₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
@bold:

Talk of own goal

After creating a system that is 'supposed to liberate' you.

Kobojunkie:
1. Does the cow still wish to be bought out or does it instead enjoy roaming free, giving its milk freely to whomever it chooses?

2. You mean the cows do not themselves equally benefit from the same well-to-do men?

SIONKPO1:
I accept,condom is not 100%,Abortion is not adviceable,postinor has side effects.
Getting pregnant before marriage is bad but we shouldn't discriminate against them

Darren95:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKJSzLQu_7s

Please security agencies should take note.

Igbo chiefs vows to invite IPOB to Lagos to protect them!!! Wow

Shedrack777:
you see this your point number 2, answers my point number 1 and 2. if there was job opportunities for ladies, they won't open their legs for men to dive in so that they'll have some money. ladies watch more sex related/porn movies than men. a man will talk about vagina without anything in mind, but when a lady talks about prick, she really needs some banging

SIONKPO1:
Brother,Would you think same if your sister has a child and she is single?
We shouldn't discriminate against single mothers,thou they have their flaws

bukatyne:
Reminds me of some years back when Catholic Mothers' Association was complaining of the dearth of quality (trained) men for their over trained daughters.

If it was when sex wasn't cheap, single women & men did not have access to spouse benefits and children outside wedlock was frowned upon, I would say things would balance up.

But now? I don't know.

3kay945:
Hmmm. See comments.
... could this be one of the cause why some single mothers are into hookups

Rokiat:
If what led her to be a single mother isn’t something beyond her control like she was married before and her husband passed away or she was married and got divorced because of abuse etc then be very careful.

I still can’t wrap my head around why women would be complaining about niggas but then open their legs and have a baby with them out of wedlock.

Having a man’s child is the highest honour you can give him and as a woman being a single mother comes with so many disadvantages such as well read this thread. For all we know she could be a good woman but that stigma is there hence why you are apprehensive. So I don’t know why women risk it to give niggas kids free out of wedlock when you are the one at disadvantage

Being a single mother is tough and should not be normalised (out of wedlock offcourse) and you have other women enabling them throwing babies showers when bi..tches get pregnant for these good for nothing dudes no what we need is to bring shame back so women can stop doing this to themselves. It doesn’t do you any good in the long run to be popping babies for these men free of charge without him putting a ring on it. It is absolutely unbelievable and doing it over and over again is what baffles me. Shouldn’t women be more smarter by now in this time of information to have Educated themselves enough to know if a man doesn’t commit fully to you aka marry you, stop giving them children just stop.

Ya all out here flipping the game on us, making men the prize giving them kids free of charge. What did that man give you in return other than his presence? The worst one is seeing 3 different women being baby mama for the same man fighting ove that man attention. Goodness gracious someone that couldn’t even give you his last name. Using your bodies and wombs and risking your lives to give children to men without marriage. My generation so damn lost.

ednut1:
there are men abroad who want to marry a fellow Nigerian, but cant doesn’t meet their standards. Should he keep begging for their acceptance Or help himself by going to Nigeria 🤣.
Not all women you bring from Nigeria will change.
The average established 9ja babe abroad is going on 3-4 vacations a year. Spain today, Cancun tommorow, indonesia next week, some don’t cook, some don’t want kids, some are looking for 6 figures men, some looking for their tribes person etc. how are men supposed to cope with all that. His only choice might be Amaka who earns 100k a month in Nigeria or is even jobless 😜

Hilariousthiago:
I always look forward to seeing your posts anytime I think about coming on here. More wisdom bro.
Please are you on Twitter?

MrBrownJay1:
i am born and bred in France so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians

Starboytwo:
abeg rest. Tribal fight nor Dey tire you. Rest.

studyless123:
No need to be sentimental here. In most cases agents are not the problem. When you're desperate, you fall into desperate hands. The OP knows everything as well as most Nigerians. Most people know that you can't work with visitor's visa but they don't care because they believe they can sort their way out once they arrive.
I was in Nigeria last year and I had over 5 persons who wanted to drop 4M cash for me to get them over to the US, the question I always ask them is what will you do over there, they see that as the most stupid question ever asked?

The Op in Nigeria was quick to correct Justw.ise in Europe that Greece is part of Schengen. (He's smart)
Edn.ut1 knows he's using his brother as a cover.
He's a graduate that has completed his NYSC, he can get all the facts himself.

Op go to Greece, their GDP growth rate is among the top in Europe. When you get there you'll be told how to get your work permit which is called the D visa if you can secure employment.

Visit Santorini and the Acropolis. Also check out the Delphi, Mount Olympus and the Temple of Zeus. Your life will never remain the same.

wahalawahala:
wetin u wan use d useless infos do?
Chochochocho like a parrot, no be say u sef dey any different or kuku get anything fr akant u wan use help am 🙄

workchopNG:
I thought your State is developed by now... Best thing to do is hold your leaders responsible for not building aircraft design company in your State.

Anyways, let me face my front and mind my business.

pocohantas:
You are right. Toke’s own changed for worse after touch up. Same with BBN Khloe. They probably start aiming for perfection and end up messing it all up. I also read on Nwanneka’s page that not doing enough post-surgery massage, sitting on the ass immediately and not wearing faja can ruin the shape too. It is very serious work.

chatinent:
How could she look comfortable wearing sth that’s showing her laps with rusty strech marks?

Zonefree:
Pastor should stop playing hide and seek game and go straight to the point. Blessing is cheap, she will accept any offer

Regex:
Even in Western nations with very good economy and enabling environment for financial growth plus government subsidy in a lot of things, yet marriage waning. I will tell, marriage has outlived it's purpose to an extent and although I do not advocate for it, I will only endulge in it if I'm getting something as good as a passport from it or inheritance like house or money.

Raalsalghul:
You have a point though but with the downturn in economy of Nigeria coupled with very hypergamic nature of our women, marriage isn't quite easy to sustain as before.

Young men from poorer and middle class backgrounds have to think thrice before going into marriage. And for those into it already, the above conditions makes it worse.

You can see different threads littered in the romance and family section how women harping on the fact that a man must carry their responsibilities in an economic where we have hyper inflation, unemployment/underemployment, stagnant salaries etc

So I can understand some of them when they complain.

Gerrar.d59: your input is needed on this.

LeeSmart:
How true is dis?

1Sharon:
Heard he's an illegal immigrant there

Angelfrost:
Sir... Know when to keep quiet!

Even well paid sycophants (I know you are not one of them) know when to fem!

Sometimes, let's act our age even in anonymous forums!

Raalsalghul:
Don't trust you Seun: words are cheap.

Anyone that wants to back up the thread should do so.

dominique:
Do you know other types of people plenty of money entices apart from family members, gazillion hookup girls who won't mind to be 75th babymamas as long as they will get lifelong "assurance". Is the man disciplined enough? Is your sister strong-minded enough? I hope your family have taken their time to investigate his source of wealth? You said he's in the same line of business with your sister, why is she not building her 3rd house?

All the people calling your sister and family golddiggers should rest! A lot of them won't hesitate to dump their current girlfriends, fiance's or even wives if a well-to-do woman indicates interest in them. Tianna's husband left his wife and 2 kids to marry her. There are plenty of men like that but hypocrites will say only women like money.

Jamestown123:
Well thankGod you know people have the right to vote for anyone from their own region. Ibos voted massively for Obi, then why do you think is a problem for Yorubas and hausas to vote for massively for their own choice? Una dey really mad and ment at the same time for this country.

Jamestown123:
My brother, I use to be an adent follower and supporter of the Obidient movement. I'm not an Igbo person, neither I'm I wazobia, but the hate and resentment I saw the igbos dish out to other tribes makes me hate the Obidient movement, they believe anyone not igbo is a Fulani man or an Hausa man. They hate anyone not supporting Obi, haba election never start una don the show una hate. Saying people hate igbos that's why they don't want to support Obi. Igbos have forgotten that majority of Obi votes came from outside his own eastern region.

godwon01:
Very very tough. Where I reside , when you were returning from the church on your local Africa cloth, the kids would be shouting at you, black , man , black man . Spitting at you inside train and buses. Damaging your house before coming back from work. The kids behave like area boys. At any time , you would just hear heavy bang on your door and windows. By the time you opened doors you would not see anybody. At work , The same institutional racist until you get sacked or dismissed. They worked against any of your movements. You remains in the same post till Jesus come. A little bit better now. Is it their fault ?