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May God comfort you this trying times, but pls pray as much as you can, thier is nothing anyone can do in life now without prayers

Me too I need help, no matter how little and my hope is in God

Ejay4700:
1.My school eligibility form.u can find my result there
, the year and Date also with Jamb.
I didn't have the good result, neither could i focus on the exams as much as I wanted, as I was traumatised on discovering my Dad's departure with no Mom as well. He was all I had .

2. My dad's military death certificate issued by the military. He was in the military .. He died during my exams even before I began my first paper.. I have the one issued by Hospital and also the State, but they are in my house , I didn't bring it to school, plus my original Waec result is also back in the house.

3. Dad's burial .like I said, he was a low ranked Military man.

Before his death, he was posted to maiduguri , I remember eating our last meal together in the same plate on the 1st of January, 2014, as he advised me to be a man, as the long awaited day has finally come that we may be apart, as I don't have a mother to look after me and it may be his last days , and our last one together. Indeed, it was our last . He didn't die in borno, he took Ill , took a pass and came back to Lagos for treatment, health became worse . His elder bro(late) had to take him home, to Delta State , where he finally gave up. All through this I was all alone. It hurts till this day.

Pls Ma, check. My personal info is out here already. Once u confirm , pls Ma Permit me to delete them afterwards.

You can delete now pls

Ejay4700:
1.My school eligibility form.u can find my result there
, the year and Date also with Jamb.
I didn't have the good result, neither could i focus on the exams as much as I wanted, as I was traumatised on discovering my Dad's departure with no Mom as well. He was all I had .

2. My dad's military death certificate issued by the military. He was in the military .. He died during my exams even before I began my first paper.. I have the one issued by Hospital and also the State, but they are in my house , I didn't bring it to school, plus my original Waec result is also back in the house.

3. Dad's burial .like I said, he was a low ranked Military man.

Before his death, he was posted to maiduguri , I remember eating our last meal together in the same plate on the 1st of January, 2014, as he advised me to be a man, as the long awaited day has finally come that we may be apart, as I don't have a mother to look after me and it may be his last days , and our last one together. Indeed, it was our last . He didn't die in borno, he took Ill , took a pass and came back to Lagos for treatment, health became worse . His elder bro(late) had to take him home, to Delta State , where he finally gave up. All through this I was all alone. It hurts till this day.

Pls Ma, check. My personal info is out here already. Once u confirm , pls Ma Permit me to delete them afterwards.

Send your account details, you have tried with your explanations and prove

Daytonbale:
Please I don't know which section to post this.
Dear Nairalanders please help me out , I secure a new job in bank in Lagos and the salary is 55,000 per month for a start and they will increase it after three months and from my house to my office is not far is trekkable I don't pay Tp to work.

And I also have a new pos machine that will give me money too I don't know what to do since the bank job Don't give me time to combine the two, my bank working hours is from 7am to 5pm and I can't combine the two .
Please can I resign in the Bank and concentrate with the POS business
or should leave the POS and concentrate with the bank Job .

please help me

Go for the bank job and get some experiences
While you get some to run the Pos for you

Ejay4700:
I didn't fall out with him. He started stepping back when his kids started moving to higher levels in school. He stopped sending me allowance gradually and that was it. I don't hold it against him because he wants to help but his wife and kids are his responsibility and the burden is much as he keeps saying .. I won't say further. But he's a good man.

For my cert, I'll post it when I get home , I'm currently not at home . I think i have my Dad's cert as well not sure if it's here with me in school. I can go get it so u can verify my story. It's not a problem. When I get home I'll check my docs maybe I brought them all to school.

Is alright and am glad you did not hold any grudge against your uncle

thorpido:
He has to work on himself else his best option would be a baby mama who doesn't live with him.
This kind of issue stems from some lapses in developmental years.

His business my dear, its either he change his perception about women or live to deal with it

He is the problem he has a D he is the solution solution to it

Ejay4700:
I didn't want to start saying my life story here. It's been a pitiful one .. But...
My mom is a foreigner from a small African country and we've been apart for a decade, the last time I heard from her things were really bad for her. My mom and Dad are separated , I lived with my Dad and I lost him in 2014 while I was 15, writing my waec. I've been with my uncle ever since.

So what made you fall out with your uncle

Can you post your dad death certificate and your waec result

I want to help you but I need you to give me good reasons or prove to assist you

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

It's a polite insult

thorpido:
You're so drawn inwards, probably because of your introverted nature.

Leave am, na him go tire

How come you didn't say anything about your parents here or are they not aware you are schooling

meobizy:
Good. Spend the extra year continuously trolling Nairaland.

This is not a good word for a stranded person

dgagar:
Good day Nairalanders.
I am Igbekele Taiwo by name, married with a kid.
Am a builder(bricklayer) and my wife is teaching in a nursery school
Am just tired of this life, tired of everything.
If not for my little kid and wife, i would have just opt for Suicide.
Just finished my this year savings on my kid last month when he sick at the hospital. (Close to 100k i spent)

No 1 naira from anybody, no friends or families to run to when i need help.
Now that we are in a raining season, no work, no money
We hardly eat this days.
Even our house rent is due and have been avoiding the landlord for a while now.
As am typing this message now, i don't know what this my two family will eat(my wife&kid) am with only #60 right now.

Am just tired of this lonely life with no helper at all.
Am loosing my mind.
Am loosing control.

I need someone to talk
Somebody should advice or motivate me please ��
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My dear pls be calm, it can only get better

Just reduce your cost of living till the economy improves in your own side

You can try getting one room which will be easier to pay

For now, look after your child and hold on a but before getting another child

Think of what skills to learn so that when block work is off season, you will be busy with your skills

Manage your home and be very very economical

No careless owambe party uniform, it drains one Financialy

This hard times will prepare you when the money starts coming and it will help you save for rainy days
God will provide for your family

saphiere:
I mean he was no there through thick and thin.
You took in, gave birth and train the child alone. He runs away like most men do once their wives give birth.
Now the child is about to get married and he comes to perform the marriage rites as a father.

Is it proper?
Now here is someone with brains.
God bless you jare

There is nothing wrong with is presence there

But I will make sure he doesn't get a penny from that child or me there after
I don't care how he feels about it

Let him feel what I felt when he left me stranded

popweezy:
I have never experience it all my life untill this evening.. It started suddenly. Abeg my people... Wetin fit cause ham?? What is the remedy? Very very urgent

It depends on your age

It could be arthritis

It could be your sleeping position

It could be your foam

Prechgold1180:
Hello everyone please sorry to disturb you with my personal problem I just feel it best I table the matter here.

Let me try to be short.

Please how do I tell my girlfriend to go back to her house without offending or sounding rude?
I am a young guy and she is also young too currently in my final year she is a graduate on her own side she graduated last year.

She travelled outta Nigeria after graduation came back after 1 month.
Ever since she got back she has been in my house close to two months now and she is not even talking about leaving.

I don’t even have my space again
I can’t even go out with my friends she always calling for my attention.
It is choking me seriously I can’t even keep female friends because she is always complaining.
All my friends are now referring to me as a married man.

Pls how do I tell her to go back without hurting her.

Me don tire i swear

Invite your mum, she will leave immediately

Seat her down and tell her to her face that you will appreciate she gives you a break

Lastly, tell her that your siblings are coming over and there are no space that you will appreciate if she gives you space to host them

If you are scared of telling her any of these three, then you can't get your freedom

Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there is this very girl I love so much. I have expressed my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet. It has been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl.

Its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes I might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love I have for her. I am overwhelmed but she doesn't understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine.

Keep waiting for her green light, but am so sure that once you date her, that's all
Just once I swear

chierodumodu:
Hello everyone, please I'm really confused here. My girlfriend is a choir member and I find it really weird for her Choir master to always pay her a visit and mostly at night. He stays till like 11 pm before going. Now the thing is she's not the only girl in the choir but he visits just her. It's annoying and at the same time stupid.

Visiting her is one thing but staying up till 11 pm is stupidity on it's own haba. He does this like literally everyday. I trust her a lot but I don't think it is right to have him always coming over and staying late. Sometimes I'll call her and she'll tell me we should talk later because her Choir master is around... WTF!!!

Pease is it right or wrong? I'm confused really.

Abeg help me I need answers please

What is the constant visit all about

Stop trusting her because I don't trust that regular visits

MrReeseG:
I wouldn't mind too
Can we talk in the dm? My WhatsApp number is in my signature

adaonyia70@gmail.com

rockinrobin:
How much please and can you send pictures via whatsapp to 08053457785

Send mail to adaonyia70@gmail.com

Obakashdee:
I have a man in my church, he has three children now, he gave birth to twins twice but unfortunately for him one of them died. This man and his children are suffering like it’s so obvious that they are suffering, the man takes up so many menial job just to provide and the wife also does menial job too just to feed. Now his children are 10 and 8’s respectively and his wife discovered she’s pregnant again in this buhari regime and he knows how suffering is peppering him.

I was thinking why can’t they just abort it and keep managing, I do not see the rationale of bringing another child into this world to suffer or am I wrong ni?
What to do? I

Abortion is not the solution

They are not realy suffering as you painted it
Let them keep the pregnancy and still have another child after this pregnancy

They are the one to know when to stop

Since it's only the man and the woman pussy that is nit feeling the economy, let them keep giving birth until the economy makes the dick go flacid

Omooba77:
How Can I know When God has left me?

When you have lost fear and your conscience are no longer questioning you

Dhejy7:
Thanks for replying but not looking for a shared apartment.

If anyone is moving out on the mainland too not limited to Shomolu please reach out. Thanks

Alright

Rubbiish:
That doesn't apply here!
The boy is too young for op to start complaining about timidity or leniency! Haba! Can u remember when u were 5 years?? Op should allow him grow freely, when he is at least 15, then he can start talking about the child personality. Any child below age 10 physical attributes & personality cannot be determined. U can't even determine if a kid will be brilliant at 5 yrs! What op is about doing is nothing but child abuse! He should allow that kid to grow freely until he is 15.
2pac was raised by his mom & was said to be very gentle growing up, but he ended up as one of the most notorious thug rapper the world has ever known. 5 yrs is too young for this!

Did you read where I said that the child is still young and will change

Dhejy7:
Hello people, anyone moving out of there apartment around shomolu axis or any area in Ajah mini flat preferably please reach out.
Lagos agents are something else

Yes there is one at shomolu will you like to share a flat

Johnames:
if this guy na understanding person e go easy like that, from what I have seen far, na wahala person

Some of them are like that

Rubbiish:
Op never said his child is dull or not brilliant!
What op is insinuating is his son is too gentle, too cool & not rude or stubborn! That got nothing to do with intelligence. You will agree most intelligent students are gentle & calm. My point is the timidity of any child below 10 years should not be questioned! Many of u when u were that age had no sense!

But do you agree that a gentle child, when mix up with children during play times learns to be active and fight for himself, is part exposure

Johnames:
So there is this house am managing, 2 flats, am in one flat, I rented the other flat to a guy, so far the guy life style does not suit me, apart from that the guy is jobless, am very sure he will not be able to renew his rent, he struggles to pay littles bills in the compound, he has stayed almost half of his rent, am planning on giving him quick notice, I need advice on how to go about it.

You have to inform him in which ever means that, your senior brother who owns the second flat, wants to take over the flat, that he is packing to the flat at the end of his rent expiration
That it's a family house

ThiagoKid:
Oh, i see...I am not a saviour. Seek Jesus today.
Get well soon.

You are a crook that edited my post to siut you
You edited my post and twart it to look as if I did

No wonder you want to be alone in life, now I understand you better

Rubbiish:
He is just 5 yrs please!

It's obvious you didn't get the part if exposure
At five years, there are toys that makes children Crack their brain

When they go to parks or gardens and see their mates they interact well and learn ftom each other

When they go on vacation to families that have children of their age groups, the parents of the families gives them all tasks and challenges that makes a quiet child to pick up

Let him mix up that's the summary while you still seat him down to counsel him steady

ThiagoKid:
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I really find it hard to fathom how a female sex-object from nowhere will have the temerity to know what 'defines' a man.
It is so appalling.

Btw, How were you able to have a pass mark in English language? Oh, expo!
If sarcasm ain't your forte, why should you pour out all your frustrated-aggression on me?

You are the frustrated one, am just helping you to solve your problems

MediMedi:
That's true,i once check his bag when he came I found 2tin medium tomato.
Fews day after I was cooking then I asked him, you even carry tomato come dis stew wount make sense Oga said No.
I thought he gave it out, when he went out this morning I searched again and found them there.

Just ignore that guy so that he will develop his senses

Nothing comes free these days

evaultra1:
Greetings my fellow nairalanders... Don't focus on my grammatical errors but on the message I want to pass..
I'm the first son of a family of 5, have got 2 elder siblings (females)..
I grew up in a Christian Home with so much discipline.
To cut the story short. The one commandment I keep and hold so dearly is that which God said"CHILDREN OBEY YOUR PARENTS IN THE LORD, HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER FOR THIS IS THE FIRST COMMANDMENT WITH A PROMISE AND THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON EARTH"..
From birth till now I haven't said any informal words to my parents.. I do everything they ask me to do even those ones with my common sense..
I'm 26now and my parents still talk to me anyhow even and I can't still respond..
What do I do?
They make decision and insist I most hide to them...
How do I do.. I feel if I air how I feel they might feel insulted and I don't wanna try it because I know they've tried for me..
How do I handle this situation

Any of your parents you are close to, seat that person down and tell them how you feel and what you want them to understand about you

They will definitely listen to you and where they fail, involving family members with children of your age will be fine