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DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

joyandfaith:
Wherever there is a carcass, there the vultures will gather.

tctrills:
He isn't the one the bible refers to as the Almighty God but much of your facts about him are not correct. Remember in John 8.58 Jesus Declared, before Abraham, I am.
Also in John 1. 1-5 1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was with God in the beginning. 3 Through him all things were made; without him, nothing was made that has been made. 4 In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. 5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
Christ was the creator.
Finally, his life was not taken John 10.18 No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it again. This commandment have I received of my Father.
I hope these help

FreedomfromtheT:
I said it! You are obviously one of those whose minds are sealed. I am not responding because of you but because of those whose minds are open. I quoted a lot of verses showing that Jesus is God and explaining why He had to subordinate Himself to the Father. As for your false assertion that I can't support Trinity with one verse of the Bible, I want those who are not blind to read Matthew 28:20;
John 1:1; John 20:28; Acts 5: 3,4; Acts 20:28; Hebrews 9:13,14; 1st Timothy 3:16; Revelation 1:8 and specifically 1st John 5:7 which reads" For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word (Jesus Christ) and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one". That is Trinity right there. As for Trinity being illogical (from the human perspective), may be, but as for being supported by a biblical verse, as those who are not blind can see, there more than one verse showing that just as the Father is God, Jesus Christ is God and the Holy Ghost (or Holy Spirit) is equally God. Thank you.

johnw47:
if you want to bring into question something that i have said
then quote what i said

for instance where did i say God is flesh?
i have of course said many times that God is a Spirit:

Joh_4:24  God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.
Jesus is The Son of God
before and after becoming Man He is The Word of God
[s]reply to what i write or be like the confused false jw's , who much of the time
must be replying to the voices in their heads


your confusion got 2 likes
there are at least 2 other confused ones here, funny[/s]

johnw47:
The Word of God, had a beginning in the flesh. john 1:14

Your Bible disagrees
Colossians 1:15, Why would Jesus Christ be the first born of EVERY creature when millions of people have lived & died on earth before his birth in the flesh?

johnw47:
before then, Wisdom/The Word of God, had a beginning as a separate Person to God. proverbs 8:22-25
God bought forth Wisdom out of Himself.

John W have made 2 salient confession:.
Number 1 ; before then, Wisdom/The Word of God, had a beginning as a separate Person to God. proverbs 8:22-25 (in the spirit realm)
Number 2:
The Word of God, had a beginning in the flesh.
Therefore, the word/Wisdom first had a beginning in the spirit realm , John W talk am.
God created ,"Brought forth "a separate person" being called "Wisdom" (revealed to be Jesus @ 1 Corinthians 1:24)
Shidof, take note of the 2 Screenshots.
The Hebrew lexicon Qanah = CREATE
@ Proverbs 8:22, Genesis 14:19,22. Psalms 139:13
Brought forth, Possess,Maker, Produce = CREATE

johnw47:
The Spirit of Wisdom, The Spirit of knowledge etc. is that same One Holy Spirit that is God:

johnw47:
Isa_11:2  The Spirit of the LORD will rest on Him, The spirit of wisdom and understanding, The spirit of counsel and strength, The spirit of knowledge and the fear of the LORD.

johnw47:
God possessed Wisdom at the beginning of His way/before His works of old.
His works of old are of course, the beginning of His way

God and Wisdom/The Word, was there at the beginning of creation
God possessed Wisdom at creation, and before that Wisdom has always existed in God, of course

johnw47:
God is greater than The Word of God/than The Lord Jesus Christ
it was God Who bought Wisdom out of Himself, and Jesus is flesh

johnw47:
God bringing Wisdom out of Himself can be likened to birth
but not likened to create, because Wisdom always existed in God

shidof:
Cos it's illogical. They won't have a valid answer

johnw47:
false jw's are evil and insane, that's for sure
satan's mob love to blaspheme God over and over again
and who but insane people would call The Holy Spirit: "the ole demon ghost" etc.


i'm not trinatarian, i believe there were two persons in the beginning
God and The Word, as the bible/God's word say's

Jesus the Man/flesh came thousands of years later

but IMO trinity is far closer to correct than false jw org. is
for example, The Holy Spirit is not a impersonable power, but is a Person and more than just that

johnw47:
@bold, yes The Holy Spirit is The Word of God

Bishopkingsley:
Your GB is so wicked that they told you that only them can be born again

That only them God called because I only need to hear the lame reason from you why only them God made born again

They are not more than 8 GB

And JW total on earth won't be more than ten million Bible said uncountable made heaven so tell me since 1914

That your world ended according to JW where is the uncountable number going to come from

This GB have your brain cells that why you can't think properly

But you can see Trinitarian people think for themselves and God reveals to each one the way to do his own ministry work the same way God separated Paul and Barnabas

I only pray for you to believe Jesus as your God Almighty it up to you

johnw47:
@bold, yes The Holy Spirit is The Word of God

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out, he's an Internet freak even more than I, he's actively online on twitter, facebook, and seeing all the uproars about DNA test here and there on Nairaland, I think he's going to ask me to come to the hospital with him disguising it as me Knowing my blood group (for a DNA test.)

The thing here is am scared, because all my life I have seen people saying never to trust a woman (I love my mom, but still am scared)

What if it's a DNA test (which I strongly believe it is)
What if it's turns out complicated
Would he still accept me? Or abandon me to myself.
So many thoughts running through my head, they are reasons for that.

He's black, I am fair (though my mum says I took his father complexion)


Pls help me...am thinking to stay back in school or go home This evening.
Am confused.

Bishopkingsley:
Every one can see Janosky does not know Bible

sagenaija:
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There you are again, going off at a tangent.

Matthew 11:25= Acts17:24. The God made everything & everything came through him.

Job 38:1-7=Proverbs 8:29 & Hebrews 1:10-12=Matthew 11:25= Acts17:24,Jehovah is how many persons?
Jehovah the God laid the foundation of the earth.

Ephesians 3:14-15 & 1 Corinthians 3:23, Jesus owes his name to JEHOVAH God his Father.
Do you Sagenaija owe your name to your own Father?
If you do, receive SENSE

achorladey:
Your worship of Jesus is in your head NOT in your Bible...... Janosky

Repeat that to those giving you God's viewpoint on any matter as published in the numerous publications of theirs

whose doctrine did Jesus teach Achorladey....... Janosky

The one I know is Jehovah’s viewpoint and that Jehovah’s viewpoint is that Jesus Christ too must be worshipped

The Bros is desperate to discredit Jesus Christ...... Janosky

Like the case of you saying Jesus support Idolatry and by extension paapaa Jehovah support Idolatry since Jehovah's viewpoint is that Jesus too should be worshipped

This viewpoint was popular and widespread more recent discoveries (in screenshot) came to light....... Janosky

My worry is not about popularity and widespread. My worry is that they are Jehovah’s viewpoints and you and your religious organisation hardly follow Jehovah’s viewpoint as taught by you and your religious organisation. Get to understand that.


Stop making a mockery of yourself clinging to archaic ideas disproven by recent discoveries of biblical evidences in several manuscripts...... Janosky


God is not to be mocked indeed but Jehovah’s viewpoint are what you make mockery of and you call ARCHAIC IDEAS . Had your Jehovah come in 1874 or 1914 you won't have anything called ARCHAIC IDEAS OR MOCKERY or RECENT DISCOVERIES of BIBLICAL EVIDENCE and nothing would have been disproved. You see the Web?


Bros, continue DECEIVING yourself and Continue WAILING, the adjective in Luke 24:25 befits you.....Janosky


Out of the abundant of his hearts, mouth and fingers comes DECEIVING and WAILING

Here is Luke 24:25
So he said to them: “O senseless ones and slow of heart to believe all the things the prophets have spoken! 26 Was it not necessary for the Christ to suffer these things and to enter into his glory?” 27 And starting with Moses and all the Prophets, he interpreted to them things pertaining to himself in all the Scriptures.

Another confirmation that you hardly follow Jehovah’s viewpoint all the prophets and Moses bear witness about JESUS but what do you bear witness about?

Achorladey & LYING can't be divorced
Who did Jesus bear witness about?
John 9:4 who is Jesus and the disciples working for?

John 9:4 & John 7:16 ,is Jehovah's viewpoint practiced by Jesus written in Achorladey's Bible?

Emusan:
[s]Do you get mine also
As usual always be the first to cast the stone of persecution.

So it's Christendom that is enforcing Sharia in Iraq, Afghan, Saudi Arabia e.t.c anyways I know your lies didn't start today. [/s]
Now the idiot has changed mouth after he first claimed they are DOING PUBLIC TEACHING and I demanded for a video
[s]Even your father the Devil will be afraid of your lie.[/s]

[s]I can't stop laughing at your delusions.
[/s]
So Islamists won't know they're Muslim because what they'll be quoting and preaching from is Quran

Just see grandeur delusions.

I'm still expecting the video of your brother preaching publicly in Iraq, Afghanistan or Saudi Arabia.



That's why I'm expecting you to post a video of any of your deluded brother preaching publicly there.



[s]Just listen to this nonsense that can only come from delusional followers of the lying organization.
[/s]



[s]Like I said, I know he will change mouth because he's a son of father of lies[/s].

[s]Hypocrite! Anyways, this can only have effect on your deluded listeners in your hall but it's evident that your mouth is full of lies and hypocrisy.[/s]

What are your brothers and sisters still doing in those war torn countries after Jesus instructed them to flee just as you advice me to leave Northern Nigeria?

[s]Definitely, they are disobeying Jesus!

Your lying mouth will continue to be exposed [/s]

Bishopkingsley:
You ask trinity I gave you trinity name as Jesus instructed

What do you think will happen to anyone who refused to use the name Jesus mentioned here

Since JW have no respect for Jesus and holy spirit

Don't worry you will soon find out who the holy spirit is JW told you he is a force


Acts 5
3 Peter said, “Ananias, why did you let Satan rule your heart? You lied to the Holy Spirit. Why did you keep part of the money you received for the land for yourself?

MaxInDHouse can you lie to a force
Remember a force can't speak or know anything so how can Peter say this man lie to holy spirit

Bishopkingsley:
I won't tell you my church but let me list some trinity churches that JW can never match their population

The reason I don't say my church is because Jehovah gave me what to preach he said preach Jesus preach my word

So I don't magnify church or any man of God do you see the difference between me and you

Now this churches are what we call mega churches

Td Jake's church in Texas
Bishop Oyedepo living faith in Nigeria
Christ embassy Nigeria
Catholic world wide
Anglican world wide
Redeemed church Nigeria
There are so many that can't be remembered

Total population of JW world wide can't match the total population of only one in Nigeria

You think our God is sleeping no his power is working live in our midst that why from all the four corners of the earth people come to hear the word of God people come to hear Jesus preached holy spirit shows his power and people are blessed

Bishop Kingsley "don't magnify church or any man of his 3 Gods" but he " magnify" Td Jake's church in Texas
Bishop Oyedepo living faith in Nigeria
Christ embassy Nigeria
Catholic world wide
Anglican world wide
Redeemed church Nigeria
There are so many that can't be remembered"

Bishop wey dey DECEIVE himself

Bishopkingsley:
The Trinity is what makes us one

It is who you worship that makes you one with another person that is what makes you become part of the body of Christ

Like I told you you preach JW organization and Watchtower magazine

While I preach Jesus and his word the Bible

This is what makes you and I different and this is why am the real one who knows God

But hey you won't know this truth because they fill your mind with lies

Don't worry continue to look for a real church or a group that will save you while I look at Jesus just as the Father wills

Bishopkingsley:
Listen I chat in an orderly manner

I ask you a question before you refuse to answer it

You can't take up any post and begin to answer it step by step

So try and follow the rules of the Bible study

NWT
13 And I heard every creature in heaven and on earth and underneath the earth+ and on the sea, and all the things in them, saying: “To the One sitting on the throne+ and to the Lamb+ be the blessing and the honor+ and the glory and the might forever and ever.”+ 14 The four living creatures were saying: “Amen!” and the elders fell down and worshipped.

Question
Who are they saying this statement to.................. . be the blessing and the honor+ and the glory and the might forever and ever.......

Is it to Jehovah or to Jesus

Or.

Is it to Jehovah and Jesus?

Emusan:
I [s]know you don't have sense but I'll continue to expose your ignorance since you don't want to have sense JaNosense.
[/s]


Upon all these quote, what do you intend to bring out, that prowling around is different from "To and Fro"?

Educated illiterate.

Emusan:
Olodo buruku.....wind doesn't move TO & FRO
That's only what a living thing does. winds only move in one direction.

Emusan:
[s]Perhaps, you're ignorant of Daniel prophesy of the end time how MANY will run "To and Fro"

ASV: But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book, even to the time of the end: many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased

DARBY: And thou, Daniel, close the words, and seal the book, till the time of the end. Many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased.

YLT: And thou, O Daniel, hide the things, and seal the book till the time of the end, many do go to and fro, and knowledge is multiplied.'

Reason why your lying organization is busy changing that text but no matter how they try they'll always fail because whether "To and fro, or move about" is what living being found doing.
[/s]


If you truly have sense, you can't read a passage where a singular SPIRIT was said to be put on MANY PEOPLE which indicates OMNIPRESENT of the SPIRIT and later asked "SPIRITS (plural)"

Anyways, do I even expect much from JaNosense? Obviously I'm not

Bishopkingsley:
Don't mind them how can they smell heaven when they don't believe Jesus is God Almighty and they don't know the holy spirit that Will carry them to heaven

The 144,000 is a literal number of Jews—12,000 taken from every tribe of the children of Israel, according to verses 5–8.

These 144,000 Jews are “sealed,” which means they have the special protection of God. They are kept safe from the divine judgments and from the wrath of the Antichrist. They can freely perform their mission during the tribulation. It had been previously prophesied that Israel would repent and turn back to God (Zechariah 12:10; Romans 11:25–27)

, and the 144,000 Jews seem to be a sort of “first fruits” (Revelation 14:4) of that redeemed Israel. Their mission seems to be to evangelize the post-rapture world and proclaim the gospel during the tribulation period. As a result of their ministry,

Only 144000 Jews are saved According to Bishop LIENUS
These 144,000 Jews are “sealed,” which means they have the special protection of God. They are kept safe from the divine judgments and from the wrath of the Antichrist.

Bishopkingsley:
Ok Jesus our king is on the throne

NWT
13 And I heard every creature in heaven and on earth and underneath the earth+ and on the sea, and all the things in them, saying: “To the One sitting on the throne+ and to the Lamb+ be the blessing and the honor+ and the glory and the might forever and ever.”+ 14 The four living creatures were saying: “Amen!” and the elders fell down and worshipped.

Question

1. Why is Jesus not part of every creature. Is he not a creature again.?

achorladey:
The reason I told one of Max friend OR brother that whatever they call Jehovah’s viewpoint written in their publications from times past till date they don't follow them because like the other one said they are ARCHAIC IDEAS, they are to MOCKED, they what recent BIBLICAL EVIDENCE has made IRRELEVANT.

When they attach these words to what they preach and teach you wonder what they really or actually believe.

For example the thousands of thousands you saw this same organisation Max belonged taught and teach are Christians of other religion who don't exercise faith in Jesus christ fully the reason they are standing while the 144,000 are those who exercised faith fully in Jesus christ the reason they are sitting on thrones

Examples like this mentioned above and the supporting image below are the Jehovah’s viewpoint that made them become the only true Christians on earth of which in today's world the same organisation and Jehovah they serve see as ARCHAIC IDEAS, to be mocked and made IRRELEVANT as a result of recent BIBLICAL EVIDENCE

You wonder why the continuous MANIPULATION.

MightySparrow:
By your own myopic rating. That I didn't come to your house doesn't mean I don't evangelize.

#1
Just keep aside the JWs write- ups and try to go through the Bible yourself, two or three times, you will understand the Bible.


#2
You fear being disfellowshipped? That is the bondage I read in most of you I have discussed with.
I once told you about the woman abandoned by her husband. Initially, she was afraid of same thing: disfellowshippment, threatened to have discussion with me. I was watching her.



My point until you free yourself from mental slavery. You will be living in fool's paradise.

Every other person is wrong in every other thing?
You may be Very sure you are also entangled in what you are trying to protect.

As you always type, I am not your brother but a stranger neighbour on Nairaland neighborhood.

#1
The man Sparrow wey understand him Bible thoroughly opened a thread to receive tutorials on why him Pastorpreneurs dey appoint their wives as co-partners of their business centers

#2
Bros, look for another excuse to console yourself.
JWs will NOT disfellowship any witness whose spouse abandoned there marriage except she engaged in sexual immorality & was remorseless about it.

achorladey:
You are not my brother in any way!
I told you and substantiated using Jesus' own words when he denied his own blood brothers and mother publicly saying they're not his brothers or mother! Matthew 12:46-50..... MaxInDHouse


In bringing many sons and daughters to glory, it was fitting that God, for whom and through whom everything exists, should make the pioneer of their salvation perfect through what he suffered.

11 Both the one who makes people holy and those who are made holy are of the same family. So Jesus is not ashamed to call them brothers and sisters. 12 He says,

“I will declare your name to my brothers and sisters; in the assembly I will sing your praises.”

Hebrews 2: 11, 12

For both the one who is sanctifying and those who are being sanctified all stem from one, and for this reason he is not ashamed to call them brothers, 12 as he says: “I will declare your name to my brothers; in the midst of the congregation I will praise you with song.”...... NWT

You either deny your GOD Jehovah or recall and retrieve your statement. One will happen.

Bishopkingsley will be waiting for your response on this just like the post above on persons serving same masters fighting one another.

Bishopkingsley:
[s]I have presented to you the only group that is in the Bible but you refuse to listen to it the reason you refused to listen to me about the only group in the Bible is because it is not man not human being that is in charge of that group
[/s]
[quote author=Bishopkingsley post=106167243]That group is Jesus group he is the head of the group the group is not controlled by man but only by Jesus it is called (the body of Christ) and Bible is the only book to read in that group

Bishopkingsley:
Next question
Note all the things I will write is from your Bible I won't use my Real authentic Bible

John 1
NWT
1 In the beginning was the Word,+ and the Word was with God,+ and the Word was a god.*

Note
From this place the word is in the beginning

The word was with God

The word was a god

Question
Do you agree this word is a spoken word

Bishopkingsley:
Question
Do you know agree that Jesus is the word that this place is talking about

Bishopkingsley:
Question
According to your Bible do you agree that Jesus is also the a god

MaxInDHouse:
A fully competent and completely equipped Bible students {2Timothy 3:16-27} who can't be tossed back and forth like the waves of the sea {Isaiah 57:20} God promised to exterminate such incompetent religionists in His Kingdom! Revelations 21:1

sagenaija:
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When you ignore presented portions of Scripture and choose to deviate to some other things it shows you for who you are.

Sagenaija does NOT love Bible truth

Acts 17:24
"The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man"

Ho Theos the God & Father is the Creator.
Hebrews 1:10-12= Matthew 11:25= Acts17:24.
= Job 38:1-7=Proverbs 8:29= Ephesians 3:14-15

Acts 9:1-7, did Jesus convert Saul?
Connect the dots linking Matthew 11:25 & Acts17:24.
Sagenaija receive SENSE

Akporo1234:
Update from

Nigerian internet users have expressed their great surprises towards recent photos of the newly elected SUG President of Delta State Polytechnic, Ozoro, Comr. Choice Christopher with the school Rector Buldr. Prof. Emmanuel A.

The photos appeared online after the pretty lady celebrated emerging the female SUG president of the institution, Siggy reports.

She said, “With my Rector, Buldr. Prof. Emmanuel A. and my humble self. WHAT GOD CANNOT DO, DOESN’T TRULY EXIST. #Choiceberry.”

The photos quickly circulated online for obvious reasons, people couldn’t tell the rector from the SUG president due to their contrasting physical looks.

A Facebook user identified as Comr. Emmy Boo shared photos of the duo with an emoji that expresses shock.

Reposting the photo of the rector and SUG president on Facebook, Oparaji Franklyn wondered, "“Pls who is the Rector and Who is the SUG President?”

Many social media users have since dropped funny comments to the photo on page as they all wonder the same thing

https:///see-photos-of-new-delta-poly-sug-president-that-caused-uproar-online/

erifeoluwasimi:
My title says it all but I still need your contribution. Looking at the recent celebrity story about a failed marriage I have decided to take a thought about failed marriages.
Before we go further I am a woman and have been Married for 7 years. I think I know little about marriage.
Firstly, speaking as an experienced person in marriage counseling (I head a big school where 30 Percent of my parents are either divorced or separated) each time I have issues with a child (moral or academic default) I invite the parent mostly mom. At the end of the day we find ourselves discussing the father. Blames upon blames on how irresponsible the father is or how the child is taking after the father. I end up asking the mom if she knows she couldn't raise the kids without the father why did she divorce him
Note: most times it's the woman that was at fault i.e.lack of patience
I have a friend too who is separated from the husband to the extent that she has refused to tell the man she put to bed till date. When she was about to put to bed she called that I follow her but I told her I couldn't because it wasn't my duty. Then she started ranting about how the man has been useless and all that. I later volunteer my sister. After the birth it was a normal birth I called my sister to come home. She said she wanted to bury the placenta that there was no one to do it. Then I asked her to return it and tell the lady to call her husband who lives just 50# can from the hospital. In summary she didn't take the placenta from the hospital. She asked a nurse to bury it and didn't bother to know if she did or not. Then I told her it was dangerous. She went back to her to her usual story of 'he is not a serious man'
Just to make peace reign I called the man to find out only to find out that my friend was a cheat, the man found out and she opted for divorce. He is not ready for it but my friend asked him to leave ( they lived in a rented apartment)
Same as been the story of most of my divorce parents, they cheated.
When the marriage failed they find it hard to forgive themselves and they resort to ranting.
Women who weren't cheating or weren't at fault are usually calm after the divorce because they know they did their best.
To avoid becoming a sadist.....be transparent in marriage
My opinion tho .....( Don't mind my typo and writing)
Cheers

Afrikween:
I never had a good relationship with my mother,
I Hate my father but none of this is my fault and I blame both of them...(my naive mother never opening her eyes to see the lies my father told her, and my damned father for always lying to my mother)