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imagrg:
There are better ways of showing remorse.

Every mallam with his own kettle

Authoreety:
Many things, but most especially, no fear of God.

Anyways, in this instance, I see a career woman who ddnt have time for her family, hence the husband decided to find solace elsewhere..

He found solace in death now

olmoRoc:
And what happens if the get the OP arrested? I suggest doing what a number of responders suggested above; report the matter to the EFCC, and make sure he's aware. And please, don't ever transfer money into an attendant's personal account in future.

NB: It's time the CBN that's advocating a cashless society come up with a payment platform which doesn't involve the POS. A simple contactless system which is linked to the BVN and banks. A system like that would have prevented this situation.

The police that will arrest him because of 10k, how much do you think is the bribe you will give to police to persecute him

Will police lock him up or take him to court, how much will she spend for all that

You want her to report 10k issue to EFCC, do you know how much it cost to mobilize EFCC

Let her go and display madness there and the rest motorists will know what happened

That public disgrace is what the filling station would not want

It takes madness to correct nonsense

UDOKABESTLUV:
Cross River: Man, 24, beheads 65-year-old woman in Calabar



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/cross-river-man-24-beheads-65-year-old-woman-in-calabar/

Devils cousin

Vision101:
@frozen70

You guy's will just start thinking on how to make women weak despite the fact that they are called weaker sex

So when a man kneels to beg a woman, he becomes a woman

Those married women that have taken up the responsibilities of the family because the man couldn't make it, has their private part changed to that of men

Meaning such a woman has already become a man

Look, when you see a man kneeling down to beg his wife or woman, his reasons are best known to him and you can't tell him otherwise.



@me
An African woman is an African woman. Even if she is the breadwinner which we know is abnormal that doesn't make her the man.

Kneeling down depicts respect to someone higher than you. Any man that does that has become a woman or at best woman wrapper.

No matter how high a woman is she must bend to urinate.

You need to get married then come back to rewrite this
Men too bend to urinate ask the Hausa's
Women too stands to urinate

Good health

imagrg:
I have made up my mind not to kneel down to apologise to a woman whatever the circumstance but instead show remorse by begging her for forgiveness via words of the mouth and by buying her gifts or giving her a good lay if she is either my wife or lover.

Traditionally, the woman is by nature supposed to do the kneeling down not the man for whatever reason. So, if you, as a man, kneel down to apologise or propose to your lover, then, you are the woman in the house!

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

You guy's will just start thinking on how to make women weak despite the fact that they are called weaker sex

So when a man kneels to beg a woman, he becomes a woman

Those married women that have taken up the responsibilities of the family because the man couldn't make it, have their private part changed to that of a man

Meaning such a woman has already become a man

Look, when you see a man kneeling down to beg his wife or woman, his reasons are best known to him and you can't tell him otherwise

NewDawn2O21:
mail sent dear.
you may now remove your mail details

Thanks done
I have replied your mail

solofresh:
Hello fellow nairalanders
Am 21, there is this 26 year old lady I really loved.Although she is my elder sister's friend but I noticed that she likes coming around me any time she sees me.She is very nice to me and she possess the qualities I want in a woman.
So I want to know if it's good to ask her out
Your opinions are highly welcomed

Yes you can go ahead but seek the consent of your sister

Hoodboy1805:
Hi everyone, I have always being a comment reader on this forum for years now, until I finally had reasons for joining, this faithful afternoon. I used to be a fuckboy and mostly all the girls I ever dated were lies and deceits, just to get down with them. But it's dawned on me this time as I met an 18year old lady, she wasn't looking her age and every man would have doubted that too, as she's so endowed before and behind, and of course did go for her as usual, things went well and we ended up doing the do. But unfortunately this time, I couldn't chop and clean mouth as usual. I started falling for this young lady, buy her stuffs pay her bills once in a while cos I'm not a type that spends lavishly on women I never truly loved any, initially. Now to cut the whole story short, I have been having issues with her lately she doesn't listen to me anymore, she barely picks my call, and this local man don fall in love. After thorough evidences this, afternoon cos I've been unable to go by my daily online hustle I'm not a fraudster okay. . I finally discovered this lady has been seeing another guy around the neighbourhood not just that, he's someone I know, he dey pain me like this I don't really know what to do I want her back besides, I need to know why she did all that. I need your advice please come to my rescue this is a pure truth. Plus: she's an undergraduate.

Give her time

Men too do usually leaves existing relationships and hook up to with another

NewDawn2O21:
unfortunately the mail I used to register this account isn't active so I can't mail you directly.

can I type my mail here so you could reach me or can you kindly comment with your mail address so I'll message you

ok

tunbosun002:
Thanks for your response, I will do this.

I think you should go there and create a scene, drag the manager to the bank they operate with their POS and both of you will be at his bank to be sure the bank customer care will run a check and confirm the payment acknowledged by them

That's all, he wants to eat your money because he felt you are a woman and won't do anything

Display madness there and make sure that no car comes there to buy fuel during that mad moment, disgrace the operators and chase their customers away, they will cooperate bye force

WowSweetGuy:
Getting married should be an option

Marriage is not a solution to any of her problems

Peace081:
Am a lady in my prime, I had my OND, few years ago n up till now, I haven't gotten a better Job.
I don't know if I should go back and acquired my HND or Learn a skill, We all know the economy situation of the country n how difficult it is for someone to get a job without connection..
Pls am really confused, should I proceed with my HND or go n learn a skills?
I love fashion designe,
Cc Laslaticala
Cc Fynboi

Don't just be idle, continue with your HND and go for service, then round up with your fashion designing learning skills

ollins:
I Really don't know what to do anymore as I am so tired and frustrated of begging my wife for sex.
Ok,let me try and explain my plight,I have been married to my wife since 2010 and we have been blessed with two lovely boys.
This whole issue of my wife not wanting sex with me started in December last year 2020 when we were watching a documentary about people loosing weight and I told my wife playfully that she needs to loose weight but I regretted the words immediately I said them as she is sensitive about her weight,before then we had no problem whatsoever .
2 days later ,she told me that I made her angry by suggesting to her that she was fat and that she would never ever forgive me .
I immediately apologized that I was only joking but she said she would never ever forgive me,I went down on my knees to apologise but all to no avail,I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and mother in law to beg her for me,I even asked her best friend whom she is very fond of to beg for me but none of them could change her mind.
She then moved out of my room but we still maintained our marriage and House.
Right now she has vowed never to sleep with me,at a stage I started suspecting if she had someone else as she is always on the phone chatting but I have no proof that she is cheating.
I have tried everything I can to apologise to her all to avail,I am thinking of going to her church now to report to her pastor or something (we don't attend the same church).
The most painful thing in all this is that my wife knows I have high libido for sex and she chose that to punish me.
Please advise me on what to do because I am so confused and I can't believe my wife has refused me sex since December last year till now.
I am tired of masturbating,(a married man o,�)I have cried and all that to her and she told me something last night that chilled me to my bones which I am still trying to understand,she told me she can stay without sex for years if she is not interested, please � women in the House,is that possible?for a Married woman
.

Her reaction is getting too much

You have tried all you can, even to kneel down to beg her

Well don't take it personal because it will hurt you more

Consider it as one of those things you can come across

Find a way to sort yourself out

She no longer cares if the marriage holds or not

Since that's the only weapon she has, ignore it if you can

Women are most complex of all humans

IamCookie:
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LETTER TO OUR WIVES FROM 'THE COMMITTEE OF HUSBANDS'

RESOLUTIONS AT THE END OF THE NEC MEETING FOR 2021 FATHERING SUNDAY.

30 Things Nigerian Husbands Want And Expect From Their Wives:

1. Go and slim down. Do not let people take you for our mother when indeed you are our wife. We love to see you exercise and eat less.

2. Mind and control your tongue.

3. Keep the house clean.

4. Be hospitable, how you receive our friends and families matter to us. Make them feel welcome by coming out to greet them, serve them water if there is no drink.

5. Dress neatly and smart always, look good for us.

6. Do not disrespect us, we want to feel respected even with our imperfections, correct us with respect.

7. Treat us like a king, make us feel important and we shall treat you back as our queens.

8. Do not always claim right.

9. Be polite always.

10. Be quick to say "I am sorry".

11. Do not delay us when we have to go out together. Start getting ready well ahead of time and don't keep us waiting because we can be very impatient.

12. We don't like tension, make us smile and laugh around you and we will want to hang around.

13. We love good food, if you have to go to a catering school to make us eat well, please do.

14. We do not like nagging. When you make your request, believe in us to do it in our own time. No amount of nagging can change us.

15. Do not belittle or gossip us to anyone.

16. If there are issues that need be addressed, find a quiet time when we can talk, just the two of us not necessarily in the middle of the night when you're most likely going to disturb our sleep.

17. Do not prioritize others ahead of us, Make us your number one; Not the children, your friends, your family, your career, business, religion or anything around.

18. We love (S) so much, do not withhold it. Never use it as a bargaining chip.

19. Be disciplined and wise in spending.

20. Be our friend and stop acting like our mom.

21. We can be jealous, do not get too close with the opposite sex on Social media. Seek our consent before accepting a male as Friend.

22. Do not paint us bad to the children, help them love and appreciate us.

23. Do not leave the home and children unattended.

24. Accept and relate well with our family members.

25. Assist us in paying the bills, if you earn well.

26. Do not try to pry too much by reading our mails and responding to messages meant for us without our consent.
Stop snooping and stalking us on Social media. You are not snoop dog. Stop being suspicious of our female colleagues.

27. Stop answering our calls without our permission.

28. Smile always, even when you are exhausted from tending the kids.
Constantly frowning will scare us.

29. If you need our help, ASK. We cannot read your minds.

30. Stop asking to know how we spend every dime.
Just trust us and all will be well.

Lots of love.
Wishing you a memorable Father's Day Celebration!

-Association of Nigerian Husbands Worldwide.
Signed;
Worldwide Husbands.

Even mannequin, will move and talk after reading the above, e get reason why

NewDawn2O21:
hi ma! I've been bothered about something that concerns my career issue.
can I communicate to you via mailbox?

OK send a request I will accept, which I hardly do, but I will do as you always asked for

mikaael:
I work with a one of the major company in the paint sector...
I have been working there as a contract staff for 3 years but now i applied for a vacant post in the same company for a full staff role....

My question is will I be considered for a full staff role even with a 3rd class?

I have done written interview and i passed
I have done one on one interview too but I'm expecting the reply....
I'm only scared if my 3rd class certificate will be considered....
And also....I am almost through with my post graduate degree

Pls advice

You are of a great advantage because of your experience there as a contract staff

It's now left for them to employ you or not
Unless they reserved it for theirs

You may have a third class but your intelligence may be higher than a second class

donbrowser:
Lol...

The first name on that list is the major reason for your laughter

lalasticlala:
https://www.thecable.ng/blacksmiths-begin-warning-strike-in-kwara-over-high-cost-of-materials

The painful aspect of it is that once it goes up, it hardly comes down and when it comes down, it won't even be at the price level it took up from

This same people from that same place are so lazy to learn any work while they were youths and now they end up becoming public nuisance to their host community

Rot in jail

Gvnl:
Good evening everyone and Happy Sunday.

This Catarrh has lasted for almost 9yrs now. I've taken different medications but it's still persisting.

I have also done some laboratory test and taken prescribed medication, but no permanent solution.

Please help what else should or can I do to put an end to this menace.

Thank you.

It seems that you are yet to get a proper treatment on it

Pls go further for rest to avoid it getting to asthma stage

Sirjendon:
More blessing to you bro

Sis pls

shawn55ng:
Single jar as it is display on the picture

so what's the cost of delivery and what's your number

Sirjendon:
Thanks bro, the surname I want to use is already on my passport. Have been using the name for more than a year.

My consign is on my certificates.

Since it's only the surname you changed, make a publication about it and am sworn affidavit on it

PriscaHap:
Thank you very much but I do not fully understand. You said worst case I can do another one in Abuja.
Do you mean doing another court marriage in Abuja or getting another marriage certificate in Abuja?

Why not ask someone to make enquiries for you in Imo state and you speak with the officials on phone then find out their stand on it first

Oralissue:
Am new here i just registered today, hoping to get answers i having be living with pains in my mouth. for months now and it gets worse daily. i have meant with doctors did a swap test and found nothing in their test, i was asked to return 2weeks time, but my conditions is getting worse i feel feverish, weak and pains all over my body especially from my throat there are red linings at the back of my throat and white puses on the tonsils, please help out,
Any solution even if its local

How can i get this to front page

I have exams and its really disturbing

I have also taking several antibiotics nothing worked my oral swab showed no growth of any microrobes in my mouth


Please what could it be and what solution can help out

It could be syphilis or mouth ulcer

Change hospital for another doctor to have his own trial on you

For now use liquid mouth wash instead of tooth paste

AyamSad:
I'm in my finals and I just found out that I will be carrying over two courses in my extra year . My results just came out.

The saddest thing is that it's even an elective borrowed course from physics. All my mates that borrowed it failed it too. If only I could see the future.
I feel doomed and depressed.
Regret is eating me up!

I could have done a simpler course.
God what led me to physics?

I've been passing all my courses until now. How can I handle this?

Braze yourself up, you have come this far
God will see you through

Nackzy:
News just too plenty, i thought they said she has been apprehended, which one is at large again,

Some people you see on the road are not just humans, how can you meet a man within two weeks meerting the man you killed him and stole just 5 million, why not date the man for one year and make more than 20 million from him and jakpa

Exactly my thoughts, date him and make fortune out of him for the period the relationship will last instead of killing him just because of 5ml