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TINALETC3:
Exactly Wat hapens wen u sleep wt anything sleepable

As in ehn!! Ladies have the mind to just sleep with anyone not knowing what danger could be involved. Even the man is also at risk cos he doesn't know what the woman might be carrying.

internationalman:
Yeah I wish guys could do the same, then u would see that sexual advances won't b restricted to guys only... in other words girls would b making moves on guys also.

But girls make moves on guys everytime. I dont think succumbing sexual urge is peculiar to men. It is just that men have taken it to another level...making it seem like it is food or water that keeps them alive.

I don't why this post is paining guys here. If you do not have money now, work hard to have it. Both men and women.

Men that are always saying the woman should bring in money too...are you planning to live on your wife's income? Cos these days so many men are content with with where they are while they depend on their wife's income. They refuse to be ambitious.

jhudit:
Lolz...I am saying your English ...though simple, was hard for him to understand.

Dont mind him. I even thought it was him i was responding to.

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Jst wondering wat d wife of d man wud say on air about dis

" i am very happy dat my husband won a cooking competition while i sat down nd ate popcorn "...

SHAME

She must b one of dos feminist dat can't cook indomie but will come nd b using their hole to collect all d available vacancy dat we hav in dis country


#Eco99#

Na wa for u o. Take it easy na.

I am a lover of cooking. Infact just seeing foodstuff makes me excited. But fortunately or unfortunately, i married a man that can cook things that even my plenty experimenting didnt lead me to...both continental and local.

Our friends even ask us who is in charge of the kitchen.

It might not be a feminist sometin

He is an ALPHAMALE

internationalman:
I blame men for giving ladies d impression that they can't do without sex. Ladies on the other hand do a very good job concealing their sexual urge even if it is their heat period.
You will only know how important sex is to ladies when men decide not to show interest. They will b d ones begging.

I miss my old friends. I remember how we reached an agreement never to woo any girl in my area then....

It is called self control

jhudit:
English is hard, plus guilty conscience.
You answer is simple for normal people to understand. "If scum is the name for women who cheat"...so be it.

So how is that hypocrisy. Women and men that cheat are the same. Cheating is not gender specific.

You are the one that seems to have a problem with English or you are just unable to think out of a particular box you created for yourself

OrdercityWeb:
Lol. Deflection. So "scum" and "trash" is for men that cheat?
I'll let this go. I've passed my message.
Everyone can see the hypocrisy of the 21st century woman.
Bye!
**Modified**
As for the bitch below me. I wouldn't even dignify you with a response. You're not worth it

Somehow u ascribe some kind of importance to your response like it can be banked and it is so easy for you to call someone a bitch.

You asked a question and i answered. I don't know where your mind got the hypocrisy that you added to the matter.

OrdercityWeb:
So we are free to say "women are scum"?

If "scum" is the name for women who cheat

Whizkids songs are forgettable. They don't stick.

This woman cannot do without a belt

PaperLace:
I know right. Sometimes you share for the purpose of clarification (i.e) it's not always that easy or as bad as society paints it, but you must end up misunderstood. If there is anything I have noticed, majority love to hear the bad!!

I forgot to add another,when you don't talk at all _they say, is this one truly happy in his/her marriage. He/she never talks about the spouse .

If we follow people's mouth, we will just mess thinga up. Really people like to hear bad. They want to feel that their situation is better than yours. They look for the downfall of others so that they can have something to talk about in their next gossip meeting.
Me, i was a happy child before i got married. I am still the same happy child. It just leaves people guessing. Besides the few friends are friends with my husband. I don't need ro

Marriage is meant to enjoyed. Misunderstandings are normal but it doesn't have to become a fight. When there is love, both parties will make life easy for each other and not try to dominate each other to show supremacy of power

PaperLace:
From my POV, nothing extraordinary, they are things you hear/read of everyday. Though there are details that should remain classified and never for external parties, the rest is at the discretion of the married to share. It's complicated explaining these things to some singles(and married too).

You really nailed it!!

Besides in marriage, you cannot go around telling people details of your marriage. That is already inviting the third party they warn us of.
Marriage is a threefold cord with husband, wife and God. Even your pastor should not be privy to your marriage details except in life threatening or counselling sessions.

Op just live your life and leave your dad. Don't worry about the things you cannot change.

Besides there are some people that have both parents living together but life is still hell. Having both parents is good but it does not guarantee a better life.

Make up your mind to be a better parent and spouse to yout kids and partner. There are people out there that have a blissful marriage and family. Aim at being one of them.

Anger destroys. Keep that at the back of your mind. And just as one poster said, do not bottle things up. When you are uncomfortable or upset, let the person know. Once u keep holding that person in mind, your explosion will surprise you.

And try to let somethings go. Know that humans are not perfect and you should anticipate the evidence of that imperfect nature.

Be positive about life. Laugh more, play more and don't take everything to heart. Because with time, people will be scared of being around you. They will have to tiptoe around you to that they do not trigger an explosion.

It takes continuous conscious effort to get rid of that angry kid

It is a mistake for a child whether first or not to be saddled with responsibilities of his/her siblings especially financially. Parents should have the number of children they can cater for and not expect the first child to take up their responsibilities.

Couples just have children up and down with "it is God that gives children" as their watchword.

And inasmuch as the first child is meant to be a role model to the younger ones, attention should also be paid to their feelings so that they are not under pressure.

The same reason married men cheat.

These days our reward is no longer in heaven. We do a kind thing and announce it worldwide.

kayceerilyn:
The smoochers are terrible.. They are so comfortable doing their shit...


I remember one years ago... I thought it was a mistake and tried to adjust but the determined dude moved with me. I just switched seats when I could

Lol...my bluntness scares them. By the time i look at him and say " can you move??...lol

Is he using those fake girls around him as a yardstick

jaychubi:
U sound like a stupid teenager n a complete learner, u will learn when u grow up surely.

I can bet my right hand dt the man loves his marriage but only wants to turn his ex to side chic for occasional knacking. Only a wise person will notice dt

My thoughts exactly. No responsible, grown up man will sound that way. He has not seen life yet.

If this man cares about his marriage, he will work on it. He should make his wife a babe na. Buy her the kind of clothes he wants or get someone to overhaul her looks and mentor her.
Shebi he wanted a meek,mgbeke gal that would pound yam for him and massage his ego. Why is he complaining now.

The wife too has to try for her destiny. She should even look good for herself. Doesn't she look in the mirror?
She doesn't like to be complimented. Buy sexy lingerie and not booluku pant everytime. Check the internet for nutty things she can do to excite him if she cannot come up with them herself...
Let me come and be going

Those in the head office seem more privileged and relaxed. They get good appraisals and get promoted promptly.

But account officers in the branch run around to meet unrealistic targets, put their lives in danger sometimes and still get bad appraisals and delayed promotion.

Some evil supervisors that plot your downfall.

MPR (Monthly Performance Review) where you present what you have done against your target and get the bashing of your destiny.

Etc

wtfcoded:
Lol.
I hate injections.

I prefer injections. No throwing up of drugs involved

IBreakRules:
this epistle just to prove a point.
its either you are still a virgin or gay.

Is the former bad?

Op why the hurry? Abi u guys are practicing abstinence and cannot wait to eat the cookie.

Good luck. U need it

Why would i even send nudes to a guy? For what reason? Mbanu!

So ladies actually send such pics to guys not even worried about him sharing it.

Why should even ask me to send nudes? Just seems stupid to me

I love romance . This post reminds me of my dating days. I loved picnics...i took my bf for a surprise picnic to celebrate his birthday.
I loved cards especially handmade cards and hand written letters .
I cried when he gave me a cd with a compilation of my favourite songs as a birthday gift.I would rather take a trip than money and romantic dinner over a phone.
Truth is if the guy can afford to take me on a trip,etc, if i need money or a phone, it won't be a big deal
I like flowers but i think i wouldn't mind pizza to go with. Am not an icecream fan whether coldstone or hotsand.

For me,spending money on experiences makes me happier than spending money on material things

Please blame two of them. They are living like housemates in the same house and doing their thing separately. Your dad earns 400k yet he allows her handle most if the needs. She also feels betrayed. She is taking trips without telling him and buying cars.
His own money is used for only what he knows.

Couples fight and disagree but their vows are supposed to be at the back of their minds...their love for each other. I dont think they want to be married. They want different things and are not willing to come together to achieve it. You cannot force them. You can only pray for them.

If it is really bothering you, you should see a doctor. You can't have this and take it lightly...giving every girl that crosses you pimples. Biko go and see a doc