Chukwute: A young man simply identified as Igho who is a singer was allegedly shot dead on Saturday evening in Warri, Delta State.
Focus Naija can report that the singer popularly known by his stage name, “stankush” was killed by unknown assailants that were armed to the teeth and blocked the road at the Ugbolokposo axis of the city.
The killing caused pandemonium as road users and others scampered for safety.
As at the time of filing this report, the reason why he was killed has not been revealed.
Lvuinghrt: I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused. I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life. We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug. We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.
We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.
The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice. I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.
I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.
I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion. I need an advice pls.
Your report is very strong and you have to take a decision that will make your future or Mar your future
I know that the economy is hard and carrying pregnancy with out a strong financial back up, would be double wahala
If you guys love yourself and you believe that tomorrow will be greater, you can keep the pregnancy so far he has given you his backing
But if you want to abort and end the relationship, then go ahead
If you want to abort and still keep the relationship, then you are the one doing yourself
PriscaHap: Good day everyone, please I urgently need your assistance. Bandits broke into our house few months back and made away with some properties, one of which contained the court marriage certificate of me and my husband. We need to get a certified true copy of the marriage certificate but my question is this:
We got married at the ministry of interior in Imo state but we have long relocated to Abuja. Can I get this certified true copy from the ministry of interior Abuja as travelling to Imo will be very tedious for us. Please I need your assistance. God bless you.
You need to send some one to make enquiries for you Imo state on how to go about it without you travelling to Imo state
Abuja can reorganize that of Imo state because it's a state own Registery while that of Abuja is federal
Fuzoma: Location is Shomolu Lagos State The spinner is faulty asides that the Washing Machine is functioning I want to sell it at 45k ( it is negotiable)
Olumyyde: Amen sir! By GOD'S grace I earn well more than that sir (asides wifey's income). I'd really like you to lend your advice please. Let's make it more interactive.
Try dropping 50k which will go mainly for bulk purchase except perishable stuff
cleantitleautos: So, in a church wedding programme, the preacher gave in her charge, that, a woman's highest qualification is 'Mrs.'.
Really, looking at those feminist 'celebrities' who subtly preach again the institution of marriage via their platforms of meeting people, they appear to have realised the importance of marriage and most of them in their Forty's are giving it all it takes to settle down with their own man! Yet, their young followers are still sheepishly following in their footsteps. Conversely, the so called celebrities have not openly declared they were wrong with their assertions.
Is it the loneliness they experience at old age, or how clingy the baby mamas are to their married children for company deficiency?
So, what higher qualification could there be for a lady/woman.
olufunmi01: I swear man it happened...if not for free opera mini I could have used Google chrome to upload our chats. I just need something to survive till my next salary. All my savings has gone on accommodation, thinking she would help, but lo and behold I was planning for myself.
You have to learn, even if it means learning the hard way
How could you depend on a woman after paying house rent and now she left you
liab: I'm a guy of 26 years and av never had a girlfriend, despite my good physique, cul voice, cul name, and super handsomeness, and i gat a lot of admirers from d opposite sex but I just feel too proud to chase, all d girl av ever slept with are stripers or escorts. Immediately I sensed a girl want me to chase her despite the fact dat I know she likes me yet d ego inside me will feel too big. Pls, what can I do? I need to get love in my life
Am glad you know the source of your problem and the moment you are ready to humble yourself, it will be fantastic
A man with ego must and will definitely have problems with a woman, because women are romantically stubborn so bringing in your ego to tackle her is like adding more fuel to a burning furnace
So you have to kill that ego before it robbs you off
I want to change my surname tomorrow, although still planning to leave this country any time soon.
Just want to know if it may affect one during interview at the embassy.
Just only surname E.g (Benny Mike Ubuntu ) to (Jenny Mike Ubuntu )
I will appreciate ur contribution.
Please advise me..........
For a man to change his surname, he must have a good reason for that because it's not common If you change surname, what about t by the name on your passport, so which one will you bear at the embassy
Get your visa first and then travel out come back then plan on change of name
RealNakupenda: All Men Cheat But I Can’t Get Over The Psychological Trauma-Pls Advise
Good day, I am fuming and I need someone to help me calm down before I break my husband’s head. I mean it. I may be arrested for violence at this rate. And I don’t care. Maybe because I am too angry but can you blame me for being angry like this?
Early this year, I got a new sale girl in my shop. This girl is from Ekiti. She was a complete bush girl but very sharp. I taught her everything and before long, she started to manage my business very well. I could leave her to it and all will be fine.
Somehow, this girl started being too familiar with me and my husband. I thought its because we have taken her like our own daughter and we allow her enter our house, eat, handle business cash, make decisions freely. But the level of familiarity was annoying.
Some of the things I noticed was: she would be laughing with my husband or me without curtesy. I cant explain in detail but you know when an employee feels too relaxed in the presence of the boss? She can even be on the phone and we are calling her …she will not end the call but continue until she is done talking …
I called her and warned her about her change in attitude and she said she will change. Until last month,one day, I was talking to her and she practically walked out on me. What I was telling her was that she forget to make some important orders that would affect sales in the coming week, I was angry because those orders are fast moving and really bring good sales for us.
This girls was like,madam, I am very busy, I will do it later. I told her no…do the order right now…and next thing she said was,ma, please don’t disturb me, I already told you I will do it later na. My mouth went wide open at the effrontery. I called her and told her that if she does not apologize, she is fired.
This girl now said, that I dare not fire her otherwise, she will open my dirty secrets in public. Like what was she talking about? I dragged her by her shirt and told her she must reveal what she meant by opening my dirty secrets. I was so upset that I began to beat her up until she began to talk.
That was when she said, that ehen, is it not my husband that is chasing her, telling her to come and give him a head. That he likes it so much…that his wife used to give him a head but since he got infected, that I have not given him a head for months. Ah…mogbe. Like…what the heck?
That she told my husband that he needs to pay before she can do what he wants. That my husband promised to pay and she went ahead and gave him a head and he said she is not good. That she has no skills in giving orals. So,he will not pay her. That he has been telling him if he does not pay, that she will report him to me. That my husband then said she is a bush girl that does not know anything.
All these things she said, got me so upset that I beat the hell out of her ehen…I beat her and threw her out of my store. She began to beg for forgiveness and I told her she is a big fool. She can get lost for all I care.
On getting home and confronting my husband, my husband said he is sorry but it was the girl that came to him, flirting with him, promising to give him mind blowing s8x but he kept denying her. Then next thing, she started to beg him for s8x and he felt oral is not the same but that soon as she touched him, he realized it was wrong of him and he told he would never do that with her again.
Can you imagine how he thinks that oral is not really cheating? What if I go and give another man oral too? I knowhow much he enjoys oral so his stupid excuse is making me so mad. Now, am looking at this girl and me and wondering, what on earth would attract my husband to this dirty girl. I am not boasting but I am a very s8xy woman. I got what any man would want: looks, curves and s8x appeal.
I do all the bed room tricks and more. And this is what I get in return. I feel so disgusted at him. So, its true, if a man would cheat he would cheat even if he has the whole world given to him.
My only anger now is that he admitted he was happy I beat the girl and sent her away. That she was becoming unbearable for him. I feel like I should beat him the way I beat that girl but he is begging me, promising me heaven and earth… I have been so angry that I cannot let him touch me again. When we try to make love, I keep picturing that dirty girl sucking my husband’s balls and it puts me off. If he had even chosen a better looking slut….
Its been almost a month and I don’t know how to move past this issue. I am also afraid that if I hold out too long, then I maybe giving hubby reason to go and be foolish again. I need help…psychological help and advice on how to deal with this trauma of always feeling angry, wanting to beat my husband and the turn off I get when my husband tries to make love to me.
donsolo4u2c: My fellow Nairalanders, I have had it all in Life.
I come from a family of 3 boys and 3 girls all of us are graduates. My parents toiled to see us through upto university level.
10years after graduation No job or money to start up a trade.
All we do to survive is menial jobs and eating from hand to mouth. We have submitted our credentials to Senator and house of representatives member in our constituency yet all we get is fake promises.
Life is very difficult and since help is coming not forthwith, I have decided to sell my kidney to set my brothers and sisters up for business.
What ever happened to me I dont care anymore.
Any Ideas of how I can go about it?
So you want to sell your kidney to better your siblings life
What if you develop complications later on life, do you think any of them will give you his own
If you go this far for your siblings, what do you have to offer to your wife and children as sacrifice for them to be happy and comfortable
But why you for them and not anyone of your siblings
I guess I'll have to explore the option of going to homes directly. I applied with the ministry of women affairs but have not been called up.
Thanks for your suggestion.
You are welcome Go to home's directly, they are the first contact, then the owners will assist you in making it the official way through the ministry, they also have their paddies there to facilitate the documentations
I am looking to adopt a child as I haven't been able to have one of my own yet. I have applied with the ministry of women affairs in my state, but was informed I'll have to wait for a while. It's been many years of waiting.
If there's anyone here who can assist in connecting me to any pregnant lady who wants to give out her baby or toddler of any gender for adoption, do let me know. The process will be formalized.
You can get in touch with me via email at: summerbloom77@yahoo.com
Thanks.
Pls don't go through anyone, just submit your application to the homes nearest to your location or even outside your state
Make a follow up on it and give them time, you will be attended to at the end
Patience is all you need so that you won't get into troubles
Assuming a lady has done traditional wedding, and then while preparing for the white wedding, she was then assigned for a course where she travelled and lodged in same hotel, but different rooms with her male colleague. Then one of the days they had sex just thrice. What is the best advice to such a person or someone with similar kind of situation? It's just a general question, it didn't happen. Please it didn't happen. Please don't take it personal.
You must learn to mind your business and once you do that, you stay away from problems
Ctorch: BENUE STATE: SPECIAL FORCES ARREST 73 MEN ON THEIR WAY TO IMO STATE
Operatives of the 72 Special Forces Brigade, Nigeria Army, Makkipurdi, acting on intelligence report, yesterday apprehended 73 young men of various addresses, all from Nasarawa State at Agan Toll Gate, Makurdi, on their way to Imo State.
The young men, with 47 Bajaj motorcycles were in 5 trucks conveying some minerals from Plateau State to a Port Harcourt based company.
Benue State Deputy Governor, Engr. Benson Abounu, who was there this morning commended the Special Forces for their diligence and professional conduct. He stated that despite the attempts to evade arrest, the soldiers were able to apprehend the trucks and arrest the men. He was happy that contrary to the speculations in town about the confiscation of a truck loaded with arms and men to attack the town, no arms were found after a thorough search conducted by the soldiers. He however expressed surprise that such a large number of young men from the same state could be found together going to a place, like Imo State, which they know to be experiencing serious security challenges at the moment.
Engr. Abounu charged the security men to carry out a detailed profiling of the passengers for further action as the answers coming from them do not add up. Speaking on the issue, the Commander of 72 Special Forces Brigade, Lt. Col. AD Alhassan said he and his men acted based on security report as they moved to intercept the trucks immediately they got the hint that they were heading towards Makurdi. He said they spent a couple of hours a waiting for them before they finally arrived at night.
He said a thorough search has been conducted on them with all goods on the trucks offloaded and their motorcycles dismantled for proper search, but said no arms were found.
When questioned, one of the young men, who claimed his name is Emmanuel Ayugwa said they were going to Imo State to do Okada business. He said though they were aware of the serious security challenges there, they decided to go because their brothers there told them that everything had calmed down.
Mr Ayugwa, who said they only chose to travel with their bike using the truck to lessen their expenses, could not however explain how all of them from different places in Nasarawa State were able to find themselves in the trucks, which started their journeys from Plateau State. Findings through a phone call with the manager of ANYANG KUANGYE INVESTMENT LIMITED, the company that owns the minerals shows that the trucks were loaded with lead, zinc and barytes from Plateau State and headed for a company in Port- harcourt.
The manager said he was not aware of the arrangements by the driver to carry any other person apart from the motor boy and a company escort, and that, they were strictly warned not to carry anyone else in the trucks.
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yum01: No judgement please.i know I am a scum but please dont add to it. Myself and my wife were friends in school , I had what we call my spec in my heart then and she jsnt it ( she is beautiful please). She is a good wife and mother not perfect cos no one is but she is good. The issue is I have never found her attractive but then in school fellowship and preaching said looks do not matter, that the true beauty is internal. So I silenced the voice of my spec and married her. Let me say again, she is a good woman and doesn't deserve this. 9 years after marriage with 2 kids, the problem is since 2019 the attraction has got worse. I dont find her attractive at all again , we hardly gist , the way I express love I struggle to . To have sex seff , I have to use enhancers to get erections . I started cheating last year and I dont like it but I am.doing it. I love the girl in question and i know its unfair to my wife. I have sought help , spoken with elderly people in marriage, prayed but its getting worse. She doesn't deserve this to be candid , and I am boring so much inside. No woman deserves to be treated like this. I never cheated as a single guy, how can I be doing that now. She was my 1st body count but from 2019 till date my body count is now 5.
The love wasn't really there at first but her character was what swept your feet
You went for another woman simply because you started nursing is since you no longer find her attractive
You are the only one yo solve this puzzle
It's either you have all the fun you want with your girl or girls outside and end that once and come back home fully or you create that love and love your wife and stop playing out
You know what, she is observing you and taking records of your change of attitude towards her
Time will come, she will wear your attitude like cloth and won't have that feelings on you
OcholaKings: Hello famz, so my bro came to me for advice on a crucial issue and i want to get more reliable views from you here.
Here is what happened: My bro has this friend that smokes secretly without the family knowing, so it got bursted when a family friend saw him (my bro's friend) smoking and he reported to the family, so they wanted to also confirm from my junior bro if he has seen him smoking before, my bro told the family the truth that he has seen him smoking before..
Buh now the problem is that my lil bro is asking if he did bad by telling the family the truth (remember my bro doesnt smoke)
He gave his answer with innocent mind
Your brother should know that your family wouldn't want such a person to relate with him