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Perfectman91:
May you and your family forever find yourselves in difficult situations forever in your miserable lives

Your laziness made you to be in difficult situations, remain there

Perfectman91:
Are your parents bastards? Must you post negative comments on every thread?..what happened to leaving a word of encouragement if your brain can't say something positive. You will never convince a child in your life. Fool

As if it's going to work, you that conceived can't even do the needful for her

Perfectman91:
I'm giving you the curses you and your generation deserves for stirring things up, you say invisible daughter?? Didn't I agree to drop my number for a video call showing myself and daughter?? Motherfucker like you!!

Shame on you

Perfectman91:
Hello family, trust you all are staying well. Today is my daughter's birthday and I would love to get her a cake but I'm really broke as I lost my job since July due to the covid thing.

I'm pleading with anyone to send her a cake and make her day or if you would want to send money for it, that would be good as well. Please
0209376639 GTB, you can also request my WhatsApp number if you need proof. Thanks everyone

You lost shame honestly

So getting cake for your invisible daughter is your greatest challenge at the moment

No wonder you are stagnant in life

Flolovtri:
Good afternoon everyone

I just hope you'll will understand this issue and advise me properly because I don tire

My mum does not talk or hear. She owns a small shop where she sells biscuits,soap,sweets. Now there's an Igbo woman opposite her who sells food stuffs but recently started selling most of the things my mum sells. Sincerely I have no problem with it because my mum is also a civil servant so if my mum is not around the woman can sell,i no fit talk say make she no sell because my mama dey sell


But my mum was upset because there are some things my mum won't sell if her neighbor sells it too but I had to explain to her to just leave the matter.

Now,my mum did a mistake,when most of her customer comes to make hair(yes,my mum is an hairdresser too) she'd start telling them that eh,the other woman is selling what she's selling,my mum will tell her customers out of trust not knowing that some of them will go back to the other woman and tell her what my mum said(it's disheartening really)

Sometimes people who use to buy things from us will suddenly stop especially the small children because it's easy for her to manipulate them, when they buy from she'll tell them to hid it from my mum and I don't know why because my mum won't do anything even if you don't buy from her and telling them to hid what they bought from her will look somehow,like my mum will beat them

I don't know what this other woman tell to other people that'll make them stop buying from my mum. I'm not trying to paint my mum all good me too I've told her that telling other people that the other woman sells what she's selling will only give growth to gossips

I've told my mum,what is yours won't pass you by,don't just gossip about anybody. All those neighbor that'll come to ask you what's going on just want something to gossip about,them no go solve your problem.

Advise because I have nothing against the other woman I just hate the fact that she tells people things that are not true.

Pls clarify this statement where you say your mum does not talk or hear in the first paragraph

Teach your mum how to mind her business and stop any side talk if not she will ruin her business herself because some one is already competing with her

Women have always been their own enemies

Boldz:
Good evening all , I created this account because I desperately need advice from you guys.

My wife and I got married 6 years ago we both had children from a previous relationship , my daughter is 10 years old and my step daughter is 17 years it’s not that my wife is older than me but she just had her daughter when she was still in school which the father denied the pregnancy. I was married before but I lost my wife wife during the childbirth of our second child both mother and son didn’t survived, loosing my wife and baby was very hard for me I suffered from depression and blood pressure which I am on medications till now , I didn’t want to remarry but my family had pressured me to remarry so I can bear more children.

I met my wife 2 years after the death of my wife I knew her because she was working in a restaurant just closer to my workplace I was a regular customer , she told me about her child and I have accepted like my own child even before we got married I use to pay her school fee and buying her clothes just like a father can do for his daughter. My wife and I courted for 2 years we got married both traditional and church wedding and we are blessed with four beautiful children 2 boys and 2 girls.

My wife loves my daughter a lot just the same way I do love her daughter I take care of her I am paying her school fees , I buy her clothes , I sub her phone every week and I give her pocket money but I
Noticed that she doesn’t like my daughter she keep beating her even in my presence I have noticed how she talks to my daughter as if she is not a part of the family and my wife doesn’t scold her in fact she will blame my daughter for making her daughter angry and when I caution her my wife thinks I am harsh on her . I don’t flog her anymore but I do punish her by taking her phone away the last time I took her phone and keep
it for a month because of the same problem of her beating and being rude to my daughter but my wife was not happy but I didn’t care because I can watch my daughter being abuse in her own father house so I cautioned my step daughter.

I have been away since April I couldn’t come home because of the lockdown so I only return back 2 weeks ago , only to find her right eye was swollen , I asked my daughter what had happened to her she kept mute so I asked my wife she said she hit her head while they were playing and she said she had taken her to the hospital
And there’s nothing to worry about. The next day I was home playing with my children and was asking them how they been while I was away and just normal chats with the kids and my 5 years old son told me everything was bad because their big sister had been treating my daughter bad to the extend of punching her on her face so this swollen on her face was due to her punching her but my wife lied to me

So I called my step daughter since she was at home asking her why did she pinched her sister for and she told me my daughter insulted her and she has reported to my wife and she told her to beat her but I knew she was lying about the part that my daughter insulted her because my daughter doesn’t even insult in fact all my children knows that is not good to insult themselves including elders , so I asked my daughter my daughter said she didn’t insult her but it was my step daughter who was insulting her including her dead mother so my daughter gave her a dirty looks which made my step daughter to start hitting her even taught step daughter was trying to deny everything but I become angry and I had my belt next to me which I flogged her and took away her phone and have decided not to give her back anymore.

When my wife returned she got angry why did I flogged her daughter that my daughter is becoming very stubborn that her daughter as her older sister has the right to beat her we had quarrelled exchanging harsh words I told my wife her bastard of daughter has no right to insult my dead wife at least my daughter knows her mother is on the graveyard and what about her a bastard who doesn’t know where her sperm donor stays but she thinks she have the right to abuse my daughter in her own father house and I told her she will not longer stay in my house that she has to leave by next month and my wife said if her daughter leaves the same apply to my daughter too they should both stay or if her daughter leaves and my daughter stay she will show her hell

I reported her to her parents which her parents had agreed for her daughter to go and stay with her which she left yesterday being Sunday and my wife has given me the option to send my daughter to my parents in the village or to my sister in
Port harcourt or she will leave with the children . Have told her she is free to leave alone without my children but she is still threatening to leave when I am away from home last night we didn’t sleep she fought me all night saying my daughter must leave I almost hit her but I thank God I didn’t do it because it’s not my nature . Today she has started again but I have been ignoring her and if she continue I will arrest her and send her out of my house. How do I deal with her please

I appreciate your patience for not hitting her all these while

Your wife is the major problem here not your step daughter or your daughter

She failed to address her your step daughter and she is even defiantly behaving like an agent of destruction

Whatever comes to your mind, you can do it, if she wants to leave let her leave and if she insist on leqviwith the children let her go, you will still visit them wherever they are, I know it won't be easy but what else

As for your daughter, she must remain in that house and it's time you make it clearer to your wife that, your daughter was the reason you married her to ha e a mother figure for her

As for your step daughter, until she apologizes, let her remain wherever she is and can come for short visits

With time the people she is staying with will see the stupidity in her

GraduatesGrant:
Good day Nairaland. Please I need mother's with experience to advise me. I'm a young man, my baby would be 9monts old tomorrow. She has been feeding on GERBER AND APTAMI. Although she eats our own food in little quantity whenever we are eating
I noticed the the GERBER is in stages, we've been getting her the supported seater stage and she started walking last week. I usually get these food at JUSTRITE supermarket. But I saw online the particular one she ought to be taking at her age for 8+months which is quite small in size and the price is #2300 from online store, whereas I was buying the other supported seater stage for #2780( she takes this within 5 to 7 days depending on her appetite) which is like twice the size of the one for #2300.

Please I need your advice, the food is very good and nutritious because I can see it in her physical and mental development, but is there any other good food food her age. Experience mother's please help me Biko. This is my first baby. I intend going to other supermarket but the ongoing EndSars Protest halt my movement. Your advice would be much appreciated.

Thanks

At the present age of your child, that child can eat anything cooked food so start early and save money for other things
. But if you think you have the money then keep giving in

Every child will develop by nature unless there is a medical condition

thesilentman:
This Lady has been with me when the going was tough.She is beautiful and all that jazz.She's got nice pussy too,plump and bootylicious.Its not my fault.She keeps a circle of friends that are all trying to lock legs with me.Sometimes I Come back from work to find one or two of her friends lying in our bed.They all like my company like mad.
Hmmm,the temptation is too much.I finally decided to taste those pussies for once so i can concentrate on my wifey.I hope am not doing anything bad?
Happy Sunday!

Once you start you will continue

Set a limit, be a man and stop this Mr Nice guy attitude of yours

You are the one tempting and attracting them

SaveMeLord:
I am very angry right now, I hear ladies complain about having issues with their mother but rarely do I see guys make complaints about their mothers. Please guys/men let me know if you have mothers that never supports you, constantly wants to tell you that you are stupid, never wishes you well (it's easy to know when someone has your best interest at heart) like one time I performed very well in an exam all she could say was "If you like score 1 million you will see".

This woman is a professional nagger Infact I'm still angry at my dad for making this kind of choice. How will one open his eyes and make that kind of choice. This so called mother of mine always want to sabotage whatever will move me forward in life, anyone that wants to help me she'll start discouraging such person from rendering any form of help as in she'll subtly convince the person that I'll ruin the project. Always projecting negativity towards me. No single encouragement, If mistakenly she gives one word of encouragement it is followed by a barrage of destructive criticism.

If I die today I'm very sure that this woman would not shed a tear. Mind you that she is a church person, praying out loud in the mornings but her heart harbours a pile of bitterness. How would one be telling her son in his early twenties and still a student that his mate has houses citing internet fraudsters as examples. why kind of hypocrisy Christianity is that? what happened to 1 John 2:15-16.

I'm always the prime target maybe because I don't engage in vices like her other sons. Because I read somewhere that women love bad men, the one they can fix not the one that is disciplined and has ethics and morals. Can this be why? I'm I persecuted for that.

She has made me not want to have anything to do with women/ladies in general. I have vowed to jettison marriage, it's not worth it at all. After passing all through this emotional torture from a mother then I will use my money later on in life to marry a wife that will continue from where she stopped? God forbid.

So anyone with abusive/spiteful mothers here? how do you cope?

I will advise you to relax and be focused

Gather the stone your mum is throwing at you and use it to build your house (future)

Keep such rules to yourself and stop deceiving people

That you are sad doesn't mean every one is sad

You need to work on your state of psychology before it gets beyond this point

May you get what you wish for yourself base on my observation in your write up

This is so dis heartening

My heart bleeds after reading this barbaric act

What a horror

Monchadam:
Hi.

My friend died around June this year and she was buried quickly. Before that, we were close pals, we weren't dating, but she was my friend, and I loved her, she loved me too. When I went through hard times she was with me. In her absence and in her presence, she sent me messages daily on how I should own the day and make it fruitful, we created memories together.

Even in my anger, she would hold me in silence, I've never experienced that kind of love from anyone, never before.

I honestly would have married her, when the time was right, I'm sure of that. The purest soul I've met.
She shared everything with me, as I did with her. And always wanted to know what went through my mind.

To the problems she couldn't solve, she held me and stayed silent.

I'm still broken till date, I cant move on, I just cant.
I still call her number to see if it would go.

How do I move on guys? It still hurts, that the only person who really loved and cared decided to leave this world.

I need your advice on how to move on. Thank you

Sorry for the loose, but you have to move on before you dip your neck

I don't even know when they took him alive instead of killing him immediately ma

Alexgman1:
You happen to have a well paid job where you earn close to #200,000 monthly but your boss is always angry, abusive, disrespectful, proud, impatient & provoking personality.
Will you endure and continue working for him and flexing ur fat salary every month or you will quit if you cant take it any longer?

You are expected to endure and learn from what makes him be in a steady crazy mode, avoiding the things while making your money

MoonWater:
haba now this is too much. don't trouble the guy if you have no intention to help him. have a sense of self-respect and empathy for once.

Alright, I withdraw my propose help, he is not the first am sending money to in this forum and he won't be the last it's my money that is involve and those that knows me here, knows that I Frozen70 normally ask questions

You can continue from where I stop

Saamu1020:
Am sorry i couldn't reply since ma, I ave no data on my phone, am borrowing someone's phone now so i can check for updates. I ave no family to run to ma and dats y am begging for help on here, I also avent collect d dentist card as i av to pay bfor they can issue card for ma. I'll upload d bad tooth now, I hope u can help me cos d pain is back again!

I have seen the bad teeth but you said you have been to private and public hospital, what about the hospital cards

okpalaAnambra:
I have noticed in some families(Not all) that when a male member of the family decides to settle down in marriage some of the family members esp the females or even the males will get angry like he's doing anything wrong to them.. Some say is selfishness from the brothers and sisters side.. But ironically if a female in the family is getting married they all get excited about it.. Why the double standard?
Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique front page

I think they feel if he marries, he will not have their time and attention, yet they still want him to get married and settle down

Lekside230:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I'm actually here for your advice about my relationship... I won't call it a relationship anymore though...please don't mind my grammars as some might be bad.....,so it happens this way...she actually called me on Monday and tell me she has something very important to tell me...i asked what's that about?she said she actually need 15k that someone she borrowed money from is disturbing her and she had to pay it, it was true though..,because i know about the issue...she said she is going to borrow the 15k from her dad and pay it and so when I try to give her the money she will replace it....I only said i will try... Because i myself I'm not too financially okay myself.... So yesterday..I actually had some issue going on with me....I was actually scammed yesterday and this guy switched off and not even coming online again.....so it all got me so worried..,so she chatted me up yesterday afternoon around 2pm...I greeted her normally..I said I'm not just fine that I'm kind of depressed..all she could say is OK..,I said is that what she's supposed to say...she said is she a witch that she'd know what's happening to me....that's how it all began....that that's how i do if I don't want to do something...that I want to use it as an excuse...start calling me different kind of names whereby her friends was even there with her...no respect... I'm a broke ass nigga..I'm very poor..I should go and tell my friends and my mum that she said i am broke.. Cuz that what i am...she just Start calling me different kind of bad names....she said her mom help me borrow some money that I couldn't pay back..I told her I'm going to pay back..she just start saying different kind of abusive words at me that village people are really following me...so that's how she said it's over between us....and i said so shall it be.... Because if we have a little disagreement she'd start talking about break up....and I'd be the one to apologize....so I just have to made up my mind last night and just make it finally come true...I actually sent her 4k on Wednesday and she never ask me before i did.
so i just have to block her number last night and block her on WhatsApp after telling her it's over between us cuz i can't cope with a disrespectful girlfriend even where her friend is...but what happen is as have blocked her everywhere.... I'm not just comfortable... I couldn't really sleep tonight cuz I was just thinking about everything.... I already prayed on her name in several places and they all saying she's good....but I don't just understand this...it's hard to forget though.... so to cut the long story short..she later apologized on whatsapp and ask for the 15k immediately..but i won't count that as an apology..i just need an advice on how i can just forget this girl....cuz my mind is just soo troubled that I can't really sleep....thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers...some screenshots will be attached...once again no insults... Thank you all in advance.

I will like you to apply some sense of maturity when dealing with women

Blocking her line is as good as staying away from your own world, next time don't block, it hurts you more than the person you are blocking

If you can be man enough, while dating her, don't give her money and don't ask her for sex let's see how this formula will work for the next 2/3 months

Lekside230:
Good morning nairalanders..how was your night?I'm actually here for your advice about my relationship... I won't call it a relationship anymore though...please don't mind my grammars as some might be bad.....,so it happens this way...she actually called me on Monday and tell me she has something very important to tell me...i asked what's that about?she said she actually need 15k that someone she borrowed money from is disturbing her and she had to pay it, it was true though..,because i know about the issue...she said she is going to borrow the 15k from her dad and pay it and so when I try to give her the money she will replace it....I only said i will try... Because i myself I'm not too financially okay myself.... So yesterday..I actually had some issue going on with me....I was actually scammed yesterday and this guy switched off and not even coming online again.....so it all got me so worried..,so she chatted me up yesterday afternoon around 2pm...I greeted her normally..I said I'm not just fine that I'm kind of depressed..all she could say is OK..,I said is that what she's supposed to say...she said is she a witch that she'd know what's happening to me....that's how it all began....that that's how i do if I don't want to do something...that I want to use it as an excuse...start calling me different kind of names whereby her friends was even there with her...no respect... I'm a broke ass nigga..I'm very poor..I should go and tell my friends and my mum that she said i am broke.. Cuz that what i am...she just Start calling me different kind of bad names....she said her mom help me borrow some money that I couldn't pay back..I told her I'm going to pay back..she just start saying different kind of abusive words at me that village people are really following me...so that's how she said it's over between us....and i said so shall it be.... Because if we have a little disagreement she'd start talking about break up....and I'd be the one to apologize....so I just have to made up my mind last night and just make it finally come true...I actually sent her 4k on Wednesday and she never ask me before i did.
so i just have to block her number last night and block her on WhatsApp after telling her it's over between us cuz i can't cope with a disrespectful girlfriend even where her friend is...but what happen is as have blocked her everywhere.... I'm not just comfortable... I couldn't really sleep tonight cuz I was just thinking about everything.... I already prayed on her name in several places and they all saying she's good....but I don't just understand this...it's hard to forget though.... so to cut the long story short..she later apologized on whatsapp and ask for the 15k immediately..but i won't count that as an apology..i just need an advice on how i can just forget this girl....cuz my mind is just soo troubled that I can't really sleep....thank you all for your candid advice and please no insults about my bad grammers...some screenshots will be attached...once again no insults... Thank you all in advance.

I will like you to apply some sense of maturity when dealing with women

Blocking her line is as good as staying away from your own world, next time don't block, it hurts you more than the person you are blocking

If you can be man enough, while dating her, don't give her money and don't ask her for sex let's see how this formula will work for the next 2/3 months

mastertek:
WIFE Wanted - If You Fit in this shoe, come in

I have always seen a lot of thread here on couple who met on this forum and tied the knot, i don't want to do this because of so many immature kids that troll on this forum, and they don't really understand what life is.

I just want to try my luck also because i am just tired of looking for lady to marry, all my effort was to no avail and I am sure they are ladies out there experience same-thing with me

I am not a perfect type, not strict, not judgmental, not stingy, not rich, not ugly, not deceitful, not irresponsible, not hateful, but just unlucky in my relationship life. An adage said “those who have head did not have cap, and those who have cap did not have head”.

Please, I am not one of guys that troll here, I am just here to try my luck, since I used to see lots of thread of couple that met here.
I am a young guy of age of 30+, I am from southwest, Yoruba by tribe, I reside in Lagos, graduate, I work in technology company and have registered business of my own, I am 5.75 feet & robust.

 I am looking for serious lady between the age of 22 – 32 with good character, non-troublesome, not-deceitful,
 Must ready to settle down within 6 months or more.
 Religious or tribe doesn’t matter as I believe in true love.
 Must have work of her own, even if it’s practical handwork
 Must believe in family and ready to build relationship together with me.

Please, I am just here for this purpose, and I may not have time to be here always to answer question, you can call/flash/sms/whatsapp me, let’s communicate to see if things can work out. A thousands of mile journey started with a step, your call, flash/sms/whatsapp may be the step.
Please, if you are not fit in this shoe, you can recommend your sister, friends, cousin, etc. I am anticipating your contact. 0-7-0-6-2-8-3-1-7-7-4

0-7-0-6-2-8-3-1-7-7-4

Regards

I wish you good luck

Preciousjewel01:
NO LOVE IN MY HOME (Advice pls)

My name is precious( wrong name). Opened this acct to go strictly anonymous. All kinda comments are accepted, good or bad. All I need is great advice pls. This is gonna be a little long story but pls bear with me.

I was born and raised in port Harcourt but moved down to Kano 2013. My dad is never home 'cause he works in the USA. So, believe me when I say I hardly know my dad. Comes home once a year sometimes once in 2 years. So, it's been just my mom all along. He's the very protective type not minding the fact he's never home. Especially since I'm his only daughter. Thing is I've never had my freedom, always indoors 24/7. Childhood memories are also boring asf, just the ones from school that's all.
Being in the USA, my dad is the type that loves to flex and chill a lot. Gets me nice clothes and all that. When we moved to Kano, he decided to open a clothing business for my mom with the capital of 4M. He agreed and had it done.

Along the way, they began to have issues 'cause my dad kept claiming he's the owner of the shop and wants all sales made to go to his own acct. My mum disagreed 'cause she was like even a sales girl gets her own salary. The agreement they made was that she's gonna send the money from whatever sales to his account while he pays her monthly for looking after the shop and selling the materials. Not minding the fact she's his wife o. They ran that way for months till my dad stopped paying her. She complained about it 'cause this man doesn't give her own personal allowance even as his wife. The shop was closed down for months.

He finally came back to Nigeria, my mom got pregnant but lost the baby to miscarriage. Just a month after, my dad married another wife. Even me as his daughter kept pleading on whatever issues they have and to resolve it but no. It was as if he was under voodoo. My dad is 50 and the lady he married is just 23.His first son is 25,imagine.

I asked my dad why he did all that but he told me was that my mom is proving stubborn. Fine, so thing is his family were super happy he got married to another 'cause he finally married their tribe. The young lady he married is igbo and my mom is Hausa. There's no single person from my dad's who likes my mom plainly because she's a muslim and not their tribe. We're Christians

In just one week of marriage, he already gave the new wife a car and also opened a shop for her. All this while, he stopped eating my mom's food. Claimed she should only prepare food for us her kids. And so it was
He travelled again after spending a good whole year at home with us (for the very first time) to stay with his new wife. When he got married to my mom,he got her pregnant and left the following month. So, he never stayed with my mom. But when he got married to this one, he stayed with her for a year.
He left again before the lock down while his new wife was pregnant. Before then, he was closed to divorcing my mom. That's just like some months after he got married to his new wife. My mum stood her ground that she's going no where so, my dad and one of his brothers went all the way to Jos to go talk to her parents. By the special grace of God, they didn't get divorced.

He travelled leaving my mom with no cash and no business. He never calls us, even we the kids. My mum collected goods on credit and is even currently planing to take a loan just so, she could feed her 4 kids. The other wife's business also fell. She finally gave birth to a baby girl and also always kept complaining that my dad never calls her. My mum would only laugh and tell her that's the way he is. The new wife would go to her parent's place to ask for cash sometimes be in tears and be like what kinda marriage is this? My dad only called my mom once ever since he left early this year just to inform her that his new wife had given birth and that was it. Today is October 10th,my dad never called my mom nor we the kids. He called once on sallah day ranting and asking why we the kids never called him. Someone that doesn't send us cash, abeg how are we gonna get money for airtime and all that. With the little money I could get, I'd always send a vn via WhatsApp to always check on my dad but he never replies but reads the msg. I stopped checking on him.

The new wife keeps complaining on how she's gonna live with her lil baby and still calls her bf secretly saying she's fed up with the marriage and would like to see his face. She claims the marriage was all a rush and never knew all that glitters wasn't gold.

We always have light issues 'cause we use a prepaid meter and we always gotta recharge. Since my dad doesn't send money home no one wants to buy including one of my eldest cousin who my dad asked to begin to stay with us as a watch on the house ever since he got married to his new wife 'cause then, both my mom and the new wife always beefed each other. But they all good now
So, once a while it's gonna be this my elder cousin to buy the Nepa bills. Though, my mom was buying ever since my dad travelled not minding that she wasn't receiving money. She was also feeding this 21 yr old cousin of mine all through but stopped when things got really hard.

We had water issues since we had no light. So, we went to the next compound to fetch water, immediately that night my dad called and had someone give us 36k to keep for the light bills just so he could save his name outside. My younger sister stopped school recently and attend a home library Islamic school which one of my uncle's own. Since it's family related, it's gonna be easy for her to sort.

I've cried to my dad, kissed him a mil times, told him how much I love him but no, he listens to no one.He just neglects us, I'm so fed up and feel for my mum every day. What do I do to bring back love to my family as a their child? I need advice pls

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Just leave him and focus on your self and your mum a time will come and he will look for you people then you guys will pay him in his own coins

shekwon:
Hello Nairalanders, Please pardon my writing style.

I am in a fix between getting renting a house or investing in a transport business; the story in details.

I am a young man based in Abuja with my wife. Sometime in August, we had to move out of the house we rented because of constant flood, we were scared because the water current was becoming heavier, a part of the house is falling apart and our landlord wasn't ready to refund part.

Last month we had to move to a serviced apartment where we were charged N50,000 per month, all because we needed a place to stay and for sanity.

I work with a renowned company in Abuja and with my position i am entitled to a housing allowance which will be paid to me by November.
1. So now the bone of contention is this, a client paid me some money so I thought either renting a self contain apartment for now then move out to a bigger place by December or January because my wife will be due between Jan/Feb and her mum will be coming for omugwu and all with the hope of getting a refund.
2. I was thinking of getting a tricycle which will give me at least a return of N40,000 monthly based on findings and feasibilities, then i will use it to foot my serviced apartment bill and still get to enjoy the full returns.

Please people i need a good advice on how to go. Thanks

If you can trust the keke would be ridder go if you can't trust him get an apartment once and for all

As a family man, getting apartment where you will stay for long is better for your family so that you can settle down properly especially as the children are on the way

Saamu1020:
Someone should help ease my pain please.

Does it mean your family who will see the bad Denton live won't help you or you just don't want to go to them

Anyway let me see the decaying teeth in your mouth and let me see the hospital card from public hospital to private hospital

Scarmmers are too much, I do request for prove of claim before I help anyone

Englishisamust:
I'm 21 years old, I have a very big problem I can talk to any girl in this life but when it come to my crush that fear will just come and my body will start shaking, have had three crushes because of the fear in my heart I end up not talking to them I try every way to solve this it doesn't work . And I also suffer from ability to greet a girl at a crowdy place I suffer from this too infact have lose lot of friends which are girls. Right now I'm fucking lonely and am crying right now I don't know whether God use this to punish me or help I'm fed up what is the peaceful way to die? Even a simp is still better than me.

So of all your boldness you can't toast a girl, alright since you are not really strong or man enough, start with local champions let's see if you can break the jinx

Unless you are still a Virgin, if so, the face your future before they distract you

hafsatadebisi:
More what please?

More are of what you take pleasure in

hafsatadebisi:
Like seriously, I don't know. I'm just sick and tired of everything.

More are still coming

hafsatadebisi:
I'm for real. I'm not lying. Why will I? Besides, you can comfirm. If you're in Abj, you can comfirm all these things that I'm saying. I'm not lying please.

Wether you are lying or saying the truth, you are under the sun and God knows everything about you and your future appeal

How come you are always in distress directly or indirectly

SirWhiteFish:
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this guy is back with his phoney stories

Just leave him to keep deflating himself until he has no air in him

fineboynl:
I refilled my gas from another gas station as people use to queue in this station maybe because it's closer. but I prefer the other side because there is more standard and with latest equipment, but I decided to fill it on this station as don't want to stress the dropper because he doesn't know there.. unlike where I use to go refilled it before as this happened to be my first time refilling it from this place. the gas has low pressure fire. the first time I light it I notice it at once.

unlike from where I use to fill it. you will see the fire pressure with forced even when you low it, it will refuse to low. but I don't understand while this one pressure is fucking low.

is this another type of cooking gas?

Different stations get gas refill from different trucks, it could be the tank is dirty or whatever but I don't think you have to go back their again, it Could be adulterated who knows