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squash47:
Recently, I have noticed a new thing in my life. Before, I can stay months without any girl in my life. But recently, I began to notice that there's this part of me that is always yearning for femine touch and affection.


Reason Why I opened this thread

The reasons why I created this thread is because, I'm a kind of person who doesn't like giving girls money.

And I can't sustain any long term feelings.

major challange

So, my major challange now is :

how can I make a BEAUTIFUL, CURVY girl love me without giving her money ?



What tricks can I use to achieve this ?


Cc. ilegendd, ubanja and co.

Help a broke brother please.

You don't need any trick to woe a woman

You have your reasons why you don't give women money

You will also be willing to alow another man give her the money she needs to look good

The truth is that your case is like you want to go heaven to see God, but you don't want to die

vastolord4:
Bro! 4 yrs down with a kid.. guess what? I don't know whose the senior kid of them both. I think ladies become more like kids when they are hitched.

Am a woman not a guy, women behaviors are attached to their emotions

Seat her down and talk mature senses to to her and if she doesn't behave like adult that she is, then you accept your fate and keep keeping on

vastolord4:
My wife is the love of my life but Lord, please strengthen me so I can withstand my wife's pressure... women dey worry!

Lol
Just give her free hand to ride the affairs and you will see her becoming as gentle as a dove

Give her the attention she wants and she won't disturb you

Just like babies give them attention they won't disturb you, but neglect them and they will trouble you

That's to show how truly they loved themselves and can't survive without the presence of another

May their souls rest In peace

Dickson178:
What kind of drugs can a girl take to be disflowered & cream. And how was ur experience

Since you took one to disvirgin yourself, recommend it for her

Jannuxajj:
After service I went to stay with my aunt then I met this beautiful girl that stays with her. we both became lovers through out my stay there. I got a job in another state so I left. Fast forward to almost 3 years later now I got a contract in their state so I had to go stay with them. Due to covid this girl was around at home with me. Both of us are always home alone. Now looking at the scenario you will think this will be enjoyment for me as me and her dey dey home alone!!! WRONG. When we had a relationship 3 years ago little did I know that it was due to boredom and frustration of staying at home and waiting for admission that made her decide to date me. Now she has entered uni met alot of other guys and now more exposed. Due to this she rejected me. Naturally this should not be a problem, Na to move on na. But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me. What really made this a problem is the fact that I am a conc stay at home introvert. I work from home on my laptop so we are always home alone together. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance. she saw it and only hyped me that night. she still didn't budge even though am always taking her out and buying stuff for her. The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car. I even bone her for like one week she no even send, the major problem is staying alone with her and seeing her every minutes makes it hard to move on in my mind. Sometimes I even feel like a simp for being home alone with her and not being able to do anything with her.

You are yet to see more and it doesn't hurt her the way it hurts you Wether she has another guy or not

Level has changed and you don't blame her for it

Just get an appointment and move far away from her

That's when you will know if she is in love with you or she is comfortably happy, you or without you

HolyMakanaki:
For Me its A Capital No
naso Billing Go start
My Bank alert transactions self I dey delete am

what's Your View on this ?

It depends on your bond and the love between both of you

People with strong bond and love doesn't hide anything from each other, they make everything transparent

People who have trust issues are not too transparent with each other because their is no openness in them

They practice open secret relationship

Americaobea:
I'm so emotionally down, so i created a new account to speak out how i feel..
I have prayed and even fasted, now i feel i might do something bad... That's why i need your advice.
I have this strong feeling that my husband of 2years is still having something with his ex... I remember two weeks after our wedding he traveled to imo state to the girl's uncle's house for wiring, that was how i got to know about the ex... He stayed 4days yet he said nothing is going on between them, i was shocked when i realise he saved the girl's number with (electrician), and nothing is between them, and the girl in question calls him everyday yet he denials nothing is between them!
He even lied and told me he went to village one certain time and i called the brother he told me he didn't come.... All this and more i have seen..
I' m beautiful with brain, hardworking and even sexy/romantic to the core... I get alot of distractions o, but we all know those ones ...
I have told him if there's something I'm not doing right I'm ready to learn in all area, and he said I'm perfect for him the way i am.... He even told me he wouldn't have married the lady for anything... And that he will end whatever is going on (it's not the first time)
My problem now is that i don't trust him again, i don't feel what we do.. I'm losing it, I think I'm fed up and i don't know what to do. Please i need advice from mature mind pls.. [color=#000099][/color]

Pls cool down for the following reasons

Some men wants to flex marriage or no marriage and that is not different from flirting

He married you because he find you worthy to be his wife, even at that he has to still see his ex till he is fed up with the whole thing

Am glad you are good to go, so be yourself and don't allow him to give you BP and you will have to live on drugs for the rest of your life while he lives a normal good life

Use this opportunity of his careless lifestyle and build yourself and achieve what you want

A time will come he will no longer have your loyalty and that's when you will remind him how he lost it keeping extra affairs and giving you trauma

crackhaus:
A barren woman must be blessed then...

I guess one other way for a woman to save herself from future suffering in marriage, is to ensure she WON'T have any children – at least this option is 100% under her control.

Just keep quiet and don't speak for women

How happy do you think a woman without child will be

Just like saying an impotent man is happier

propertyarena:
2 weeks used century blender with dry mill
Clean as brand new
1000 watts
Location: gbagada, Lagos

Price: 10k

Contact:
08035315457


WhatsApp link https:///08035315457

Can this go for 5000 and I will pick it up this weekend

Zzor:
Yes,women are really suffering,in marriage you will be expected to cook all the time,keep the house clean(though with the help of housemaids),the one's without housemaids hmm una be witch,get pregnant alone and nurse the baby till adulthood,always be ready to open legs for him,look good for him,treat his people well,make money for the family too.Is all these not too much?married women,aint you tired?

If a married woman will regard all these you have mentioned as suffering what do you expect a barren woman to regard it to be ?

StacyO:
It's too much I tell you.



And to me,it's beginning to seem like they enjoy every bit of it. Which most definitely won't smell good for a forum like this "


And mind you,a particular tribe is always targeted.

Yes you are right about it
They are taggeting our Umunna but we full ground

Ferlis:
Thanks. Getting a relationship feels like it will complicate things though. I don't want the added stress right now. I'll work on the others you mentioned

Alright, just follow your heart, it will definitely lead you to a good life that will give you happiness and peace of mind

StacyO:
I will continue to monitor sheun and his tribalism forum
and fake news ground.
In cooperation with his muderators.









I pray sense falls on those souls.
Amen!!!!

I have not taken time to look into it

ogohiochola:
Exactly what happened, as if you were there!
Thanks.

That's always the case

Maryjane001:
Yes it is still a new site. Badagry, Oko-afo side. Actually we v lived here for about a decade now and this burglary incidences started last year.
Although we have neighbors, my own house has been most targeted in the area. We hardly stay at home. My siblings go to school and come back in d evening. While I and my parents go to work and come back late at night.

So sorry about that pls

donkilidon:
Most Women take their time when it comes to issues like this....

Yes they take their time because they want to be sure that a man being loyal and humble to her doesn't make him to loose his stability

She wants to be sure he is not pretending

Fussion1000:
Wen a guy/man looks at money that woman had hijacked from his pocket, he resulted to self medication to recoup part of the money back in kinds

Point of correction pls, no woman hijacked any money from a man
He can die while jacking as if he is digging a pit

donkilidon:
My dear you are right but let's leave crown of destiny matter....I have seen to great examples of well to do women marry a man with nothing and sponsor his dreams and ambition....and I tell you they became icons....
We need each other my dear....
Check around you am sure you will see one case of a woman taking up the full responsibility of the home....
If God makes you richer than your husband will you leave him for a richer man cause of crown of destiny?

You are saying the truth about women helping their husbands, now you are talking

If it's marriage good you will definitely get it but bear in my that such men must be humble and loyal to a fault

Chuky7:
Don't get me wrong. I have good intentions.

Babe argues that no drink in this country gets her to that tipping ,black out point where she can loose guard.

And I think I believe her. Babe can drink like say nothing dey happen.

So ladies and guys who have insight.




Cc Lalasticlala

leave her the way she b us before you create more problems for you especially

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

They should focus on their children whom they brought to the this earth

The love was never there from on set, probably they married out of pity or sentiments

CrescentMoon:
Someone I had been having good chats with went mute suddenly. She refused to reply my subsequent messages.

Does that mean she is playing hard to get or what?

It depends on your commitment to her her and your relationship communication strengths

360clips:
All you men are absolutely powerless! All the money you mumu men sweat and work for, it wouldn't even show on you! It's now all those ungrateful useless women that'll chopping and enjoying errything! Them that don't work for anything, the money is showing on them the most! I saw a pic yesterday of man, his wife and his kid. The wife and kids looked so clean & healthy but if you see the man! Lmao! That man looked like chicken that was about to die! All the hustling these foolish men do is all to impress these worthless women! Even those stupid yahoo boys that can even kill their mom for money!, it all boils down to impress one certain stupid ungrateful mannerless girl like this o, that's why they do all those things! I don't know why men have such horrible low self esteem that they survive on women's validation! It's so pitiful! I don't know when men will start having sense! Especially these Africa apes over here! When you make money , yourself comes first before any vagabond!! Stop putting ungrateful women first cus they wouldn't put you first! They don't deserve love!

If only you know that your wife and children are your greatest assets, you will never say this

If you so hate women then you will hate her offspring

Why did you start hating women after having fun with them

Na you type women they collect their mumu button they press like remote
. You think say you wise

GreaterFuture:
Na wa oh, make one Lady pity me just spoil me for like one month na. Do it for God, not for anybody or even me. Is God that will reward you back

Is like you want to change your crown of destiny with a woman

Pls stop thinking of a woman spoiling you, what you need form a woman is love and respect, that alone contains everything in it

Anto2001:
House pls help.
Anytime my brother has heartbreak, he starts listening to women musician sad songs.
Is he gay. Normal guys dat I know d'nt behave lyk that.

You said any time he breaks up with a woman, right?

That means he is healing himself with such musics

Different people with their own way of reaction

Viserion:
Hello Nairaland,

I believe it is normal for a human to fantasize about sex, but I often find myself daydreaming about it.
I'm working currently while waiting for ASUU to call off strike.


But when idle, I find it difficult to stop thinking about it, I have tried reading, engaging in physical activities, but as soon as I'm off, idle or see a fine lady I begin to fantasize about it.

I know I'm not the only one in this shoe.

I need help.



Lalasticlala
Please help push to front page for more inputs.

Once you have a girlfriend you will not have time for side attractions

Sex urge is normal

But if you don't love a particular woman or have a girlfriend, every thing under the skirt will attract you

Stephen2324:
Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

Set the rules for what ever reason the break up idea is coming and if the person can't meet up then you are good to have a good excuses

Probabl3:
There's a girl I always tutor she is just tempting. I am 24 and she is 17. I told her mother I can't continue with the tutoring.
She begged since the girl was improving. So I decided to look for more students.
The bad thing is that it is only one boy and six girls presently and their parents said I should go their houses individually. Some do meet. The bad thing is that two of the girls have been giving me green Light and Konji don kill me since I don't have a girlfriend. The two are 16 and 17.
So if I date any of them and dick either one, am I a paedophile. The girls look matured.

I think is because you have never been to jail for raping underage girls