₦airaland Forum

For my own understanding,

Submission doesn't mean to be a mumu

It doesn't mean to swallow even the most bitter pill on relationship

It doesn't mean that you are voiceless

It doesn't mean that you are a slave

But this points I meantioned is exactly what men looks out for when they say women should submit

Submission means love with respect and care

That's means its expected return back to the woman from the man

When you are in love you show the following attributes

Respect
Be humble
Faithful
Loyal
Obidience
Calm
Modest

But if a woman if expected to give out all this,

What are the mean expected to return to her ❓

It should be a two way thing

If your husband does everything at home as in financial matters and the feeding is left for you,

I don't see the reason why it will be difficult for you to do it

Once women learns to make an impact in a man's life be it marriage or friendship

Such men will find it difficult to part with you or loose you

After all who likes carrying the whole burden in the family ❓

Whoever that is asking who will marry them is just asking an irrelevant question

What has dancing or pole dance got to do with marriage ❓

Dancing is a hobby and can still be a source of income

Does the person knows how much it cost to train them, to put up that display ❓

Rednaxelot:
Who is the father of the triplets

Ask your mum who your real dad is

They don't need to look for him beyond 24hrs

Go to your data base, get his next of kin contact number and inform his family

Besides his address is also there

Lastly stop his salary and he will surface

Freeze his account he will surface

They know how to approach it, but just want the public to know that they are making move

This lady looks like Celine Dion

What a hell ❗❗❗❗

That man deserves to die by slow poison with crucial pains

That man must be a chain smoker for him to enter the car and not quite long start smoking

Her business

Her choice of husband

Her wahala when he marries another wife and divert attention to the new wife

She is definitely not going to be the last wife

Only time will tell

I keep wandering what this man has to offer all these women that he gathered upto that number ❓

Just like that ❓


Does it mean now that death is cheaper than life in Nigeria ❓

They should consider the stability of the network before embarking on it

Students in secondary school and in ss3 classes, are they expected to have android phones❓
especially those in the missionary schools where they are not allowed to stay in boarding homes with a handset.

All this plans are to toughen external examinations like,
Waec
Neco
Jamb
Gce

What plans have they put in place for teachers to teach thoroughly ❓

kennybabs1980:
My director's wife is a kind hearted woman but she is too sensitive and highly inquisitive. I have known her for 5 years, that's when I started working with her husband. I'm very close to my oga and his family.

My oga is a womanizer but his wife hasn't been able to catch him red handed. The woman became so friendly with me since February 2019. she will call me on phone to just say hi, recharge my phone sometimes etc.

I have always been so sceptical about the woman's attitude of recent since I know her as a very inquisitive person.

The bubble bursted in April when I travelled with oga to Kaduna, Kano and Jigawa States for some trainings organised by our department for some cooperative livestock farmers. The wife started calling me while in Kano to ask about her husband, who stays with him in his hotel room, his visitors etc which I said to her I don't really know.

Oga actually brought his secretary which I knew he has been dating with him for the trip but of what concern is that to me? When we returned, the woman actually came to our office where she looked angrily at me, hiss at me and left without answering her greeting.

My job schedule involves sometimes working at oga's house especially when we have urgent training assignments. The woman have been sort of looking at me as someone who is also promiscuous like her hubby. Yesterday, she called me a liar and deceitful person, just because she wanted me to divulge her hubby's itinerary to her. It's possible she think I'm a small boy sha.

I'm actually planning to move some of the equipment in oga's house to mine so that I'll have less contact with the woman but I don't want my oga to know my reasons since I didn't tell him all his wife have been doing so that I don't cause wahala in their home.

How could I handle this issue brothers and sisters?

You are very smart and I commend you for that

I suggest you inform your boss and tell him that you want to confide in him and he should pls keep it secret

Let him know that your job is at stake if he divulge anything you want to tell him to anyone including his wife

It's going to be a top secret between you and him

Now tell him what the wife has been doing and how she started being nice to you if recent and what followed it

Let him know that his wife wants to get information of his escapeds from you and since you are not letting out any favourable information she is not pleased with you

Suggest to him to allow you take some of the machines or equipment to your house so that you can stay a little bit far away from the house where she won't be seeing you

He will appreciate all the secrets you have been keeping to protect him and am very sure he will play his game well without letting her know where the information is coming from.

Pls remain the standard you have created by not letting any information out and maintain your ground that when you travel, you lodge in different rooms and doesn't know if anyone comes or not

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

She might be feeling Hot and wants to calm it down with porn

She may have lost interest in you and finds solace in porn rather than cheating

She may have gotten another person and wants to learn a new style to impress him

Every little issue that leads to misunderstanding in marriages can be a big issue where women are

Try as much as possible to avoid women with thier wahala, marriage belongs to them and they naturally takes advantages of the home affairs

That's why you see some men not really interfering in their marriage because they discover that women plays politics in marriage alot

Becalm, sit her down and ask her how best to run the affairs of this marriage to avoid lingering issues

Don't be supprise, she will speak out and tell you areas that you need to work on and you too tell her the areas she needs to work on

If the both of you have reached an agreement, join hands to work it out

But you have to do more because house choir's and running of the home especially when children are involved makes some women go gaga

Don't cry pls, he doesn't deserve you

Just walk away its better than staying and dying in silence

Mumu idiot

This one still they learn how to steal

dingbang:
why do you say that? Are you now a judge? It's a pity many Nigerians especially the ladies aren't open minded

You men doesn't even know what you want from ladies

But am sure you guys want a mumu that will tolerate and endure all kind of slavery

You guys cheats with impunity yet still acuses ladies

Is only a thief that can detect the foot print of a fellow thief

In any relationship, if anybody wants to cheat let that person cheat

If anyone wants to be faithful let that person be faithful

They are adults

Pls advice on what to do, a boy scored 206 in this year jamb that was released in May, to study law in unizik

Incase the unizik cut off is high, what do I do to get a change of course for him so that he can still get admitted in unizik

dingbang:
let's have a drink then.

I already know that you don't have a good reason for your commitment

I will reserve mine

dingbang:
a woman's cheating is more painful

Pls explain further am interested in knowing why ❓

They were Desperate to be married to an oba, all because of royalty

Thanks be to God no life was lost

If they can't look for a sound and good vehicles to be transporting these ontaners,

let it be falling like this without touching lives, it's better.

Tocynone:
This is not good for a leader. A leader should protect his people not killing them.

Where is United Nations

Wetin concern United nation ❓

Na today you no say that man dey mad ❓

He executed his uncle because of bribe

So who do you think he will spear ❓

This one done make himself scape goat

Keep your plans to yourself

Our own is to see the results by ourselves

He should be buried with the child immediately

No need to waste time

They should contact those that did such in Akwa-ibom

Nonsense

What a stupid act and barbaric decision

I don't even know who to blame more for this evil

So the entire family is closed or what ❓

He should have been left alive to leave with it for life and suffers the pains

There are so many way to prove love to a beloved one

But stamping a lovers name on the fire hear is just madness

She might be really in love, but what about the guy, does he love her so ❓

Just three months you are giving your head, by the time he drops the relationship, you will be giving your life or what ❓

Anyway, there is freedom to do whatever with yourself

What a bad luck after marriage

This is heart breaking

Poverty led this woman to turst a stranger just like that

So child theft have gone this bad ❓