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I made a resolve to end it all up because of my extreme frustration ,pain and hopelessness. I am downcast and I am scared of the hazy years ahead of me. I live in the Uncompleted building and I have no place to call my own. A few guys called and show empathy and love. My situation right now is disheartening especially as I find it hard to stand on my feet again after my 7 months incarceration over things I never did. I never stole a Car yet I was kept in remand at Ilesha prison. I cry every day and night and don't know where to start from coz I am tired, exhausted and getting extremely depressed everyday. I need a home, not this way I am living like a destitute. I am a Plumber from the Government Technical College and I passed my trade test exam but work had not been forthcoming. I have contemplated giving it all up twice To be honest. I am looking for any job, accommodation and concern. The truth is if things remain as it is, then I am scared life is not for me.
I cry in my sleep atimes and I have lost the zest to carry on.

I am hurt, in pains and hopeless. I am fed up everything...

Please come to my aid before everything comes to an end coz there is nothing to live for....


Abiodun. 07068.377541

How could still be alive yet you are losing hope

What took you to an incompleted building in the first place

Your family, did they abandoned you too

You can easily identify a Rwandan by their fore heads

nonsojaggs:
A woman recently took to Twitter to share what her husband did soon after she could not serve him food with meat.

According to her, her husband refused to eat the remaining stew she served as there no meat left, she had to boil an egg for substitute. However, her husband rejected the meal claiming...

Read full story:
https://cdn-af.feednews.com/news/detail/fbbb5bcb31ef1acf188b521ee0094bc2?client=iosnews&features=8798600989

He wasn't hungry in the first place

portplus:
[b][/b]I met this visually impaired guy in 2005.

What attracted me to him was that although he is blind, he was operating a 20 naira per minute payphone booth that was popular in Lagos in those days.

He suffered some loses and people took advantage of him by stealing from him.
As the business faded out he was out business and income for a while.


With the help of some kind-hearted people, he managed to buy this car for commercial purposes...
He had difficulties managing the driver.
The driver later abandoned the car.

Now the car is in bad shape and needs repairs.
He wants to put the car back on the road to enable him to earn income and fend for himself

The mechanic has given an estimate of 300k.

Although he is blind, he tells me he has vowed never to be go begging on the street.
He currently surviving on the goodwill of some faith-based organizations who give him food.

Please anyone will help him raise the money and car gurus in the house can offer to help him fix the car.

Name: Joel Segun Olaibi
Acc #: 2261138523
Bank: ECOBANK
PHONE:07059442225

What you are demanding for is not a rocket science

Doesn't he have a family

Better still help him out on what he thinks he can do to earn a living

fineboynl:
I told the seller to grand egusi for me with all the ingredients. He brought out a black shit probably animal poo. He asked me if he should put that to it which I obliged.

The soup smell really bad. To the extent that your mouth start selling that shiit.

The other day they grand egusi and ogbono together for me by mistake as I told them to grand separately which I still have in my kitchen unprepared.

I'm tired.

Next time change hand and give them instructions on what and how you want the grinding to be while you watch them do that

Different tribes have different soup ingredients and only machines grinds then in the market

So some remaining ones could join the ones you are grinding

Alternatively, buy a hand grinder and do that yourself

lalajnr:
Please Nairalanders i really need your opinion about my Landlord. We don't understand what he has been doing my family we ask him to fix something in our house and everyday everybody in our house normally goes to work. Our Landlord doesn't stay in that compound but normally he come often. What we told him to fix is in the room he has extra key. So he went ahead when all of my family were not at home he opened the door and fix it. That is an offense to my family. My family wants to sue him to court and I am confused right now please help me.
Your advice are very important to me please

If nothing was missing in your rooms, just change your keys

He has no right holding your spare keys after payment

If you do anything outside this you may be given an unplanned quit notice

Mrzfavour:
I posted here about a week ago about my husband doesn’t love me coz it was a force marriage due to pregnancy coz he is also a member here I taught it will be a good idea 4 me 2 post so we can both get good advices on how 2 work on our marriage so things could be better, but after him seeing my post on here he was angry why do I have 2come in here and talk about his family matters he made the matter worse accusing me of cheating even doubting if our baby belongs to him n he told me it was over between us , I’m heartbroken been crying as usual tears is now my food so yesterday he called his mother and told her dt I went online 2 insult her dt she is a wicked mother etc etc she was angry saying after all she has done for me And I paid her bad by being ungrateful, I even showed her what I wrote here 2 prove to her dt I didn’t say anything bad about her only said what she is always telling me and I also ask her for forgiveness still she was mad she didn’t talk to me the whole day and dis morning she has told me to go back to my aunty house with the baby and she will come after her when she is two years old and I have spoke to my aunty she has agreed for me to come but alone she want me to leave the baby with my mother in law I have begged her to bring my baby with me she insisted dt she doesn’t want my baby at her house now I’m just confuse on what to do.. I don’t want to leave my child she is only 8 months .. I’m very confuse my bp is high I don’t know what to do

Are you sure that psychologically you are OK ❓

Because you panic over little things

Carry your child anywhere you go and carry her every where you want to go

visaland:
Everybody was in shock yesterday at Ebelle community in Edo state as a man returns his wife to her parents saying the woman's virginal will swallow him up if nothing is done about it. The community was amused how the man identified as Osamudiame Iyobosa could be that childish as to return his legally married wife for such flimsy excuse. The man who dropped his wife at her parents house in ubiaja in a green coloured golf 4 told his in-laws that many people must have slept with Edeki for her virginal to be that wide
The couple before now were living at upper mission road in Benin city. It was said that Edeki was merely recommended to Iyobosa. However, a man who sells palm wine near ubiaja market admits that the man may be right, according to him, Edeki was a well known flirt in the neighborhood and that no indigene would have married her. He said they were all surprised when Iyobosa came from Benin to marry her. Some young girls even started flirting saying that flirts are the most lucky ones using Edeki as example of a lucky flirt
The parents of Edeki were said to have been very angry with their inlaw for exposing their weakness publicly. The mother of the girl according to a witness was said to have called Iyobosa half man. They said this is strange as no man have ever done that to the community by returning his wife for having wide private part. The worst was that Iyobosa told onlookers that his wife had expressway pussy

The pussy is elastic by nature, I guess the man's joy stick is too small and couldn't fit tight

Meanwhile no one will suggest this and the man will not declare that his joystick is small

Oh cheating is an option let him cheat as much as he wants, in as much as he will use condom

He will cheat until he is fed up and bring his legs back home

That's when I will have my own turn to deal with him in a manner that he will be confused

missmishel:
An ex boyfriend left 6years ago when pregnant with his child for no reason. He never care about his son. Nothing matters to him except himself. I struggle all by myself.
Suddenly, my ex came back with an appology giving inrelevant reasons why he left.
He wants me back and his son.
Looking at him, all I feel for him is deep hatred.
What's the best way to revenge on this guy?
How can I hurt him back?

What do you think?

If you ever loved him and if he ever loved and cared for you ever before, consider him

But if there was nothing like love existing between you guys but just sex partners or living like room mates, let him go

You being a single parents, your son is a plus for you not minus

A man that will live you is out their waiting to have you in his arms

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Real men who wants wife material are looking for character and good heart, there you are looking for beauty


Follow your heart so that you won't say we told you to disobey your heart

bluebay:
Bros, its late registration and people are not complaining. Kindly mind your business sir.

It's not yet late registration, they started selling the jamb forms since 13th of January, so it's still on till early February

All PM news are always negative news of men and women love matters, domestic violence matters

Don't they have good reports on government officials matters or even international news

naijacentric:
plus ur ancestral bitches and descendants, anufia

Onye nzuzu, you would have accepted it naw

Hotzone:
I said so because she was trying to confirm her fertility and shame dey catch me easily

So shame they catch men easily but them they flex muscle with women, even they put women for shame if she born

Every childless couples blames their wives until the woman goes out and get pregnant then she will be tagged a prostitute

FrLukas:
Well, that's bad. But it's not abominable.

Technically speaking, the woman is not your mother-in-law.

My best bet is that the girl that died at childbirth isn't the true child of the supposed father-in-law.

A simple DNA test should prove this.

What the man did wrong was sleeping with another man's wife while they were still married.

All of them are not related in any way, by blood or by law.

Solution: the woman should make her divorce from the man formal, and marry the father of her unborn child.

Exactly

Lostz:
nothing will make me have sex with a married woman or a relative. I will run away from such sex because the result is only pain

Only if you can resist it

JosephXavier:
Wetin go even attract you to the old woman with her breast wey Don fall finish

You got it all wrong go back and read the story you will see what attracted him

Besides, that a woman breast is falling doesn't mean she is not sweet to Bleep

One man's meet another man's poison

sainthumble:
pls help me summarize the story .
The write up is to long

Step mother inlaw when to nurse a baby from her step daughter who gave birth and died

One thing led to another she became pregnant for the widower while his husband is mad about everything

Though she was childless for 10 yrs with the husband before taking a chance to test her fertility

emperorzz:
My own is...what are they going to tell the unborn when he/she arrives...or maybe they will keep the history of his/her birth away from him/her all his/her lifetime?

History has been made

He has to marry her for the unborn have a home

And when you have a home, the home is your story

naijacentric:
but he is right naija women are deadly mr woman wrapper

Including the females in your family from mum to sisters

MartinsD12:
Real bad situation here but the woman said she did that out of desperation to have a child after being with her husband for years no child and she can't die childless

She made a point and can't be blame for doing such

If you know how unhappy a childless woman is you will support the woman for her decision

Hotzone:
The visiting nanny would have been grateful for the test and abort the baby then argue with the husband instead of causing this feud

For what will she abort the pregnancy ❓

Who does such, do you know what she passed through emotional for 10yrs years of no child

It's a game and in every game their must be winners and losers

reyscrub:
Double portion for the man, manifold blessings. Congratulations to the two new cross couple. Characteristics of modern world.

To be candid, the guy and the lady are kids in thinking or else they should have manipulated the scene out carefully like this:

1) After the lady took in, she should have told the guy that she needs to visit her husband i.e father-in-law, for two weeks and probably take the baby with her.

2) If the guy want to refuse, the lady should explain the game strategy to the guy and the reason to allow the her husband lay with her.

3) The lady will return to the son-in-law for another period of say a month to cruise the prikk further.

4) The lady should carry her son-in-law baby and finally return to her husband to stay and by this time the pregnancy will have grown a bit and look
like husband's own. The husband will never know the conspiracy played on him thinking the pregnant is his own.

Now after her delivery, it's possible that by time time she may take in for her husband when they copulate again.

Just my professional advice for anyone in the same shoe ok

Noooo ❗❗

Some tradition forbids a woman imposing another man pregnancy

She knows what she wants and she got it very well

Let them marry themselves

She knows and is ready to bear whatever shame she will face

She considered do many things before taking the decision testing her self as a woman

That woman no send anybody at all

policy12:
"I was shocked to see my mother-in-law almost naked as she wore only lingerie with no underwear. I could clearly see the outline of her firm breasts and her private part"

Werey dey claim innocence and still dey see firm brezz.

He must marry her to remind him of their history

policy12:
...that Mr. Chori seduced her and they had sex and it became frequent and the result was the pregnancy.

Women always playing the victim.

Don't mind them, never underate a woman

Opybid:
Hmmm,serious matter who is to be blame now?

Considering the circumstances

The inlaw was cold and checking on his son led to the act which was needed under that cold weather so blame the weather

The mother inlaw has been childless since 10yrs and needed to prove that she was fertile so in this case we blame the family for telling her thst her husband already has a child called faith but they have forgotten that men too can have menopause so we blame the family for telling her their son is potent

The husband though was the recipient of this mess and the worst hit have the option of getting married to another woman if he insist that he doesn't want her again, no blame on him for taking his decision

Let him bless them and the inlaw should marry her to remind him of their history

BigBelleControl:
This story is libg but I finished it. Everyone has their own share of the blame. The man needs to check himself if he can still impregnate a woman. The mother-in-law while also trying to prove herself ended up doing that with the wrong person. I feel most for the son-in-law. He was somehow dragged into the whole thing.

What makes you think she did it with the wrong person

He is not having a wife at the moment, will he abort his own child, no he should marry her

Let her husband get another woman to marry

ziegurf:
....at least the woman had proven that she's not barren, I think this is a family matter they should settle in peace without public interference



I've seriously landed

If am to judge this matter, his inlaw should marry her and return the bride price to the man paid

No barren woman is ever happy

This is a very good story for home video

Well this is dicey, I don't want to blame anyone about the whole issue

I only feel for the husband who has rejected the wife

I don't want to blame the son inlaw who got carried away by mere sight

I don't want to blame the woman who having married for 10yrs, yet no sign of pregnancy

I keep saying that women are great manipulators and most times it's to their favour, in this case, she mastered her plan and got it 100% right

If that's what will make her happy, let her be

A childless married woman is twice more troubled and vicious than anything

Good luck to her for achieving her greatest desire on earth

When they get to the bridge they will cross

Davash222:
To marry a Nigerian woman is one of the deadliest things on earth.

Remain single

Pls does anyone have any nepa official contacts at oke eletu, I need to ask him on how to go about getting a prepaid meter in ikorodu, by Ijede

Pls is there any one here who got his own of recent around the area in Ijede axis how did you go about it