₦airaland Forum

What exactly was her backup plan?
Atleast when you decide to do somethings there has to be plans. People just leave things to fall out.
I would have expected she had an audio recorder or put on her voice recorder anytime she "meets" with clients if she must in her line of work (dnt assume most marketers don't these clients would always want something to let you have those accounts).This is not to blackmail him but for personal safety like now oh even calls suggesting they had a mutual thing going on.
How come she is the only one arrested,I would also suspect if he was poisoned that someone,like aide or gateman or driver did so in the middle of that could lay hands on something he didnt take to the bank,remember the member his driver robbed?
When there is an investigation there will be different sides to it and an IO just would waste anyone's life looking for answers,but you see we lack good lawyers for criminal cases around here. Though she might not get bail for such cases,but IO's deserve to tell us more in court;which I doubt will be water tight as don't forget there will be much pressure in this case.
I don't like murder cases around here because it's so difficult without destroying someone's life, because our system is not built to answer who but to punish someone so the whole tension goes away.
Someone would say I expect everything to work perfectly but why will an hospital refuse admission,if you must refer then someday we should consider any hospital referring must provide transportation atleast if its same state.You find patients dying on the road being transported in cars that are not even ok for normal humans;and I ask who administered first aid on him,who is his driver in some places drivers take that as a required course before you are offered a job.
I really pity her,no marketer goes out to kill;neither does a crawler have such in mind but men the same fate awaits them,because someone might be lost

Cele-pope:
I won't exchange words with you.Am way bigger than that.It was just an observation.I believe he typed the content in a hurry therefore after the news making front page it was expedient for him to go back and edit it.You may not have the knowledge of the people that visit this site daily.It is disheartening to read such use of English by foreigners.Tomorrow when a Foreigner accuse majority of Nigerians of not good in writing the English language i believe you will be the first to castigate them meanwhile they are not far from the truth.

I like to draw your attention to your post;poor punctuation,starting your sentence with "am" and repetition of ideas.

Sad case I must say when the personnel decides to stop protecting the principal and takes up the role of a Personal Assistant.
But same thing is happening here,you showing his face.Can end this man's job if his case is handled administratively and his agency decides to save face.
Point: Is there no way his face can be hidden and still make your point though I know you have a source?

Abuja is expensive but people who earn 30,000 still live ok.
You have to be able to tell us if you have a family and what kind of job you are into if you'll need to be accessing town daily then we can advice on where to stay.
Kubwa and Karu,you will find a room and parlor for about 300-400k depends on if its a new house or old one.
For a single room self contain about 200-250k but some areas like after Jikwoyi you can get 70-150k or even around Abacha road axis.
People even come from Suleija or Airport road.The most important thing is are you alone and how much can you afford.If you are a Christian or Moslem your communities around here can help you once you approach the leadership(dnt meet an member alone oh) sometimes you might even find those willing to share or those with a flat rent you a room.
I know I havent helped much but most times you need to come in and stay around with someone and decide where you want to settle

Since the crises in Rivers started Nigerians have been divided taking sides.
This has not solved anything,it has only given each side the believe that they have followers.
But I have always known Nigerians to be problem solvers and like to ask as reasonable and grown Nigerians,suggest ways you think the other party can solve the Rivers crises without for once blaming the other.

I like to for once see my countrymen come out to say something nice.

For Amaechi:
1. I understand these started from the issue of oil wells,but I like the Gov to consider that Rivers inherited oil wells from states she was carved out from and those states didnt complain rather they moved on. I like you to pursue your politics without inflicting pains on average Rivers men.When there was no fight you paired with Imo and today people can travel to Imo from PH on nice road.Please sell that Jet if possible and call for a meeting of all South-South Governors and see how you all can contribute to a fund to start work on the Inter-state roads(which even though are federal roads you have worked on few and asked for refund) or even access funds from donor agencies.Why is the NGF only into endorsing or criticizing government policies?
2. Yes you want the Ogonis to take over but I like to ask you start by atleast giving them the Deputy Gov. or House of Assembly to start with and not just VC of the university.Do you know there are in some LGA that where you have 2-3 tribes only 1 has all the elected positions?
3. The Security meetings, we heard you used the DSS man as your man instead of the police;I like you to understand that no matter how many outfit you establish the police must lead any security committee, yes except you don’t want peace. It’s the practice here in Nigeria and you of all people need to know that. Do you know even DSS personnel /other agencies posted to any place MUST go to the police formation to book except he has a backup. They are police,its their domain but you can use other agencies to check them.Stop protesting Mbu leaves and work with him, put him to task and where he is lacking like you get intelligence from your DSS guy and Mbu doesn’t followup then you have a case against him or there are multiple kidnappings or robbery and you don’t have a reasonable brief after a day or two then you can raise hell.

4. You need to tell your works commissioner to publish all projects in the state and their expected completion dates.PH is like a construction site,its dirty.Yes at others tunures we didn’t have all those projects but Sir,it doesn’t make sense having to go through such hell in your 8 years.Understand this will build confidence in the people for you.Rivers people don’t like you,not because it’s you but they just support you because you are PDP,Rivers is a PDP state so get to work.
5. Yes the 1st Lady is not elected and you are not answerable to her but it shows how you treat the traditional rulers. These are entities that you must have to deal with because they exist.You want to demolish and such entities exist you must go and show them what options you have after demolition.Even if not them an average resident deserves to be treated nice.if you clear people from the streets they deserve to be treated well. Yes you call them destitute but they are humans.Some even pay taxes from the business you are clearing.No one wants you not to work, but where is your plan?
6. Even in a war, nations have commenced and completed projects. Whatever is happening in Rivers doesn’t in anyway stop you from working. I hate to see you in Abuja every week.I know if you sit down you can figure out how to get your assembly to sit. Understand its better the Assembly comes back because you might not know what will happen to the NASS leadership who have your interest.
7. Either you declare your interest or go beg Mr. President. You are so achieved anytime South-South gets a slot for VP its either you or Akwa Ibom for now. I don’t know how you lost that calculation. I need you to analyze what the G-7 proposed to you and criticize what It’s in for you.You must be seen as being incharge and calling shots amongst them or beat a retreat.

For Mr. President:
1. I like you to appreciate if you go all out for the Gov,he cannot face you as C-in-C but understand it was just like yesterday your people left Rivers and consider some of their graves are still in Rivers and spare us this nightmare. Yes he is arrogant but is there nothing else you can do that can spare the people this treatment and you still achieve your dream which is still our dream? Go to Rumoula you will still find that old time sign-post showing heads of states and asking when South-South will have a chance. Rivers people have hosted that post for years.
2. Can you atleast authorize fast-tracking of all projects in Rivers atleast to let the common man who you and I know will still vote for PDP for once after many months feel like a human being.
3. I like you to remember that Bayelsa and Rivers people are brothers and no matter how you treat them by reason of your actions now; you are sowing a wrong.
4. Understand I am having few points for you because I feel everything lies with the Governor based on how it’s tilted but I like to say it will be said many years from now “He didn’t do enough to reconcile with the Governor and develop the state(region)”.I hope that doesn’t come. Because if you don’t act fast I suspect you might be contesting against a South-South Presidential candidate who mightn’t be Amaechi. Remember OBJ/Falae time? He won but how about his relationship with his people?


Please add yours, someone might read it and come to his senses

She is built to absorb pressure.That's why when both partners are at a place where their feelings are affected,the "she" is encouraged to drive.
The big question is,what makes a "good driver"?
I have come across good female drivers as also males but I find the female "mean self" quite funny.She acts like the world is out to hunt her and if she can stay longer on the road maybe she can prove she is superior and nothing you can do about it.
The good part is no matter how that is no male has crashed into a female driver to cause her fatal injury,wonder why that is;maybe the male within himself wants to protect her even if he doesnt want to believe it.If you think am wrong,consider the male-male collisions and tell me your statistics.
Men love to look at the other being behind the steering,doesnt matter if its a she;but some assume its lack of concentration.I admire the concentration of the females.
Males generally believe if they do not move their cars someone might come hit them.I do not know how can came about but its born out of "pls leave the road"
Yes many think males are impatient,but in typing there is a theory-females are generally faster but cannot last as long as a male.In that study its never used against a "she",wonder why the patience issue is used against males?
A good driver is one who has the ability to make the best judgment per time behind those wheels.I see wrecked cars and I know the drivers made the best decision.

Every gender grows old feeling used,the female does more based on her assumed role.
The man was on the other hand built to satisfy her such that if he doesnt express it,its even a crime.Many have commited suicide because they couldnt do this.Many have their wives being rude to them for not being able to make her climax or being too gentle.
Now you see why even those with low drive take steps to improve or even try outside to be sure they are appreciated.
Its really not about men,its about who they are and role they play

The funniest part no matter our perception or believe about each other at every encounter,the 2 are supposed to climax(wonder why that is yet we still label one)

She has a problem chosing what she wants and letting what she doesnt want go,you are worse.
You didnt have to sle-ep with her after she begged,you both agreed on till marriage,because she slept with someone shouldnt have changed that.
I suggest you take some time off and see what you both want,keep it open you both can do what you want and date.Come back and see if you're still cool.
But I dont see any future here to be frank.
That lady for a fact needs time to date others,maybe its how she can process what she wants.
If you must continue hope you can bear " for the long time".

I like to start by saying I have come to appreciate nairaland as one of the avenues presently where most Nigerians can atleast say how and what they feel.
I also like to say that I condemn the strike by medical personnel particularly in the FCT.

My Case:
I came in this morning and a cleaner was sitting around the clock in area and I asked if everything was ok.She replied that a relation who is a serving police officer was on an okada and a car hit them but didnt stop. This happened around 6pm or so but they finally got a hospital around Jabi to take him around midnight. National Hospital, Garki and others wouldnt take him for the strike. He has been in coma as scan says he has blood in his brain. It also happened in Rivers state where UPTH this year discharged everyone, imagine that when some patients where even having tubes on them.

You might never feel concerned but I must say its entirely wrong for people who signed to save lives to choose when to. Yes I have had a close case last year when there was strike also, you needed to have gone to all the maternity wards to see what our women where being subjected to; no beds and you find women lay on bare floors. Its a sad case people where going into surgery for the hospitals that even accepted them but when they came out had no bed to place them.
I do not expect this to get to front page but if it does I hope everyone can add their voices and share their experience and let someone hear we hate how they (medical doctors) treat us. Vet doctors have never gone on strike so why will doctors for humans always choose to no matter their reason,is it that there cannot be other options like propose a legislation or as a body write to the National Assembly and add week long protest like every other employee would do?
Note that no one is even investigating the medical malpractices (another subject for another day)

Suggestion:
Since they claim not to be in essential services and someone would argue they have every right to protest by staying away from work(but every doctor will say a doctor can perform 70% of his task with just simple tools,paper and pen at a desert.Then why will someone go on strike for condition of service?). I recommend a massive recruitment of medical personnel by the military who shall be placed on reserve status to be used (activated) in times of emergency like this. We are really in state of emergency(crises) by the action of these medical personnel at the moment.

Finally:
Our people are being lost and everyone seem not to care because they are not related to us. I felt pained because this woman is looking for 750,000 when she is barely a cleaner.
I have advised her to contact the HMO for the man’s agency to see if he is registered so they can get approval and send to this hospital so he can be treated, but how about persons without insurance, the ordinary Nigerian who these guys signed to save?

You can never know what it means to be a male same way you can never know what it means to be a female if you're not.
I am a father and a worker.A firm believer that I am supposed to be there always for my family.Whoever comes here to say "they dont knw if we need the leave" needs help and dont understand anything about family life.Ordinary malaria and an husband is admitted affects a responsible wife and to think that the man is having fun and its not affected from pregnancy to delivery is a joke.

This is the truth about how I think from 1975 most female children tend to think the world is out to punish them and deserve pity.They haved never stopped to think that maybe the males want to but were taught to be "men".

They are the ones who respect them as humans,though have a target in mind but the girls take it as real.You cannot take away the experience,ever wondered why most cases of two virgins never get to marriage?
They hardly go physical on them,and others want to know what it feels being with such "matured" minds.
Most times they hardly feel threatened by another "he" and these girls love "independence".
Let me stop here oh?lol

You need to get busy trying to get yourself running as I think you're lazing around the house.Ask me how,if you're busy you wouldnt be around to note all her lousy conversations.
Yes its the case,then you have to atleast make sure you're nt infected with something while she enjoys her free time.Encourage ur family goes for regular checkups and see your results.
You married her but dnt own her.If you said you dnt want a part of her life style and she is finding it hard adjusting,help her and if she still doesnt want move on with better things but lookout for yourself.

Very negative mindset.
Its no different from a suicidal one only matter of time and being expressed in another dimension.
Every spouse who cheats only reflects how much s/he hates him/erself.
There is a trend going on,people are taking out their frustrations on the ones they love believing it makes them feel good.
I like to close by saying "everyone grows old feeling used"
I have seen men cheat by just traveling out of town,I have also seen women cheat because he traveled to a far state and comes once in 1-3yrs,statistics none;I bet you dont have.
My question: Is there no way we can discus how to get your spouse not to cheat and atleast offer vacation packages or organise outings or events to help unions than sit all day post on spouse who cheat?

Some problems are to be solved when it involves partners who have a view to solving it.Others are to be solved by 1 party and decision respected by other.
I dont club but there is no rule that says a man who wants to should not.All a partner needs is tell the other I dont like this your life style or can you reduce it to once a month.There mustnt be a reason same way not all men have to wait for a request to come before he acts considering her.
You both need to sit and talk.Tell her what you dnt like and listen to what she doesnt like,if there is any you cannot stop tell her how you can reduce.She must respect that as you must.
When your inlaw calls you,gladly inform them you'll be glad she tells you herself as you both sleep and wakeup together and you love her with your life.
You need to make this thing work or take a walk men!
I dnt find it ok the woman bringing her money to the house around here,its the way it is man;lets not live on dreams.Live with what you can afford,encourage her to have investments and save.If any day she feels too independent and wants to leave you,its her choice and that shouldnt bother you man.
Want to know why I sound this way?
I have seen alot,and the funny part is both gender are more interested in seeing the other suffer for some reason I dont understand,and they look for a way to.make that happen.
At times I feel scared now for some of us who have it going so fine.
Goodluck bro

Means you're not really enjoying your relationship or too young in relationship issues.
Try to work on your present relationship and stay happy in it and you wouldnt need to know what to do to a mere expressed crush.
Imagine "wondering about the no of persons who have crush on you".My dear get real,can you marry all who has feelings for you?

One of the reasons is you have money to spare.
Try giving the weekly contribution to persons who cannot feed.You can find them in churches ot mosques or even around you and guess that will give you better definition.Do it for some and coem tell us how you feel satisfying most needs of others.That feeling will clear yout mind and cure you eventualy.

Very wrong seed sis.
I think its only a matter of time before he does something terrible to satisfy himself that you arent cheating.
Was wrong to have gone to your ex and did all you did.There are hospitals.Is he a Christian or Moslem they have people who can cook for them in Abuja and take care of him.His girlfriend should care enough to know how to take care of her man in such case,was did she suggest?
Do you think she will be happy too knowing you werr making food for her bfriend in his state?
I think you need to re-define what you want and stop living in denial.Some actions have consequences.As an ex how come he doesnt talk to ur bfriend freely and if he wanted help would have called ur man himself.I tell you,your man can arrange for him to be cared for.Sure you'll even appreciate your man being there for your ex,but you playing mother for a man you were intimate with but you have a relationahip now;dear you need to growup.
Abuja is lonely for some but trust me people help alot,even his neighbors would take care of him so well you'll be surprised.Better beg him and stop the nonsense feeling you have for your ex or better go back to him.

I have read alot about traveling and agree its to be done with caution and that I assume is the purpose of this thread even though I think op has a mindset born out of his experience.That doesnt mean others didnt have better.
Every sincere immigrant will tell you "migrating is for our children".
Since we are considering Nigeria,I like to ask,do you know an average Cleaner earns $17 CAD and can do 40hrs/wk.In certain province can get back part of his tax paid.Can do two odd jobs and dnt have to buy houses in America but can return his savings to Nigeria to build or setup small business and come home later?
If s/he were to be in Nigeria what are his chances of owning a home?In Abuja now you as a civil servant can get a mortgage of min 10-15Million after repaying in 25-35yrs you have repayed 20-32Million so who says mortg isnt expensive everywhere.I can even tell you,you can opt for neigbourhoods with lower rates should ur mortg rates go higher and you have prob financing.
I like to conclude by saying this,while Asians have established a way of helping each other we are busy creating threads about how not to come.At some point you have to realize Nigerians need to be told what they can do and not what they cannot.$3500 monthly in a society where if you dnt blow ur credit can spend 2000 on rent,bills and child education and the system even gives you a support if your income is lower(for canada) and you return 1500 to build or invest in Nigeria is way far more than 40K Naira you earn in Nigeria as a regular staff under a private employer or 60k offered as customer service rep.Thats if yours is not 15k.
Look at the example someone gave a doctor who has a hosp in Abuja wanting to come home.Hw many doctors in Nigeria has capital to setup an hospital at Osun state to talk of Abuja?
Travel if you have all the info you need and invest at home people and also understand you might have a career change but have a goal

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I think that it is not about us Africans being dirty,its actually about how things work around here and our brothers the traders are actually doing their best but can be made to do more.
Its is funny that except for some states and like Abuja where waste disposal is contracted in main metro,no one has taken up the initiative to go into that business.Every market needs that.I think its on low scale because markets I think are under the Local Govts and those guys are terrible at Administration,but then how well are their trained and checked.
I will like to see a system whereby we stop waiting for government and take it up by ourselves.
I understand part of the lack of action to cleanup the places is because most markets are at temporary sites and they tell you they will be relocated,this take sometimes 20yrs to achieve.
Let an NGO, party or even religious houses approach the markets,set an example by doing this:
i.from the entrance of a shop floor it to the centre to the other shop opposite and do same on the other end and let the centre be for flow of water.
ii.research and comeup with a types of tables that is easy to cleanup after each day sales based on different items (meat,vegetable etc).
iii. approach the unions to know what plans they have for disposal and help establish one.
when this is done and they have approached the market leaders let that model be enforced all over the market.All shop owners made to undertake it.This is obtainable because the market unions are so powerful they can get shop owners to do these.
Imagine in places like Abuja where individuals build roads at satellite towns then we really need to wakeup

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This is Nigeria and here we respect those who we feel are responsible.
When you ask "How are you(doing)?" we expect you mean it and consider it you being a nuisance when we consider you are replacing a regular "Hi" with something else.

Even "how naw" comes with a sense of responsibility that the reply you get is sincere,like "Bros na hunger oh"

Yes someone would say its a Nigerian mentality,but "Hey,you are in Nigeria".

You walk into UBA and the reception area has over 5 ladies, you happen to know all on a personal level and you say "Hi ladies,how are you all doing?" and you get these replies:
1. Am ok
2.Am ok
3.Am really mad at my husband, came home last night and one thing led to another and he gave me a slap.
4.My rent is due and am confused as I've spent my last upfront on medicals of granny.
5.Didnt sleep last night as I was seeing a pediatrician.

What exactly will be your reply to these,are you responsible enough to attend to all these and do you think you're not the one who is jobless checking on everyone you see as not everyone comes from a culture where that is entertained.

Even Counselors have to have you book a session,sit down and talk;why do you think everyone must on the hall way? Some persons have targets given to them and you sometimes are a distraction leaving your desk.

Part of being a human being is you appreciating that we come from different places and respect what our views and values are,if you do not I wonder.

In most languages around if you must checkup on someone then there are conditions like a senior to a younger and we find it strange when because you think for English you can alter all these;its not about being jobless.

Just my view,we might be many

There is a reason its called "Family".
If you werent a graduate would have said pls while you train them at school,enroll too as I have seen cases.
Its simple,support them as you have been doing bt from the little you dnt spend workout a savings/investment.
Thank God none has a terrible sickness.
When you are married its advised you divide what you have between your home and your father's house as your children needs to be trained too(My people would say,they are also your children not his children alone).Point is while helping out encourage them to get a skill or start something that way everyone gets to be independent atleast.(A graduate I know works with DSTV as a technician and still searching but lives in his brother's house).
Its the best thing that ever happened to us..."Family",but work around everything planning and discuss with ur husb b4 marriage.

Like to ask, if you really wanted it to work what would you do that you havent done?
Am asking bcz I havent heard her story and you are the one in this who gets to decide and for the fact that "NO MAN WILL EVER ASK HIS FELLOW MAN TO DIVORCE HIS WIFE" so what can you do to save this,go home and evaluate if your marriage can be saved based on what you still see.
For a moment I always say..."s/he was the best thing that ever happened to you".If it means u want to take a walk,pls do bt with caution and keep the friendship,parties still after being apart do come together and even if you dnt,keep the friendship.
Custody becomes bloody when parties are neck-to-neck (there is never a case where its to be decided just bcz we feel like it) that is why courts still gets to decide based on available facts so those here who feel they are right for whatever reasons I ask..."Do you guys know this family more than anyone else here?".
Our prayers are with you,yeah your mind is made up but take it slow man but be wise so this doesnt consume any of you its already bad enough the kids would have to face any outcome of this

I have come to a realisation that it would be best to marry a white man. Ever since i was younger i always felt this attraction to white men, there is just something so sexy and a lil taboo abt white men that i just cannot get out of my system. But its not only physically but mentally too.

White men do not have the same complexes and villager mentality as some of the blk men do. They really know how to make a women feel special and carry their weight around such as helping the lady with chores lovingly, just the way they are also on top of the corporate ladder.

The Alpha males. They strive to be the best and they uplift you and empower you instead of insulting and accussing you of feminism. I was watching a youtube video of britpopprinces with her white husband and the way this guy is damn no blk man would do the same as he does....Personal opinion,that's ok


Even white men do not have any mishaps abt blk women wearing weaves or being darker or lighter. They see you for yourself. I guess in the past i was shy to admit it. Scared what would ppl say or think. Scared of the stares etc. So i have missed out on some good white guys in the past because of this plus i thought that all just want blk women for one thing. But things are changing, ppl are different...Where are you and really where did you grow up(environment)? Maybe a complete list of profiles of black men you have dated can really help us understand you


Dnt judge a person based on hearsay and stereotypes.....I think that's exactly what you are doing...judging black(Nigerian) men So women this is now 21st century. Do what you need to do....and that by following you to feel you want out? Date who you want whether white, asian, black, nigerian or non-nigerian....I think every female grows up to decide that and dnt have to be told worse by those who are not sure of what they want. You have only one life to live and be with someone who will make you happy and fit your personality....Sis,what happened to you? u're full of hate and trust me its not so bad(whatever live has offered so far) I love white men and i cannot lie....Good to know and good luck with life with white men sis

Operationally you dont arrest an officer on uniform(that's why there is "identification parade" )except in rare cases.
When an officer is found wanting,his senior in rank defaults him and his case treated accordingly.When an officer is discovered to be wanting by another agency the 1st writes the second with a full report of the incident and infact you can ask he be released to interview the IO in this case,you dnt detain another officer except on extreme cases.
These are men on essential duties and for one you can only confirm why they are where they are through their handlers.
I also do hope by now the government of Lagos state has considered it necessary to write all uniform and non uniform agencies in the state and address the issue of discipline amongst their officers and possibly establish a desk in State Attorney General's office to lease with such agencies should there officers be found wanting instead of embarassing institutions of government on the press.These same NPF other than the army are men who are doing so much to protect us no matter how little we know about and if anyone has an issue,I expect by now NGOs would have gone to ask and publish the working guidelines or any of such documents of the NPF and other agencies of gov't that have been violent towards civilians so when such cases come up at least we can know where to start from.
I for one believe institutionaly these acts of officers and men of the nation's services can be taken care of without making a mess of the system,which I see most persons enjoy.
Dont support officers breaking the law,but why do you think you understand the nature of their jobs just bcz you know them?
...."In valor there is hope." —Tacitus

@centje : I dont know what it's called or the detailed procedure as the baby is taken into the theatre and when the ring is fixed handed over to you,its the practice in most hospitals I know.
Where I think your post is wrong is where you said no pain,there is and slight hike in temp as the baby is not comfortable but this goes away in few days(some babies keep crying even when handed over to their mum).
Also on being given your baby,the usual instruction is "when the ring falls off(which is less than 7days);if you notice bleeding rush to the hospital IMMEDIATELY and give panda to avoid high temp"

As a brother,I'll say leave both alone.
I think you are not emotionaly matured,work on it.
You might end up with one,but for now let it go for both.
Dnt ask, dnt tell but keep the friendship.Its what its always about.

When you do all that work and away from home for days,always remember your duty at home.
You come home and wants a shot,she feels like she's serving you meal not what you both agreed.She kept giving in but as the weeks passed by you mastered being a 2min man and the funny part is you cu-m and never come backup.You let her lay there all by herself touching while you sleepoff.She had to learn to maintain her sanity.The last thing a woman wants is tell you she wants more always and worse when you dnt care when b4 you did.You made her grow old hoping someday you could play more than 15mins atleast b4 pen-tratn.
Walk your way back man and bcz u've bcom lazy in bed.
My suggestion: mix carrot,water melon and cucumber would help till u regain ur stamina.
Should she be scared u've cheated go run std n show her the results that you didnt do anything and wouldnt harm her.
Pls say sorry if she says you've been insensitive like I painted above and promise never to,will do the magic