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Lee99:
..., now I've nutted more times in her than I care to count and I hope they were blanks because I honestly don't want to deal with it.

Bashing is allowed but try to make small sense please.

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Like a train wreck waiting to happen...Hollywood has nothing on watching people working effortlessly to destroy their lives, hopes and aspirations. Keep up the good work. Keep nutting. It will become clearer 5 years from now. What is life without lamentations?

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There is no battle of supremacy.

All of them are armed law enforcement personnel.

Na who first press trigger be the superior in all circumstances. That's why Unknown Gunmen could be superior sometimes. It is the gun not the uniform.

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The way they are throwing the charges, one may believe that they have some evidence against the suspect.
Wait until they go for trial, everything will turn out to be based on suspicion and rumours. EFCC is an organization that arrests people first, then start digging for their supposed crime.

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Rape is unnecessary.

You should have kicked her out of your life. If only some of you will stop being too emotional--too difficult these days to different between a man and a woman emotionally.

You waited for a small problem to blow out of proportion before seeking advice.

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Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

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There are women you date and there are women you marry.

I guess you couldn't tell the difference. You were carried away by the glitters. Just know that it will only get worse. Be ready to babysit full time when she delivers.

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Afam4eva:
Is Akeredolu a member of IPOB

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The wife is IPOB

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Whatever goodwill that's left of him will be destroyed by the hawks in APC. He should take a cue from the travails of FFK and Nuhu Ribadu. The latter went into political oblivion that all his stints at EFCC got erased.

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Good for her.

I wonder when Women's League will finally catch on.

The stadium, number of spectators and play set up always look like people playing for fun on a boring weekend.

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I am still trying to figure out how Oyibo that is reluctant to give you visa to migrate to their countries, see black people as subhumans, and up till the mid of 20th Century saw blacks as 3/4 humans in US, managed to convince black people that they will all move to live with them happily in a place called heaven when they barely can stand blacks on earth.
Racism and segregation are very ripe here on earth. The Asians, Arabs, Whites are united in their hatred for Blacks. These are the people Black people are fasting and praying with the hope to move to heaven with. I can guarantee you that if heaven is real, no Blacks will be admitted. All of you are living in a fool's paradise. What makes you think that who raped and enslaved your people will give you something beneficial to you? Common to write off your loans to ensure good living in your countries is a Herculean task for them. Black people really need their heads examined.

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Interesting15:
The Wages Of Sin

"For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal in Christ Jesus our Lord" Romans 6:23


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Which one is the wages of sin? Death or hell fire?
Christians need to make up their mind instead of moving the goal posts.
In the Bible, most sins were met with a threat of death. I wonder how heaven and hell got twisted into the narrative. Are they making these things up?
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olaolaking:
Ok sir. He had several houses built by himself but chose to live in a rented 2 bedroom that all the children and the boy-boy have to squeeze in.

His mother was in the hospital about to die, he ignored that and chose to stay somewhere receiving visitors.

Again, you are well

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Believe whatever your little mind can conjure.
Until one of you "cult" your way into Forbes' list, I ain't listening to your bullshit.

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If you tell a man who returned finally from China back to Nigeria, "Listen. What has happened has happened. No amount of crying can bring her back. Oya take this N5million to reset your life. Feel free to contact us if you need further assistance".....Now imagine what a desperate deportee in his shoes would say.

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Dailyparrot:
We have been suspicious of my brother's lifestyle for many years now and recently, his wife is reiterating our suspicion.

We are suspecting my brother of either being possessed, or someone did some juju on him or he belongs to a secret cult based on these two behaviors.

1. He does not like rendering help to his immediate family members but extremely generous outside.

2. He can sleep with anything that has vagina including old, young, fat, slim, beautiful, ugly, single and married women.

My parents gave birth to many children but unfortunately my dad died very early leaving my mother to take care of the responsibilities of the family.

This made my elder brothers to leave home on time to learn trade. Luck smiled on my elder brother and he made money very early. Less than 2 years after he did his freedom, he got his first car and started building his duplex immediately.

Since that time till date, he has only become richer and richer and richer.

We never received any financial assistance from extended family members because their thoughts is that my brother is well to do so we don't need help but the reality is different.

As rich as my brother became, we continued the petty family business that was very stressful until all of us left home to either university or marriage before my mother stopped the business because it is not what she can do alone.

My brother never cared for my mother. That's the one that pains me the most whenever I remember the incident of the past and how my mother died in the local village hospital while my brother was at home drinking and entertaining visitors.

My brother would come home for Christmas and pay 6 months electricity bill for every one in our community while giving my mom 15k. He never wants anything to do with us. For him to give you money, you really need to explain what you need the money for and that doesn't mean you are getting it immediately.

My secondary school classmates thought I came from a very wretched home not knowing that I have a brother that is extremely financially buoyant.

The number of people my brother brought from our village to Lagos to set up are more than 10 that we know. These people ended up bringing their siblings to town and establishing them as well. That is to say that my brother has lifted a lot of families out of poverty but never his family members.

One of my brother was having difficulty in his business and the best that my brother could do was to ask him to park his belongings to go and stay in the village with his wife and children. If not for my intervention that I used 1.9 million to set up a business for him to be repaying me monthly as he sells. This is an amount my brother will never ever give any of us for any reason whatsoever. He would rather gift you 100k to put in your business and go about telling people how he has helped you but you have refused to grow the business. Please, what can 100k really do for a business man?

In fact, I can't type all that we have experienced with my brother who's supposed to be our source of upliftment.

For those that will say I should go and work and entitlement mentality thing, all I typed here happened in the past when we were still dependent. None of us demands money from him anymore as we're all independent financially now.

But recent happenings brought back those memories. My brother and his wife.

We thought that his wife and children would enjoy his money since they are entitled to it but we were wrong.

My brother has several duplexes in my home state and in Lagos yet he lives in a rented two bedroom apartment. In that two bedroom apartment, his children and house boys (boy boy) share the same room and this is not the well developed part of Lagos oo but it's closer to his market.

My brother can afford to buy land in the place that they live and build standard 3 storey building and give his children a good sense of his wealth but he will never do it.

When the wife asks him for money for hair, he will give her 5k. If she sees a hair that she likes that sells for 50k. My brother will bring out calculator and divide 50k by 500 and tell the wife that that money is enough for him to cut his hair for the next 10 years.

The children don't dress well like people whose father is super rich. He got an SUV that the wife drives which made people think that the wife is enjoying but inside that woman in the SUV is an unhappy woman that wishes she can turn back the hands of time so she could marry someone else.

Sadly, the wife can't even complain to us because she took advantage of the way her husband was treating us to treat us badly when she got married to my brother and considering the fact that my brother was the supposed bread winner. Well, we can't be dependent for life.

Now, the cock has come home to roost. She's enjoying the husband "as is".

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Nothing is wrong with your brother. There are many Nigerians living that way. They are more concerned with validation than being good. There are many people throwing money at occasions that find it difficult to pay their gatemen or drivers at the end of the month. Some men curry attention like their lives depend on it. It is an internal problem. Rendering assistance to immediate family will not bring the accolades they cherish. They only give when people will notice and praise them.

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Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

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I wonder what you did to him to warrant him divorcing you. Of course you are innocent.

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MelesZenawi:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/01/panic-as-1000-herd-of-cattle-invade-osogbo/amp/

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Straight to Benin Republic.

We know.

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Thandiubani:
A Nigerian man who has lived abroad for over two decades has died after landing in the country.

A brother to the late man, Mmadu Jude Egozor said that his late brother died after returning to the country to settle down and establish.

He added that his brother landed in Nigeria on the 2nd, but died on the 4th of January, less than 48hours after entering the country.

He however, didn't specify exactly what killed his brother.

See below a video of his brother while en-route to Nigeria:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fDzPLBQj6o

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After 20 years?

Na shock kill am. The sight of Nigeria can trigger that.

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Perhaps how your mother was raised is a major factor in her relationship with you. It could be a psychological trauma.

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Any Federal worker who doesn't have any thriving side hustle should have himself or herself to blame. Perhaps this will checkmate the arrogance of " job security" they exhibit. Nigeria is no longer a normal country. Bankers and oil workers should watch their backs as well.

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SpecialAdviser:
Again? And again? And again?

Tufiakwa. Why are Yorubas in support of this embarrassing evil with their silence?

I have come to realize that an uneducated Yoruba can hardly do a legitimate hustle and most likely will be dangerous.

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You are wrong! This is purely a tribal menace . That this happens on a daily basis (only a few are caught by the way) tells us that it is an acceptable way of life among the Yoruba people. The uneducated may be the miners, who do you think are the end users?

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That's why I laugh at people chasing latest technology. You will be dead broke.

Companies incorporate "Planned Obsolescence" in their business models. Don't think it is a coincidence that your phone starts acting funny or stops working after 3 years. Worse, they ensure that some apps stop being supported to force users to buy newer gadgets. Our people who are obligate consumers do not have the brain powers developed enough to think in that aspect.

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The same kind of transport palliative provided by GEJ and Okonjo Iweala that year

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It is a minor accident. Person wey get serious accident no dey press phone.

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Aidejay:
This cross dressing thing na only Lagos e dey pop ooh!

try this one in kano.

so wait no body is going to do anything to nip it in the bud?

because this one wey we don dey get "upcoming" crossdresser what rubbish!


thread for people that don't want to suffer in marriage https://www.nairaland.com/6923477/dont-marry-pastor-advise-women

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Cross-dressing has existed in the North even before you were born.

They are called dan gurugu ( I hope I got the spelling right). Just because they are wrapped in a traditional female garb does not mean
the person you see is a woman.

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Igbo:
Showing us construction of uncompleted culvert after 10 years in the Senate
Who do we ndi meth offended?
He wasted 100 million Naira on Kanu as surety the money that could have been used to construct psychiatric hospital

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I will like to know the name of this Construction company that operates with one shovel and one digger.

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Keyword: Shiloh

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Madam Alakija is a really smart woman.

Make money first. Then become born again.

It takes away all the pressure from her so that she can enjoy her money in peace.

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bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

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You must really live in Jupiter.

Don’t let that feminism crap confuse you. It is only a hobby to women.

I don’t know what kind of woman will agree to this your arrangement—it is too mechanical fully separated from emotion.

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One thing is certain...

No matter who becomes the next President, una life go still suck. That's why I ain't bothered.

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We4all:
Tiwa obviously has a bad taste in relationships. Rolling with a married man, allowing a thirty something years old to record her during sex is a no, no.

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What is the link between the ability to sing in autotune and wisdom? Stop putting people on pedestals.

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He is probably one of the FEW GOOD MEN left in Nigeria.

Someone once complained that their director is the worst human being on earth because he plugged all the loopholes for embezzlement.

Be wary of whoever Nigerians celebrate.

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Baawaa:
Is like women are more serious in Anambra than men.Compares the man of the year to the woman of the year

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So you reached this conclusion based on votes and award result written by Alexreporters in his bedroom?

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Don't blame them.

Blame the morons that believe them and even have the audacity to give them money to live like rockstars.

I always admire the hustle of these pulpit robbers.

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