrespects me. There are some of her behaviors I can’t even type here. They have suddenly forgotten how much I cared for them when things were going well for me.

Yesterday evening 6pm, I noticed she was cooking noodles for herself in the kitchen and I gently told her since there is soup in the fridge why not make Eba for everyone to eat.. in her response she said: she’s tired o. I kept mute, then I said ok just place the water on the fire I’ll make the Eba myself.
After few minutes she was done eating her noodles I asked her if the water was ready and she said she hasn’t boiled the water as she frowns at me,.. out of anger I landed her 2 hot slaps on her face… she ran to her room, locked the door and started crying, she hurriedly called my younger brother in U.K and started reporting me to him, I could hear her crying loud and telling him many gibberish. Even reported me to our last born who is in school.

She remained in her room until my parent came back from church around 8pm, immediately she heard their voice, she came out from her room, flared up and started crying endlessly, talking down on me, she told my parent I beat her up mercilessly, she said I injured her in her mouth and she has been spitting out blood from her mouth… I remained silent as my parent yells at me.

I regretted hitting her, I have never hit a lady in my life. I wanted to even apologize to her but on a second thought I said No becus she don’t greet me anymore.

A lot of things makes a man to have value and respect,

where you don't have upto 50% of those things, respect is gone
That's just where you are

Very soon, you will sleep into depression and they will worsen your case

If you had any savings while working, get a room apartment for yourself pack out and start afresh from there

The only person that you can talk sense with in that family is your mum
But if she is not interested in giving you a listening ear. That's the end

As for your sister, yes you over reacted but then you can still seat her down and let her know that you are passing through some challenges and you are sorry for heating her

I have to give you the above advice on that because she is yet to start with you and she will gang up others against you

You already knows what means

As for your dad, he will definitely face where the wind blows because his wife will want to strike him if he acts funny

Gistmedia10:
A Nigerian woman found herself in a state of shock and despair after her boyfriend took her to his village to meet his family for an introduction, only to discover weeks later that he ended up marrying another woman instead of her.

The young lady, whose identity remains undisclosed, had been in a relationship with her boyfriend for some time. Full of excitement and anticipation, she eagerly accompanied him to his village, met his family, and possibly discussed their future together.

Only for her to discover that her boyfriend has gotten married to another lady!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6BLgjqBvBA

Let her just accept what happened to her, that's life for you, it is very heart breaking
Only God can explain

I just hope he won't final crawl back to her when he realised that it would have been her

Exceed15:
He knows this one will give him peace.

Dont be too sure, he may end up regretting his decision when what he thought was better becomes worst

EreluRoz:
She has a child? I don't think so

Both she and her husband now have

EreluRoz:
May this their marriage last amen.

I don't trust this man, he will like playing games as I'm seeing him so.

He already has a family before getting married to her
But the good thing is that Rita now have a child so she is still on top of her game

shortgun:
Just small play Nathaniel don rush go court
Nathaniel is a gospel singer, he's expected to promote the teachings of Jesus Christ which has it's foundation in forgiveness and prayers to one's adversaries.

Do you have any idea of the pains his family is going through for such a false information on his person

Do you if the wife is so pained that he has to ask him to put up that petition if truly he is innocent of the allegation

That you are a gospel singer doesn't mean you should tolerate anything that will dent a clean image of his personality

Dollywood:
The child is only a mirror of his parents because he inherited their genes and he’s just acting base off the information encoded into his DNA passed on by his parents. Therefore, if the child is a disappointment, the parents need to look at themselves

When you start having kids and groom them through teenagerhood you will understand why some behaves out of their inherited Gene

CORPSEFUCKER:
There's something magical for parents to love a child even if the child is a disappointment

A child that is a disappointment to his parents is a pain and a problem that brings tears to the family

Testiebobo:
I'hv being trying to give reasons to my parents on living alone as a young adult. I gave them an example that what if i was a afrobeat superstar, would i still be living with them in the same house even at age 23. And they were like is a no no no for them, because i still need them for guidance and counselling. But all the training they'hv being giving me is already enough for me to be independent. Afterall, it is only GOD that can guide and counsel one into any step we take in life. Abi?

Well if you think you can afford to rent a house and feed yourself and provide for them from that new apartment, then it's time

If you already have a girlfriend or a boyfriend to settle down with and you parents already approved the relationship, then it's time

If you are ready for children incase they start coming and you have made proper plans for them, then you are ready

But if you want to rent a place for you to have freedom without future plans, then it's not yet time, operate from home till you are very capable and have good plans for yourself