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MrBrownJay1:
You mean HOPE ?! If you'd even understand the word, you wouldn't be here writing rubbish.

- Just because you HOPE to win the lottery, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE you will have beautiful healthy children, does NOT mean you ever will!
- just because you HOPE that you will become the next oga at the top, does NOT mean you ever will!

HOPE is just an imaginary belief that something may (or not) happen..... Thinking that it MUST happen is the reason why people like you will always fail on this issue (like the dumb woman of this fake story)

You are still a kid, maturity is still far from you

What's that stupid nose ring his putting on for ❓

tyup:
Eyah......I hope those teeth was able to Open pepsi bottle cover well enough bfr he died

anyway i'm just asking for a friend

Stop displaying your stupidy, there is no award for that.

This one looks matured and esperienced in the service
So he will watch his statement before saying it

ShyWhale:
I am a Nigerian in Germany with a German Masters degree. It's quite difficult to get professional jobs in Germany as an African as we are usually the last of the pack. The only luck I ever had was to get internships, internships that takes several months to get and usually only for short periods. The high percentage of Africans even with German Phds doing menial jobs is highly discouraging and depressing. Most are trapped in the race for survival and I can't imagine myself living life like them. I feel I could do better with my skills and education that spreads across Europe's top countries.

I made the decision to return to Nigeria, harness my skills and start up a processing company. At 25 and the sole breadwinner of an extended family, they are asking me to stay put, saying that the Nigerian environment is not good for business (I feel they are only scared of losing out on the goodies they get from me).

Also last year, the family introduced me to a female in the UK, talking about marriage to her. The said lady is a Nigerian within my age range, but born and raised in the UK. Though I have been to the UK severally to see her, I have made no commitments whatsoever as she is not the kind of lady I would marry all things being equal. She and the family have however given me a ultimatum to decide now.


What do you advice?

Whatever decisions you are going to make, is at your own gain or loss

At 25yrs and a bread winner of the family and you think if you come back home,
Life will be easier or harder for you ❓

What kind of work do you wish to go into when you relocate, where is the fund, the enabling environment and the machineries to start with ❓

As for the lady that was recommended to you,

Marriage is something you can not manage,

If you think you are not complacent with her, look for your choice

You are the one to wear the shoes, even if the shoe is a gift

If its not your size, you can't walk well with it

My suggestion

Relocate to UK and see if living could be more easier for you and your family

They are already looking up to you

oyahitme:
@Gistvic.com

A lady slumped on seeing the Emir of Kano Mahammadu Sunusi II, she was saying “Alhamdulillah yau Naga Sarki” which will be roughly translated as “Thank you God I seen the Emir today.” Gistvic Reports.

She was assisted back on her feet as she continue saying “Alhamdulillah yau Naga Sarki”.

Watch Video Below:

Source: https://www.gistvic.com/2019/05/lady-slumped-on-seeing-emir-of-kano.html

It's just for the love and respect she has for the emir

She already stole from another woman so they will definitely steal from her

IvyGRush:
Nne! It's like you didn't read the article above.
The reporter said 18years ooo.
Not 18days, weeks or 18 months. 18 good years. At what speed is her brain's processor clocked.

18 purposeful, energetic and productive years wasted just like that by a woman.
Aah, Eleyi gidi gaan!!!
Please how old was she when they started the episode?

Nna, because of our culture and mentality, a relationship can go on without the guy proposing to the lady

But the lady will be hopeful that she is going to be his wife

A guy that kept a lady for that long and later dropped her,

Do you think the lady will swallow it just like that ❓

Besides there would have been series of abortion and he thinks she would accept it to go like that❓

When a lady is keeping silent, lots of evil plans are going on in her mind especially when they are at the receiving end

MrBrownJay1:
The dude has been ACCUSED as if he broke the law or anything.
The lady he dated for 18yrs must be very stoopid if she ever thought that after 18yrs of getting the honey for free, a man will now settle to buy the damn honeypot, highly laughable!

This dude don't owe this woman SHIIIT, not even an explanation.

So you think ❓

You never get esperance until you become a victim

Mcy56:
You should blame the lady for allowing a man to tie her down that long.
Anyway, I smell lies in the story. It's not possible for a lady to be in courtship for such donkey years.

Pls explain how the lady should be blamed ❓

This is one of the problems women faces In the hands of men

By the time karma starts knocking he won't know where its coming from

If he had ever proposed to her and left her after 18yrs,
Hmmm ❗

A child born in that period is already an undergraduate

Anyway I trust my woman
She won't swallow the bitter pill just like that

Man wey no fear woman never esperience cold War

chiommy123:
Is not everyone that has money to pay of front. Some give part payment and complete it after the wedding. Depends on the agreement. That decorator no get joy at all

Agreement is agreements

When people go into deals they look forward to each other fulfiing their parts

The groom only disgraced him self on his own joyous day

If he had called the guy few days to the wedding and plead with him, it wouldn't have gone bad like that

wisino1:
Ebonyi with low igr and federal allocation is really doing well with some signature project kudos to the governor

Honestly to be compared with bayelsa state

And all of them were created the same day

This jamb of a thing has frustrated more people than those that got admission into school

As if going to the university will guarantee you a better job

This Chris of a guy is not realy a clean man

He looks like a gold digger

No wander Dami left him

BluntBoy:
Now, you are talking. Initially, you made it seem like crisis management was the sole responsibility of the man.

You are right that some women can be pretenders until you marry them.

That was why I used the word hopefully

It means that I hope that the woman I marry would be sensible.

It goes bact to my statement

I said and I quote,

"until you keep a woman in the house as a wife, you won't understand"

ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

So many things can move a man to tears
Mostly things of great joy

When a man is pained he hardly cry because nature has given them the ability to withstand it rather he resorts to drinking and womanising

BluntBoy:
You are not being sincere. It takes two to tango. Crisis management in the family is not the work of the husband alone. You cannot be a peaceful man and manage crisis with a troublesome woman. Things would fall apart. Even the Bible says that it is better to live on the rooftop than with a quarrelsome woman.

Hopefully, I will put a sensible woman at home. I want my woman to be mature enough to allow herself to be held accountable for her quota to family building. I don't like blamers who never examine their own contributions but would be quick to blame their spouse.

You said you will put a sensible woman at home,
Have you seen any man that got to a senseless woman ❓

That's why I said you walk away if things are not working out in marriage

Lastly, you can't predict how virtues a woman is until you start living with her and the challenges of marriage starts coming up

The ability of the couple to handle marriage crisis is what make them complecent

BluntBoy:
Eve nagged Adam? Never heard about that. So, you people have gone further to look for more excuses to reinforce bad behaviors.

Moreover, I thought there are ways women make men do their bidding without nagging? Some use sweet words; some rub the man on the head. But because you are a nag, you decided that Eve must have nagged Adam into eating the fruit.

Anyway, I have written mine. Your mentality can never make domestic violence end. Continue to blame men while reinforcing bad behaviors from women. We shall see if that would end domestic violence.

Every marriage is facing crisis and has the possibilities to lead to domestic violence

But the man's ability to prevent it is what makes the difference

Until you put a woman at home, you won't have the experience

BluntBoy:
You see why the problem lingers.

No word of advice for women except one that demonizes one party.

You people make it seem like men have to do all the work in a marriage. The man has to be the mature one, the one who must walk away from a conflict, the one who must not show his anger even when the woman is showing hers through nagging. The man must be the angel, the perfect one who must absorb everything without displaying the characteristics of a human being (one of which is anger).

We never hear any of you say on no condition should a woman nag her spouse or that a woman should walk away when a fight starts.

A woman nags for hours. You give excuse that that is how God made women. Instead of you to condemn the act, you reinforce it by making it seem like it is the nature of women which cannot be changed. But when a man reacts with a slap, you call him a demon.

Sincerely, domestic violence will not end with our insincere attempt to end it.

You have not made a point here

Women have been nagging from Adam,
When eve was giving Adam apple he refused until she nagged and nagged then he accept it

Every man must learn how to manage a woman

They are weaker sex but their weapon is their mouth

What's his pride if a man beats a woman ❓

Just walk away if she loves you she will look for you

Beating a woman gives you a bad name despite her being at fault

I am not supporting the women, but understand that even your own sisters do things that will make you pull the trigger, yet you won't do that

The both of them are eating from the same cooky jar

I have said it severally

Marriage is not by force

Ladies learn to stay away from those stray dogs who derived joy beating women

It's better to be a single mother living happily with yourself than to be married living miserably

Person wey don die no dey explain wetin happen

This is more than wickedness

Queenboy123:
He is a male oo

Ohhh thanks.

Test will reveal it

Queenboy123:
He is a male oo

Ohhh thanks.

Rest will reveal it

VeryConcerned:
Afternoon everyone.

My right nipple starting hurting since yesterday afternoon. I paid it no mind as I thought it would soon pass.

But this morning, while taking my bath, it hurt so bad that I felt something coming out, I squeezed it and blood mixed with a whitish fluid was coming out.

I called my boss quickly to tell him I won't be coming to work on Monday cos I'll be going to the hospital first thing that day but the nipple discharge that happened is making me scared as hell. Google gives very scary result about the situation.

What could be the cause?
PS: I'm a 24 year old male

Hospital test and doctors examination on it will give you good details about it

I am thinking it's prolactin and it's usually caused by hormonal imbalance

Just calm down it will be rectified medical

Meanwhile avoid sex for the time being because these guys can't do without sucking boobs

Do you expect her to blend it before ❓