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Ruggedfitness:
Just taking a look at him you will understand that Basket Mouth is an A level comedian.

Already 39 and still rocking the good looks.

After appearing for the first time in FESTAC in 1995. He did even come to crack jokes but to rap.

In Other News
3 S￡x Positions Every Woman Hates! No.1 Will Shock You
http://www.realfitbody.com/2017/09/3-sx-positions-every-woman-hates-no1.html

All this number something will shock you kind of headline shaaa. Getting old

My own was rice. I can eat rice so much. I still make concotion rice in my house. Noodles was hardly ever an option till now.

comradespade:
Olosan police station? Why olosan? They will soon be released after those boys sponsorers water their pockets and they will start terrorizing again...ask those olosan people about the kidnappers that were caught last week foolish "olopas"


Cultism has been a normal thing in these schools for more than 3decades in Lagos(mushin)

Euba, Igbo owu, oduduwa, community n itire community, atunrase, eko boys n so on...but ambode seems not to care.


Let me seat in one corner n see how the DPO perform his magics

Very true. It didn't just start. Over 15yrs ago, my seniors were caught during their secret meeting. They were called PIRATES.
Cultism in secondary schools is not new.

Is it me or have nairaland IPOB supporters suddenly gone quiet. I can't see that aggressive and relentless support of Nnamdi Kanu. Issokay

bigtt76:
Truth is you can't take away that 'what do you expect' out of the equation.

It's a know fact that when a girl and a boy are together in a secluded environment or alone in a room, that '3rd person' in between the guy's leg begin to think otherwise.

I'm not justifying the guy's action or condemning the babe, but just to put it straight.... Know your friend's capabilities before you start thinking him harmless.

We may never know what had transpired between them before that day that may have given him the impression he should just give it a try.... He might as well lock her up in the room and rape her.... Yes he could have even spiked her drink and have a go at her.

I still believe she could have done better not to put the guy in such a condition that made him want to go the extra miles with her.

Even a reverend father or imam (no pun intended) would feel gingered up if they find demselves in room with a babe who probably is flashing tities or panties at them.... Men nor bi wood don't lead them into temptation.

This is not an endorsement or condemnation pls.

That third leg can think all it wants. The fact that i visit a guy doesn't mean there has to be sex. These guys need to learn to respect ladies. We are not sex objects. That's why some guys feel it is their birthright to have sex with a girl who visits him because some ladies do not believe they have more to offer than sex.

Nellychinma20:
u are right but at least 95% do cheat .

You will be surprised that the percentage is lower. We tend to draw our conclusions based on our social circles and people around us. There are quite a number of people that have never cheated even while they were dating.

bigtt76:
I wonder what she expected going to a man's house in the morning on a cold day kwanu

She never know say early in the morning and night, a man's jogbo is at its highest alert?

Besides that, how would she feel if his girl friend stumbles on her assuming he had one? Clap and hug her?

Na we babes de cause our problem shaaaaaaaa

It is still a lady's right to say yes or no. It is a wrong notion when people say things like "what did she expect". She has the right to consent or not. Is sex the guy's right because a lady visits him? No! It's this kind of comments that have made men think a lady that visits them should be ready to be laid.

Your baby's weight might not have anything to do with breastfeeding or formula. I saw my friend who is doing EBF today. Her baby is chubbyyyy with big cheeks. He looks 8months old and he is 4months. And the mother looks healthy and chubby and is even trying to lose weight.
Babies differ and people's bodies differ.

How great she is! She must be the I am that I am.

Cheating is a personal thing. It's not general. Anyone who cheats, does so because he or she decided to do it regardless of whatever reason or excuse given.

Not all men
Not all women cheat.

Spiritually, morally, emotionally wrong. Just setting themselves up. If they cannot be creative on the own,they hv failed

But it would pain the woman more if the guy ignored her and walked away. Some women are extremely troublesome

Don't give your dad too much attention. Respect him as your father and do what u can. But don't try too hard to make him love you because he will keep taking advantage of it. Move out if you can and be scarce. Let him learn to respect you. And develop yourself as the person above me advised.

Tell him he has changed and that he seems to takes things you do or say the wrong and it is affecting your relationship with him. You should understand. It is called ego.

Your friend abi. ..that one is small. A man i called my uncle asked for sex when i visited him. I sparked for him and still demanded he drop me off back home. Shameless and stupid man.

Appswheel:
I read this post on Facebook and found it valuable to Share. I do not know that Author

"I, like many other Igbos have stood on the side lines for far too long, wishing this Biafran breeze fizzles away, but it’s now dangerously turning into a major storm that constitutes an existential threat to Igbo civilization as we know it. Those of you IPOBians, Sympathizers, Rumour Mongers, Facebook Warriors, Facebook megastars, Opinion Leaders and Propagandists escalating the already tense situation must understand that in the end, you'll all be losers, victims and at the same time in more bondage than you ever were. Not my wish anyway, but the perceptible reality. No war ever got won by emotions. Preparation and strategy does, ask any battle-tested soldier. Even the best of them get eaten. Little by little you guys are doing everything possible to attract avoidable conflict to our region hoping that the international community will intervene. You'll be in for a shocker when this meal you've cooked for so long is served up.


Understand this, I have monitored many revolutionary conflicts around the world and know this for a fact, the international community foot-drags at less than a snail pace, if at all, before attempting any interventions in internal conflicts in a sovereign nation and that includes America and Israel you're hoping on. War is a huge liability and no Country wants to meddle. The best they give these days are reliefs not military aids and that is after many must have died including those who started the fire. I watched it happen to Libyans, Yemenis, Syrians and till now they still don't have peace. Besides, you’d be stupid to believe that those countries, if ever there is any, promising to support Nnamdi Kanu are really in for it. Some of them want to use him to initiate conflict and sell their weapons to both sides and make blood dollars. War is an all-comers affair and all kinds of demonically vicious players come to the slimy field to play the hellish game of blood and death. In this case, Boko Haram that has largely been caged by the army will break free to roam with ambitions to finally establish their Caliphate across Nigeria, all because the Army now fighting on two fronts can no longer concentrate on them having become too stretched. Guess what, they’ll come with ISIS on their back. Nigerian Army will be fighting to keep Nigeria together on one front, Boko Haram (ISIS Nigerian Branch) with Caliphatist ambition on the other and Biafra with secessionist ambition on yet another front. That was how Syria got so complex till date and any war in Nigeria today will have a similar picture. Whoever gets overwhelmed will face the other. It will be a long and difficult journey and unlike the first civil war without Boko Haram in the equation, no one can predict the tortuous end. Other Jihadists from across Africa and Middle-East will join in as they always do wherever there’s instability to advance their different brands of Islam. In the end you’ll leave Nigeria and discover you’re fighting other strangers you don’t even know how they came into the picture.


The big boys (international players) like Iran will be there to get there pound of flesh from Nigeria in revenge for the Shiites, Saudi will be there to defend Nigeria, and all will play. Weapons merchants will the start smiling to the banks. Guess where the theatre of war would be, Igboland. We must not allow this! Libyans thought they were fighting Ghaddafi but after Ghaddafi, they discovered other strangers fighting them to establish their different brands of Islam. Same thing in Syria. The words of Saif Al Islam Ghaddafi (Ghaddafi’s first son) keeps ringing in my ears as he forewarned Libyans of these grim possibilities, but okuko nti ike nánu ife n’ite ofe. I never took him seriously at the time but in retrospect, I now see he knew better because it panned out just as he predicted and Libya still isn’t out of the woods. That’s the way it is these days of jihad consciousness across the world. If you ever experience war, you'll never take peace for granted. War is not a movie as some of you think. You could be the first victim. Can you stomach watching your loved ones maimed, killed, raped, tortured, starve to death under slow and painful circumstances? Those are the grim realities of war and in Africa, it is executed with luciferous savagery and psychopathic sadism. The worst of peace is still better than the best of wars.


Funny enough, most of our chest-beating IPOBians will likely die off within the first month or two of the conflict leaving those who knew nothing or are on the sidelines to defend themselves. There will be nowhere to run to as no country in West Africa will agree to accept the ocean-sized volume of refugees. When the Rwandan genocide was looming, everyone was running his mouth until the death hurricane they courted so hard swept across their country, they wailed and shouted for international community to intervene but none came. That's the way it is. Paul Kagame, their current President it was who ended it. And they vowed to “never again”. They learnt from history and have completely removed tribalism from every facet of national life and are admirably making astounding progress as one of Africa's best. My advice, agreed, Buhari hasn't treated us as well as we wanted, but wait till 2019 and make amends. I have listened to Nnamdi Kanu on several videos and my conclusion is that he is plain naive on how things roll in a conflict situation. On one occasion he bragged that it would take him only two weeks to reach Sokoto in the event of war. I don't know what weapons and extra-terrestrial strategies he has to execute that. War is an unpredictable undertaking that you'll be ignorant to estimate which direction it goes. As it is, he has no weapons just yet and is bragging. Many of you believe him and even ascribe infallibility to his words. I have lived a couple of years abroad and what some of you don't know is that many of our people there egging you on don't have immigration papers and are praying for an outbreak of hostilities in Nigeria so they can claim asylum on the back of it. We must advise ourselves on this current path of self-annihilation. Some of you think Biafra will be the end of all your problems, so South Sudan thought, as did Eritrea, but sorry it will be the beginning of new ones. Now take this to the Bank, it will even be far more difficult for any country to touch any conflict here with a long spoon than it was in the sixties. Reason? Then there was the prospect of oil but today oil is out of fashion and even as it is, Nigeria is begging for buyers and nobody's buying. Osinbajo said that much a few days back. Now, tell me, if they spend their money intervening in your conflict to save your asses, what will they get in return? The best they can do for you is to condemn what is going on, then more out-pouring of condemnations and then more unleashing of floodgates of condemnations, but NO ACTION while you die in numbers.


You often argue that a call for referendum is not a call for war. I agree completely! Very true! Referendum is a right not a privilege. Even Buhari asserted that much in favour of Palestine when he addressed the UN. However, it is plain naivety to assume that all that is enshrined in international law is enforceable. UN has no mechanism of enforcement. Countries and Dictators constantly flout it and nothing happens. Even if something were to happen you’ll all have decomposed in your graves by then. A show of bravado will not lead you anywhere Umunnem. Call me a coward if you like, but Chinua Achebe told us that we often stand in the house of a coward to point at where a brave man ONCE lived. In any case, isn’t it foolishness to challenge an army that has been stockpiling arms since 1960 when you on the other hand haven’t bought a bullet just yet? Papa Achebe puts it this way, “Only a foolish man can go after a leopard with his bare hands”. As impulsive and as tempting as it may get, tone down your rhetorics, invectives, acerbics, and cursing on social media. Cherish the peace you now have at least Igbos are not worse-off than other regions despite never being in power. While there is grinding poverty in other regions, the highest income per capita in the country is posted by Anambra and other Igbo states ain’t doing badly. Our people live well, build better houses compared to other regions and it's all a miracle given the scratch we started from after the war. Why do we want to throw all that away because of ego and start all over again? Is it a curse? The Hausas though having been in power do not even live a better quality of life than Igbos. Let's be wise and not give opportunity to destroy all we've achieved as a people.

I condemn in the strongest of terms the killing of unarmed people by Nigerian soldiers, killer herdsmen, and do not by any means say Nigeria is what we want it to be but understand Biafra wasn't Ojukwu's first choice. At Aburi his choice was a return to true federalism which he knew was a better deal for us than secession. Nigeria failed to honour that agreement and continued the killings forcing him to declare a Biafran Republic to save his people from slaughter and it's understandable. Nigeria owes us tons of apologies, I agree. But brothers, let's think again! A Biafra today will even be far less economically viable than it would have been then. Reason is because then we would have used oil money to jump-start the new country but today oil is so unsellable to the extent that Venezuela with arguably the largest reserves is grappling with severe economic problems. Kick-starting a new country from the basics would be painfully slow and may outlive our generation to even get the basic things in place. Arewa youths know that, the reason they have asked Nigerian Government to let Igbos go, only for Nnamdi Kanu to start asking for Benue and Rivers because he knows that Igboland alone isn’t viable. Asking for Benue is laughable because they were never part of Biafra and have made it clear to all, as did different Rivers groups that they don’t want Biafra. A handful of his collaborators from those regions pledging allegiance to him does not equate to an entire people. Majority of their people hate this Biafran idea and have made that much clear. Some funny IPOBians are also hoping on Asari Dokubo and FFK. What a funny bunch being used to fight other people’s fight. Why won’t they take up the gauntlet or is it only us that is suffering injustice? Don't even think corruption will suddenly disappear in a new Biafra as some naive IPOBians hope. If they give you Biafra today, your eyes will open up to new unpleasant realities many of you haven't even factored-in in your agitation but then it would have been late. I know voices like mine are often loathed and cursed by IPOBians but some of us who know the truth can no longer keep quiet while you drag us all into avoidable chaos. I owe our people the truth as I see it. Curse me all you want, it's OK. Umunnem, ka ako’n’uche na udo chianu biko! Patience solves all things, with time. Let our people think again and know what is looming. Stop your facebook and social media vituperations, cursing, grand standing and join me to educate others. De-escalate this situation and speak words of kindness to others. Even mighty America de-escalates after tensions with Russia. It’s called wisdom. North Korea provokes South Korea most times but the South always de-escalates tensions knowing that the North hasn’t got anything to lose in the event of war but beautiful South Korea will lose quite a lot. In our case, all the beautiful houses and streets in Igboland will be razed to the ground. Why should we be starting afresh all the time? It will even be more painful if we lose again as was the case in 1970. As it is, it’s not looking good!".

If you’re reasoning along with me, please copy and re-post this message. #Copied.

This post will be ignored by the people it is truly meant for. People do not like to hear the bitter truth. And i have noticed on nairaland that once you are making a lot of sense and pointing out truths that hit home, the post will be conveniently ignored as long as it doesn't align with their beliefs and opinions.

dahaz:
So he left his gullible followers to die will he ran away like a rat. I pity those illetrates that follows him blindly.

meanwhile his wife and child are in far away UK not anywhere the battle ground.

That's why they say Nnamdi Kanu is the voice of the igbo illiterates".

My cousin's husband is a sailor. He is away for as long as 4months. He comes and stays for about 3months.
When he's away work keeps her busy plus she has enough series on her tablet to watch when she's bored.
She spends some weekends and public holidays with family. Generally just keeping busy sha

When a bank loans you money, they must be sure of a repayment plan. How can they give a new business that they are not sure will even get off the ground. That is recipe for stories. Besides it is Other People's Money (OPM) that they are lending out.

alolimet:
It's must be an in-house thing. Those bankers feed fat on people's sweat not salaries.

Very wrong assumption. Do you have facts?

Barthx:
One sided report,
When they say safeguard your personal details Una no go hear, now everyone seems to be blaming diamond bank.

Well waiting for the day when we we hear that cash was transferred by one of her children


Trust me when I say it has happened before.

Lol...i remember a case of a woman that complained that her ATM was tampered with and money was withdrawn. She said it was only her daughter that had the pin. Just looking at the daughters demeanour,it was obvious she was guilty. The woman was busy making noise.

Naijacost22:
You guys are blaming Diamond bank for fraud? What kind of hate do you have for the bank? Is it only Diamond bank that fraud occurs in?

Look She was duped and not telling the whole story so we shouldn't judge the bank.

And also it looks like she withdrew the money herself so i am guessing "Money Double" Scheme.

She is not telling the whole story.
For online fraudsters to be able to get the money, she needs to give them details. One woman i encountered lost her money because of greed from someone from abroad that called her promising her plenty tins. After she fell for the prank, she started blaming the bank.
When it involves money,most people don't think logically.

That other lady is always in all the pictures.

loydsis:
Stupid words coming from a shithole man,who ur cus elp, idiot

All these small small boys that lack respect. You can't be mature and talk like this.

If this is pre wedding photo outfit, how will the wedding outfit be? These prewedding shots is just an avenue that money leaks. Not necessary at all.

2shure:
Abegi
Dis ugly monkey.
All light akin ladirs think they beauiful.
Afte4 spending countless hours at ths studio
And unlimited filtering and editing of pics
Heavily armed make up face.
Ugly as fuk.
Nobody wan marry creams
Dey love natural beauty.
Yuck

Nobody? She is married.

I could kill for Tandi Gurana. Who knows what that is?

How come it is now that you have already married her traditionally and about to wrap it up that you want to act on it? What were you doing since?

Emmanuel555:
He's family is abroad comfortably, he's here agitating for Biafra and some useless and illiterate miscreants and touts are being convinced to fight.

After stimulating this war he will be on his heel to be with his family abroad and where will you run to? your village I guess .

My fellow Igbos let's be realistic, how on this earth do you think you can fight Nigerian soldiers with heavy and sophisticated ammunitions?

if your parents and grandparents are still alive today, go to them ,sit with them and be patient as they narrate to you the ugly stories of the previous Biafran war, how they were being abandoned in the middle of no return, how their children were abducted to fight without experience. No human being who witnessed the war will advice you to fight for Biafra.

It's true what we are asking from the government is a good one but their are many ways to achieve them without war.

The earlier you wake up from your slumber and open those two eyes God gave you the better it will be for me and you, don't be deceived, Biafra is a mission impossible.

Let's channel those energy into something lucrative and make Nigeria more conducive.


some were even throwing stones at armed Soldiers with armoured car in Aba , is this how we value our precious life? ?

RETHINK TODAY

Very well said. My sister was born during the biafran war and my mum narrated the painful ordeal. It is not something people should wish or agitate for. I really don't understand how these youths even believe in and follow Nnamdi Kanu without reasoning. An intelligent Igbo person will see that he is not the one to execute the job. He just came and suddenly he is a god that people bow to.
Is it that they were desperately looking for a saviour and would fall for any semblance of one? Anyone that can reason logically will not support Kanu.

If the woman is also working and having kids, i see no reason why the man cannot help with chores. It is not a matter of rules or not. A man that loves you and cares about your wellbeing will not see you working like a slave and not help.
Some men are ok with sitting down and dishing out orders instead of helping and getting involved. They would rather complain about the food not being ready or the child crying. It's just selfishness and pride.
And if the man is too lazy too help her,he should get a help that can. People wonder why some wives age faster and look older than their husbands. This is part of it.
Don't pray to marry such men that still see chores as solely a woman's job.

TheShepherd:
Really?

Why else then?

In boarding school, I did frog jumping, crawling on both knees, pick pin, okada (the one where you sit on the air), angle 90 (hanging on the door)..

there is this punishment I heard is called "dig your height"

What about sitting on your head. Very wicked punishment