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anger and frustration has taken over her judgement!
she cursed his manhood never to function again...now suppose he repents will she then no longer need his manhood? will she then blame the devil if she needs gratification and the manhood isn't working? will she then "seek" solace outside and justify it by saying it's not her fault in the first place?
hurt as she may be she still needs to be sane in her pronouncements...
Lord in heaven teach us forgiveness as you forgive us our trespasses!!!
side chicks please leave married men alone...na beg I dey beg!!!!

good points!
I've always been one who love to see children observe and learn from parents in order to achieve greatness in all ramifications of life!
with due respect mothers take note of the points....I say so cos they're first to grow impatient with children especially when the children hit their teen years!

balogun16:
the husband pushed her to do it. No woman on this planet with do that to a child. men are the evil ones since Adam. I hate men for their evil act. they are all rapist. #proudfeminist #womenpower

is this rant in defence of the woman's action? it means you can do the same o! your relatives must beware of you..

obinna58:
Lazy parents are always full of anger

on target. only a lazy toxic person behaves like that. women have this in their minds always that they should just sit and use another like a robot! go and fetch water! bring the rag! have you swept the room ? lazy child! you should be grateful I'm taking care of you! go and clean this go and do that....all within the twinkle of an eye!
these lazy women are all around us, we see them but won't interfer mostly because of privacy unless the situation goes out of hand!
please people do not take another's child and make him/her your slave...and people do not birth children you can't cater for!!!
this boy's situation won't be the last we will hear I can tell you!

ElsonMorali:
First, If you beat a 5 year old boy for watching the videos he found on his father's phone that would make you very wrong.

He is 5, not 15. Instead, watch him real close and see If he is being affected by the videos he's been watching. Hopefully he's not addicted yet, But make sure you have him engage in physical exercises, take him to an open park where he can play with boys his age in the sand. Engage his mind with his school homework and get colorful and decent comics for him, like tintin and Archie comics.

Second, The father is totally in the wrong here. He knew he had porn on his phone and still left it for the boy to handle. He has behaved irresponsibly.

Meanwhile, you have a much bigger problem on your hands than these. Your marriage is on the verge of hitting the rocks.

I'm yet to see a marriage that survived the addiction of one of the spouses to porn.

You need to talk to your husband about this. Let him know you'll support him to break that habit.

He needs to seek professional help and both of you should also go for counselling.

Don't wait until you're done for.

All the best.

great advice...matured!

Ishilove:
Beat him shaba shaba!! Whenever he remembers the beating, he will hate porn with perfect hatred. That is the African way to train a child.

After beating your boy, use your mouth to beat Daddy for keeping rubbish in his phone and being careless about it.

African way discipline has long term side effects my friend! and that will last longer than the clip he saw on the phone. hey! use mouth beat the Daddy! hmmmm...hope you know also that might have a negative effect on the marriage... be careful how you advice people on their domestic issues...it's usually highly sensitive.
please consider it and rephrase your advice...thanks.

Usually there's a tendency for gaps to appear in terms of communication between couples once children are born and this short circuits the bond and relationship. You realize the woman isn't making the breakfast in good time cos she has to attend to kids and instead of probably politely asking hubby to help out she bottles up and feels "he ought to know" and vice versa...this can lead to either party snapping at the long run!
Communication remains key if we must avoid having issues in marriage.

federal government college Kaduna

I think he's our own Mr Bean...in his own little way...

Unik3030:
what is the evidence that are ipob members killed by the Nigerian army? anybody can just go to a morgue n snap dead body n say they were killed by anybody he wishes to rope. I refuse to believe this

you spoke my mind ...

nice photos OP. keep it up!

Ceejay8:
That ass is what our president and zoo army are searching for, killing innocent people,

Atleast the python dance can dance around that ass,

do you have any legal tender or identity dat is recognized by any legal body (no matter how small the organization is) that distinguishes you from the "zoo?"
if yes show it here
if no then you are also a "zoogerian"!!!
hope you know that!

Bhuldoxxa:
Hmmmm..... coming from a woman?

yes bro! I'm glad she sounded like that. I'm sure she has a balanced opinion. most ladies will jump at blaming men and most men will want to feel that women are to blame!
care must be taken always to seek the cause of intended or unintended infidelity! there's always a reason.

I just hope NOBODY heeds this crazy advice or opinion especially if you want to keep your home. good intentions often times lead to the most unplanned situations!
no man will support his wife being the "work spouse" to another...
no woman will hear you tell another woman even your mum that "you're reliable" and suspicion will not creep in! you can never ever trust human emotions for two weeks at a stretch!! don't risk your family health with someone you just met on the job...you will leave that office but your home is you!!!!!

psalmistkakah:
Liverpool d most foolish team in d universe

o boy try keep that opinion to yourself!
win or lose I still love the club!

in a lighter mood I think anyone with a snake post is always on point! straight to FP!!

Mayany:
Bros the thing weak me but we gats carry our cross o

you have said it! at least I know now I've you, we be team now so each time she flaunt 5 & 11, i go remember i am not alone, i go think of you and de cross go dey easier to carry

Mayany:
No.5 and 11 is what is causing problem with my wife right now. Simple I am sorry she can't say rather she want to defend her error always

my brother! abi na my wife you marry?

attackgat:
Migrating to their zone will not give them Biafra, they already did that in 1967 and it did nit work.

If all Igbos left all parts of Nigeria and went back home, it still will not bring about Biafra

really? oh well that means there must be tension, tears and blood!
but let's pray against such. then again '67 isn't 2017!

attackgat:
So why is everybody afraid of referendum? By the way, how did Kanu, who is just one man, manage to force millions to accept Biafra?

At least Biafra is an idea, an ideology and an agitation. Nigeria was never any of the 3 but a mere colonial contraption foisted on the people by imperialists

let me say this please,: since kanu has so much influence and the igbos believe and have faith in his leadership, can they who believe so just quietly migrate to that region with all they have and establish the area to the envy of the nation?
I believe no government will hold it against you.
if they migrate and creat a model region that's not dependent on any part of the "zoo" for whatever that makes a region great I'm sure there won't be any Igbo seen anywhere else but there and we who aren't included will become envious!
or maybe I'm just not making sense and there must be quarrels and war just to develop your zone!

Frankyboy1:
There must be a differentiation between ipob igbos and Niger delta's, I am igbo of delta extraction but see this ipob skirmish as madness or delusion grandeur of the highest order, how can you provoke and pelt a military armored carrier with it's personnel, When the military retracks, they say it is an act of cowardice,and the military is scared, when they attack they say icc,Hague,world bank,UN, as if they care about what's happening in Nigeria!you guys are loosing sympathisers with videos as such as this morning of miscreants trying to force the military to act in.order to give it a bad name!'Just this morning the professor in charge of Ikwerre youth council warned ohaneze to take it's igbo day celebration elsewhere,which is unconstitutional,but ipob which is mistaken as all Igbos is being synonymous with trouble,and brazen display of arrogance in their quest for their secession,I hear a lot of misinformed kids here.shouting BSS will match the Nigerian army and history will not repeat itself,their reason being boko Haram is waging an .war on our military,forgetting boko boys do not fight conventional warfare but hit and run and ready to lay down their lives as suicide bombers! Listen and listen well carefully, direct confrontation the Nigeria army will level IPOB,BSS and it's noise makers in a day with.less than one tenth of it's artillery and personnel, and nothing would happen, from the international community!go ask elzakky and co, Let leaders and elders of thoughts of our region rise up before this deluded self imposed emperor, lead lots of foolish youths to their early graves!a word is enough for the wise,and the fly kanu that refused to hear word will follow the corpse to the grave

you're talking!! say it louder!
see, most of us baying for blood and anarchy have never spent a day under heavy bombardment! you will wish for peace! how many care to watch the news about Syria, Yemen Afghanistan and Ukraine! do you honestly want to see hostilities? please don't!
please frankyboy, tell them more! SAY NO TO HOSTILITIES!!

Cyynthia:
The same way Buhari is fighting secessionist group behind his house and went further to back a country seeking for self determination recently.
Learn politics.

you're right Sir...
my only problem is the wanton loss of lives of innocent people...
then again who will be prez and allow secession?
I always remind us who are "irrelevant" that when situations like this occur TRUTH is the first casualty!!!

the Kurds are like the ipob seeking independence, yet it's been denied over the years with the Turkish govt killing them in droves yet this guy has the audacity to poke his nose into the Nigerian govt business!
wait was sent by the Turkish govt? if not better find out because guys like him come only to do business with sessionists to provide arms and ammunition! don't tell me he has the interest of the Easterners at heart! I won't believe it. but they can trust him to their own peril!

rocknation62:
GIVERS NEVER LACK...

LACKERS NEVER GIVE!!

An2elect2:
Christians are not mandated to pay tithe. We are free in Christ and all our givings should be as the Spirit leads else we are empty professors.

Any church that is collecting tithe is not only robbing you but placing you under the curse of the law. It says for all who rely on the works of the law are under a curse, as it is written: "Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law." Galatians 3:10.

There are 613 laws that are to be kept to be right with God. No man kept these except Christ. And through His death we are free from the rule and condemnation of the law. If Christ has freed you from the Law why do you still entangle yourself with its yoke, bringing yourself under bondage and condemnation by obeying wicked men who only want to fleece you for their gain?

Isn't Christ enough? Don't you trust the Spirit of Christ to lead you? Isn't Christ your righteousness, the reason you stand justified before God is it because you pay tithe (keep 1 of 613 laws)? or because you believe in Jesus Christ?

how I wish you wrote this in upper case!
many refuse to read and understand their scriptures but prefer to accept without research what the pastor says! read Rom16:17-18!
the work of evangelism isn't a profit oriented thing but for salvation of souls but this has been hijacked by philosophers using the bible to thrill and then milk people! check out the whole of the new testament that's the Christian code of conduct no one paid a dime as tithe!!
even in the old testament tithe was NEVER cash!!!

we all know who's responsible for the lack of electricity. they form cartels and local mafiosi just to line their pockets! if we cooperate as consumers we can deal with the situation!!

Eastside046:
As far my brodas understand me


daz how i pronounce mine ,even op wrote it but i couldnt use coz daz how i write mine but nothing bad sha

e go well



better for me to call Ibadown or obomoso

you pronounced it well.
but I wish you will desist from the name calling.
I served in ebonyi years ago even tho I be aboki and I've many memories of the town which I still visit til tomorrow.
kudos to Umahi for this great feat even though many rose against him initially but I'm sure they can now see his impact!
I SAY NO TO NAME CALLING ON NAIRALAND

Amarabae:
Some people are emotionally strong, they hardly break down,
they weep in the spirit and express it out by sighing and deep breathing.
Btw,it does not make them heartless,
while some men are emotionally fragile.

you just described me. honestly I find it hard to cry and somehow I see the weeping of others especially when I'm directly involved as mine so I find my eyes dry though deep inside me I feel pain. I'm very emotional when I see someone share kindness or love ...I shed a tear or two but not weeping and wailing...

Question: if his father were the prez of this country will he allow anyone from whatever tribe attempt to secede?
what will be his reaction to that kind of attempt? applause?
his answers really don't make him look clever. why did he not tell the judiciary the bail conditions are abnormal for a person of his son's calibre? he should have rejected it at first and told his son to remain incarcerated until a better condition is given. these things are simple: no country will allow secession on a platter of gold no matter the level of anarchy! check out the Syrian conflict and other places in the former Soviet Union!!
the IPOB leader should continue to "fight" on behalf of his people and all who will want him to lead them...
Suggestion: all those in his support should quietly relocate to the area he mapped out as Biafra by December and develop the area , in another 4 years I'm very sure others will join them there and settle peacefully there so the "zoo" will be free to continue it's "underdevelopment"!
there's no point staying in the "zoo" yet condemning it!!!

I love the creativity!! happy birthday my guy!! you for let me know in advance I for dey that pishure!!!!

I love the creativity!! happy birthday my guy!! you for let me know in advance I for dey that pishure!!!!

kingcypress? this my first time seeing this name on this forum!