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luvbooks:
@ Hollandis ; LMAO!!! It's not just the virginity that matters but the fact that she feels she's lost her dignity along with it.

hope u learn a lesson with this that boys especially naija boys are mostly immature and that your 2 legs are worth closing always.

any way may God forgive una and give you guys power to live right and clean cos it ios always worth it. as for finding a man to marry her she will dont worry about that make sure you are not pregnant thoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo-----

funny

Kobojunkie:
Is that email for real?

all things are possible in naija

wbb

i dont know why kids marry. the woman probably own the bed and paid her cash for it

[quote author=Mad_Max link=topic=303012.msg4286887#msg4286887 date=1249221912]I have married brothers. We're an extremely close family. Still, my mom gave each one breathing space when they got married. I think the longest she's ever stayed in anyone's married home is a week. Her kids, son-in-law and daughters-in-laws are the ones who beg her not to leave. We wheedle and cajole and try to bribe her into staying longer. Sometimes it works, most times it doesn't. After raising and knowing and loving a son or daughter for three decades, its hard for any mother to let go. Mentally they recognise the child is grown and is married, emotionally its impossible to distance yourself, or stop worrying about your child,even if he's a hundred years old, he's still their 'baby'. And why not? So mothers must feel a little resentful of this new usurper who's claimed their son's affections, who's now the most important female in her son's life. Its only human. Sometimes they're immature in their resentment and act it out. Sometimes they're calm and don't show it and really try to get along. You can't see everything from just your perspective as the daughter-in-law. It helps to put yourself in her own shoes, and imagine your own relationship with your own son when he's grown and brings his fiancee. You'll want her to disappear like the nightmare she is! Admittedly mothers have a hard time adjusting to having a rival to their son 's affections; but men have a special bond with their mothers and no wife can take that away, nor expect him to.Mother and Wife are not competing relationships, and frankly neither is more important than the other; they're different relationships.

It doesn't help that some daughters in law, with misconceptions and stereotypes about 'wicked' in laws at the back of their minds, see everything their mother in law does as wicked. If their own mother did the same thing they would attach no special significance to it. They marry the guy and have an attitude, expecting him to drop his allegiance to everybody else, like he's her exclusive property, like the guy has been living in a vacuum and has no life and people who love him until she came along. So you have a daughter-in-law who wants all hands off her man, and a mother in law who's resentful of the new person, and trouble ensues.

Just realise everything is not about you and put yourself in the other perdson's shoes, whether you're the mother in law or the daughter in law. Anything new demands adjustment time, so you have to give the mother in law plenty of time to adjust to your presence. Gradually,as time passes, and if you aren't an asshole about it, she'll completely adjust and leave you be. This is not to say there are no boundaries. There are. Its your home, not hers. But she's a human being and she matters to your husband, and if you love him, she'll matter to you too.[/quote]truth no go finish for your mouth

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=303012.msg4280839#msg4280839 date=1249083759]I think we should just thank God we ended up with decent God-fearing MILs, although i admit she had to conform and do some adjustment as per having me as a Daughter in law too But some evil ones out there can make you want to put rat poison in their food [/quote]you and your otapiapia. you can be so funny.

how u dey? a good ma inlaw is a blessing

sometimes you run to save your tomorrow it is common sence

mamaput:
Husband and wife are[b] not [/b] soul mates.
Soul mates are one in a million.
I can understand knotty very well.
My ex used to like staying up late to watch TV i loved going early to bed or sometimes he goes out for a drink and comes home late.
I hated it to be woken up late in the night or better said early in the morning(way after midnight.)
To solve that problem we agreed he sleeps in an other room.
By the way what if he is fed up with the marrage is that a crime? Shit happens.
Its a hard world out there and from the look of things she is the one giving him a hard time.
You cannot change anyone only yourself.
And from the look of things they poor man only wants his peace

where is boy na? no update

aguiyi:
are you trying to say attractive woman are specialist in lavishing money
anyway,if your attractiveness cant earn a man anything other than commendation and maybe jealousy,then its bullshit

many people believe a lie. most beautifull people mind their bizness and keep a very peacefull. it is the wowo as that comedian call them people with insecuriues problems that gives you more headache in life.

i dont know why the idea of seeing an ugly person first and last thing daily will appeal to anybody

Dorah Imo:
please house let someone get back to me on the above topic even if it's Dupex. call Dorah on 08053047029

you wan do 24/7 adura?

secreyor:
@Rooney86,I own 2 houses on the Island,besides i get paid in $$.Plus I run my father's maritime business, Enough money to buy an esscalade.

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Aprilmay:
@ poster, you are a compulsive liar  

Aprilmay:
@ poster, you are a compulsive liar  

9ja4u:
Poster like say u dull for head.How come you dey talk about your jamb score 4 months ago https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=138650.msg3805446#msg3805446 and within 4 months you don dey work for shell, like say you they do time traveling .Make you get you warped story right next time,

big memory

Catch your daughter in prostitution?
By GIDEON OPARINDE[tomgidops@yahoo.com]
Sunday, August 2, 2009


Most university campuses are replete with stories of daddy’s girls in the Aristo business. Gbemi, 26, is a good example. She was caught ‘red-handed’ by her own father who had come to pay her a visit while she was returning from a weekend ‘trip’.
We asked respondents how they would react if they catch their daughters in the shameless business of Aristos. Their responses:

SUNDAY VIVIAN
I will neither chase her away nor disown her. But I will advice and talk to her, making her realize that she should take her education as priority in life; that she should face the future and put aside every distraction that could ruin her future.

MRS. CHINYERE
If she’s caught, I will not react at the scene. In other words, I will pretend I did not know what is going on.
I will wake her in the middle of the night and start counseling her, telling her the implication of what she did. I will pray that God renews her because she does not need to be spoken or shouted on harshly, it could make her become worse. As a wise and good mother, I would talk to her politely while counseling her.

MRS. LEWA
Definitely I would feel sad. But as the saying goes, there is no smoke without a fire. I will sit her down, ask her few questions like: what went wrong? Why the conduct? Theses I will do in love and understanding. After these, I will take to the final solution, which is prayer. Only prayer can make impossible things possible.

MRS. LYDIA AGBEBI
Being harsh on her could further lead to her untimely destruction and add to her frustrated soul. The best thing is to immediately call her to know if there is anything she is being deprived of. If we are not guilty of this, it means she was influenced by friends in school or due to covetousness.
The solution is to arrange for prayer and fasting for her whenever she is back from school. Make sure she doesn’t go out for those periods of personal encounter with God, let her humble herself under the mighty hand of God. At this period, she would have been completely sober and will see those things she did as irritating.

Most ladies had good and decent parental backgrounds, but when they get to higher institution of learning, they get swept away by peer pressure. Some of these girls, we believe are in school but they hardly stay in school, but sleep around with lecturers for money, pleasure, live couple lives and so on. Some are rarely known in their departments, while some pass their exams by the whiskers. These children when they get back home are the greatest pretenders ever, they dress most decently at home like saints but on campus they are devils, are into cultism and deadlier acts. Parents are enjoined to periodically check on their wards in school, to ensure they are still in right tune.

UWATA THERSESA
I definitely will be sad because that is not the kind of life I want for her. I’ll tell her the implications of being a prostitute. Some ladies engage themselves in such acts due to lack of adequate parental care. Their parents are not there for them when they were needed, so the vacuum is therefore created and the repercussion becomes the parents’. Children need care, love and trust. When they are denied these, they take to the advice of their peer groups and once they are addicted to whatever they do, it is difficult to get them back.

MRS. ATUNWA
It means she is no longer responsible; she has gone wild and needs serious prayers. It takes patience and endurance to cure madness; she needs rehabilitation and with time, I believe she will be normal again.

VIVIAN EYABEVWE
It is really bad and that’s how I would feel because as a mother, it will be the worst thing that could happen to me. I won’t because of that throw he. out of the house. I will simply call her and talk sense to her. I will try as much as possible to satisfy her needs, so that she won’t go back to her vomit. Then I’ll keep watching her from time to time.
I will start monitoring her, and, if her school’s far from home, I wouldn’t for such reason withdraw her but commit her to God’s hand for total guidance and pray for the spirit of self control.

LOLA OYETUNJI
The fact that I know I give her whatever she needed should not, in any instance, take her into prostitution. So what would her excuse or complaint be? But peradventure she takes to prostitution; I will easily know it is the devil at work and would quickly liberate her through prayer.

MRS. OLUCHI
I will be angry. I will wake her in the middle of the night and talk to her, warn her not to tarnish my image or the family’s. I believe she would have been in the trade longer than my calculation; counseling might not change her, but prayer because it is an evil spirit.
We shouldn’t be surprised that secondary school girls, some as young as 12, 13 practice prostitution in hotels; reasons not adduced to poverty, but a destructive spirit of the end time, which works in the lives of the disobedient children. http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/wiveslive/2009/aug/02/wiveslive-02-08-2009-001.htm

peelovee:
Our God sent Doc, Thank God that you are back again. Please i have a little problem,

I must confess that for two weeks now, each time i take my barth i observe that milk comes out of my breast, i mean exact type for breast feeding mother. NL please i want to know the cause of this because i am not pregnant, i am not in my ovulation.

what could be the cause of this please advise.

congratulations you are having a baby. weldone

only lovers behave blindly.

emmydee:
Ur wife will eventually become whatever u want her to become.

Therefore, i want both, but just about 70% of the B lady will be enough. She will learn d rest.

dont believe a lie o boy. this is the undoing of many men. you are struggling with becoming what you want to be why do you think it is easy making women becoming what you want them tio become?

you believe that you can at your own peril.

candylips:
lol. ur skills will be highly valuable in the Niger Delta for sure

cloud7:
My Sister, Your field of study ( Peace, Conflict and Human Rights studies ) is of urgent need in Niger Delta and Northern part of Nigeria.Right now!! There is urgent vacancy for you in Bornu and Bauch,You are free to choose any state of your choice,Its a lucrative job,Requires Frequent travelling by road,sometimes with carmel and Horse
Your ability to resolve and quel muslim fanatics,Talibans and militants will be highly appreciated.

bad belle. if the girl na una sister una go let her go near war zone?

Jairzinho:
Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

since when did being attractive become a handicap?

what sops an attractive woman from having all the things listed for the functional?

eziachi international,

dis your story get as e be

spikedcylinder:
Zero sense of humour.

@ Post, not ever gonna happen. I have my eyes on. . . . . err. . . . . both of them.

we dont trhow our pearls away o girl dat one nor be david portion you hear.

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must you be goodlucking to serve or what are they meant to serve?

@ eyomigger.

anyone following you willl know it was a matter of time

so where is olabs, javahatred and abusola? why are they hiding?

princekevo:
Forget abt how Nigerians see Rawlings, We are not ignorant of Ghanaian History from Independence, Any man who see the 8years of kuffours better than 20 years of Rawlings must be deluded in mind, There is no how you can compare some one who moved a country from 0 - 10 with the person who jst continue from 10- 20, Rawlling spent all those year rebuilding Ghana from nothing, You need to understand the situation of Ghana before he took over power and wht it was when he handed over to Kuffour, probably you will also understand why Ghana should not underestimate someone who achieved that much for them, Infact Ghana still enjoy most of the infrastructures he Fixed, The presence of these good Infrastructures gave kuffour the opportunity to focused on stabilizing the country's economy, Which we might see as his only achievement for 8years in power.
Mind you the Hatred between the both is not of any present achievement but something that goes back to the history of the both tribe, which formed the two major political parties,
The same thing goes to the MDC in power, there is no achievement they will attain that would please NPP for the next 4 or 8years,

CARE TO LIST HIS INFRASTRUCTURES PLS.

wbb

this is sad

duduspace:
delusional bigot in situ

i wonder why you made restless sinner your name

restless sinners