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april2018:
Mumu op. Simps and weaklings everywhere. Tueh.. take am there

That's not a good one, you don't know what he is passing through

BLUELemon:
maybe it's time to say goodbye. I have seen people share love, care, kindness and all. But I have witnessed more trolling and hate.

Maybe it's time to say goodbye

You better don't commit suicide, many have gone and put their families in pains yet they rot in hell

So what's the point

If you are not happy for the way things are

Then don't put your family into lose, especially your mother pls don't make her get mad

Emirofmakurdi:
Good morning nairalanders..
Please which advice would you advice a brother that just turned 20 years??

Be focused in life because at this age so many things will distract you which will eventually derail you

Further your education even if you don't have plans with the certificate, getting the knowledge makes you more relevant

Respect people and hook up with your mentors for future learning

The beautiful ones are not yet born so don't get carried away by the ones you see

Be prudent and be economical with the little you have, form the habit of savings and spend wisely

Life is a race, where everyone in on his own lane and must not swave Lane

OluwaLina1:
Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.
Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment,even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.
Is my sister doing the right thing?

Well to me, it depends on the strength of their love

Cancelling the wedding because of family house is not really a good idea

She can't be a full time house wife, so she will be going out and coming back

The house the husband is talking about, has he bought land already or yet to think of that

But why can't they join hand and get even if its a room alternatively, if she has the money, let her rent a room let them start from there

I know that your sister's worries is because of family and inlaw wahala staying in a family house

And no matter how hot it gets, it doesn't burn her husband but her

Anyway like I said, it depends on the weight of their love

Don't be surprise the guy is up to something, if by now he hasn't budgeted for land talk more of building it

jmdw02:
please i used to do my normal early morning workouts which include 100 squats ,seat up, and kegel just to keep fit.

but the problem now is it increases my sex drive and i have someone that i can call when konji hook me but i dont want to waste money because i will have to give her a token...

so guys should i reduce the daily work out because immediately i finished them i can see my dick getting hard and strong

You are building every part of your body

As for the hard on, why not have a girl friend that will make it work out for you

I mean a girl that knows what you are to her

LeeSantos:
there's no common sense in this nonsense you have written.

There is sense in it, the issue here is that his sex drive increased

Meaning the exercise is really working on him

jmdw02:
please i used to do my normal early morning workouts which include 100 squats ,seat up, and kegel just to keep fit.

but the problem now is it increases my sex drive and i have someone that i can call when konji hook me but i dont want to waste money because i will have to give her a token...

so guys should i reduce the daily work out because immediately i finished them i can see my dick getting hard and strong

You mean you give her a token after every fun, haba is that how you program the relationship

stephenduru:
A Cameroonian man has married two women in Douala. The man was pictured smiling at the wedding which was attended by family and friends.

One word for the man

cc; Lalasticlala, mynd44

Source:. http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2020/08/man-weds-two-women-in-cameroonphotos.html?m=1

That man must have mastered the skill of keeping a woman

zacckid23:
That's true ,
There is is saying that a good women is best known when the man has nothing and a good man us best known when he becomes rich and wealthy.

True talk

How functional is this truck and what's your best offer

Ades2021:
What are the remedies to marriage failure?
Marriage is a legal union of a man and a woman as a couple .Many people have married for many years but they still lock horns together on minor or major issues .How can divorce be minimized in our society ? Thanks

Love with understanding is what keeps marriage going

Alexgman1:
A female friend & co-worker of mine recently opened up to me as a nymphomaniac! She cant do without hard sex for a week even when on her period. How can i help her or what must she do to over-come this unquenchable & persistent sexual urge? The worse thing is, she doesnt even like church or reading the bible. Once the urge comes any good looking & matured guy can take advantage of her.

She will definitely get tired of it in one way or the other, unless she is under a curse

Onyeigbo10000:
As a young Nigerian who came from a very poor background, life has not been that easy for me right from my secondary school days till I graduated from the University. I remember how I ride okada during holidays to support myself in the University knowing fully well that my parents can't provide all I need in campus. I graduated since 2017 but didn't want to avail myself for the compulsory nysc program because I wanted to raise money for business via the okada business before going for Nysc. So I was in this okada business for two years after graduation and manage to save 700k .When I had the cash in my account, i decided to buy Suzuki mini bus for transport business atleast to upgrade, so I borrowed about 200k from a friend plus my 700k and got myself a foreign used mini bus. Just yesterday as was driving I didn't know that oil is licking from the oil pump pipe which caused the engine to knocked down, we towed it to my mechanic workshop,the mechanic checked the engine and said that both the engine block and crankshaft have damaged. When he told me that I nearly fainted because I'm yet to balance my friend the 200k he lend me not talk of money to buy a new engine because that is just the best solution now than repairing the damaged one. As I'm typing this now I'm highly frustrated and confused and don't know what to do. Life is not that fair to me despite my efforts.

Brace up yourself, you are struggling to stand as a man and that's what goes with it

Nothing in particular is wrong with you

Assuming your parents did the purchase for you, you won't feel it so because you did not sweat for it

But in this case you are the only one struggling to meet up

Look for where to borrow money to get another one and this time, study the use of that bus and understand how to check vehicles

That issue didn't just happen, it must have been giving you signal but you ignored it

Gjrich:
A lady has sparked mixed reactions on social media after she shared a video where she talked about her desires in a man.


According to the lady, her legs spread out very fast when she sees a very rich guy who has a car of his own. She said she has no dealings with poor guys and a single look at a car key will definitely turn her on.

Speaking further, she expressed her desire to finally meet the man of her dreams and tie the knot with him.

“My legs, they spread out so fast, especially when I see a car key. I hope I’m going to find that man”, she said.

That's her business

She can expand it to be like express road so that she can accommodate more cars and keys

zacckid23:
Hello nairalanders,
Please why is it that young and older women who are always with a man while hustling and praying for the man to become successful and after the man becomes successful they still envy him at the same time.
Please note : note all of them envy their successful husband..but in a way that they doubt if he is still faithful to them, thereby watching and spying on all his moves,travels,activities and phone calls...
Please is it proper?

When a man is rich, that's when you will see all sorts of naughty and nasty behaviour in him, especially on women

jeffmatt4u:
Admin please move this to front page as it concerns someone's happiness.

My good people of NL, my question is simple.

A single father married a single mother, now the single father had a son before he married the single mother; likewise the woman had a daughter before the marriage.

The question is, can the son of the man and the daughter of the woman marry themselves?

Reasonable answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks

If they don't have any blood relationship of which I know that they ate not blood relations

It can work but it has to be looked at from the traditional background

AJ01:
My girlfriend wants to know my account balance and I don't feel comfortable with it. She's a wonderful person and I trust her.

Have you ever experience something like this, if yes please share

She has her reasons

Then it depends on how close both if you are to each other

It depends of your free minds with each other

If she is proudent and not the expensive type, probably she wants to kid you have been making savings

Well it depends on the strength of your relationship

SeunDobo:
I have a lady that stay in my compound and I have strong feeling for her , she's quite beautiful and cool so one afternoon I walk up to her and collected her number and I call her following week when I get to work ,I normally goto work and come back every weekend, she picked the call and i explain how I feel about her and she's didn't say anything and she cut the call .. I didn't bother anymore to call so when I get back home from work ,I call her and asked why she cut the call on me may be she's angry with me and she's said No thats she not angry I told her about about my feeling again and she's quickly excuse me that she was sent an errand and said we talk on phone , I call her same evening on phone but she was telling me that is gonna be hard and I quickly said if it's not possible she should let me know and she replied is not possible ..so since then I just dey my own , I bored her but she dey give me some kind attention , if I need something she go want help me with it ... sometime I dey charge my phone shake and na she dey trying to check it for me until my phone ... I dey confuse may be I should still dey disturb her about dating me or leave her alone please help me .. insult is allow ��

Be friendly with her and give her time

funsho01:
i always wondered why it was hard getting turned on or how painful it felt trying to masturbate. My mother never told me she mutilated my genitals. I'm a female for crying out loud, why would she do this to me? I was born 1996 i mean then female mutilation wasn't so rampant. Sex is painful, I've never enjoyed anything sexual asides nipple orgasms.
I don't even know how to react, i thought something spiritual was wrong with me. I thought my village people were after me. I've had so many breakups because i don't move or feel any sensation when tuned on.

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Guys please help me, what can i do? i need to speak with someone, a therapist maybe because i'm sincerely loosing my mind. i hate what my mother did to me, the pain is too much. How i wish she never told me. I just wish.

You need to fall in love with a man that will show you how sweet love is made

He has to be very patient with you to make you feel it

You have to love him deeply and same with you, It's must be a competing love between both of you

Do this let's see how it works

ProudNg:
It hurts me a lot as the woman I stays with and my supposed aunty belittles me a lot. It makes me depress while wondering when this kind of life will end.

Before now, I was a very bold guy, who always steps up his game among his friends but as a result of staying with this woman, I am now an introvert, who can't let a day go by without necessarily thinking about how my life is different from others.

Before now and while in the village, among my friends, I am usually considered one of the cutest but as a result of staying with this woman, he spoke so much about me not being a fine boy and now, I have no option but to see myself as not being a fine boy.

She always remind me of my height. I am not that tall (5 feet 4Inches or something). As such, he keeps reminding of how am not a man enough and won't be able to marry a beautiful girl even though I currently date one of the most beautiful girl ever (She is almost same height with me). He keeps telling me that his children will be taller than me and as such, the children even call me "shortman" and keeps assuming with me. A younger relative of about 19years, who is taller than me visited and her younger son of about 8years was telling me, the guy who visited can beat me. That is how they belittle me base on my height in this house. The funny thing is that the woman in question is a midget where I am but due to the fact that women's height is not that a big deal, she feels she can belittle me.

Anyways, I have tried to get over the height and fine boy thing and accept myself just the way, God created me but I still get hurt with one attitude of hers towards me:

When serving food, she will serve me, who is 23years as if I am his 7years old boy. He will serve my food and meat little and do reverse for his children. I notice when she calls me to come get my food, that is when she starts complaining about how "there are only bones in the soup or stew" and when she does this, I know definitely, she was serving me a bone for that moment while the children will have meat. even if she serves me meat, you can never compare mine to that of her small kids.

Many of you won't understand but I get hurt a lot. Please, is this just normal stuffs with staying with someone, who is not your mother.

I can see that you over rated yourself that's why she is bringing you down

What exactly are you doing staying with her

GboyegaD:
Aunty, don't let's detail someone else's post trying to prove points. You don't know me and you are concluding on my martial status. Continue, you hear..

Then let's end the it before it gets out of hand

GboyegaD:
You lied on this. No human owes the other that duty and it is about commitment. Stop trying to resort to blackmailing the male folks.

Like I said, until you marry

Priam:
Sighs

And nobody is calling the woman to account and holding her responsible for cheating on her husband. If it were the other way round, all hail and brimstone would be let loose on the man's head.

The duty of a man is to make sure his woman doesn't need another man

When you are matured enough you will understand the meaning of this

Rob2121:
This is what is happening to me presently,

I have been married for about 8 years. I live with my wife in Botswana, we are both Nigerians
My wife has a medical condition and we have no kids yet. We have consulted one of the best gynaecologist in the country and have done a few medical intervention but all failed. In a bid to generate more money, I ventured into a business which failed woefully and this has made our life difficult.
The financial tension causes friction and frequent disagreement between us. Whenever I try to correct my wife, I find it difficult as she questions me on what gives me the right that my opinion is the correct one. I will just give 2 instances,
There was a time we had another argument and we did not talk for 5 days, she called her father to buy her air ticket that she wants to come to Nigeria or otherwise it is her corpse that will be sent to them.
Another thing happened during an argument, I called her father and reported her to him. The father talked harshly to her. My wife told the father that if she dies it is my fault. While I was still on the phone with the father, she drank bleach and its only by God's grace that I discovered on time.
Now, my own parents already know that shes the one with medical condition which is causing delay with us having children and they are really giving me pressures.
I am really having a mid-life crisis, please what will you do in this situation?

The two of you need to come home, her parents need to talk to her

Mind you a childless woman is not a happy woman

As for your family, don't let them push you too far

Time will heal every thing

Though you didn't mention her medical condition

Worst case, if you want to remarry, try and assist for both of you to adopt a child

Even of you finally wants to remarry, she will have the adopted child to keep her happy

But still give her time and bring up the idea of adoption

If you are the one with medical conditions, she and her family will definitely wait for you

Hamilton1:
I want 2 be Fulani so i can Rule u dat is claiming intelligence

Go ahead

idibadadanme:
Most of her friends are either divorced, husband stays abroad and she’s living with another girl and yet to visit me is a huge task but she want me to marry her.

Help me please....I never intend to be this confused in my life

Are you guys already dating and doing the dating stuff

If yes then let her move into yours temporary if you are not comfortable with her living with other female

Or is there any other sign you are seeing in her

Where is your location pls and what's the best you can give

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Hamilton1:
Fulani tribe dat cant speak nor write correct English is Ruling us since 1960, u ar here telling me de best words 2 u

Are they related, simple correction you are bringing tribe
You want to be a fulani or you want to be a cow header

QuinieR:
Thanks for your reply,pls sis can I get the one below 50k..my budget is 50k

Just Google it and you will see their prices, you can also visit their show rooms
Which area are you

Hamilton1:
A 100L UNICAL Student Committed suicide few days ago after being Scammed of N100,000.
Bako Veronica, A 100L student in the department of History and international studies University of Calabar took her life by drinking Sniper.
From series of Reports and investigations, the deceased woke up yesterday morning using her facebook account, someone chatted her up and introduce her to an Online business/Investment that will give her double of Money in few Minutes, Veronica was persuaded to make some payments, she decided to make a transfer of N100,000 which happened to be her school fees which she was yet to pay before ASUU strike/Covid19 pandemic.
Later on, she discovered it was fake which made her Restless all over the day.
It was around 10:12am, her Sisters in the house noticed her abnormal behaviors that she wasn't fine, they asked and she said she was Okay, So her Mother said if she is really Okay, she should took a bike to the market and buy some items for her, She drafted the list, Veronica said she need to took her bath before going, on reaching the bathroom she took a bottle of Sniper, she began to struggle in the bathroom out of hurts she is perceiving.
While her Relatives were inside the room, she struggled and fell outside which attracted attentions of there Neighbors.
Later on, she was took to the Hospital were the doctor pronounce her Dead..





Lalastcala, Mynd44 FP pls,
She is my Coursemate

Too sad, RIP

Pls next time know when to mix present tense and past tense

All this took, took was not needed

sociologymajor:
What happened was that,



I had made an unusually huge supply to my very good customer (Iya A), anticipating large sales during the festive period. On a norms, i don't do more than 20crates of egg at a time but with the festive season, i i had expected increased demand, so i took 55crates, Iya A been my good client took 30 leaving 25 for me to sell. Even the 25, i have only been able to sell 13 pre and Post Ileya.



The problem now is that iya A lost her husband a day after ileya, this has left me completely devastated as she have not paid for d eggs she took. I have been to her house to commiserate with her but i don't know how to ask for the money. My Supplier does not want to hear anything, she has been calling, sending messages and now gave me a deadline of Monday evening.


I don't know if it is proper to go ask her for money now, its just a week since the ugly incident happened to her, i feel somehow..

N.B
Iya A also does supply, she takes from me on credit, den pay back in 2/3days time.. she has never defaulted any payment before this sad event..

Quite an unfortunate incident for her that has affected you

Still bring it to her notice and since she is a supplier, it's possible the people he supplied to are yet to pay her

Get the contacts of those people from her and hunt for your money