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TheGidRedpiller:
EXACTLY!

Thanks

Charlex23:
If i could render my help to him,believe me i wouldn't hesitate to do that. The fact is that i don't reside permanently in lagos

Is alright

Aliyu007:
This noise about obi Cubana whose source of wealth we don't even know . Even if he get hotels and clubs fine we're he see the capital to start that kind of business? It can only point to drugs. Infact he might still be involved in drugs only that e dey use one yeye club Cubana cover up.

That's asides, let's examine his cows.

Let's even assume he buys them at the rate of 300k which I even doubt coz those cows are tiny and skinny and shouldn't be more than 150k each. But let's assume he buys them at 300k each , that's just about 13.800 million. If you come bauchi na weytin we dey use buy boxers for here.

Your level of thinking and poverty has really reduced you to a mere boxer

What's your problem on how and what he wants to use for his mum's burial

Let's assume he is into drugs, is your drug missing?

LoverOfEvil:
Money help

Break the vaults nearest to you

TheGidRedpiller:
You think because some guy calls you his girlfriend then you are exempted NO! You think because some simp calls you his wife then you are responsible and different from street wh0res NO!!

The Thot Rule States: If He Has To Spend Money In Anyway On Your Behalf Before He Can Touch You, Then You Are As Simple As The Regular SLUUT!!

This should also be a lesson for every man out there, learn to differentiate the s€x workers from the legitimate girlfriends, don't let a pr0stitute do business with you without you being aware! Be aware of every situation and know who is to be taken serious with!
Treat the wh0res like wh0res and treat the girlfriends like women(although i treat all of them just the same, i mean like wh0res )

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Prostitutes only have Gigolo's as their customers, so, both of them are in the same profession

Charlex23:
Hi guys,Good day I'll try to make this very concise
I'm aware the situation of things in the country is currently difficult and everyone is struggling to survive and make ends meet.
This is the first time I'd be asking for assistance on this forum. Straight to the point then. There's this very close friend of mine, he is based in lagos and desperately in need of an accomodation for now, He previously had a job, but due to the fact the shop rent was increased earlier this year, he couldn't meet up and had to move out. Ever since january he hasn't been able to locate any shop that the price is fair enough due to his financial constraints.
Secondly the landlord has been mounting so much pressure on him to pay up his rent or move out for good on or before monday morning, he's in serious distress ryt now bcs there's no one to assist him, his parent's are late and he's the only one, he has tried contacting his friends but none seems to be of help at the moment. He met me earlier this week and narrated his predicament to me, i felt so bad abt it bcs he's a really nice person and i totally understand it's not his fault either. Please Nairalanders I'd be indeed grateful if anyone can come to his aid. I'm not in any way asking for money, all I'm looking for is someone who is willing to accommodate him for just a short period...

But you can do that for him in the interim

Deeking111:
I am in a deep mess right now...I need help it all started like this
I borrowed money from a loan app cashlion for 7days and when it was due I never add the money to pay so I.have to keep talking from other loan app just to settle others ...before I could be smart I now owe the total of 385k...not one app all of them combine together....pls its giving me mental stress and I really need help...
I don't wanna take my life because my life is what more than that but what do I do..Help pls

What was in your mind while digging your neck dipper into these

holsconcept:
Please Nairalanders, where can I report a case involving a man beating his own mother? The husband is dead many years ago and the woman had to live with the son. The woman has been calling for help but no one seems to assist. Are there human right organisation in charge of a case like this? please help.

You need to tell us more about the mum

Does it mean that she has no where to go

Why is her son always beating her

Doesn't she do anything for a living

LoverOfEvil:
Please I lost some money this week
and I have nothing to eat currently
please someone should help me with
any amount

For you to have such moniker means that you are not normal, attitude wise

Besides, what kind of help do you need

Ebengosandra:
Hey guys my ex boyfriend kidnapped my daughter in 2016 at the age if 3 years, he took her to Nigeria. I have been crying for my daughter for 5 years it is been very hard for me to leave without her, I don't know if she is eating, good health or going to school. My daughter 8th birthday is this 27 of July I want to come to Nigeria in 2 months by God's grace to get her back from him but my biggest worry is I don't know any of his family nor friends or his real name. when we met in my country he told me his name was ikenna nwadi but I can't find him on Facebook maybe he gave me the wrong name or his using a different name now. my daughter name is nneoma Rachel nwadi. I have beg his friends who are still living in my country to help me with his details but they have refuse to help me, I have even arrested one but my country justice is corrupt, he was release few hours later. I really need your help to help me find my daughter. Is there any hope for me that I will ever be able to find her or I should forget about her, its hard for me to forget her because she is my first baby the one that gave me the name mum. I am waiting to hear from you guys please

You would have done this from the very day he took your child

Going to the airport to report to immigration would have halted his move

Well you have to look for one of his friends and pay him for giving yo details, same way am sure he paid your friend to reveal a lot that made him to sneak away with the child

donstan18:
Lagos is the dirtiest, overrated, frustrating, suffocating, shiitiest, over populated, filthiest, disorganized, irritating and over hyped state in the world.

The presence of celebrities is the only thing differentiating Lagos from Abia and Ekiti state.

A ground for thuggery, traffic, depression, crimes, fake lives, bleaching, oloshoism, infections and all manner of fvckery.

Any honest Lagosian will agree with me.

If you ever leave Lagos to Abuja, Port harcourt or Kano, you’ll understand me better. To even think this is happening to the overrated Lekki makes it more funny.

Tueh!!

All what you have mentioned are what makes it Lagos State

dre11:
How Suleja Prisons O/C allegedly seduced inmate’s wife, impregnated, married her

....Paid aggrieved husband N10,000 ‘bride price’

…Angry inmates bath Officer with urine, faeces

….Culprit redeployed as CG institutes probe



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/how-suleja-prisons-o-c-allegedly-seduced-inmates-wife-impregnated-married-her/

Idiot of a man

Andrew87:
I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year.

This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them.

Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard.

Am glad you love her, but you have to take up whatever those kids needs

He wants the children but your wife will never allow her kids off her radar, it's not possible

Just try your best with your wife to take care of the children, the children too are aware of everything and you will be the one to enjoy them if you do your best in them

You guys can change school to where the fees can be paid

You are already aware of all these before going is so help her to move things forward

A time will come, you will be the one to celebrate them

Your wife will eventually give birth to your own children and they will all grow together as siblings

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/one-injured-as-fulani-clan-clashes-over-who-inherits-family-heads-widow/?amp

Nonsense tradition, as if the woman pussy is different from his wife's own

erico2k2:
Is this not surrogacy? or am I mistaking?

Surrogate is when some one is paid to carry a couple pregnancy

Lawyers are involved in this and the person is paid very well

enikl:
Personally I believe it isn't about when they should start using it.. The big question should be when they can start using it without supervision! The digital age isn't limited to any age group.. But proper supervision is the ultimate goal!

I started mine immediately they finished their WAEC and made a good score

That's was my agreement with them and that's alone was enough reason for them to seat it

mrnigeria0:
I am not comfortable providing my bvn number for NIN registration. is there any other way i can do the registration without my bvn number

I have been hearing some yahoo boy shouting saying they need NIN number. from there they would get your bvn number and the rest is history

Simply go to your bank, get a BVN print out and take it along to process your NIN

That's what others do and no one have been scammed through that

It is required to link both your account and NIN, every other person's went through that

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

You guys need a break and the condition for going on break is for her phone to be unlocked permanently same thing with yours

Marriage is not an open secret game
Raising family can't be done with lack of trust
You can't keep backing an over grown child, who does unimaginable at your back while backing her

Lastly, trust no one

Doja2000:
Hello ladies and gentlemen in the house, this is my first thread on NL so am gonna be quick about it. please Forgive my grammatical errors.

Some men are fond of leaving kitchen responsibilities and most house chores to their wives. I think it is a lovely thing for a man to help out his wife in the kitchen, it shows that he's a caring and loving husband and that could also bring a strong bond in the marriage.

Some people think that men who help their wife in the kitchen are been controlled by their wife or worst, regarded as simp but it's a man's duty to provide assistance to their wife in every way possible, either by employing a house help or doing it themselves especially when she's pregnant.....

So,what do you guys think about a man providing assistance in the kitchen?

Whenever you are helping your wife in the kitchen, it's as if when she is helping you to pay some bills
There is nothing wrong with that, it's parts of being good to her and to yourself

EmmanuelScott1:
IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu



www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/kanu-may-remain-in-custody-till-september-judges-begin-vacation/%3famp?espv=1

They just want to frustrate him before doing the needful

Lostchild:
Thank You
And Yes I will have but 2 kids is enough.

Excellent

Is caused by heat

Learn to wear singlet once, any time you sweat, take a bath not really with sponge but with soap, if it's a ramdom bath

It will go and still come back but keep doing so

Try using Tetmosol soap to bath

Illuminatiship:
Why na pussy market don drop? Eya no customer well no money on ground..

Grow up, common sense is lacking in you

Didn't you come out of that pussy and still goes there

Just respect yourself

wantagon1:
I dont live an extravagant life. Yet all they care is bring, bring, bring.

You alone knows what you earn every month or every week, depending on what you do for a living

It's time you seat then down, talk with your parents and let them know that you are not as rich as they think and because you don't complain doesn't mean that you don't get broke

Tell them what you think you can afford to give them every month.

Dollarseeker:
I want to move to Enugu state but I need a location that has constant light. As in PHCN doesn't joke with their light there, where I can enjoy constant light without unnecessary interruption. 24/7

Why not get a Generator, even the place your are relocating from never gave you constant light

Juicewrld27:
i am traveling from school to delta where i have been working since my year 1. It not like i don't receive help from my parents. Of course I do but i don't call them for every little thing i need. I am in entering into my final year. I Ave project and seminars to do. Me giving them that weight to carry together with my other siblings would be too much for them

Is alright the Lord is your strength and will provide for you

Juicewrld27:
i am student and the semester is over. Due to post exam expenses i cant meet up with transport expenses to enable me work out what i need for next semester. I dont rely on my parents. I just need the money to enable me travel. I can even provide my school id card if the need be

You want to travel to where
How come you don't want to depend on your parents, your are their responsibility no matter how little they will give to you

Am not just convinced

Lostchild:
I am not sure what will happen in the future. I don't know if I will see things differently when I start having children, but with what I have seen and what I am currently seeing, has made me not to desire to reach old age

With what I have seen, I just can't stop asking myself this question, what is the importance for one to have children?

1. My own mother gave birth to 10 children and has many grand children. She spent all her life and all her money raising grand children. She is the type that will rather spend her money on the well being of her grand children than to invest it on my education. I remember anytime I went to her to give me money for school, she will tell me that she has spent all her money on the sickness of my nephews and nieces. She spent all her life savings in raising and helping her grand kids. In her old age is when she began to understand the true nature of humans. Many times she tells me that if she had known, she would have invest and spend all her money on me because she realize that in all her children, I am the only one that truly deeply cares about her well being. She remove her eyes from the rest of her children and started looking unto me even though I struggle more than them. The son she never gave anything, was now the one that truly deeply cares about her

In her old age, she began to live like a beggar to her own children. She got to the point where she was at the mercy of her children. When she fell sick, she was not able to live alone and became a heavy burden to those she greatly sacrifice her life for.

She saw extreme rejection, betrayals from the very people she greatly sacrifice her life for. In sickness is when she realize that nobody will love her more than herself. My mother cried and went through so much rejection and sufering in sickness, it was so bad that her body could no longer endure the rejection, the pain and suffering to the point where she died with her eyes wide open. Before her death, I heard two of her grand children says that she is not their mother, so whatever happens to her, it doesn't concern them. I was shock when I heard their statement. I disconnect myself from all of them and knew that I will not see them again. I moved on and start afresh towards the next best years.

2. I recently acknowledge an elderly mama being neglected. Her situation was very, very bad to the point that I was force to yoke myself into her life because this elderly mama is emotionally down. Her living condition was so bad that I started to asked her if she has any children. I was shock when I learnt from others that this elderly mama has children that is doing well in life and many grand children. When ever I visit her, I always see that old age is not a good thing at all. She was now like a burden to her own children and loneliness has now become her only friend. I keep telling her that her poor living condition will get better and that she should stop thinking even though she is full of pain and regret over her life.

With what my mother went through and with what I have seen in life, I keep asking myself, what is the need for one to have children. I went to quora and I saw people who even regret having children.

As a humanitarian, I go to rural areas and I see how the ederly's, despite having children, they are heavily suffering.

I see many reasons why it is heart breaking for parents to place their hope on their children who hardly even cares about them.

I am praying to God, never to put me in a situation where I will be at the mercy of any humans, be it children or not.

I will only have children when I have lot of money to save, and even if I have children someday, I will never sacrifice my life for them.

It's a pity that you saw all these that are now making you to think twice

Pls erase that thoughts from your mind

You will definitely find a lovely woman that will bear wonderful children for you but make sure you have just the number of kids you need, 2 or 3 should be OK for you

Now to the main question, having kids at home and marriage, compliments your living, children are simply added advantage

If you have just few, you can provide for them and also take care of yourself so that you don't become a nuisance to them at old age

In your mum's case, she was busy breeding those children during her time and they too started having t Gt e numbers if children they can't cater for, do out of pity, your mother have to feel that gap by feeding them

The little she had left with her to take care of herself was spent on her grandchildren, in the course of doing so, people like you who have great potentials was neglected because her grandchildren needed more help than you, that was her thinking

By the time she realizes that, it was too late to focus on you

So my dear, have children because at a stage, you must need them in life

Juicewrld27:
Please anyone?

What do you need the money for

How old are you and what are you doing presently

You see, when soliciting for financial help, put down your reason's for the need, things are tough and the few ones that want to help need to be convinced

But how come you are always in need, does it mean you are lazy or you don't want to fix yourself

Tell me exactly what you need the money for