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DesignAndBuild:
Would that thought even be entertained by either Klopp or Liverpool when they were on top of the world few months ago? Never

You're probably right, but on Klopp's part, I think he'd likely consider it as a big opportunity. Given his reputation, the national team and the nation at large would be delighted to have him as a coach. Besides, he already gave Liverpool what they had been seeking for over 30 years. So yes, I think Klopp would have entertained the thought, I don't know about Liverpool.

DesignAndBuild:
When he won the long awaited title for them just some months ago, it seemed like he would be awarded the honorary Liverpool manager for life and his exit looked inconceivable. Nothing lasts forever in football

Nothing lasts forever in life, but this isn't about Liverpool planning to fire Klopp. It's a decision that hinges on Klopp's decision to take over the Germany national team when Joaquin Low leaves.

LadySarah:
A certain Chii59 has been trolled out of nl last week on account of her sickle cell health status.While I don't know her nor holding brief for her as some them said it was a tit for tat thingy,its a call for us to be careful the jabs we throw at ppl.Some are just looking for a lil trigger to commit suicide.

Ppl who know her should call her pls.I fear for her.

I also think this late Victorian was too open with her issues on nl which weaponised the trolls .So many offline chats especially with guys and all.When it isn't even business related.

Wait what? You mean people actually trolled her despite stating her health challenges? No wonder I haven't seen her posts for a while. Do you have the link to the thread or has it been deleted?

Thebest12:
Dear nairalands
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Good morning all . Hope you have a nice day . I am here to table my problem to matured minds . Pls I need a genuine advise or better still a suggestion . My problem is that I have a lot of female friends . But each time they pass night with me in my room or a hotel they don't allow me touch them . I mean they normally denie me sex . And I am a kind of easy going guy . I don't like forcing them to avoid it being tagged rape . Am I being too gentle ? Pls advice me

Guy there's so much more to life than satisfying your sexual urges haba!

What is the difference between a cross dresser and a transgender?

snoopz:
I've not witnessed a dead body situation but the one I witnessed was about a kid in my area, the small boy follows his cousin all the time to fetch water and I mean all the time, fast forward to this particular day, the mother told the kid to follow his cousin to go and fetch water could you believe this child was adamant that he won't go and was even crying he doesn't want to fetch water that day but unfortunately he obeyed his mother and followed his cousin, on their way back a vehicle *crushed* both the kid and his sister(cousin). when the frsc came, they had to pull them out from under the vehicle that was the first time I saw the aftermath of an accident...
the mother of the child told us everything the child said when she got to scene of the accident that he is not going to fetch water...
In my own way I think something was warning the mother and the child but as fate will have it they couldn't avoid the tragedy
so if you have not witnessed a situation don't say it's a lie

The "smart ones" will say it's either a coincidence or there's an explanation for it.

obembet:
The draws are rigged off, how are Milan getting all the easy teams

mynd44

LOL this one loud o! Zebra united fans are coming for you o.

Gbest90:
So this one is beautiful...
Says so much about of taste.

You're a comedian. You should consider a career related to that.

Polynek:
Like I always say, Opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own. As we get different face, na so our problem de different

But most people have doppelgangers.

IamBroke:
I believe there are alot of single people here on this forum and all over the world.

Reasons they are single are best known to them.
But for me here are few reasons I'm still single..

I'm in ma early 20s but I've never asked a girl out before because I always feel like they gonna turn me down...
I'm single because I'm an introvert. I love being on ma own.
I'm broke and I'm not ready to take responsibilities of a girl financial situations.
There are alot of reasons but let me give room for others...

So WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE

1. I've got my whole life ahead of me. Still in my middle twenties, meaning I still have some settling down to do. So the basic reason is PRIORITY. I believe the purpose of relationships is getting married. On this note, I'm not ready for that.

2. Peace of mind - I feel it's really difficult to find someone who would give you that in a relationship these days.

3. I'm not physically attractive. Though this is secondary, I feel most people are attracted to good looks. I'm a bit introverted, and this makes it even more difficult for me.

That's why number 1 is the most important because I can't change how I look. So if this doesn't go, maybe having that sense of achievement will give me the boldness to go for the woman I want (and whom God has chosen for me).

There are other reasons but these are the most important.

Ever heard of Courtney Dike? She's extremely beautiful.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Why do you like wahala like this

You just said she feeds on attention and you keep giving her that. If you seek peace here, then you also have a part to play. Ignore her, then she won't say anything. If she still does, keep ignoring her. That creates a better chance for tranquility to have its place.

Oh! That's actually what FB means, didn't think so. Thanks.

Why does your profile include "followed boards" icon? Are you a mod or sth?

I never got to have any personal encounter of any sort with her, but this is painful to me, I don't know why. I also don't know exactly why but I always had a weird feeling about that lady.

kindredspirit:
Update:

Just finished speaking with her neighbour this evening. He told me they had made good progress regarding establishing contact with her family.


He said he received lots of calls from some of her extended family in Delta state and some in Lagos. They said her kith and kin in the village would be holding a family meeting to discuss matters pursuant to picking up her corpse next week from the morgue in Lagos and taking it to Delta for burial.


My purpose of creating the thread early this morning has been achieved and my work is done.


Thanks to all the Nairalanders who assisted in connecting Victorian's family with her neighbours. According to the neighbour, it was until Nairalanders weighed in that they were able to make progress.


Let's all pray for the repose of the soul Victoria Puegeren. May she Rest in Peace.

Be safe everyone. Good bye.

Cc: fixey

You have done a very good job. With the way you took it upon yourself to ensure the ease of the whole situation, I pray that for your sake, people will go out of their way to make things easy for you. You're firmly appreciated!

Sanchez01:
There is the reality check that life is short after learning that someone you got into an argument with has passed on. The feeling that you should have reached out in time or understood them will always stare at you.

Death does not change whether someone is an idiot or not, as you rightly pointed, but sympathisers become more human and realize they can let go of whatever grudge they had with the dead.

I don't know you but this single post puts up a sign that you have a sound mind. Kudos!

eternityk:
the reason why u believe humans are special is because of your evolution given brain that has intelligence
let natural disasters happen,which will happen and people die in large numbers,that's when u will know how pathetic humans are
u haven't experienced any of this,u are in this bubble created by your pastors churches family that won't open your brain to reality
I will just tell u that nature and reality are very very harsh when they show u how the world is
be living in your bubble,I can assure you a test is still coming for you

If it's because of our "evolution-given brain" , why then was it given to just us? Why hasn't any other organism evolved to our level after thousands of years? Why is it just us at the top of the chain? Oh! It's just a thing of chance?

I don't need to have a personal experience to know how harsh nature is on those who are partakers of it, but that should not change my belief about how special we are. We are not complex for nothing. Look at how small our brains are, compared to some other animals with larger ones, and look at the amazing things we do.

In the beginning, God said we should dominate the world, and that is exactly what is at play here -- utter dominance. Speaking of test, I've had my own share of that but it doesn't tell me how worthless I am.

Thanks for sharing your opinion but please, let's not derail the thread any further. You can quote me elsewhere if you wish to continue this conversation.

eternityk:
but people will die, people die everyday,as we are talking right now people are still dying
u didn't cry when u see your chicken die,you didn't cry when u see animals die
why then do u feel sad about something that happens everyday and something you know will happen to all of us soon
this life is not precious,life just exists and then it dies.
it is the law of the universe, what you do or think doesn't matter at the end of the day because we are all pieces of shittt
our existence is pathetic,but u know what is more pathetic? humans,even though we human know this fact,we tend to pretend it doesn't happen and then when somebody dies we all act surprised
people die every God dam fuckinnnnggg day
there is not surprising or sad or bad or cruel about it
it's just the law of the universe
the earlier we accept this fact the better we stop acting like a cry babies when someone dies
our existence is meaningless
we human beings are too proud to think we matter
we are not at all different to those chicken rats animals that die anyhow
because that's what we humans are.
pathetic!

God exists. We live, we die but as humans, we all have a divine purpose on this earth. Eternity exists, and our eternal destinations are determined by the life we live here. Until you believe these things, you'll continue to place humans in the same position as animals.

1Sharon:
Who told you it's made up? I just told you that I've seen it..because you haven't seen doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Tell me about the flying spaghetti monster then, what is it like? And how did you get to know about it in the first place? Give me a technical and philosophical argument to at least make me believe that it exists.

1Sharon:
Excuse me? I have seen it, now do you believe?

Isn't it obvious that you are making this up? the flying spaghetti monster isn't a thing to believe in. It's merely a made up idea to make people see that anyone can claim that anything exists. The motive is to debunk the existence of God. So no, I do not believe that the FSM exists, and it is evident that you are lying.

1Sharon:
Do you believe in the flying spaghetti monster? I do and have seen it.

Congratulations!

I see that you're trying to play a reverse psychology trick on me, well done!

philfearon:
You see.

You have left the subject matter and you are now talking about religious and non-religious affiliations.

A smart person will not do that!

What part of my post referred to affiliations of that sort? There's a difference between being superstitious and being religious. This thread is essentially a thread related to superstitions, so I don't see how my previous post derailed from the subject matter.

sapphiere:
R.I.P to him.
Have you all notice that women rarely commit suicide.
That's because we have better things occupying our minds.

You are either a child or an adult who has the brain of a child. Shame on you!

If only we knew what was ahead of us, we wouldn't make certain decisions. This is why we need to possess behavioural virtues; patience, endurance, meekness, etc. If only that man was reasonable enough to at least try to negotiate with them, he wouldn't have been in this position. Now he's jumped from a little problem to a much bigger one, na wa!

philfearon:
@bolded,
Well, if there is no explanations for it at the moment, why not leave it at that?

I assure you that all Nigerian ghost stories are a lie.

Just because you haven't had a personal experience doesn't make it a lie. There are billions of people around the world, and thousands who have claimed to have such experiences in various forms and magnitudes, so why should I believe it's a lie simply because one person said so?

I don't know what makes you free thinkers (who're also Nigerians) think that you are better than other Nigerians who believe in things that elude logical reasoning. What makes you people think you're smarter/more intelligent than those who believe these things?

1Sharon:
And so? This means nothing

It does, you should give it a thought.

1Sharon:
Why shouldn't siblings ALL worry about their fathers mortality?

I think the question should be "why should ALL siblings see their dad tell them the same thing in their dreams the same night that he died?"

1Sharon:
I already explained how his sisters had the same experience, they were all equally worried about their dad passing away, so that worry also crept up into their dreams aswell.

I'm guessing the father was not in the best of health before he died.

As I explained to another poster, bad dreams are a result of people's phobias

Have you neve dreamt about something that is on your mind?

So you are saying that they all had THE SAME DREAM, THE SAME NIGHT about their dad visiting them because they were all worried about THE SAME THING? how exactly? I don't think the narrator of this experience gave that much details for you to arrive at that conclusion.

I have been worried about a lot of things all my life, and I don't remember all of them reflecting in my dreams.

1Sharon:
He doesn't need to. I read between the lines. His father was likely old and had some health issues causing him to be sick and others to worry about him and his mortality

This is why his sisters also had the same experience.

Whatever people worry about, comes out in their dreams.

I'm sure the father was not in the best of health before he died.

You simply read between the lines. While that was a smart thing to do and not taking away the possibility, I don't see how that explains his sisters having the same experience, plus you don't have all the facts.

I don't think you've really explained how our worries play out in our dreams, does this happen all the time?

1Sharon:
You were dreaming. Ppl tend to dream about what bothers them. You had fears of your father passing away hence why it crept up into your dreams.

Then your mum came to tell you he had passed.

He didn't state anywhere in his post that he had fears of his father passing away. Besides, he said that his sisters also had the same experience, how do you explain that?

By the way, what led to the conclusion that people tend to dream about the things that bother them? Kindly expatiate on that.

Tommmmybigd:
my dad gave up the ghost in my bare hands,I noticed and was with him from 11pm till 6am in the morning, nothing happened, I'm his only child and, he never appeared to me telling me things,and he too don't believe this shiiit when he was alive,I don't believe all this shitttttt ,I only know what I know, what I don't know don't know me,danke

Your case is different; you were with your dad before he passed on. Others were not with the deceased before they passed on. The visitations occurred either at the point of death or moments after then. So I don't think you have a case here.