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jaephoenix:I no fit laugh abeg, stranger and Jaephoenix make una no kill us with laughter. Fstranger did you say Baboons? When Igbo guys have been known to be good looking, Omo but that yoruba guy Fash fine -o----I no go lie. He has the looks that can sell good movies and that Adaeze mama, she is so cute in that picture with her daughter, I could hardly differentiate who is the mother and who the daughter is. They are both "Omalicha" ![]() |
At the end of the day, we are all here typing away our feelings on our keyboards and some innocent people that were already hustling through hardship are dead while some are in pains just because some people were wrongly told that they are f-r-e-a-king born to rule over others, over oil-rich lands that are very far away from their land and does not even belong to them (I mean the owners of this oil,the deltans are not even taking up arms and killing the whole nation for the oil and these ones are falling upon all of us that Nigeria belongs to them). Let them take the name Nigeria and answer alone and let us get another name for ourselves Ojare. Are those killers s-t-u-p-i-d? How many more heads do they want for their hatredness to be assuaged?, whose head deserve to be cut down for their primitive minds, NONE! and that is the main issue. Something has to be done to stop this killing people. |
LadyT: Ivynwa:@LadyT Girl are you in my head? Where have you been? We seem to be thinking alike. What is your own mantra again? LET'S GET A DIVORCE!! Make some noise!!!!!!!! How can you tire of a person and wish to be let go and the person is holding on to you against your voilition and killing you? What kind of a person stays to await total annihilation? |
deadie: Thanks Exactly my words, they keep taking us back to the stone age, such primitiveness is embarrasing. We don't want to be with them anymore if they have to keep killing us, why are they even holding onto us if they don't love us and we don't want to be with them anymore? [quote author=EzeUche__ link=topic=653830.msg8202465#msg8202465 date=1303754820]Muslim Igbos do exist, but most of them come from the North and only joined the religion in order to integrate with their host communities. However, as we know, this is not about religion. This is about bigotry and intolerance in the North.[/quote] kulutempa:But that is what we have been talking about, they can't tolerate anybody----people have ran away from the north, the remaining few there they are killing. They are so full of hatred that they kill their fellow hausas when the evil of religious extremism shacks their heads. We don't want to be one with them anymore. LET THE DIVISION BEGIN! |
virgo:@Virgo We seem to feel the same here, the first time I wanted to post here, I wanted to vehemently say "DIVIDE THE Wow! SPLIT THE DAMN COUNTRY! LET THE DIVISION BEGIN! Everybody make some noise!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nne Biko leave Tippy we are all free to express how we feel and we are such refined ladies that we don't allow anybody bring us down to the level of the almaji--what again? or boko-hell- what do they call themselves? |
@190 Boy you are already here and scattering the ground! Wonders shall never end @Virgo Sweetheart, don't let anybody bring you down, shake them off your shoulders and be getting ready for that our meeting/conference. I am already getting excited about that meeting of ours, everybody make some noise!!dtrdtrertdhfhbk,njvh vcfvcbvjhbjhhgfc!!!! ---we are going to have a peaceful meeting and divide this country for peace sake. |
@190 Indeed "I di Ngozi na etiti ikporo nile" (you are blessed in the midst of all women). Now come let's run , make I yan you the koko where something dey happen make you go catch your fun---- |
Basseti:Born to rule who?? How can a primitive minded people (that only love to kill) rule people that have evolved way beyond them. Give them their damn country let them rule themselves. Let them stay there and be dreaming, the other parts of Nigeria have left them behind and they are still carrying sword and tins of groundnut oil as bombs, are they not ashamed? |
[quote author=EzeUche__ link=topic=653830.msg8201725#msg8201725 date=1303748044]And why must a break up of this nation turn to war. There is widespread consensus that Southern Nigeria does not want to be in union with Northern Nigeria. We have the education, oil, world wide exposure and our economy is much stronger than the North.[/quote]Exactly what I am advocating, peaceful division. Division does not have to go with war and should we wait for the killings to reach full blown war before coming round to negotiating a division at last. We are not as primitive as those who must kill for any little reason, we are an evolved and refined people and can very peacefully negotiate division. Where is Ikemba Nwokeoma? Ewoo! he must be part of that meeting, because the meeting is going to start from where he ended it. How long shall we stand aloof and tag alongside those that hate us? |
Virgo are you at Abuja? Me I am carrying my heart in my hand for my brothers that are living at Abuja? If anything happens to any of them, those killers will see that women go to war. Nonsense! I no fit laugh sef. Mtcheeeew, can't we have peace in this country? |
virgo:Ivynwa gives Virgo a high five I must remind Ezeuche to send you an invite to that special meeting where we are going to seriously negotiate the division with some international organisations, if the elders of this country have refused to be elders and read the handwriting on the wall, we youths mustn't stand aloof and fold our arms. Let the division begin! I am not even all-so-politics or tribalist, let the country be split up into as many parts as we can tolerate ourselves, If the south refuse to be together let each side be on its own and have peace , the oil producing area can have their own country and enjoy the resources that belong to them. The South-east can have their own country and the south-west can have their own country. Anything that can stop this killing of innocents while the rich squander the wealth of the nation in their houses. We are all a hardworking set of people and can all survive in countries of our own with or without oil (the hausas are even great farmers and traders that can build a great economy on their own). Above all resources can get to the masses |
Ezeuche I am still asking when we are scheduling the meeting for the youths to negotiate the division of Nigeria? F-*-k-c the killers/haters and religious extremists of this country that massacre others! Yes I said it! |
Tippy Top:Why mustn't we divide, what are we holding on to? A people(that a greater number of them) only have hates for others. Should we keep our arms akimbo and watch them kill us all? Let the division begin! Treason ko, felony ni. If you are the woman whose six children were killed by the hausa religious extremists in Jos or if your sibling was among the killed corpers, can you still hold your broken heart and shout "treason"? What is good about being one with the north, tell me? We can't even co-habit as their hatred has chased away people from there so what are we still doing together with the north? Is it not the oil that they are holding on to and killing people and forcing those they hate to remain with them out of their own volition. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew, this is getting out of hand, how many more people should we wait for them to kill? Whose death is worth the animosity in the heart of these primitive killers that are only drawing us back to the stone age? E-e-e-m Mazi Ezeuche, Nnaa biko when are you inviting your fellow elders to that meeting so that we can seriously divide this country and give the hausas and all religious extremists in Nigeria their own nation to go love themselves? |
190:Pink?? How are you doing my Babyboy? Haven't I missed you?----but that wasn't pink, "Ouch" yours is too pink to handle. "My eyes" As you can see there's no mischief here to rouse, the matter here is very serious so come let me take you to the threads you can catch your fun. How's your Mzdarkie doing or has another damsel caught your fancy? |
She's three times a lady to have set her heart on a career and made it. It's another kind of sophistication I must say, a career change in one's late thirties/early forties. You go girl! She is still a beautiful queen while she is at it, I bet she will have some male patients dreaming and wishing for the Nigerian queen/nurse to take care of them all day long. LOL |
@Poster You need to find out the truth first through a DNA test, that way you can stop wishing and fretting. The child may even be that of your husbands. If the test says so then you can let your BIL know that its confirmed that the child isn't his so that he can stop bothering. He is feeling for his blood (and will never stop wondering whether the child is his)so don't be mad at him that he is asking, the sooner you allay his worries the better for you two. The flesh is indeed weak and even though we all preach "righteous" yet nobody is perfect. Stuffs happen, the men that are already pouring sands here should realize that this is one of the reasons a wife should not be neglected as she can fall into temptations. I truly wish that the DNA test shows that the child is your husbands because it may bring a lot of unhappiness if he isn't. It's true that we are all wishing good for you and not wanting any trouble to rear its head yet I am concerned about the child in question. If at the end of the day test shows that the BIL is his father, I don't think it's fair on your child not to know that (at the right time though). I don't think it's humane to hide one's parentage from one, if you look at the bigger picture the many generations that will spring from him will have been misled. I pray all things work out for good for all of you so you can get some peace as peace seems to be fast elluding you. You have to make good verifications that can give you some peace. If you can think back, were you in your ovulation period when you slept with your BIL? No need crying over spilt milk and blaming you for not protecting yourself as it has already happened. You definitely can't go on like that, crying in the night and fretting. Do some findings before things crash around you, with hearts breaking and you being labelled names even when there is a chance that the child is not that of your BILs. |
@Hedwidges My Brother I don't understand how a country that gives me no iota of care. No healthcare for the common man, Poor people die in their homes when sicknesses are tired of ravaging their bodies, no free education for the children. You sweat, hustle and struggle for everything and because some people are struggling to sit on the throne of power, some bad hearted ones that may not even benefit a dime from the govt in question will kill your brother or sister in the midst of the hardship you are already undergoing. Some poor ones among us in this our Africa do not even have mercy on themselves, some people are struggling to better their lives and be enthroned into presidential posts and instead of bettering your own lives you carry weapons and go on the street to riot, can't they all see that these people they are rioting for are chilling in the comfort of their homes and being happy and the poor ones out there are getting killed?? ![]() ndu1988:[b]We don't have to wait for things to degenerate to a point where millions of corpses are strewn all over the street and a war is going on (what am I saying when the war is already trickling in spurts and some of us do not realize that, you can imagine how life will be when a population of 150million is experiencing a full blown war) and the international organisations are running to our front doors with aids and peace talk before negotiating to divide the country. The elders of this nation should read the handwriting on the wall and let us peacefully divide this country now. Is it only through oil that nations survive for the hausas not to want anybody to secede while at the same time they are killing us all? Countries with no oil reserves still survive on other resources and when divided other potentials/resources we all have will be realized for sure. What was it that made the southerners want to secede before, was it this kind of treatment? Ehen, if they refused for us to secede then should we tie our selves to them forever and watch our brothers and children getting killed? Even in marriage, there is a point that a spouse that is holding on (even when there is nothing to hold on to) will get to and will be forced to run for his or her life. People let us run for our lives before we all get killed out of sheer hatred, we don't want another Rwandan on our hand. I don't want them to kill any of my sweet brothers for me - o just to prove that they run this country. Are we enslaved to the hausas in this country?? Are they s-t-u-p-i-d??[/b] ![]() |
In a week or two we will be done with this expression of our sorrow, this will be all forgotten and we will all move on with our lives. Some other day soon we will all awake to lament again over someone's brother/sister/parents/chiildren that some Nigerians will kill because they hate the tribe or religion he/she is from. When are we going to realize that we are a joke of a country that are staying together against the volitions of some, they should hurry up and divide that country and let the hausas be on their own if they can't tolerate others. This is why I have no iota of interest in the politics of Nigeria because it's all a joke. The best thing that can happen to this country of ours is division, we are even too many for our own good population wise. Resources can get to people and government can reach its subjects when we are divided into 3 or 4 countries and we won't have to wake up and lament over people killed by the hausas anymore as they will be too busy loving themselves in their own country all by themselves. What primitiveness is this bikonu?? |
@Poster The bond emanated from the fact that he is the only child yet the expression of the affection between this mother and son seem to be tilting a bit to the other side of the scale that has the two letter ab affixed to the normal. Wisdom, tactfulness, subtlety can help you wade through this and come out victorious (you and your husband being at bliss, he himself and your MIL being at bliss with themselves in a fuller way and peace reigning among the three of you and all). In other words, bringing in counsellors(going for counselling) or expressing your discomfort here can only bring negative feelings that may make things get out of hand. I will use this analogy not that I'm saying that anybody is at the edge here. A person at the end of his/her tether that is standing on a precipice for example and threatening to kill himself/herself (as seen in movies and "psychologically" in real life)is always smooth talked out of that mood to save the life of such a person as the use of harsh words can push the person over that edge. Confrontations and expression of your dislike of their extreme show of affections may push him further into the arms of his Momsie (and we all don't want things to get out of hand when such happens) because if the mum also hears that you are kicking against the love between her and her only child, it may make her very unhappy and we all know that two people that are getting that lovey-dovey will seek succour from each other in that state of mind and that will not be helping the situation but will rather increase the probability of things tumbling down over the edge. It's just like a married woman whose husband is having an affair can nag her husband deeper into the arms of the "other woman". There are situations in Life that requires no verbal communication but silent yet wise handlings that delivers more than words will and this is one of such! When a child is being weaned off its mother's natural milk. It is not done with words or the drumming in of words. It is done with actions which the child can't comprehend yet day by day that child gets weaned slowly. He is just a Big baby that needs to be weaned off his momsie's apron and you just have to use your brain to get him weaned without letting the weanee (your husband) and the weaner(your MIL) know that "weaning" is taking place as the b-o-o-b-s itself isn't even your own Cheers Ojare, it's going to be alright. |
Beaf:[quote author=NAIJA_SOM link=topic=649536.msg8157895#msg8157895 date=1303153652][b]MY friend (Poster) we are all brothers and sisters and your pain is my pain. Your people are our people. You feel ashamed for them, i also feel ashamed for them and so should all of us. I am a -------- [/b] [/size][size=8pt][/quote]@Beaf and Naija-_Som, Beautiful response from you guys, I always like to see love expressed and it's heart warming to see tolerant Nigerians who still have love in their hearts for others irrespective of the tribe they are from. @Poster Your open mindedness towards others is equally sweet, it's high time we all left behind the clouding tribalism, hatred and religous extremism to where they belong: in the past. |
Wooooyiiiiii, glad you like that Mzdarkskin. Now let me love you up with Jah cure's "Unconditional love". Don't I love that his sweet voice that drips with love in his songs. Your brothers are really taking over the world music scene with music that stands on a class of its own. Here we go, [flash=425,344] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38A1NZEHpxY?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="390"[/flash] @Poster don't get mad at us, we are not derailing, we are loving and living. Thanks for your understanding. |
Isn't it nice that African leaders are at the verge of bringing peace to libya (in the link below)?, I hope they succeed. Our world is too filled with wars and hating and bombings and terrors for more wars to be springing up. http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20110411/ap_on_bi_ge/ml_libya |
@Poster Rich dudes hardly gets dumped by some ladies in Naija especially such ladies with a certain mindset that makes them think that they can't work hard and be rich all by themselves and they d' rather cling to a man with riches and the annoying part of it is that it is such ladies that are quick to brag about "my bf has this, has that, bought me this, bought me that", when you begin to hear that from a lady you already know where the complex stems from. All the same there are still Nigerian ladies with good heads on their shoulder so it isn't all women that are so easily wowed by riches as to cling to it eternally. Your post reminded me of a song by Movado, I didn't really like that he bragged about men like him changing girls but I like the creativity that went into the song all the same. He also mentioned the part about "Women, rich men and money" and he even made some sense and warned that people don't bow to money or sell their soul to it. Now let's have the song, I am already singing it "Money don't change we, we are the money changers-----"(Where's Mzdarkskin, come ere girlfriend, can you hear the song?) [flash=425,344] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4S5uYroYms?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="390"[/flash] MONEY/GIRL CHANGER --BY MOVADO Make money, make money, make money, aiii but don't bow fi it, no, never wa ha'm to dem chorus: money don't change we we a money changer but if you diss we a danger we work hard for de paper cuz we want big van, an we want sky scraper ghetto yout don't bow, don't f*kc no batty ai, trust in a father god nd wk cuz u will happy ai, nuh sell your soul, fi change a gillopy chase see a man ah run, inna one car well flashy(who) nuff bow long time fi versace an a wear tight pants an trace like mumma lashy luv people tings say dem rear dem go dashy but my dream come true so me rich an me happy chorus: money don't change we we a money changer but if you diss we a danger we work hard for de paper cuz we want big van, an we want sky scraper no girl cyah change we we ah girl changer girl nuff like me paper ask me baby mother daylia how much girl love me like how dem love de saviour d boy make gyal take money turn him in a clown gyal a box him in d jaws an him cya make a sound stay home, anyting weh lost him found him insecure so him gone search up her phone nuff man a pick up garbage man put down den ah pose her aroun like him run d town me nuh say nuttin nuff a dem a gyal clown cuz jus thru money gyal make nuff bwoy go down chorus: money cah change me me a money changer in d range rover d ting over a wh'amm to dem bling dawg money cah change me (never) me a money changer( a we change de paper) if dem diss me a danger aiiii alliance aii advance money cyah change me Chase Cross* money cyah change me money cyah change we money cyah change we ah wh'am to dem busy let dem kno money cyah change we we a money changer dem diss we a danger aiii gully god aiii a wh'am to dem aii is another one g*ngster for life aii |
Quote by EfisherI am beginning to agree with that bolded statement, if bombs now explode randomly anywhere in Nigeria then a war must be going on, the only thing here is that only one group of the warring units is aware of the war. What is going in our country? What is all this CRAZINESS all in the bid for power and money? |
Oga Bigup, what did our wify do that had you running and screaming "divorce" like this, have you made attempts at reconciling whatever differences therein or are the differences irreconcilable. Take it easy-o e-joo- o. |
@Poster I don't understand the "forced into the marriage thing" if you two loved yourselves as much as you are professing now she will not subject herself to that in this age and time and you will not stand and watch her married off to somebody else coupled with the fact that you two were aware that she was pregnant with your child. I am not trying to be hard on you, I am wondering how you found it in you to allow your fellow man be misled in the first place into thinking that your baby is his. It was great that the man she got married to found out or a child will have been deceived all his life into thinking that your ex gf's husband is his father. Whatever you do in your life never support an act whereby a human being is been separated from his or her origin (their real parents). It's as grievous as slave trade in which humans were separated from their origin. There seem to be more to this story than met the eye, I don't subscribe to adding salt to the injury of others when they open up their problems here in Nairaland yet I think that it is very heinous that you two knew she was pregnant with your child and kept it secret and she got married to another man with that pregnancy. There are fragments of lies, deceits, secrets here that are just not right. Okay now you are looking for solution You two should get real and be truthful to yourselves, when you find the truth therein lies the solution to your problem. One love! One more thing poster please quickly remove your name from the tail part of your post please. Thanks |
Alleluiah for our lady Ejademen! Ivynwa begins to sing "Finally the Lord has done it, finally the Lord has done it, Finally the Lord has done it----finally the Lord has done". She dances and dances to the Lord like David danced and on she danced out of the thread. |
Nice contributions from Fstranger, Chaircover and Nekai Nekai:@Fstranger(FFriend/Fnwa) my friend The insulin use I was talking about is the unregulated/uncontrolled use of it, you misunderstood me. Thanks for your powerful contribution, I am really amazed at you that this great piece came from you who is always busy having fun and playing serious pranks here in NL. @Nekai I didn't really mean shaking buses, the "being shaken all over when driven over potholes and bumps" I meant is for pregnant women especially those in the first trimester to avoid stuffs like being bumped all over on a pothole filled roads. Your piece is a great one but me thinks that wearing high heels and pounding on a mortar should be avoided especially in the first trimester. I have come across "not one, not two, not even three" women that have had miscarriages that resulted from those. @Chaircover Yeah girl (whoops!, yeah madam----don't mind me Ojare!), for sure pregnancy is no illness. We ain't saying for ladies to pack up their feet and cozy up in bed all day without moving a finger and having their husbands on their toes and feet doing their biddings all in the name of being preggie. |
Good day all! Please I have a thread with this topic and link below What Are The Factors/things That Can Affect Pregnancy & Pregnant Women? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-638131.0.html We are already discussing such issues about pregnant women like avoiding pounding things, stressful situations that may cause miscarriages like taking long rides over bumpy and pothole-filled roads, taking uncontrolled/unregulated or dangerous medications. I feel that members of this thread may know much about the things being discussed therein and I am inviting any interested person that wants to contribute to the enlightenment and education of young women in our society to contribute their views and experiences there. It will be highly appreciated. Thanks to you as the Lord is visiting each and every one of us, healing/granting us our heart's desires and restoring all the years that the cankerworm have stolen as he promised in Joel 2 vs 25. Alleluiah! Somebody Shout! |
Good day all! Please I have a thread with this topic and link below What Are The Factors/things That Can Affect Pregnancy & Pregnant Women? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-638131.0.html We are already discussing such issues about pregnant women like avoiding pounding things, stressful situations that may cause miscarriages like taking long rides over bumpy and pothole-filled roads, taking uncontrolled/unregulated or dangerous medication. I feel that members of this thread may know much about the things being discussed therein and I am inviting any interested person that wants to contribute to the enlightenment and education of young women in our society to contribute their views and experiences there. It will be highly appreciated. Thanks to you as the Lord is visiting each and every one of us, healing/granting us our heart's desires and restoring all the years that the cankerworm have stolen as he promised in Joel 2 vs 25. Alleluiah! Somebody Shout! |
stillwater:@Stillwater It sounds hard to believe dear but trust African women and our inbred well domesticated upbringing that have some of us doing such stuffs they shouldn't do during pregnancy simply because they are very used to doing it without knowing that it may pose some dangers. I know somebody that lost her first baby after pounding food on mortar and that same somebody (you will not believe it but it's very true!) lost her second baby after taking an Okada ride in haste and anxious to reach her destination in time. sadboy:@sad/ happyboyI agree with the part about a p. woman doing some not-too rigorous dance steps here and there but pounding is a no no when in such a condition. Exercises (that are not too exhausting and rigorous) are very good, I have read severally where it is advised especially in the last trimester. @Megletters Thanks for your contribution megletters, your comment has a good modicum of intelligence and proffessionalism. @Ifyalways You are right there, I don't believe that a p. woman should do such heavy task as pounding, in as much as some women are more fragile than others and our fore mothers pounded with pregnancy, I am of the opinion that women should be dissuaded from pounding when pregnant. Grinders should be used and in cases where such persons can't afford that their immediate family should help them perform such household tasks. Ante-natal is also indispensable as it affords women (among other things) the opportunity to be advised by their doctors/gynaecologist on the right and wrong drugs to use. Blazay:@Blazay Aren't our old time mothers wonderful to have made it even with lack of information and knowledge in the olden days yet women are better equipped with info to avoid miscarriages and malformations. It isn't every woman that knows to use search engines like google and wikipedia to empower themselves with knowledge, some are not fortunate enough to afford internet connections while some are just too happy-go-lucky and too taken with other things to bother googling and reading up such stuffs. |
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