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MRsoftapple:
Cooking is no longer a big deal.
There are YouTube videos and small books that teaches everyone how to cook different delicacies.

If she is willing to learn or not, it does not matter, there are women that knows how to cook but still employs chefs because of work and busy schedule.

Beyonce is worth almost half a billion dollar and she dont know how to cook, she is succesfully married with kids for more than a decade now.

Those female celebs that can win tournaments in cooking, some of them are divorced now, some are mere baby mamas.

Seriously. No food is a mystery these days no matter the tribe. We just need to visit YouTube and viola!!

henry49:
Great talkers are less doers!

I see

Beedude:
Can u marry a guy that can not make love ?

Is cooking equal to love making?

lefulefu:
probably slaying in front of mirror and uploading d pix on facebook and instagram or she was busy watching zeeworld while d mom was sweating out in d kitchen. Even me dats a man i can cook so cooking is no big deal but i get surprised wen i find out dat some ladies cant even boil common egg. Wen i was much younger i remember anytime my mom's cooking i will watch her then later i will cook d food. I made some errors but i later perfected it. Some girls dhier mom will be in d kitchen cooking and sweating it out and they will be in the sittingroom watching a telenovella or gossiping with their friends.

You could not even try that with my mum. I learnt at a young age watching my mum in the kitchen. You couldn't be watching TV while she cooked.

People could have valid reasons why they didn't learn though. It is just that cooking is not a big deal not to learn. Besides no one should be able to style for me when I feel like eating a particular dish.

lilmax:
everybody dey vex o


the ones with 100 to 800k salaries are complaining, trying to vote out bubu

but the ones blinded by 30k salary said NO

It is a mindset thing.

The young people should be given a chance in 2023. And the Senate, House of Reps should also see an influx of young people to compliment a young president, rather than the old minds filled with old ideas that have been reshuffled time and time again.

Maxymilliano:
Cock crow at dawn ...

Mirror in the sun ...

Jagua ...

Behind the cloud ...

Koko Close ...

Ripples

New Masquerade ...

Checkmate ...

Fortune ...

Arelu ...

YoponYanrin ...

Feyikogbon ...

Supple Blues

Abiku

Inability to cook should not be the determinant in a relationship especially if she has many other good things about her.

But seriously, cooking is basic...it is a survival necessity. What was she doing with her time that she didn't learn even the basics?

How does she want to go about it in marriage? Eat out, buy pots of soups and stews or depend on maids?

I just think some women invite trouble by themselves. Inasmuch as a wife may trust her husband, she should not test his trust and faithfulness by tempting him and acting oblivious of things around her.

Blood and water are very different. She is not his sister and cannot see her as such

MISEDUCATIONS:
and the funny part is we had not even started chatting for you to judge it.

Anyways, this changes nothing. I still like you. Just reduce your paranoia.

I can't modify who I am to please you. At least I have not asked you to change your antagonistic ways. And if you interpret speaking my mind as being paranoid, that's fine.

MISEDUCATIONS:
judging by the way you backed out when WhatsApp was mentioned I'm pretty sure your mind was there already

Not at all. I don't start what I can't finish. Besides, if a chat is something my husband cannot read through freely, I would rather not do it.

So No, my mind didn't conceive it.

The hostel has more benefits. I stayed in the hostel all through university. I couldn't just think of being off campus or in a BQ.

So bad of her. Why lead him on when she knew she was about getting wedded?

But you should know that this is not a girl thing. In fact I thing more guys do this especially the ones they call "****** demons". Not new

Allen02:
Yes you are a bltch, now get da fvck off my mention h0e

How do you go around calling people you don't even know foul names?

That is not how mature people communicate. But it's ok... you are free to expose your level of immaturity all by yourself.

Safe.

A bad girlfriend will make bad wife...simple logic.

MISEDUCATIONS:
has that ever stopped these disloyal losers from fooling around?

So calling "sweety" means I am fooling around. It's ok.

MISEDUCATIONS:
lol Charmings she called me that to manipulate me into not dissing her.
I took the bait coz I have always really liked her.

Ubunja nicely done.

Allen02:
she's a public toilet

Really?

MISEDUCATIONS:
Then stop calling strangers "sweety"

Noted

Godfather (I feel like putting of the family)
Baggage Claim
Con Air (I am addicted to this one baad)
Best Man Holiday

KubwaBoy:
1) 3 idiots
2) Police Academy
3) The return of Buhari ( Just tighten your seat belt as you watch his cluelessness for another 4 years) .

I love 3 idiots

Larryfest:
Two and a half men....

Two and a half men is not a movie

MISEDUCATIONS:
guilty as charged.

Holla on my WhatsApp and I tell you the dirty things I've been thinking about you.

Seriously? I'll pass

Can they do this in Lagos too? This Otoge group can move to Lagos

MISEDUCATIONS:
have you been a guy that has a good life, job and all things working out for him?

Ubunja sweety are you stalking me?

Different religions. When I walked in and saw him praying, I knew we could not be together.

A guy that has a good life, job...and things working out for him will not open bashing threads up and down.

NL guys what is really going on? Some of you need rehabilitation or to see a shrink before it gets out of hand

To move into my dream place this month.

Vibesking:
There's a particular sect of individuals [male and female] who always seem to be at the opposite side of luck when it comes to love.
These folks have been heartbroken and emotionally battered to point they believe that love only exist in movies.

For the males who fall into the above category, they've come to accept that all women are inclined to be repacious and money-grobbers. They claim that all women have an inherent tendency to cheat and are generally gold diggers.

Also, there's a particular sect of females who are unlucky with love too. These folks seem to
have a magnetic field around them that appears to always pull players towards them -- they always tend to fall in love with men who eventually cheat on them.
As a result of numerous heartbreaks, you hear such women recline to saying things like "all men are scum. "

These two sects of individuals have one thing in common: they BELIEVE the worse about the opposite sex.

To the average person this might not make sense. But there's been various psychological studies which reveal that your life often catches up with your thoughts.
Your reality will move in the direction of the mental pictures you've established in your mind.

If you believe that all men are scum, be assured that only scumbags will approach you. And after a while, you begin to wonder where all the good men are. There's no diabolical powers are after you; its just nature obeying the universal law of attraction.

Look carefully into the life of men who believe that all women are avaricious. These are exactly the kind of wowen that always come in and out of thier life -- women who like money above anything else and don't mind spreading their legs for a parcel of bread.

Here's the bottom line: If your want to attract good, first learn to see good in others.
The quality of your life is in direct correlation with how you think and see the world.

The bold is so true. They keep attracting what they have filled up their heads with.

cooluzi:
you mean love music lol

Music is soul food

MISEDUCATIONS:
does OUTSPOKEN have another meaning I'm not aware of

I don't know. You tell me

Because men here can't stand an outspoken woman. They want the ones that would call them "lord" and agree to everything they say.