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FamilyRe: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by frozen70(f): 8:25pm On Dec 09, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?
Where are your parents in this picture

How old is your junior brother that you can't beat that nonsense out of his life

Until the whole street starts laughing at you before you will take action

Anyway report him to your parents, let's start with that
HealthRe: I Overdosed on Caffeine help!!! by frozen70(f): 7:27pm On Dec 09, 2020
Spfty:
I think I overdosed on caffeine, I have been feeling unwell , sick , and unable to sleep for 8days straight, even when I took sleeping pills

What can I do
Stop taking those sleeping pills it's not adding up

Just take more than enough water it will flush it out of your system
TravelRe: Should I Marry Here Or When I Travel Overseas? by frozen70(f): 7:25pm On Dec 09, 2020
hector:
I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..
If you already have a lady you want to marry here, go ahead and marry her, get her pregnant before leaving so that she will be busy with her pregnancy

You can't keep her here waiting whereas you know that you are not coming home so soon

But if you wish to go there and marry, be ready to marry and accept a woman that the laws protects over seas
Car TalkRe: Check Engine Light And How Do I Resolve? by frozen70(f): 7:11pm On Dec 09, 2020
Kelvin30286063:
My check engine light has been on for weeks now. I know it's bad but I barely have time to visit a mechanic except for recently when I had a brain box issue.

The follow warnings are on my dashboard.

1. Check emisson system
2. Check Tire pressure sensor
3. Check ABS system
4. Check VSC system

That's all. I'm worried that this may not be the reasons why the check engine light is on.

I have ran a diagnostic scan and they pointed to the same things but this things are not easy fix cuz I drive an Acura and some of these things are not easy to comeby.

I know the emission system is a big issue cuz my car engine area is always very hot and I noticed some disconnection in some of those big pipes that channels air through the car but how do I best fix this! Help a brother.

Is it advisable to just wipe the warnings or I have to fix them cuz the guy that ran the diagnostic said he can just help me to wipe all the warnings and I won't have to worry anymore. Is that right sha!?
So left for you and that guy, you will wipe off or erase a detected problem on the dash board instead resolving it in a mechanic workshop

Anyway, do your own the car will do its own if you don't handle it well
FamilyRe: My Sister Want To Expose My Secret Life To My Husband by frozen70(f): 6:59pm On Dec 09, 2020
authority2006:
He will definitely react, he must.
She can't take because of killings to avoid going to war
FamilyRe: My Sister Want To Expose My Secret Life To My Husband by frozen70(f): 5:23pm On Dec 09, 2020
Jceeee:
Hello everybody ,
I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .

I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.

My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.

I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .

I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.

I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .

Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.

Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.

I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.

Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .

please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do
Your sister is bent on destroying your marriage

I think it's time for you to tell your husband before she does honestly he won't be mad at you because he too should understand that it's not easy staying that long

To me, I feel its best you tell your husband and wait for the worst than him getting to know from your own sister

Don't be surprise your husband will not over react as a matter of fact, he will welcome that child and that will put a stop to your BP drugs

Just open up to him pls, summon the courage

And if he accepts you and the child, just keep your sister at a distance
PoliticsRe: Shehu Sani: Don’t Beat Your Wife And Run To Benue For Reconciliation by frozen70(f): 5:42am On Dec 09, 2020
wisdomiskey:
Lol. This woman go dey regret say she carry her matter put for internet.

Never put mouth in husband and wife matter. Dem go settle las las. This goes out to that jobless nycompoop Dr Olufunmilayo "Our Fav Online Doc" who has released at least 30 tweets on this matter grin

Never undergo chemo for someone else's cancer!
She has no single regret speaking out or taking it to the social media

I support what she did
FamilyRe: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by frozen70(f): 2:16pm On Dec 08, 2020
Leshurr:
We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.

We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.

We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.

We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.

We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.
This write up us from a guy that disguised as a woman
RomanceRe: Woman Arrested For Marrying Two Men by frozen70(f): 10:14am On Dec 08, 2020
MrGoood:
https://leakers.ng/woman-bagged-jail-term-for-two-concurrent-marriage
She was sentenced because she should remain unattended for over twelve years, hasn't she tried

Anyway she has tried a woman needs to be touched, so she should be allowed to live her life
FamilyRe: I Feel So Suicidal Because Of My Marriage. by frozen70(f): 9:21am On Dec 08, 2020
MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.
You are alive and you are thinking about how to make. Life easy for your children

Consider when you are dead, do you think they will get a better father that will do that for them ?

Sucide is only going to create more depressing situations for your loved ones not your wife

You can't die because of her promiscuous life style, it doesn't make any sense

If you are no longer happy with the union, get yourself happy by sorting yourself out while still in the marriage

Time will heal every thing, every problem has a solution

She is leaving her life and your are planning Sucide,

My dear, leave your life and don't allow her to get you down

She doesn't care about hoe you feel so sort your way out while still in the marriage

Don't allow anyone to determine your happiness
CrimeRe: I Cover AK-47 Riffles With Baby Clothes, Distribute Them To Bandits - Suspect by frozen70(f): 9:08am On Dec 08, 2020
FamilyRe: Who Ought To Name A Child ? by frozen70(f): 5:54am On Dec 08, 2020
Juliusmomoh:
Good day nairalander
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What is your kind opinion to the above question ?...
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My anty and her husband have being having isuee concerning this since yesterday...
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She gave birth 7days ago, and according to there religion (christainity), tomorrow is the naming...
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Now two of them are having isuee now concerning the naming..
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The husband suggest the boy to be called: victor..
While the wife (my anty) suggest the boy to be called: freedom ...
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Now mothers and fathers in the house. WHO OUGHT TO NAME A CHILD ? .
Mother or father ? Abi both of them ?
Both of them can either agree to one particular name or they can name him different names as pronounced on the naming day, but you know what, the woman will chose her preferred name and keep calling that child that name until the father gives up
PoliticsRe: Governor Ortom Reconciles Channels TV Reporter, Pius Angbo And Wife by frozen70(f): 5:50am On Dec 08, 2020
kirajustice:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/just-in-benue-governor-reconciles-channels-tv-reporter-pius-angbo-and-wife-photos/
A very stupid man, must you be disgraced to the public before you will realise that you shouldn't have abused your wife

Anyway this public display will put an end to the domestic harassment on his wife
FamilyRe: My Step Dad Is Maltreating My Mom, I Am Confused by frozen70(f): 1:23pm On Dec 07, 2020
BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. cry What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? cry I am confused and heart broken cry
The problem here is your mum not your step dad

Your step dad is a beast and will always be

Your mum have given him the impression that she is helpless so she can't leave him and as it is she may get maimed before you know it

Report her to her family, I means your mother's family, they may help you bring her out

But don't give up on her, just assure her that life is best for her without that man

Marriage is not by force, abeg
RomanceRe: My Neighbor's Wife by frozen70(f): 7:07am On Dec 07, 2020
happy200:
I'm a very quiet person, and i always approach everyone gently.

I think one of my neighbor's wife has mistaken this approach for romance hence she has taken everything to another length.

Please how do i stop her from frequent knocking at my door, from begging for petty things, from always telling me that her husband is not around e.t.c.

Even if she has not pronounced to me what she wants, but i'm now so uncomfortable with all these but i don't know how to stop her.
At this stage, it's very sensitive to keep giving her audience

When next she comes around tell her that you are not comfortable with her closeness with you and you want her to give you a distance

If you can't say this, then be prepared
EventsRe: Man Wore Igbo Traditional Clothes To His Church Wedding by frozen70(f): 10:39pm On Dec 05, 2020
NSK4U:
perhaps you know him better than the op, how did you arrive at your conclusion that he's a traditionalist?
When you see an Igbo man that is a traditionalist, he applies traditional to every thing he does

That dress is called Isiagu, its a native dress for men

He could as well wore a suit which is the real conventional dress for English wedding, but putting on that dress shows he loves his culture and tradition
EventsRe: Man Wore Igbo Traditional Clothes To His Church Wedding by frozen70(f): 8:24pm On Dec 05, 2020
BluntNigerian:
What Is Your Reactions To This??
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To me,, I Think The Igbo People Are Begining To Get Liberated From Mental Slavery..
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He Is A Strong Catholic..
He is not a strong catholic, that's his church and he chooses to wed there

He is a complete traditionalist
TravelRe: Woman Forgets Her Baby Boy In A Commercial Bus In Imo by frozen70(f):
midehi2:
Are you sure she's the real owner of that child, if not what would make mother forget her child in such manner, wonders they said shall never end, na wooo
The truth is she is tired of feeding and providing for that child
TravelRe: I Just Got A 3-Month Visa To Dubai, I Need Your Suggestions Please!!! by frozen70(f): 8:13pm On Dec 04, 2020
ebuka10box:
na this kind comment I want dey see, thanks for charging my spirit
Thanks dear
FamilyRe: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by frozen70(f): 6:38pm On Dec 04, 2020
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
No matter how you convince a woman or your wife that has less contribution at home, she will not understand what you mean by stopping at a particular number of children to give birth

So the way out is let her start contributing especially schools fees
FamilyRe: I Am Worried About My Mom, Please Don't Ignore. by frozen70(f): 12:30pm On Dec 04, 2020
Heavyheart:
I never thought I will be among those that will create a new username just to post their problems. But I have many Nlers friends....I don't want anyone calling me or coming to my WhatsApp to sympathize with me or something.

I have a sister who is in her early thirties, she has been married for over twelve years. She kept complaining to mom that her husband is cheating. And my mom kept advising her to stay on the marriage. This is why;

1. My sis is extremely stingy( she's the type of woman that won't cook for her children if her husband doesn't drop money). She can't single handedly raise those four children in case of divorce or something.
2. She exaggerates a lot. She's a liar. And a nosey woman that listen to hearsay. Sometimes she let the first child to follow her husband to his workplace and she would start interrogating her. Who did your daddy spoke to? Blah blah.
3. She pays her Husband apprentice to give her information about her husband and the women he sees. She snoops through his phone, call customers and curse them.
4. She doesn't have time for her family. She doesn't have time to cook. Its mostly noodles and Pepsi she gives her husband.
5. The husband had told mom he's still in the union because of his children and the support from our family
Mom had told her on many occasions that if she was her DIL she would have sent her packing because she's a terrible woman.

Background story: she was sent to school, but she kept visiting the guy. She got pregnant and mom was against the union because the guy is not educated. Not even SSCE level, eventually mom gave her support, they got married.
Fortunately for her, the guy is responsible. He loves her and the children, even we the family and he pays the bill.
She has never called mom for any financial assistance. Just this one complain that the husband is cheating. Mom has talked to the husband many times, at the end of the day we found out that she's just exaggerating (the guy might have cheated o, but most of the accusations are not true).

The Problem; she has been calling mom for weeks now to complain the same thing and mom told she wasn't interested. She said, "you've been married to him for twelve years and still its the same complaint. If you can't focus on your kid and yourself, that's your problem"
My sister replied with "Is it possible to focus on my kids when my husband is doing all these"
Mom said, : Then leave the marriage.
My sister called me and said our mom is not a good mother.

My mom has been sad since, she has been unable to sleep. And I seriously hate my sister.

Like what our mom wanted for us was not to be like some of the women in our family with seven husbands.
I just hate her really, and the whole thing is saddening. I want to make my mom happy and all.
After reading your narrative about your sister, I will say she is a parasitic human being that doesn't want to help herself talk more of her family

It's time you guys ignore her and regular complaints because she is already a liability to her husband and children

As for your mum, she is more matured and she just wants to disturb herself over her daughter's attitude

She should put her behind and move on else she will contribute to her early grave

Once more you guys should stop giving her listening ear and if you should give her that ear don't go to take any action, she doesn't deserve it

As for the husband, if cheating will make him happier, so let it be

No one wants a liability as a partner
HealthRe: Please Help, I'm Always Fatigued And I Sleep A lot. by frozen70(f): 12:16pm On Dec 04, 2020
CaptainZubi:
For about 5 years now I've been battling extreme tiredness . Asides that I sleep alot most especially at afternoons. At night,nonce I sleep around 11pm and not going to work the next day, I can wake up by 10am or 11 am.

During afternoon and night sleeps, the sleep is usually very deep (REM phase or whatever you medics call it, please correct me) and usually characterized by heavy dreams.

Even during work, I'll always take the risk to create some time to have a little sleep. I've been battling this for about 5 years now. What could be wrong.
You need to consider the following things

Getting fatigue could be a sign of BP or laziness, worst still a medical condition

Eat less for more energy to stay awake during the day

If you should eat beans be ready for sleep no matter the combination of food you eat it with, same thing is applicable to pap

Laziness and also feeling that you don't have any life challenges can also make you to keep sleeping as much as you want just because nothing is disturbing your peace, from their you will ems up becoming not just lazy but a liability to your future partner

Seat yourself down and look deep, you will definitely find out the root to all these tiredness and sleepy times
FamilyRe: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by frozen70(f): 2:23am On Dec 04, 2020
BadRadio:
Some live to harness themselves for it.

Some would set no other goal & do nothing else but look forward to the excitement of being married.

For a man or a woman, Is marriage and having kids an achievement?

When a man or a woman decides by choice not to have kids or get married, does it in anyway affect them?

What are the core importance of being married or getting married.

Is having children paramount in marriage?
To me, one of the benefits of having children is because of old age and caring at that time

Yes, it's an achievement to compliment who you are

If you can't birth, don't give up go and adopt
PoliticsRe: Disconnect Customers Rejecting Meters, NERC Orders DISCOs Distributors by frozen70(f): 2:15am On Dec 04, 2020
iamyemiakins:
So, there are people against meter usage.

This county no just balance at all
Most of them uses hot pot, air-conditions,with other higher elements and leave their lights on 24/7
PhonesRe: Please Recommend A New Phone For 50K Budget by frozen70(f): 2:05am On Dec 04, 2020
Omoshalewa04:
I'm also on this table. Abeg I no sabi phones but I want suggestions of 60k below. Thank you.
Go for redmi 8, that's what I use
Check for the reviews on the net
RomanceRe: What A Prophet Told Me About My Girlfriend. by frozen70(f): 1:34am On Dec 04, 2020
SeunWedsLinda:
Good morning nairalanders. I'm sharing this here because I feel restless with this urgent need to end my relationship. I'll make the story as short as possible.

I started dating my girlfriend this time 2 years ago. The experience hasn't been bad because she's all I could wish for in a woman. Very pretty both facially and in physique. Respectful. Been there for me during my down times. Encourages me when things don't go my way. At some point, I thought she was gonna leave because of my financial state but no. She still stuck by me. Even helping me financially to bring me up to my feet.

However, Despite every attempts at steadying my financial imbalance, there was never any progress. We went for a crusade mid last year and the prophet called her out, was praying for her and she was falling under anointing. She was oblivious of what was happening then the man of God delivered a big prophesy that shocked me. He said she is possessed by a spirit which is out to ruin every man she's had something to do with in the past. That a lot of men have been destroyed. My heart raced faster and I couldn't figure out what to do at that point. When she finally got herself, she cleaned up and went home. Came to my house the following morning and asked me what happened. I told her everything the prophet said and she begged me not to leave her. Of course I didn't leave her. We still continued with the relationship. Don't blame me here guys. My belief was that no man or woman has the power to influence what happens to you. That success or financial breakthrough is the end product of hardwork and perseverance. That was why I took that prophesy with a pinch of salt.

Our lives continued. I kept encountering frustrations in my live goals and ambitions. Depts hanging round my neck with no hope in sight. Rents expiring with no plan for renewal. To the point that I had to borrow to feed. These were much that I decided to go see another prophet yesterday. This prophet is different from the first one that hosted a crusade we went for. I decided to go alone this time around and it's located in a different state. In the course of the ministration. The prophet called me out. He told me I should limit things I say to THAT GIRL (my girlfriend). He mentioned to me that my girlfriend is good and it's not her fault. That she is possessed by a spirit that is out to ruin. Responsible for restricting any favor that looks like it's coming my way. Every thing he told me was in tandem with my real life experiences. He prayed for me afterwards and I still went further to meet him. I needed some clarity on whether or not to continue with my relationship. He didn't urge that I breakup. But he advised I should just leave her and focus on my hustle.

My girlfriend has been calling me since yesterday but I've not been picking. I'm confused guys. I know I will eventually pick and talk to her but how do I breakup? Where do I start from? I don't want to tell her what the prophet said about her. My mind is mess rn. Please advice me guys
It's time to face your future

Seat her down and let her know that you need to stay away from any form of relationships till only God knows

Just stop there and don't go beyond that spot

At that point, your next plan is to face your God for further directions
TravelRe: I Just Got A 3-Month Visa To Dubai, I Need Your Suggestions Please!!! by frozen70(f): 1:19am On Dec 04, 2020
ebuka10box:
thanks but I have already processed my visa and flight ticket
Go pls, whatever others are doing there do it within that limited time and come back before Visa expiration

Your next application will definitely be two years
HealthRe: What Can I Do To Make Wife's Belly To Be Flat? by frozen70(f): 7:27am On Dec 03, 2020
Jogunomi1:
Before our first child, her belly was naturally not flat and she's not obese. After first child, her belly became bigger. I just want her belly to stop getting bigger.

What can I do please?
She didn't tye her belly very well after her first birth and once she miss the first one, she will definitely miss the second one

Let her reduce her food intake anything after 6/7pm and do some exercise

After another birth let her tye her stomach for three months, that's how it's properly done
RomanceRe: How Do I Retrieve Some Of My Belongings From My Ex? by frozen70(f): 4:59pm On Dec 01, 2020
okwypascal:
So guys please I need help, I brokeup with this gal recently and she still has some of my valuables, especially my books. I have been trying to get it from her but she's saying it's now hers.

Mind you we broke up on peaceful terms, please if you have been in my situation tell me how you got your things back.

Some of my limited edition novels and albums album are at stake here.
Reconcile back with her, play along them find away to get your articles back if you know that you can never get it else where

But if you can replace it,
consider it gone
Car TalkRe: How Can I Drive Rats Away From My Car? Please Help by frozen70(f): 12:30am On Dec 01, 2020
rubyjan:
My area has suddenly been filled with rats. Recently they have started attacking cars and causing havoc.

Two of my neighbours cars can no longer start. Just yesterday I decided to service my car and when the mechanic opened the hood, rat droppings and smell were everywhere.

Please how do I chase these demonic creatures away??. Someone suggested placing charcoal inside the engine compartment, but if the car is dtiven, would the charcoal not be heated up?

Thanks in advance.
One of the best option is to pack far away from the dustbin near the car

Warm your car every day if you don't drive it every day

Always change the position of your car when packed for few days
RomanceRe: Marrying An Older Lady? by frozen70(f):
sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.
For sometimes now, you have been dating her for over four years, haven't you seen that she gives you absolute peace of mind with respect

She is two years older than you and yet humble, if she is pretending, four years is too long for the pretence

Mind you, time is going and stop delaying her

Some people married older ladies and got peace in their homes while some who married the younger ones have long been separated

The question you will ask yourself is, are you happier and more peacefully dating this woman ?

Though you didn't put her age or yours

Just follow your heart, love conqueres all
SportsRe: Help: How Can I Quit Gambling? by frozen70(f): 6:25pm On Nov 29, 2020
KhalifaJnr:
Good day Nlers,

I don't know how to start my story sad it's so bad that I am ashamed of putting it down in writing embarassed
I had a business worth 1m, was doing great until my closed friend introduced me to betting - that was the downfall of my career...betting made me a begger. I staked 200k on "sure" 5 odds but it went to shred, tried recovering; staked 500k - same story sad

I was depressed, could not eat, started going to different websites and forecasting games, but same problem - lose embarassed
I sold my car, used the money to gamble, won 400k, d nxt day I loss 600k.

Yesterday I staked 200k on 3 matches ; Juventus, Dortmund and Real madrid...everything red. I'm tired. I wanna quit.

Bash and insult me, no p. I need advice(s) please.
You know what, run to your God and then leave all your bad friends alone, and you stay on your own

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