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soulhelper481:
Pls, Nigerians, come and rescue me from my husband before we both loss it. I need an accomodations for me and my two children. I don't want to keep enduring anymore. I'm tired. It has reached the stage of forcefully and violently taking and using whatever I struggle for to gamble. He gambles with everything. Even if we're hungry, he wouldn't provide, yet the little I could afford, he struggles with me and still gamble it away living us to suffer.


The present accomodations we have, I paid for it and it's expiring towards ending of the year. But I want to peaceful give him some distance to regain myself.
Family members have adviced him and they're all tired.
I need help. I can't even sleep comfortably in the night, I'm always afraid he might hurt me because of everyday quarrel and disapproval. I want to be alive to take care of my children.

Pls I need to go away. I need help. I'm in Abuja. I need accomodation, I want to be able to breathe. I'm suffocating here.

I have tried all I could, but he's not willing to change. His family members (his mom) testified he has this habit even from the university. It's a long story. I have been trying to save an addict, but all my efforts, wasted.
Now, he's acting violent with me. I don't want to move to my family house because he will start coming over and acting like he has change. As usual.

Honestly at this point, if your own family I mean siblings are aware of your predicament and can't afford a room for you, then they are part of the whole problem

Just carry those children out and run to anywhere you like, then get anything you can do with your hands

That man is a beast and you will definitely be his target if you don't act fast

Kennyswag:
Please help my prepaid meter is tripping off and on.

What could be the problem?

Is there any code i can dial?

It is an Actaris ace 9000 SP meter

Mods please take to fp

I think it use to have a fuse or breaker inside that triggers the problem or you invite an electrician or NEPA official

Update147:
Hello nairalanders.
In life there are some characters that people exhibit and probably we've not had such experience before thus it makes it difficult for us to analyze what is going on and why it's going on.

In this case, my girl friend whom I've been dating for years now accused me of hiding her school documents. She threatened to take her life if I don't provide the documents. I was super confused cos truly I did not take her documents. For a moment I accused my brother who lives with me but my brother is not known to tell lies so I just got confused.

This issue was very serious oooo but after a while, I just took my mind off it. Until this week when she came to apologize that she accused me wrongly even when she was apologizing I just said ok and I ignored her.

Just today she accused me that she brought one of her baking equipment to my house and now she can't find it. She accused me that one of my side chick must have taken it I just ignored her. She was beginning to start quarrel over it when I confronted her that she should stop it and I reminded her that she took that particular baking equipment along with her on a certain day.

Immediately she started laughing and said she was just acting drama.

This is the second time this year I have had this experience. I am just wondering, how long have I been wrongly accused that I may have foolishly apologised to or foolishly ignored and why is she behaving this way

NOTE: If I had not confronted her with evidence that she is lieing, she will make a heavy fight out of this. Why ? Why ? Why ?

*I thought the red flag is enough sign for you to run to ohhh*

udomonday:
I have a very close friend,we met in a place of work,and gradually got used to each other,but the problem is that the guy has been through a lot in life,health wise,and this has led to a lot of financial ups and downs,he has no wife,no children,and still struggling financially,although he is now earning a steady income,tomorrow he will be 50years of age and he is feeling so down and depressed that he has achieved practically nothing in this life.I have encouraged him as much as I can,but he is still seeing his life through the mirror of other peoples life.I plan to surprise him tomorrow,,with a treat.what advice can I get from you guys,please.

He needs a woman to bring out the happiness in his sad life

But he must not be expecting first class woman in his life as he is already a third class man

If he is lucky to get one, then he can start another life, just two kids are ok for him so that he will not be training children at older age

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

Just like that

What makes you think that the pregnancy belongs to you

Anyway ,she has the final say

LoveTalk:
Resumption is 9am
what do you think?

I think the main issue here is that you are so much attached to this your present job and because of the good relationship that exist there is you are finding it difficult to detach yourself from them by leaving them for another job

Well you just have to leave to face other challenging jobs and exposures that will help build your future

AkporsMechanical:
I promise to be very brief.
My wife and I live in a three bedroom flat without paying rent, although we only occupy one room since we don't have much property yet. The owner of the house abandoned the house before now and when we had accomodation issue asked us to stay there. We have been here since last year. However, there is no Geepee tank to supply water into the house. We could only pump water into our little drum when there is light. So I always go fetch water from the neighbouring compounds whenever there is no light which have resulted into several insults. My wife has been dragging me that I must buy a Geepee tank.

My salary as a private school teacher is barely enough to feed us talk more of saving to buy a Geepee tank especially in this economic crisis. In the midst of all these, my wife's phone went bad and needed a new one Just this afternoon, my wife started raining insults on me that I am not behaving like a man at all, that I should have settled down fully before thinking of marriage, that I want to make her go hungry. This was because I told her I would cut off some part of my salary to be saving so I can buy curtain for our room, television and save for Geepee tank. She even went ahead to say I am poor and wretched just because I can't afford her a new phone for now.

Since afternoon, I have refused to eat. My problem here is that my parents love my wife and my parents are far from where I reside. And I don't want to report my wife to my parents so it won't bring disrespect later to her in the future. Secondly, as the first born of my parent,I don't know how my parents will take it if I tell them I don't want to marry her again so they don't have b.p. I am really really confused. The little extra money I get from extra tutorial is what I do send to my two siblings in school even though is very little compare to their needs but at least it is something.

I feel like running away but to where? I truly love my wife but she is regretting marrying me. Please what can I do?

You are just dying in silent just because of what people will say

Speak out and have peace so that you can live long

Or you keep silent and die slowly

maxkenny:
My wife left home in the evening around 6pm with my baby girl on 6th January, 2024 though I was on bed sleeping. Around 7pm, I called her to know her whereabout but didn't answer my call. So worried, around 10pm I called her uncle but didn't answer my call either.

I went straight to my landlord to discuss this issue perhaps he might advise me on what to do. He told me to stay calm until morning.

On 7th January 2024 Monday morning I called her phone, rang still didn't answer the call. I called her uncle again, this time he answered my call. He told me he would call her. Some hours later, he called me and said she was staying with a friend around.

A day before she left home we only had slight quarrel and it all dwell on issue relating to a story of her friends husband who was kidnapped but later freed with a ramson of 200k. I only advise her to avoid keeping late night company especially in the area we live and she took quarrel from that I also came home late at times from work. Since the quarrel, i never had any conversation with her, I was afraid she might start verbal abuse. I kept low key all through the day until night she left with the baby. Unfortunately, she didn't pick any of her luggages. She ran away

Prior to the day she left, I gave her 35k for baby school fee to send to the school account and forward the receipt to me. She never did. The school would resume a day she left. Have already washed the baby, iron and hung the baby clothes the day.

Two days after I called her dad, he told me he would call her.

Long story short her dad told me to organize meeting between my family and her family to settle matter.

To be sincere I'm not interested in the meeting for any settlement but only my baby girl she ran away with.

Over the years I have faced her verbal abuse, provocation, lies, chronic insult, treat that she would Japa with my baby without looking back.

Sometimes I would be at work, she would lie to me she was pregnant she had done test here and there. I would be happy after a while nothing will be in stomach. She had said this at least six times especially when I would be at work cos I travel every week and come back weekend. At a point I never believed her. But closely I felt she aborted the baby.

At a point in time, I reported her to her family. Why I knew was lying, whenever we had quarrel she would say even if she has pregnant for me again she would rather abort it than remain in her womb.

The marriage was just 5years with a baby. Two weeks before she left we went to lab for pregnancy test on her request. She was positive. We were asked to come back for scan in January to know numbers of weeks of pregnancy.

Now she ran with my baby. I don't know if she is still pregnant or has aborted it.


I tried my best to remain in the marriage especially for the little baby. I don't want a situation where my baby will be trained by a single mother. I know what this our society has become of children raised by single mother or children with broken homes. I don't want that for myself. I don't want in future where my child will point at me and say why did you give me life when you couldn't care for me and see what I have become out of broken homes.

This has just happened to me. I don't know if marriage really worth it or deserves seeking for when eventually it ended in divorce or separation.

I witnessed my parent raised their children up each one struggling to make a living for a better and responsible children. Though they had fight every minute but no matter the weight of their fight, my mom would stay back not for anything but for her children. Now my dad died, with all the wives he had, my mum was the only one who stayed and took care of my dad on his sick bed

She now became landlady after the demise of my dad.

You worry too much that's why she is playing lido game on you

You see that your wife ,just relax and plan on how to start a life without her

From whqt I read ,she is toxic and you are yet to notice that

Leave her alone she will come back and by the time comes back ,keep observing her

One day she will pack out and before she will come back ,you too will pack out and relocate to another place, just keep her belongings there and give the key to the landlord

How could she be traumatising you are yet she is not feeling the pains of what she is doing to you ,the next thing you will develop BP for nothing

As for your daughter ,leave her with her she will definitely survive and whatever you have send to her for your daughter and keep the receipt

Chrisrare:
everybody mustn't eat noodles

If you are a family man with little children you will not be making this statement

FRANCISTOWN:
Being a single mother is an infection and a curse. It's either she was too useless to be kept or she was unlucky.

And one of the laws of power says.

Avoid the unlucky

You are so raw and unrefined

You dont even know if you will be in that shoe as a single father

Dont spew trash as you have not really seen the four corners of this life

Yamleg:
I'm think of leaving home on a fateful day and stay away...

What do you do anytime your wife gets you pissed?
I just need people's take on this.
My wife doesn't often feel comfortable once she realises that she pissed me off.

Not eating her food means nothing to her.
Not engaging her in bed means nothing to her as well.

I'm just tired of the life I have subjected myself to through her. I'm fed up for real... It's been this way since ages.

What more can I do?

It just a pity that you are yet to realise that both of you are even tired of the marriage but still staying in it

I think you have to keep pushing while you make efforts to seek for happiness from any where you want or wish

Over time both of you will understand that there is a problem you guys have not realy handled in that marriage

cybernaut:
Hello friends,
A brother to me wanted to marry a mother of four kids .

She has divorced and the husband took the four kids and the bride price was returned.

My sibling brother who has never married before want to marry the lady .

He is in early forties and the woman is in her late twenties.

Your suggestions is needed but I know nairaland may not be best but I want couples in the same shoes to comments.

Thanks

For the fact that the former husband has returned the bride price shows that he his done with her and she is free to remarry

Now back to your question, Your brother is above 40yrs and he is not even ready to marry any small girl that will frustrate his life ,I think he wants a matured woman that will ok for him instead of a younger woman

So you guys she let him be
He already knows that he married late and he may likely inherit some responsibility over the other children as far as he is married to her ,being supporting them when she ask for such help on them

Just pray for God to bless his home

sammymax:
I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.

I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.

She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.

The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30

How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.

I think both of you will have to plan a trip to visit your mum

Leave her behind with your mom and come back to your base

Let her spend time with your mom for like 2wks ,they have to be bounded for her to understand that in marriage ,what makes a man happy is a woman that will give peace of mind

By the time she spends the holidays with your mum and come back to your base

Give mom time to tell you if truly she has a good character and then she may forget about her not being beautiful

What will you be doing with a beautiful woman that will give you a bad character at home

lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

Honestly if you have the 100k give him to get married to her

But be prepared to keep assisting them when they get broke

Have you find out from your sister if she will marry such a man who kept her for a whole 10yrs with no marriage commitments

Its even too late for her to leave him now because he has taken the good part of her life and wasted it just like that

Support them of you have the ability and let them get settled

DyshApp:
A Nigerian lady has cried out online regarding her mother’s attitude of constantly rejecting her suitors, claiming that her husband is to come from a faraway country.

Sharing the plight she facing anonymously she revealed that she is always having dreams about her mother preventing her from getting married.

Her post read;

“Mommy’s in the house help my life o. I’ll be 24 years old in a few months. I noticed that anytime a suitor comes for my hand in marriage my mom would turn them down, saying a prophet told her my husband is not in Nigeria and that he’ll come from a faraway country. I didn’t take it seriously then cos I wasn’t ready, but now I’m ready, through with service I’m working and also a tailor. A man came for my hand in marriage my m said no o, that he’s not my husband that have I forgotten that my husband will come from a faraway place? Most times I see my mom in my dream telling me I will not marry. Pls help me o, what should I do? I really love this man o he loves me too, and for the past 2 years we’ve dated he’s been the best. Please, I need your advice o. My friends are telling me to do court even people that know my mom advised me to do court o. My dad no kúkú get say. What should I do? I’ll be I’m the comment section. Thank you [sic].”

Just go to her father's family let them talk to her before you loose someone dear to you and such may affect your entire life

Dont use force on her because you don't know much about your mum other life

Something your dad is keeping mute on and just be watching like a sheep

Mikuni:
When I look at the married men around me, I no longer see the need of having a wife.

I discovered something shocking, a few months ago:

Most men die before their wives, and most likely before their children finish university education. Look at your dad's friends, how many of them are still alive to enjoy the fruits of their parental labour?

Before marriage, you go through a lot of stress in choosing the right woman (God help you, if she's not greedy and demanding) you spend a fortune on marriage, only to be 'eating' one type of food till you die. If you're not careful, you go beg for sex tire. You think I'm lying? Ask my neighbor who begs to put the tip of his toothpick inside his wife for just a minute.

Now, you're married, you must provide for the rent, bills, school fees, in-law expenses etc
You must not forget to keep extra savings for health issues for cases like complications in child delivery, antenatal care, naming ceremony, baby materials, clothings etc

If you're unlucky to find yourself in financial difficulty after marriage, pray your wife is the understanding type, else you'd deal with a nagging woman, the type King Solomon told us to avoid staying in the same house with, and rather hide on your rooftop.

If your woman is easily driven to anger, and not rational in thinking, you're in serious trouble. You may end up being stabbed or poisoned. A lot of men have died this way.

So dear men, why waste your time and money? Be smart!

I leave you with this Bible passage: "Wealth and riches are inherited from parents, but a good wife comes only from the Lord."

Why should you be afraid of what you dont have any direct experience of

You can't run away from war because of death

salvationproject:
I am a fresh graduate, left NYSC few months back and recently landed a graduate trainee job at one of our commercial banks here in Nigeria. But I have been afraid recently. This is because I will be under sales/marketing. And I have been hearing of all these 50m, 90m, etc. deposit targets.
Training school will be commencing soon and a part of me is telling me not to report.
Please, who have experience how these things work? Advise me please.

Go ahead with it and see what goes on there

If you can't cope then you leave with the experience you have so far

BucketMan:
Hello guys, please I need your advice. I'm currently in a dilemma on what to do with my life presently. I'm a lawyer called to the bar in December 2022. Afterwards I practiced in a law firm for 6 months before resigning due to the meagre salary and harsh work environment. I just couldn't keep up, Although I can confirm that legal practice was very terrific but it's something that you can only enjoy if you're well paid at the Law firm or company you work with to effectively maintain the standard expected from you.

I've been jobless for 8 months now as all the efforts I put into securing a job ended in futility. I'm thinking of going for my masters degree(LLM) instead of staying idle at home with my parents. I think by doing this I can keep myself busy and improve on my career academically while also trying to find a good job in today's Nigeria.

Serious advice needed please

Since you or your parents can afford masters for you

Why not travel out and do any kind of job that will give you money that has value

rymalex:
Please which drug I fit take to nack woman for like 1hour. I need experience people abeg.

You mean to experience shortest route to death, e bi like say life done tire you

Dey play well well

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

She needs to be taken to a rehabilitation home or a remand home where she will start using a new sim card for another six months

Let's know if she is still normal or she is under a stupid spell

TolkowskyCut:
Someone in Ladipo Market just gave me a quote of 80K for the knocked engine

Just sell it off on whatever price they offer for it as it's already useless in your custody

Remijuice:
Frozen70 abeg come give me advice...
🙏

Lol,
Funny as it is
Their wife's suffer most because the money meant for the family up keep ends up in the bet shops

Donkogbe:
My mother is the type that talk to you anyhow at any given opportunity.

Shes so toxic and talks ills of everything you do and get angry by just walking around her. she traumatized my childhood till i finally left and stay on my own but still she has not changed.

i was thinking by the time she gets really old all the gragra will calm down and now shes closing to 80 and she has not change one bit. if you have any suggestions on how i can go about it and help her because the situation has caused our relationship and i plan not to even see her for years

She has choosen a style that suits her and can never change, even in old age

You cannot do anything again because it's extremely late for you curb her

Just leave her the way she is and avoid anything that will trigger her attitude on you

I have no blame for her mother on her mother for sleeping with him

She was there before her and she made a good voice for her daughter and wants to continue to be there

Instead of him to flirt outside with other women, let him end with his mother inlaw

She is even lucky it was her own mum not another woman

At least she will help her secure her marriage and the man won't dare mess up on his marriage

EreluRoz:
Most are exhausted and tired and to top it all their husbands don't appreciate them.

Pamper and appreciate a woman and you'll get the best out of her

You really answered the question

Spe23:
We're talking about those women now. We'll still talk about the men too.

Lol funny you

berry1999:
good day my fellow NL i have a little issue troubling me for quite sometime now, and i will like your advice on this .. which will be highly appreciated.
i am a 24 year old female still living with my parents (single parent, dad) and i will say he is one of the best , but their is this problem i have being having with him for years and it is about, how he talks to me especially when a mistake is being made and when he wants to correct me ... he is so abusive in his words and sometimes he may even try to hit me in the process, and sometime he makes an issue in every little thing ..most times i try to tolerate and ignore but .. it feels like when i do.. the situation gets worst ..so this time around i try not to tolerate anymore because its affecting me mentally and emotionally , it seem like this wants to bring an issue between me and my dad, and i have being a good daughter to him.. pls NL i need advice on what to do, how do i cope with a difficult parent, what can i do to stop this. i will really appreciate your answers ..thanks.

At this point and stage

Dont confront him

Report him to any one that he respects

Tell the person how you feel about everything

Afodot0022:
Top of the morning to you my naira landers family, this year will be great for us all. Well am very sure most of you here would be familiar with my story for some time now, I have been separated from my wife for almost a year now and my two daughters have been with her since the separation, the reason for separation was the fact that i caught her cheating. It happened that my two girls have been with her cos i did not take custody of them knowing the fact they are girls by age 5 and 6yrs, I believe they will be properly cared for by their mother being same gender, all I do is send money monthly for their upkeep and also pay their school fees. The kids are the only reason i communicate with my ex wife and nothing else. Now it happened that she work with the correctional ministry and she got a memo to go for a mandatory 6months course at Enugu with immediate effect. I don't have any issue with that cos before we went our separate ways, I was aware that someday, she will be going for the course but not aware when that will be. When my ex wife got the memo, she didn't call me to inform me immediately about the new development and what she did baffles me, she took my two daughters to her parents place without carrying me along or getting my approval for that move. It was after she had taken them there and she also moved to Enugu was when she gave me a call and inform me about the development, I was really furious and angered that why will she take such action without carrying me the father of the kids along, this has always been major issue when we were married, she takes some decision without letting me know which i see as an act of disrespect, this are my kids that am footing their bills despite the fact they are not under my roof. Now after executing her action, she called and informed me and the new update and that the kids will need to be enrolled in another school and she expect me to foot the bill knowing how expensive it is to register kids newly to a school, and mind you, those kids will just be there for 6months and return back to their former school when she is back from the course after 6months. Now my decision is that I am not going to pay for any school fees neither will i send any upkeep money to her for the kids reason being that she never informed me about all this initially, though i haven't informed her about my decision yet and i have not called my in-laws concerning my kids cos am still very angry and mad at all of them. Infact i have decided for those 6month she will be away, i wont call her parent or talk to the kids. My plan is that when she gets back from her course, i will take full custody of my kids fully.. Under the law, i should be one with those kids if she is away and not her parents. Now i need experience people that have gone through such experience or people that have better insight to advice me on how to navigate about this if am decision is proper. Before i got aware of all this, whenever i want to pay my kids school fee, the person IN charge will chat me up and give me breakdown of the school fees, i was surprised that this January, the woman did not chat me up and when i chat her, it took her some time to give me the breakdown knowing fully well that the kids have stop coming to school, that was when i knew something was fishing. Thank God i didn't send the school fee money cos its well known to me that my ex wife planned with the proprietor to collect money from me. sorry for my long epistle. just need to say all so you guys will have a better clue about the situation.

Pls calm down

I will suggest that, six months out of school will not really affect their performances when they get back to school

As for their up keep

Collect her parents account details and send their upkeep to her parents and send the receipt to her

As for taking custody to f the children, I doubt if you will get that, court may still grant her custody of the children

But go and try, their is no harm on trial

Peterrio:
I need your sincere advise guys.

So someone offered to help my fiancée get a job and also help her relocate abroad. He's one of her sponsors in school, he's a married man, a doctor too and they live in United States.

I have plans of wedding my fiancée before she leaves Nigeria so it will be easier to join her in the US

Now the issue is, if l get married to her before then, the man might lose interest in helping her.

Right now i am confused, i will appreciate any good advise on how to handle this situation.

I really want her to get that job and relocate and i want to join her as well.

You alone knows what you want

Do you really love her to marry her, abroad or no abroad, she is the woman you want

Will you be able to run your won home, assuming she didn't go abroad again, will you still love her and manage life with her

Alternatively, leave her let her go, if she really loves you, she will come back to you

Getting her married before she leaves, her family may not even support that, more especially as you are not the one sponsoring her trip

Just let her know that she is the one you want to settle down with and she should not forget you when she gets there

Then you plan your heart to be on 50/50 basis
If she comes back to you after her relocation, good for you

If she goes and forget about you and then you guys are not really meant to be

Logins2125:
There's this girl I love so much wen we were dating then, before she traveled to meet her parents, and since then she refused to come back to her aunties house and she said that she can't come back here either anymore. But we keep communicating to each other. And as well ,she told me that she had another boyfriend she can move on with,but she's still in love with me . It has been up to 2&half years now we have not seen each other Face-to-face. Recently she called me on phone that she's pregnant,and it's up to five months now. And she keeps begging me let's see each other. I told her that I can't come over to her side , rather, if she agree to see me let her come over to my house here , and she agree on coming over with her 5 months pregnancy which happens to be on Tuesday she's coming or next week tho. And seeing her again will definitely leed to sex! Please what can I do in this situation?

NB: she told me that her husband to be hasn't paid a dime (bride price) on her head. But I don't know if it's true or not.

Please no insult!

Dey play
You go get sense bye force

Spe23:
God loves you my dear. If you're one of them, please repent.

Whats your opinion about men who commits the same sexual offense or acts

Why did you just pick the women and use them as topic

Why did you left the men or excluded them in this message

Since you understand God's words very well
Tell me where it's written in the Bible that
men are free to sleep around with women and most especially with married women because that have been happening this present times

I want to hear from you because you are just parcial in your judgment

Both genders commits the same act openly and secretly

And you choose the female gender

The same married vow women recited

That's the exact same vows men recited

In as much as I don't support both men and women to sleep around while married

Tell me who will be punished more for what both of them did, because it can not be done alone by one gender

Stephen2324:
Why do tenants always prefer packing out at night?

I have thought of this before and I discover this are the reasons

Some of them have old and dirty looking properly and personal effects and may look so ugly to pack during the day

Some are still owning their landlord and it will be too late to stop them at that hour especially if the landlord is leaving far

At times people don't want any one to know that they are packing out and they don't even want the new place to know you are packing in

Lastly, they always have their personal reasons but is best known to them
Though not far from all I listed