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RomanceRe: My Wife Accused Me Wrongly! by frozen70(f): 3:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Rogosa:
I listened to the audio recording of what transpired between them but the woman really took the matter off edge. After speaking with him, he told me he would go back but everything will change and that he would even start doing that that he was accused of. Also, he would stop paying all the debt she owned.

I dont know what I can tell him again ooo. I have tried my best to be a peace maker
If it's not in his nature to cheat, he will not cheat

He is hurt but then he shouldn't allow her to make him develop silly attitudes

Yes he can stop paying her bills let her face her bills her self and he can use the suposed money to do other better things

From the look of things, he is too gentle for her that's why she feels she is in control

Anyway they will sort themselves
RomanceRe: My Wife Accused Me Wrongly! by frozen70(f): 11:49am On Aug 06, 2020
She accused you and you are innocent

Then you are done with her

Do I need to teach you how to manage a woman ?

Alright, now that you are done, will you start with another woman or you will remain so

Anyway if truly you are innocent, you guys will make up and she will realise that you used the viagra on her
RomanceRe: Will I Ever Regain Myself Again? by frozen70(f): 10:58am On Aug 06, 2020
Suzyib:
hmmm am not sure dear
What you are going through is called accident accident trauma

You will come out of it and you will definitely smile again

Just be hopeful, at first it will seem as if it's the end but with a gladdened heart, you will be fine

You can't be there forever
RomanceRe: Is It Idea To Have Sex While A Year Old Baby Is Sleeping On The Same Bed by frozen70(f): 10:53am On Aug 06, 2020
Le124:
I was having a conversation with a friend and how he feels about about a couple having a sex when a toddler is sleeping on the same bed as the couple?
Is it moral or those it have a bad spiritual omen ,and I don't know if am guilty of of this same act if it's bad.
Because we go to work in the morning and come back late and the only time for intimacy is in the night. Except weekends. Is it even idea in the same room with the baby while sleeping.
The baby is fast asleep and doesn't even have any idea of what you both are doing

You can stop it as the child gets to two years because at that age, they mimic everything they see

If you are living in a room apartment, get a foam and let child sleeps in the floor close to the bed, he won't be able to see anything while lying in the floor at two years
FamilyRe: Is It Proper To Give Birth Just To Reap From Our Children In Future? by frozen70(f): 10:19am On Aug 06, 2020
lovdoc:
Should enjoying the fruit of our labour (just like we say) be our only priority as parents. Loving unconditionally is what I think should be the case, reaping from our children should be secondary.
What do you think about this?


Lalasticlala, RoyalRoy
No one gives birth to their children for the purpose of reaping them In the future

Give birth to them and help them to plan for their future

Less children less stress for you and them
FamilyRe: Waec Trouble With My Lil Sis by frozen70(f): 10:17am On Aug 06, 2020
Just like that, what provision does she need, is she not going from home

For four months school was off, are you not expected to plan for her waec resumption

Well, you haven't said anything yet about the kind of help you need for her

Worst case let her join the next set if your family can't help and you know what that means
FamilyRe: Am Tired Of My Greedy Family by frozen70(f): 10:12am On Aug 06, 2020
Godsown2000:
Am working my salary is 18000 monthly ... I give my parents 8000 monthly and d remaining money 4 my own needs toiletries, tp, lunch ... but my parents want more money from me ... they will ask to borrow 3000,5000 they don’t even care that I don’t have much left ... which they never paid back too... same as my siblings 2 are older Dan me ... my elder bro is very lazy he doesn’t want to hawk like his fellow mate but want me 2 take care of him with my money ... i have told my parents dat I don’t owe my bro anything if I refuse to give any of dem ... my parents will start abusing me ... reminding me about how I almost died when I was little and they had spent loads of money for my treatments... they will say things like I am stingy n they never appreciate what I give dem ... I received my last salary just few days back but as I am writing ... I have less than 2000 left with me ... because my parents had complains 8000 is not enough n they requested 12000 from me which I gave dem
... was left with 6000 n my brother asked me for 5000 which I refused to give him but my parents were angry with me n I had 2 give him 4000 ... I was in tears n angry dat I had quarrel with my parents .... I told dem one day I will leave for work and will never come back .... I am not in talking to any of dem ... I hate staying in this house with all dem ... they are very greedy n don’t want me to prosper in life... please I need your candid advice if the money that I am giving dem is small , am I overreacting ? Help me judge this matter before I ran mad
Honestly, you don't owe any members of your family because what you have isn't enough for you alone, meaning you are just standing with one leg and can't even help yourself

Justify your conscience to let your parents know that your salary is exactly 18,000 and ask them to come to your place I'd work to do their findings even behind you

After that please stop there

As for your elder brother, don't let him make you his meal ticket because you will be as invalid as he is

You don't have to allow him use his position on your or intimidate you

You don't owe him any explanation

Start saving those money you are giving him to get an accommodation for yourself

Stop giving him money, you are making his condition get worse

If you are sacked from your place of work, non of this people will look at your side to feed you free for one week

If you give your parents the #8000 that you normally give them, when next you are called for money, tell them that you don't have

Don't buy new things to there observations, they won't believe that you don't have

First sons are always loved by thier families and parents will always support them so don't fall to them

You don't have to insult your parents, politely tell them that you don't have

As a matter of fact, start telling them that because of corona they have slashed your salary by 40% and you were ask to leave the job or accept the slashed salary

That is what they want to hear and believe, so start telling them you don't have

If you continue to look at their faces, you will be pulled down
FamilyRe: Cancer Is Endangering The Life Of My Mother. Help!!! by frozen70(f): 9:57am On Aug 06, 2020
If you have any documents to show, pls post it here, if you can upload a video of you, your mum and you dad, pls do, if we can see you there and hear from your mum and dad, we will be ready to help, even if it means all the members of this forum to contribute #1000 each

People come here with false stories but putting pictures of you and the sick, with videos too will make people believe that you are in a distress

Forget about opening a new account to post this, we all know that you may be active and if you use your active account, someone here will make gest of it

So pls, we need to see the medical card, test results, your true face and mum true face

Put them on videos and upload I too will contribute
FamilyRe: Pls Help Me. I'm Going Into Depression by frozen70(f): 9:42am On Aug 06, 2020
Eby2004:
I'm loosing faith cry
Your Loosing faith simply means that you are giving up on God

Those who died in this pandemic, their family wished they survived but facing hard times

God knows your situation more than you do, get to him and he will speak to you

Don't ever lose hope in life, no matter the situations, families are not even helping matters

Put your trust in God and God will make a way
FamilyRe: Should We Let Our Children Experience Failure by frozen70(f): 9:37am On Aug 06, 2020
It's good for our children to experience life in n both ways

The good ones leads you to success and the bad life leads you to failure

In all, you must have something to learn from all sides

Being a street child, gives you a better chance to experience life and helps to model you to understands that life in colourful pictures are different from life in realities
CrimeRe: Fake Blind Woman Arrested In Ebonyi State (Photo) by frozen70(f): 8:55am On Aug 06, 2020
Kosiso12:
SHOCKING!!! Fake Blind Woman Arrested In Ebonyi State (Photo)

By Wisdom Nwedene, Abakaliki

A Fake blind woman has been apprehended in Abakaliki, Ebonyi State Capital.

IGBERE TV gathered that the fake blind woman was arrested by SA to Governor David Umahi of Ebonyi State on Mineral Resources & Environmental Management.

According to an eyewitness who shared the report to IGBERE TV correspondent, the woman who hails from Imo State always beg for "alms at Union Bank Junction in Abakaliki."

According to him," It's her usual practice to apply 'Rob' ointment on her eyes, her eyes responds to the stimuli, she keeps it shut while one of her little children leads her by the hand!"

"She reapplies the balm when its effect on her eyes seem to be waning".

As at the time of filing this report, the Governor's Aide has conveyed the woman to old Government house.

Source: https://igberetvnews.com/1360461/shocking-fake-blind-woman-arrested-ebonyi-state-photo/
You and I knows it's hunger

Give her money to trade

That's if she is willing to do something
AutosRe: Drop Your Car Requests HERE by frozen70(f): 8:27am On Aug 06, 2020
Virgohills:
please message me on Whatsapp. I don't know how to reach you
How do I get your WhatsApp number
AutosRe: Drop Your Car Requests HERE by frozen70(f): 11:44pm On Aug 05, 2020
Virgohills:
Hello people. Let me get u a car
I need a Toyota Rav4 2007/2008
Toks not red or white pls
Car TalkRe: Advert Of Girl Eating Banana: Audi Apologises by frozen70(f): 10:44pm On Aug 05, 2020
ExAngel007:
German carmaker Audi has apologised for an ‘insensitive’ advert showing a little girl leaning on the front of a high-performance car while she eats a banana.

https://www.tori.ng/userfiles/image/2020/aug/05/Audi.JPG

The advert, promoting the Audi RS 4 Avant, was posted on the company’s official Twitter account and attracted criticism from some social media users who described it as “sexually suggestive”, “strange” and “creepy”.

Critics also suggested the advert glorifies “dangerous driving” and shows a child at risk of being run over.

Audi said the advert was a “mistake”, tweeting that such mistake would not be made in future.

Their Twitter Statement Read;



“We hear you and let’s get this straight: We care for children. The Audi RS 4 is a family car with more than thirty driver assistance systems including an emergency break system. That’s why we showcased it with various family members for the campaign.

We hoped we could convey these messages, showing that even for the weakest traffic participants it is possible to relaxingly lean on the RS technology. That was a mistake! Audi never intended to hurt anyone’s feelings.

We sincerely apologize for this insensitive image and ensure that it will not be used in future.

We will also immediately examine internally, how this campaign has been created and if control mechanisms failed in this case. “


However, other social media users said they could not see what was “offensive” or “provocative” about the advert.

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@Holly__Storm: Right, so for all the banally, but thankfully morally minded people saying “you need yer head lookin at” if anyone sees this as wrong etc, there’s something called cultural conditioning. You see it with things which seems mildly offensive or inappropriate, but are overlooked a

@FoxxysTweets: The problem is not with the advert or a girl eating a banana, its the friggin sickos who see a young girl eating a banana and their minds go to sex.

@DipBrig11: Apologised? How the hell us this ‘sensitive? It’s a child eating a banana. What sickos see anything else??

@Calvinroche1: I’m offended by this…how dare people not be offended by this content…utterly disgraceful…Audi should be liquidated for this behaviour


https://mobile.twitter.com/AudiOfficial/status/1290242181148618752?p=v[/quote]As if the girl knew what she was even doing
TravelRe: I Want To Change My Surname, Will It Affect Me In Any Way (travel Wise) by frozen70(f): 6:42pm On Aug 05, 2020
dayoige:
Real quick!
I have a uncle in the UK who is a citizen and he assured me that if I can change my surname to his, he will fly me over to the UK.

I'm a 300L student studying economics here in Nigeria, and my name is .... ( This is the name I have in all my documents) and the surname my uncle want me to change to is 'Richard' so after changing my name it will look like this "Dayo Richard".

I want to apply for a change of name (to address the surname)

After doing the change of name I want to also apply for my National Identification Registration with (NIMC) which definitely I will have to do a new Birth Certificate with my new name.

Now my problem is this :
Will the change of surname affect my travelling documents if I want to apply for a visa, since the surname I have on my academic documents is different from my new surname?

What do you think I can do to balance everything?

Thanks
pls take note of the followings

How are you very sure he will take you to UK even after changing to his surname without telling you stories after you must have spent money changing it and manipulated your entire certificate

He can't claim you to be his biological child even if you change to his surname because, if he claims that you are his son, the embassy will run a DNA test and of course you know it will come out negative, so that one is a lost for you not him

If you change name especially surname, have you considered that your certificate past and present will have disparity

If your entire family wants to change surname, it will be published and all the family names of every one will be written down to show that it's a collective decision

Finally if he didn't help you to come over there again, you will spend more to revert to your surname and not all documents will be changed like your Bsc certificate

Best option is for him to get admission for you over there and your family will sponsor you still on your own surname, after all relatives helps others there

Make sure you graduate here before you start this gambling to avoid stories
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by frozen70(f): 6:23pm On Aug 05, 2020
Thelucifer666:
Shut up harlot
Is this a compliment
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by frozen70(f): 6:22pm On Aug 05, 2020
Thelucifer666:
undecided
Why the insults?
Seuñ rule 2
Is harlot a complement
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Very Useless And Dull by frozen70(f): 4:00pm On Aug 05, 2020
Thelucifer666:
Shut up harlot
Animal are you still roaming about looking for who to devour
HealthRe: Should I Be Worried My Urine Isn't Salty? by frozen70(f): 2:39pm On Aug 05, 2020
0truthseeker:
I just complement my Typhoid/Malaria treatment only drug no drip, used the last tab this morning. But before then, I frequently urinate, at most an hour after drinking water, I assume it may be of Typhoid or Season, I worried less for my physician(nurse) to do.

Forward to this night i had expect the frequent urinating to have reduced but negative. I was scared it my be symptoms of Diabetics, out curiosity i had a taste from finger touch, the urine taste just like ordinary water, i wasn't convince so i pee in me had to have a lick, the was the same pure water.

Could this be result of previous medication or I should see doctor
Everything is alright with you

You just treated malaria so all those things have gone out of your system

But to clear doubt go to any hospital by 7am for fasting blood sugar test

It's called FBS thats the test for diabetes

But am prety sure you are fine
Check your blood pressure too if the doctor is around
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko And Laila Celebrate Their Son, Sultan, On His Third Birthday by frozen70(f): 12:58pm On Aug 05, 2020
kingzizzy:
His billions is enough plans for his children
His billions will work well if he plans well and stays alive to execute it

If he dies before they get to adult ages, that's where the trouble is

Anyway I wish him well
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko And Laila Celebrate Their Son, Sultan, On His Third Birthday by frozen70(f): 10:11am On Aug 05, 2020
I hope this man have a good plan for his children
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko And Laila Celebrate Their Son, Sultan, On His Third Birthday by frozen70(f): 10:08am On Aug 05, 2020
angelfallz:
Lol, while i agree with you, i must also state that it is not only money that would make a man highly valuable in the eyes of women. A man must build himself up into a man that would be valuable to women; personality, character, attitude, vision.
Exactly ❗
RomanceRe: How Can I Reduce My High Sex Drive? by frozen70(f): 12:08am On Aug 05, 2020
konjifide:
I am always unlucky to get one,some assume i am fake and not serious where as i am..
if i come finally get,she will be so boring....imagine the one i dated last doesnt like kissing nor romance all she does is to lie down while i put myself on mood
Keep trying
RomanceRe: Lady Exposes A Cake Vendor Who Wants To Eat Her Boyfriend’s ‘cake’. by frozen70(f): 4:22pm On Aug 04, 2020
GistsBaze:
https://gistsbaze.com/lady-exposes-a-cake-vendor-who-wants-to-eat-her-boyfriends-cake/
Simply because she is not his taste

The ones he chases and sleeps with, did he tell his woman
RomanceRe: How Can I Reduce My High Sex Drive? by frozen70(f): 4:13pm On Aug 04, 2020
konjifide:
I am the kind of person with high sex drive even while at work place i do get hard on and to make matter worse ever since i and my ex parted ways 4 months back i had never have sex and relationship doesnt favour me.

so since then i always have wet dreams and always depressed due to lack of sex though i was able to keep controlling but dam when i woke up this morning my shorts were soaked with heavy loads of semen....
though i will never indulge in masturbation bcus i stopped it since last year...

so i wanna know is it the workout i do daily that makes me have high sex urge or should i reduce my daily exercise routine..

pls bcus i am already considering olosho quarters o since these ladies in my hood always disappoint me..
You are in your prime and your body is at its pick of performance

Just get a girl friend who will match as a companion and move on with it

Going to Olosho is a habit if you form you can't drop and you are too young for that
RomanceRe: Is This Relationship Wrong For Me by frozen70(f): 4:07pm On Aug 04, 2020
Niela:
I am in a relationship with a guy. When I met this guy we were living in the same compound, he asked me out, I refused because we stay in the same place to avoid fornication but we were very good friends that people thought we were dating. So travel for a few weeks and came back and he had started dating someone in the same compound, I felt bad though but I had to move on. So after one year we all relocated to different state, he also relocated to the same state. Then at a point he started communicating with me asking me to give him a chance again. At a point I accepted.

The issue:
For over two years after service he hasn't gotten a job. Though engages in contract jobs. Also he had no accommodation of his own so visiting hardly happens.
He always calls, but we hardly see each other because each time I mentioned about visiting he gives one excuse or the other.
At a point i simply told him you are avoiding me. He said no, its because he does not have a job and no money.
Even on my birthday he came because he felt I might be angry, not because he really wants to spend time with me. One excuse or the other usually comes up, so we ended up seeing only twice last year.

In January I had to request to visit him and his family, he was reluctant in the first place saying there is no money for transportation, but I said I will foot a part so he agreed. I did. Saw his family but I wasn't really introduced.
My problem:
We don't spend time together, before I thought it was because he was in a nearby state doing a contract job, but now he is back to the state I reside since December. After that visit in January I had never set my eyes on him but if I complain he will say money is the issue or gives excuse, though he still engage in some contract job. At a point he even asked me what plans I have for our relationship, and I told him as the man he is the one to decide. I once send him airtime and he told me not to try it again that I make him feel less of a man and I stopped.

Note: I had helped him apply for many jobs but non is working out, he can drive and also can install Dstv, but when I suggest him taking a driving job, he didn't make a move.

So recently i lost interest in this relationship.

Another guy in my current vicinity has been asking me out and I am not really into him but he is nice too, but I haven't fully unravel his character so I just had to accept though I don't really love him for now but hoping that the love will develop but that joy that comes with starting a love relationship is not there.

Note: I am in my late twenties.

Should I forget this new guy or still give him time or continue with the first guy. My mind is not really at peace.
Leave the first guy, it will still take him a decade to talk about settling down

Keep yourself busy with the second guy and see if you can have any feelings for him
FamilyRe: The Thoughts Of These Kids Always Come To My Mind, What Should I Do? by frozen70(f): 3:59pm On Aug 04, 2020
LadySarah:
On your free days dedicate 1to 2 hrs for them then give them assignments to keep them busy till the next meeting.

Teachers have a lot of work to do by the time schools reopen. My son that could write up to 200 started writing 4 backwards like a mirror image of it and 9 like letter P just after one mth. I had to make plans immediately.

I'm happy that ppl like you still exist. It shows there's still hope for humanity.

GOD bless you greatly.
Since their situation is disturbing you, give them home work before living and let them submit to you as you get home

You can mark them at bed times

Any free time you have, teach teach them and continue the circle

Get them soft novels to read while you go out and they will verbally read and explain the stories

Some of us are willing to help the less privileged but time and money remains a constraints
EducationRe: Community Secondary School, Ikot Essien Akwa Ibom In Bad State by frozen70(f): 3:43pm On Aug 04, 2020
Ctorch:
Community Secondary Grammar School, Ikot Essien Ibesikpo, Asutan LGA of Akwa Ibom state
Death traps every where
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Near Death Experience While Working As A Mason by frozen70(f): 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2020
MrOjay1:
Last friday evening, my friend in the hood called me on phone to inform me of a job opening in an ongoing construction site somewhere around Agbara (Lagos).

He told me the pay is 2,300 per day depending on if you were able to finish the day's job.

I told him i was interested (no choice for a broke man) and asked him when we are to leave for the place. He said we'll leave for Agbara the next day early in the morning to get there on time and start with others.

'No wahala', I said.

We set off the next morning and got there before 7 or thereabouts. When the supervisor saw me said, 'oboy as you dey lenge lenge (slim) like this, you sure say you go fit do this kind work so??'

I told him i could. Shey no be my mates dey do am?

I started the work which was carrying mixed concrete and sand up into the second floor of the building.

The work no easy o. I wan die true to God but i just chinned up and continued. I worked like this till afternoon.

My body was telling me to stop but i continued being that i wanted my full pay for the day then something happened.

As i was climbing up the scaffolded stairs, my limbs had become weak and my eyes dazed, i had no energy left again to climb up to the second floor so while trying to muster up energy as i climbed, I mis-stepped my footings and was about falling off the stairs down to the ground laden with bamboo, nails, stones and co far below but was saved by the hand of another worker coming up the stairs behind me. He had already noticed my fatigue and signs of faint feeling.

My headpan had already crashed down the ground.

I wonder what would have happened to me. Probably would have died.

The supervisor heard of it and was furious, lambasting me saying,' shebi i tell you say you no fit do this work? Na so you for put me for trouble.Oya dey go house now now, he said as he put his hands in his pocket and brought out 1400 as my payment.

I protested and demanded my full payment but he wasn't listening and was threatening to call the police.

I left the place, went home and used half the money to treat the sprain and pains i was feeling all over my body.
Very funny experience with pains
Sorry about that

The truth is, with regular work on the site, you will get use to it but just don't go back there to even watch what they are doing

You can't really cope
Those people you saw going up and down have been part of the system years before now

It's a job that you are paid and you are judged by your input, if you are lazing about while doing it, you will be warned not to come the next day

If you are a talkative while others are working, you will be warned not to come again because you are distracting others

And if you perform excellently well, you will be praised by the site manager and he will look up to you and sight example of you to others

Funny enough, what you were paid was not even enough to treat you but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have gone

At least you now have an experience

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