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Ehibiggirl:
I salute you, I wish I could like the response a hundred times.
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Sweetest response ever.

Thanks dear

kolaide:
Sorry for replying you late. Thanks for dropping a line.

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EVILFOREST:
THANK U for Saying I will GROW OLD.
At Least, as a man who fully supports BABY MAMA, I will GROW OLD.

But I will feel for those MEN who will save Millions just to take their DEATH HOME.
MEN are marrying their DEATHS now.
Please which one is WORSE.

AT LEAST, I make my MONEY.
I'm a comfortable NIGERIAN. With my Position my KIDS won't suffer financial setbacks.

If U are not READY to LISTEN to a man, please never get married to a man.
If U are the type that says "ALL MEN ARE THE SAME".
All MEN are DOGS... Please avoid the DOG.

PLEASE AVOID MARRIAGE.
It's not for U.

Clap for yourself, it going to work for you

Doveflies:
Stop behaving like your sister.. Don't u think your hubby(if any) might consider killing you too?
Change ur ways lazy youth

Am done with you

JONNYSPUTE:
Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders. Sure we all are cool?

Sorry to bother you all but I ve been worried since what transpired between myself and my son who will be 4yrs by June this year.

I was not able to go to church today due to the fact that I just came back from travel very late yesterday night.

So I was asleep when my wife and my two sons left for service. I woke up around some minutes after 12 noon and decided to wash some of the undies I wore during my journey.

As I was doing that,my wife and kids came back and my son rushed straight to my room shouting daddy daddy, when I answered from the bathroom and he came in and saw me washing,the question he asked me has been making me uncomfortable.

He said "Daddy,why are you washing? Are you a girl? Before he could finish that my wife walked in and said to him,Don't worry,very soon you will start washing your clothes by yourself but what got me more worried was his reply. He told my wife that he won't wash his cloths that it's girls that are supposed to be washing.
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Honestly,I'm worried,will he out grow this mentality?

Lalasticlala,I need a wide coverage,please.

Am glad he voiced it out, if you don't handle him in a domestic way, he may grow up seeing girls are the ones to do house work not boys

But relax, is too early for you to panic

Once he clocks 4yrs, whenever he comes back from school, he must wash his undies pand and singlet or every Wednesday ne must was his pants and singlets for him and his brother

Then on Saturdays he will repeat same

He has to do it, he should start sweeping his own room, no matter how he sweeps it, let him pack it with packer and cone and show you

Then you go and inspect the room and show him corners he didn't sweep well then let him sweep it again

As you are starting this, get a cane and let him know you won't tolerate laziness from any of them

Meanwhile anytime you are washing, let him watch the way you rub your hands on clothe, even you can allow him to wash your boxer's as you wash but you will do the real washing

When he starts he would have been OK for gin to handle his own

But don't remind him of what he said he will understand that as being a punishment for him

Just engage him into washing stylishly

Doveflies:
Like d lady be your sister?
Cry no more lazy youth..

Am glad you are going to kill yourself

EVILFOREST:
YOUNG MEN should stop getting married to these nowadays LADIES.
How can you save up to 3 million Naira, just to get married to someone that will berate and rubbish your image.
Getting married these days reduces your LIFE SPAN.

EMBRACE the BABY MAMA OPTION.
It pays a lot.
With such your PEACE OF MIND as a MAN is guaranteed and that's the only supreme thing is marital union.

As a LADY, if you are not yet READY to LISTEN to a MAN, PLEASE never contemplate MARRIAGE.

Your statement is deceitful, what do you mean

"as a lady if you are not yet ready to listen to a man"

Is it listing to a man them at guarantees one aggod marriage or is it love with understanding

If you think that baby mama is the way to go, well its your choice but at the back of your mind, you will remain alone uptil old age that's when you will understand why some men are I into marriage

Baby mama she doesn't belong to you but to any man that comes her way

For the fact that she is a baby mama to you, is the main reason why she won't listen to you

This particular case doesn't need to be heard twice, once is enough no room for reconciliation, out right divorce

Let her go and fight herself

Doveflies:
Bro just kill your self

Do exactly that to your self as you go into such situations

They have not been opened and expressive to themselves before now

They are having issues prior to this time

It's either the man is not treating her well or she is difficult to stay with

DenreleDave:
Odikwa, manage who... God forbid .... i go leave her ooo, i can nt let one frustrated girl ruin mi ooo... too much from her in less dan 2 weeks

Lol, odiegwu

Oriyominolove:
I am sad and angry at myself right now for wasting three years of my life dating a stingy guy. I should have left since but I still held on hoping it will change but I was wrong.

I usually make this mistake of letting guys think I am financially independent. The reality is that I actually am. It's not in my nature to depend on a man for anything. I buy the things I need and give myself the things I want. This does not mean I wont appreciate financial support and gifts. I do appreciate them and I am happy when I receive them.

My current bf is a very stingy guy. He hates having to give me cash when I am in need and keeps making reference to my money and asking what I am doing with it.This is someone that earns far more than me but will never use the money to take care of himself.

Unfortunately each time I have need for money and he doesn't give me or gets angry and fights me, another guy will give me that money without any stress.

Just recently I was robbed on my way back from work. I lost my 2 phones, wrist watch, power bank, and hand bag. Everything was stolen. I was sad and ask my bf for support to replace those things stolen. Note: Not buy them for me but assist with any amount he can

The dude initially accepted to give me some money but later changed his mind. When confronted, he asked me what I am using my money for and that I should sort myself out with my money.

I feel really sad because I am not a demanding gf nor one who feels a man is a poverty alleviation program. But then I still would appreciate if my man gives me money out of the blues or when I am in need or needs support.

I am very much presentable and have offers from men who are willing to take care of me. Each time he turns his back on me when I need money from him, it makes me vulnerable to this men which I dont like. I cant even cheat on him but then I am only but a human

Am i asking for too much? I am fed up with this whole shit. Our relationship is okay except this money issues.What am I not doing right? Should I just end it?

He is a miser and nothing can change that

If you are satisfied loving him but not satisfied with his financial support, you have to chose which of the two suits you

If you know that you love getting loved by him, learn to he without getting a penny from him

The disadvantage is that you may never help him in future be it marriage or friendship

But if you can't cope, just withdraw

DenreleDave:
We met 2 weeks ago via michat n later got to no dt she is a single mother .... we get along and me ma sef dey use my brain sha... within 2wks dt we met, spent close to 6k oo..including trying to help with her daughter school fee... i really pity dt small girl dt doest av a responsible father... So she came to my place on friday sha and we still agreed to meet tmao i.e Monday ... Yesterday , she asked for card n i told her later ... but i notice say babe go dey use baby, heart for me , i dey laff for mind ooo even though i get good intention for her... i was robbed on tuesday by some armed robbers ooo.. Normally i recharge her from my bank account n i avnt nt retrieve my number back... The money wey me, i wan buy phone but slot no get am and spectrum wey get am talk say 37500 compared to slot 34500... so for my mind, i said i rather wait for slot to av it and send dt 3k to her just to help her daughter school fee oo but i no tell am.. i kept it in mind to surprise her atleast.. But today, she was just insulting me anyhow cox of the card she asked oo... I noticed dt she dey call me baby, heart weneva she wan ask things but me dey look am say see this wan oooo.


See as she dey misbehave n dis is her 2nd time ooo of insulting me for no reason .. aswear notin like two side of the story, she get temper

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If you can't manage her just leave her
She is yet to understand the reality of life

If am a guy, I won't even allow anything close to that to happen, never

Mimi572:
This happen to me 4 days ago, the guy i called my half brother stab me in my back,, yes we have know for the past 10 years thing are moveing fine betwen us, to the point that we use one toothbrush, he pass the night in my side so do i, my flat mate do tell that when i left for work that my friend do come around, i told him that it'r a normal thing, let me cut the long story short.
Four days ago i was coming back from work, i caught him with my fiance makeing love in my house onto my bed, me and my fiance relationship is just a year and six month old..
Please nairalanders he is asking for forgiveness and so do my ex, i have not been myself ever since i lost two things my real guy and my fiance,,, my heart is heavy.

It's quite painful but as a guy and a gentleman that you are, as they ask for forgiveness, tell them you have forgiven them, but cut off every single thing you have with them

For your fellow guy, slowly withdraw from him and don't ever share a drink or any edible with him, change your apartment key and don't let your him in especially if you are nit around and if he comes when you are around, keep your eyes on him

But have it at the back of your mind that he is dangerous and you can't be safe with him

As for your girlfriend, cut all ties with her immediately, tell her you have forgiven her but run for your dear life, apology can never erase the indelible mark of what she did.

Just forget her and her tears it's already over

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McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

If you think the sex doesn't worth it, just tell her the same way she told you that you are done with her so far and will appreciate she keeps herself for her man and you are willing to keep communicating with her

That you have to say so because you wouldn't want her to come around and meet him with another woman, that it may spoil your chances with another woman

This is not a matter of hurting her

But before you do that, get a lady whom you feel love for and get along with so that you won't be lonely not having any around you

Then cut off any financial assistance with her because you are not a life line for money collection

You may have been the only one that gives her sex as she desires, she would have considered that too before taking her decision

Developit:
Trust me I m a very handsome guy, the kind your girl would wink at even while she is with you.

I come across a lot of them who want a relationship with me. But guys I have never been happy. I have a very small dick, about 4.6 inches and very tiny.

Anytime I want to get down with any girl and she sees my size she gets turned off. No matter how hard I try to make her understand its not my fault, they always tell me to up my game as I can't satisfy not just them, but any other woman.

Fact is, for the past 4 years I have never had sex with any girl. In as much as I hate masturbation, that's all I manage. No one should tell me masturbation is a sin. God knew its a sin any yet he gave a small thing

Fact is I'm 27 years, and most guy my age are talking of marriage.

Please I need help. I know there's a lot of people who would love to take advantage of my predicament to advertise their scam schemes, but I no go fall.

I just need someone who have used any method to increase their dick to help me. I have heard of Hausa Herbs, but I don't know how to get them.

Please I know about penis pump, jelqing, etc. They simply don't work.

I have bought a lot of enlargement herbs off Instagram vendors, yet nothing works.

Please I need a helpful advice or contact of where to get what will enlarge my rod. Sex is nothing everything, but 4 years without is is something. I can't molest innocent young girls nah.

Please I need help.....

Staying away for 4 yrs is not the solution

One of the solutions are, get a girl who has not really been exposed and probably a virgin, she will appreciate you inas much as you did show her real love and she loves your back

Master the act of fore play and intensed romance and she will definitely be very close to orgasm of which it will help you to lead her in and out and you too will spend less energy trying to deep in what you know that it's not lengthy enough

Having a small dick is not really the but the ability to use it well is the major secret

Forget about those exposed ladies, who have seen even the mightiest, the more you go after them them more you get turned off

Stop taking all those herbs and drugs that are harmful to your organs, juts make sure when you are on, you are hard enough to withstand the game time

Hdanny:
Back in the years when I was seeking Admission to one of my fevourite school. I had to undergo a one year A-Level program before I fully gained admission.

In the course of that I rented an apartment, this said lady happened to be my neighbor, tho I had few ladies staying in the same compound, but there was something about this particular lady, she loved been around me and that makes her happy. Most times she would purposely stay late in my room either watching movies or came to charge. As a sharp guy I already deduced she was into me with all her moves.


On this faithful day, she just came back from school, she entered my room without a knock, I was on my bed with short, she just greeted me in a rush and left immediately. Naturally i like this girl without no feelings cause she was not my type, damn she’s fat everywhere, that alone is a red flag for me, an average height blessed with big boobs and yes she has a pretty face but I don’t really like them big.


As usual she came to my room late in the night around 10:00pm that same day, she asked me to put a movie which I did, along the line I guess she got tired or probably had something in mind, all of a sudden she stood up whispered to my ears “ I want to go and shower please don’t lock the door” she left without waiting for my response. By 11:30pm on the dot she entered, bolted the door behind. My jaw nearly dropped with what i saw.


This time she had changed looking all sexy, putting on a short with just her bra revealing all corners in her boobs, my eyes did a little survey from her head to toe within a second, I never knew she got a bigg ass with the way I used to see it. She was looking at me seductively waiting for my move so she could pounce on me like an hungry lion but I wasn’t moved one bit, she came to me and started touching me all over my body, she was surprised I wasn’t still in the mood, after she did all she could. Then she asked is everything okay ? I said yes I was not just in the mood for that.


She felt bad and turned back at me, she woke up very early in morning and left, she later came back to apologize for disturbing my sleep the last night but I said she should just forget about it.

If you were this lady, would you think am Impotent?

She is nit your type and you weren't interested in all she was doing, so nothing can move you about her

Which ever ways she feels shouldn't bother you

You have self control and not every thing under the skert moves you

eni4real:
It is not about sensation. It is about many changes that come with Menopause!!!
No eggs again!!!

But 70 years old men impregnate younger girls na!! I don't think your sensation theory is true!!

What about NL babes/feminists that have vowed to marry ancestors because young guys are high- handed ?
Are you saying they are in for a sexless Marriage??

Am done with you

DZTech:
Guys, ladies first; kindly give chance for them to answer, thanks!
...

The economy is biting, but life goes on. I know even married men will appreciate this post! LOL

So, what do our ladies suggest?
One day expense, or practical, lasting gifts?
Cake and chocolate; or a nice hat and scarf set?Dinner date, or nice kitchen ware?

Tell us now o, to minimize complaints later!

If you love your woman and have been showing her love and gift to yourselves, everyday is valentine for both of you

eni4real:
The older, the Menopause!!!

Men experience worst too, at that stage they don't feel any sensation there, a man without sensation is as sad as someone who lost it all

rexchazy:
Engage to who? the engager and engagee are not serious

Love has no age limit, the older the merrier

chipsypop:
Good day all. Sometime last year I just woke up one morning and noticed a bald patch in the middle of my head overnight. When I googled it I found out that it is called ALOPECIA AREATA and that it has no cure. I learnt that it is caused by the body's defence system fighting the hell cells for no reason.

Pls I would like to know if any Nairalander has experienced this before and how he or she handled it.

Mods Pls move to front page, abeg help a brother

Just be on low cut until it get solved

Chiomamoses:
I had no problem for her to have my baby with her but I had to stop when she start getting too attached with my baby to the extend of her asking to spend the night with my baby a baby that she is knows is breastfeed at night and she wanted to spend the night with her is that normal? If I don’t go to her for my baby when is time for her to breastfeed she won’t bring her to me I always have to keep going there which I feel like I’m a surrogate mother to my own baby and I wasn’t comfortable and I had to stop everything. We have 5 children in the compound why she is just want to be so attached to my baby and not with my other children?

Alright, though I don't support passing the night with baby

Chiomamoses:
I have 5 children for my husband d last one is 7months my husband brother wife was pregnant wit her first child after waiting for almost 10 years we were all happy for them and couldn’t wait for him to be with us unfortunately on December 27 she delivered tru CS and lost d baby that same day is so painful for us as family we stay in the same compound the house belonged to my husband brother , I take care of her she start getting too attached to my baby she want to be with her all the time she will take her away from me and stay with in her house all day until I go for her for breastfeeding then last time she ask me if she can spend the night with my baby but I refuse making excuses for her not to be offended. For the past 1 week I have been avoiding her and keeping my baby inside d house making excuses she is sleeping or she is not feeling well and she ask my elder daughter to come take the baby and I refuse and she came asking me if she offended me I said no and lied my baby was not feeling well but she was offended and told her husband cos she has no child and I have stopped my children coming to her house my brother in law got angry and told my husband to warn me my husband cautioned me which I went to her and apologise even taught what she said is not true cos I do let my other 4 children to go to her house and I only stopped my baby going there because she is getting too attached to her and I know she is feeling so much pain for d loss of her baby but me too I need my baby I don’t like sharing her with anyone. For 3 days now she ceased talking to me and stop responding my greeting. Please am I wrong ?

I have to be truthful with my words, you are really faulty for the action you displayed

You know very well that she lost her baby and need a child to comfort her and there you are depriving her of it

Too bad for what ever reason you have for doing so

You are supposed to bring her closer to you and make her feel loved

No matter how she wants to be with your child and children, she will never harm anyone of them

That you prayed and it works for you, is the same person she is praying to yet it hasn't worked for her

Pls get close to her and give her the freedom to be with your child

It's only God that can guarantee us our own safety not man

If she want to be with your child, allow her, in as much as your child doesn't come back with mark of violence on him or her

They are in distress and in need of a child

A woman without a child is not always happy

chigoziri2403:
I first met her in Jos, I asked her for a fling, she refused, after much persuasion, she agreed, when she came to my apartment, she met one of my friends with benefits, she left and bluntly refused my advances after, i gave up.
Fast forward, met her at Abuja, we exchanged contacts, She was still extra sexy, she is built the way I like women : slim, small breast, flat tummy and huge ass.
she asked me for financial favour via whatsapp, i gave her,
Her whatsapp status are her videos dancing seductively without bra
I stopped viewing them, one day she sent them directly to me, but later claimed it was meant for another person, i am greatly tempted to ask her for sex just once to get her out of my thoughts
But here is the problem, she was once friends with my wife before I got married, and they had a big misunderstanding that's before I met my wife, they have mutual friends, lots of them, I don't want to ask her for a fling, and she ends up telling her friends who might tell my wife, her seduction is too much
WHAT DO I DO?

Cut her off and stop all financial help, there are no needs and benefits from what your mind is telling you to do

fineboynl:
my skin is too soft oh. to the extent barbing clipper hurt me and easy spill blood on my neck. I always get injuries from clipper each and everything I go for hair cut. another thing is I can't stand hot sun. if feelings like I want to melt or die.

What is happening to you is as a result of, you have never gone through hardship that will expose you to hard times and harsh weather, which will end up toughening your skin and entire body

Those labour's have similar experience until they start involving themselves with hard jobs, it will be difficult at first but with time, it gets hard and the skin will adjust to it

missimelda01:
There's a post currently on the front page about a man who cheated on his wife and infected her with STI, and to think some men are defending the husband is so disgusting. Please why does it have to be this way? I'm young and unmarried but what I see, read and hear these days makes it impossible to believe that there are decent and goldly men out there.

The truth of this issue is that, only selfish men believes thst they can cheat and women can't cheat

Though one of the reasons for cheating is, if you are not satisfied with your partner and you guys are not making any efforts to get it resolved, one will start thinking of getting it out side

It is never written anywhere that only men should cheat, in the real sense, no one should cheat on anyone

Then no matter how you get scared if marriage, you must go in and esperance what's there

ebuka10box:
Good evening nairalanders , I don't want to bore you with my life story but I need ur opinion on this . I know most of you are fathers and family people but please don't be sentimental on this. I was closer to my dad than than other members in the family when I was in university , I wasnt demanding despite the fact my dad was earning in 6 figures. I stayed in the hostel all through cause my dad always claimed that things weren't smooth when I knew fully well he was earning well. I graduated and I served , my mum was helpful in my service . She was always there when I called, flight ticket and accommodation in the north was paid by my mum. Where things got wrong:::: I rounded up my service hoping that my dad will help me by submitting cvs but my dad collected my cv numerous times and dumped it in his room and kept telling me he has submitted them to his friends while I was quite aware he didn't submit it. I found out my dad has a lotta side chics and he pays attention to them more , infact he doesn't give my siblings and I any keep up money , he doesnt care how we survive . My dad pays attention to his sister more than my mum, he doesn't give my mum a dime . I'm writing in English but serious he is a bad father and don't pray to be like him in future. I'm 27 but my dad doesn't care about my future. If I tell y'all hell I've been through , do u know how it feels suffering in the midst of plenty. I have received insults ,abuses from persons who I'm far better of in all ramifications but I count it all joy. My mum brought a suggestion to take me outta the county, guess what my dad said imma do drugs if I get there, things are not easy there, he said lot of crazy stuffs .what I've been through this few years after service..... Please I hate my dad right now and I don't wish him well right now.... Shout out to the mothers in the house. Please if u got a mother, respect her and don't pray to loose her. I have never known the worth of a mother till now...

Hey, you are about staring a journey of being a man without help

Being help, click on to your mum and see how the abroad stuff will work out and when you get there, do you family proud without doing drugs

Af for you dad and his side chicks, those ones are just the people he feels that makes him happy because of the fun he gets from them

As for your mum she suffered similar faith as you did on dad's neglect and still on it but looking up to you her children for for a better life with happiness

If the abroad stuff is not coming up, look for what you think you can start doing, if he helps you fine and if he refuses, leave him, one day he will be too old to help himself and depends on your people to manage things for him, that's why you will work on him

Her placenta was buried in Borno, if not, despite all the risk involved with Boko Haram threat there, she still remains there

That's the end of the matter, the dead can't talk