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kunleweb:
My sister we men have lost hope if na woman matter. Its beginning to feel and look safer to have multiple sex mates outside than have a committed-to lady. It strips a man of his peace of mind and mental health. Just imagine calling a call girl she does the service, pay her to go. Next time get another one. No strings attached. Abeg na peace of mind sure pass. No stress

kunleweb:
I don't get it. How come your writing tone sounds so relaxed/calm. What did you do today. Oya o confess

kunleweb:
I don't get it. How come your writing tone sounds so relaxed/calm. What did you do today. Oya o confess

kunleweb:
I don't get it. How come your writing tone sounds so relaxed/calm. What did you do today. Oya o confess

babyfaceafrica:
The worst is that you can't remain with out a woman for the rest of your life



This is very false

Iammelvin:
Hmm.. My mind has already gotten to that stage.. Thanks for your opinion

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

udoakwa:
word.. may God bless my girl friend, always neat n saint nice

ShagariBillions:
Drug his drink with viagra, get a juice he will like and put some Aphrodisiac in it.
But before that, try wearing more sexy wears at home, make sure you are sexy enough if not enrol in a gym, smell nice all the time and make sure you are clean at the middle.

distinctwallex:
Hello guys,
Pls i need your advice urgently.
My babe is staying with me for a while now, so she travelled home to greet her family for new year and just came back today,i welcomed her and she didn't even sit for 5mins before a call came in and she said she need to see one of her friend at the busstop for just 5mins...5mins became 2hrs and i was still expecting her,so i started calling her but she's not picking, i have her hotspot location connected to my phone,so i tracked where she is, can u imagine what i saw,i saw my baby in a guest house with another guy gisting and drinking, i kept calling and texting,and she will show the call and the message to the guy and both of them will start laughing,i took pictures of them unknowingly...they are still there right now and my blood is boiling, am thinking of going to challenge her or i should just go back home jejely,or wait till they are done and now let her see me,am so pained right now,pls i need urgent advice...
Some of the picture i took is attached
Only matured mind pls

neolboy:
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them.


Sometimes last year i met a lady at my friends place, we got talking and we exchange numbers. As time goes on we keep talking, I love talking to her because she was friendly, all of a sudden she hardly pick my calls neither does she return my missed calls. I told my friend about it and he promised to ask her why, to my disbelief, he said the girl decided to stop taking my calls because she knew what was on my mind and that she is not ready for any relationship now.
I was shocked because i never showed her any sign that i was going to woo her

ALAGOGO007:
I was quietly sitting in my cozy sofa when I got a message from my WhatsApp relationship group. The sender wants to be kept anonymous here's the message.

"I was going through my boyfriend's phone today and I saw a number saved with "runs girl", Out of curiosity, I decided to check it out, behold he saved my number with that name. I have been heartbroken since morning, Why on earth will he save my number with runs girl. And this is somebody that claims to love me and wants to marry me.

We took blood oath a while ago promising each other never to betray each other. Please what do you think I should do. I think all men are scum, considering the fact that we even had an oath."

I really dont know how to reply this lady, because in my honest opinion why would a girl in this 21st century stiil engage in oath taking with a guy hes dating. I was left with no clue.

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal have been together for 4 years now going to 5, and I have intentions of cementing our friendship this year Atleast with a proposal when I secure my first job and I did marine engineering and have processed my papers to go onboard,my gal has been a blessing to me cos she's understanding, caring and very hardworking, she will be 22 this year while I will be 29 . I met her as a teenager, now adult, I'm still there, I opened her eyes to the world positively. infact the first bank account she ever had was opened by me, I guided her through life till this time, her family has not been really supportive but I keep on trying my best to help and she does the same too for me, she was there right from my 200level till 500 now I'm a graduate. at a point i was like a father, since she has non, I was like an elder brother, husband best friend and lover,. I'm her first experience, pal we've really gone through thin and thick together and I can't wait to give her the best within my capabilities as God gives me strength in this life. But pals my fears wants to finally come to pass. over the past 1 year she has always felt I'm not giving her chance for her to meet and make friends with make folks, and I keep on asking what kind of friends does she wants to make with other guys, is it the one that will drift us apart? but come to think of it, there was no time I stopped her from making friends with make folks, and over the years she has always felt I'm controlling her, since I'm a one woman man and there was no time I dated two women at the same time and I expect that from my woman. Pals since last year August I came from service I have been facing allot of threats from this relationship. and it looks as if,if I give her a single chance she will so much cheat, and I will not believe it. I broke in into something that was almost as serious as what I'm having with her with another guy. that was when I came back from service and the guy in question wasn't in town and they were seriously calling themselves every second to check on each other, I was really going through pains till we resolved that and my gal would have visited that guy as soon as he returned back to town if I did not returned back too that's if she has not gone there before , so to build back trust we had to exchange phone passwords, so I could know who she's was talking with and any constant caller I would want to know the individual vice versa cos as a man that I am and who knows what he wants, I demand absolute faithfulness from my partner and this time no privacy so it has been smooth but I keep seeing threats and for the fact that she has betrayed me before. pals and question I want to ask is this, is it in every gal's/women's circle that they must give in to every tom and dick that wants relationship with them, is it a must that every gal must go through several relationships before settling down, must they always go through heart breaks before making a choice, I have seen even those younger than her having good relationships or is it in the age? and believe me most of these guys just want to sex with her that is all, and I really wanted to do something on her head this year, but the threats keeps coming and she just got admitted, soon be leaving for school though the same town with me, and this has been on my mind, as soon as possible, I might be leaving for offshores, right now I'm even contemplating leaving her cos I feel she might be lost completely now that she will be leaving me for school, and she's this type that longs for material things, and after the last one she did I made up my mind that the might not be another chance again with me if she hurts me again. Pals please your candid advice, cos I keep seeing this tendency in her wanting to explore not minding her serious relationship with me.

samsam2019:
True story

Thewriter2018:
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?

Mbeki:
I got married to my husband at the age of 27. We decided not to have kids in our first year of marriage. We both loved the idea, as it gave us enough time to organise our future.

I felt lucky to marry him because I'm loved by every member of his family. He is equally rich so I had all a lady could ever need in marriage.

The year was finally over so it was time for us to have kids. We tried making babies for the first 6 months without success. So we had to consult a medical practitioner. On getting to his office he counselled us, told us to be patient and asked us to return after three months.

We returned to him as instructed. He did some series of test and recommended some drugs. But after some time we got tired of relying on doctors and decided to wait on God.

A friend of mine who knew what was going on gave me an advice that changed my whole story. She asked me to have carnal knowledge with my gate man. At first I refused, but she insisted that's the quickest way to get a child. Since I don't want to lose my husband to another lady, I agreed to her words.

At first seducing my gate man was difficult, but after I promised to increase his salary he finally accepted. I only slept with him twice, next I got pregnant. My husband was at work when I put to bed. He was excited when he heard the news, unknown to him the baby was not his.

Nemesis caught up with me when I finally put to bed. It started at the hospital when my husband was called to see his baby. I notice the look on his face, but I kept mum hoping he will react. But he kept quiet, smiled, and took me home.

Last night he broke his silence and request for a DNA test. My heart almost came out of my mouth. It dawned on me that I've been caught, but I insisted he's his child. After much argument we agreed to see a doctor in a week time.

I'm totally confused. I thought I was doing him good by giving him a child, but my good has become evil. I don't know if I'm to secretly plan with the doctor or run away before he finds out. Anyone with similar experience should pls tell me what to do.

nams77:
Please op go with this position.

Iammelvin:
Good day nairalanders.. I hardly do this but I just want your opinions. I'll make it brief as possible.


I've been in a relationship with this girl for five months though we have known eachother for awhile now.. She told me her ex left her then for no reason so we decided to start dating.

I'm always busy with work tho I still find time for us to hang out whenever she's in town for holidays (she's a student).

Everything was going great till first week of this year.. She told me her aunt got her a phone which at a time I believed. Her previous phone has been faulty and i wanted to get her one last year but i couldn't because my company had a set back financially.

I stumbled upon her chat with a contact named 'friend' and i got to find out that the phone was bought by her ex. She even lied to her family that her former boss got it for her. I approached her and asked her why she didnt tell me the truth about the phone. She said she knew it will hurt me but she doesn't mean any harm.. She was reassuring me that she loves me that her ex just did it out of kindness..I was disappointed so I stopped communicating with her.. She left alot of messages, voicenotes and missed calls on my phone.

We all know Okafor's law..I wanna let her go so i wont waste her time, my resources and at the end get disappointed. I've been in several relationships in the past which didnt end well cuz i lose interest easily especially on matters like this..
Am I overreacting?
Your opinions are welcomed

Nettybrown:
Many of us do things without considering if they are right or not. There is this friend of mine who visited his in-laws. Few hours after arriving, my friend over heard them arguing because the father in-law wanted real pounded yam as he was tired of poundo, but their house maid travelled the previous day for a burial. My friend knows his wife cant pound,so he called his wife and offered to assist. He told me this while we hanged out last night and its been bothering me. So my question is, IS THIS REALLY RIGHT? No insult pls.

lawanson2k3:
What of in the situation whereby the environment the child is living I'd not conducive for her. They are like 8 people living in a shop owned by her grandfather, the grand parent, like 4 of their siblings, and like 3 grand children. The shop was demarcated, a portion is being used by the grandfather as tailoring shop , they are occupying the other half. Even the apartment doesn't have TV or DVD, they go to neighbours house to watch TV. I'm not cool with this, cos I feel the little girl can be a victim of sexual abuse. I'm confused right now. Pls I need your contributions.

lawanson2k3:
Hello great people in the house, please I need your enlightenment, I have a 5 years old daughter and I want to take custody of her, how can I go about it, what is Lagos state stands on child vustody, on what conditions can I take custody. Please any contributions will be highly welcomed.

KevinDein:
You'll never release the child? Basically you are assuming you have more rights over the child than the biological father. Anyway, the law doesn't care what you think or want. If the father really wants to get his child I'd love to see how you will stop him.

Darevofpeace:
Teacher on point.

Pls.clap for the Professor.

Nobleking2000:
I have lived with my aunty since january 2012 uptil this present moment. She was the person that was sponsored my education throughout my years in school both ND and HND she paid every dime needed to be paid until i graduated last december.

My problem now is that while i was in school i was also running another course(chinese language) which i am yet to graduate from i still have six months left to graduate from. Right now my aunty wants me to serve her for two to three years as a master/servant relationship for her to settle me and i start up my own business.

I am in.a state of indecision that if i complete my chinese course which i have six months left i am certain get a job of not less than 70,000 as a start up bechmark salary but having been with her for the past 8 years i have known all the information needed to go into her line of business and be successful having seen the profit margin they make in one of their business trips to china after selling the imported goods. some of my chinese class mates have already started working with good salary scale.

I will be 26 years by december and am yet to go for the compulsory NYSC. But currently her business currently needs a servant to control one of her shops.

Should i continue my studies which will end in june and most likely get a job in not more than two months or quit the studies to serve my aunty.

Please help a brother.

CAPSLOCKED:
MARRIAGES FAIL WHETHER SINGLE MOM OR NOT.

FROM YOUR NOTE I'VE CONCLUDED THAT YOU WERE THE PROBLEM IN YOUR MARRIAGE. THERE'S A CHANCE YOU KEPT DOING THE UNTHINKABLE, EXPECTING HER TO WORSHIP YOU BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT'S A FAVOUR YOU'RE DOING HER BY BEING WITH HER.

I'M HAPPY FOR HER WHOEVER SHE IS. PEOPLE DESERVE BETTER THAN PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

Sunofgod:
If moni dey the mama go produce the child..
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sodiqapril:
Hey guys, can anyone advice me on what do..I'm always hungry even after eating a heavy meal. Like today for example, I ate five wraps of fufu and two hours later I was already feeling hungry. And it's really affecting me, I'm not greedy buy no matter what I eat it digests so fast that my stomach starts rumbling . Please help me.