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Kobicove:
Who cooked up this categorization?

it's not even cooked yet! just gathering ingredients... it may never even get cooked!!!!!

dollytino4real:
why do men cheat? is like asking why is buhari sick or why do rat eats paper? it is in their blood from B.C

even if a man initiates an action to cheat, he does it with a consenting woman( a cheat also) else its called RAPE.
it takes two to tango.

yea...and if you watch "unlikely animal friends" on dstv you will be amazed as to how uncanny and unpredictable this affinity can be!!!

Lalas247:
Morning How u dey Man U had the easiest group bunch of arseholes

I no fit laugh this morning ooooo

Lalas247:
Morning How u dey Man U had the easiest group bunch of arseholes

I no fit laugh this morning ooooo

TRAILBLAIZER:
hmmm dis years champions league will b awsome i go dey follow bumper to bumper oo cuz ma own lfc is back to take back wats rightfully ours

#team lfc
#lfc4ucltitle
#lfc4pltitle


Lalas247 were u guys

I share the same confidence bro!! YNWA!!!!!

redbeans:
nice draw. Liverpool grouped with Maribor, Sevilla and Spartak

yea...hope we work hard so we top the group too!
I think we can safely scale through...
YNWA!

you just made my day! I'm so happy to hear this that a couple come together to give their kids affection courage and to have a vision of how to appreciate their future family life!
many families lack the basic ingredients to achieve 60% love in the home. men feel they're paying the bills, the women feel they're just to cook and keep the home tidy, that's typical but you just showed us there's the extra mile!
I agree. the best way to boost confidence positively in a child is to first give it to him at HOME! lots of fathers and mothers wait til a child makes a mistake or forgets a chore then they tongue lash that child! what stops you from ANTICIPATING the mistake or forgetfulness?
a 10 year old isn't as perfect as you a 35year old! it takes practice to get to that level.
we need to have a look at ourselves and change the attitudes we have.
a mother will sit and keep a child on his/her toes just sending left and right. now tell me how the child will feel? and what does he have in mind as he grows to adulthood? a boy will definitely believe mothers are built like that! therefore his wife should sit and send!!
a couple means doing ALL things together and looking at how things should be done to attract minimum emotional and physical friction!
Hope to read more from you soon!

great display from the boys! so we move to the group stages! up reds!!! YNWA...

[quote author=dabossman post=59752653]So, who would you invite. NPFL players since the local league is still on? Or a there Nigerian players in Europe who are playing regularly in top leagues around the world that no one knows of? [/quote
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I bet there are among the listed those playing regularly and are match fit. My thoughts are we tend to use players based on names rather than performance

ybalogs:
Iheanacho has not been playing
Musa has not been playing
Iwobi has not been playing
Mikel has been injured
Simeon has not been playing
Balogun just back from injury
Our keepers are not reliable
Etc Etc.
And these are our hope to destroy African Champions. Lets wait and see if god of soccer is indeed a Nigerian. Leggo Eagles.

this is the most sensible comment thus far...we're too sentimental and our players know that. the players listed are very unfit and mostly match rusty for the game yet they're "stars"! except for few guys like Moses iheanacho and prolly ighalo most others are just training materials in their clubs yet our national team managers invite them!
do you think if a Mourinho or Guardiola were in charge here we will have these kinda players behaving like they own the nation? look at the discipline of the Cameroon team...I just dey shiver. tall no nonsense defenders and forceful attackers...
anyway let's hope we pull a draw or an upset...but no excuse should be entertained in case of a loss...

Okah866:
Men are scum

all men? or some men?

Yeligray:
I can't find my name

it's written in invisible ink...
you will be given an invisible jersey and you will be seen only by invisible fans!
make sure you score o and don't eat before the match else you will find your name on the Cameroonian side!

redbeans:
i've noticed that issues relating to liverpool are always left at the periphery level. I've decided to create this thread so all liverpool fans rub minds. We never walk alone.


What are your observations pertaining to this new season for our dear club??


Cc... Luvola mokoshalb mukina2 harbeyg09 hackman34 smartnero24 goldenjat awoo47 babaibo thehistorian iamfromlagos jaszplus12 ajoyeleke

thank you sir for this opportunity. we stand to do well if we add VVD and another midfielder in the mould of Naby. and I truly feel Klopp has an ace up his sleeve before the window closes.

really you're on track. most annoyingly many women hardly accept being corrected! they feel they're sure about what they're up to and won't fail...reverse the situation and see how they will howl at their hubby for engaging in the same thing they felt they could handle!
pride and ego on both sides of the divide does not allow true communication between couples!

nice! I love it always! I'm right now doing the same with my boys and my wife!!

LOOK OUT! Big asteroid will buzz pass earth on September 1; here is all you need to know
Florence is 4.4 km in size and will be the largest asteroid to pass this close to earth ever since NASA had started a programme to detect and track asteroids 20 years back.
By: FE Online | New Delhi | Published: August 19, 2017 2:37 PM
Florence is 4.4 km in size and will be the largest asteroid to pass this close to earth. (Reuters)
Fasten your seatbelts and hold on tight as one of the largest asteroids hovering in the neighbourhood will go past earth on September 1. The asteroid called Florence is named in the honour of Florence Nightingale, the founder of modern nursing. The asteroid was discovered by Schelte Bus at an observatory in Australia in March 1981. Florence is 4.4 km in size and will be the largest asteroid to pass this close to earth ever since NASA had started a programme to detect and track asteroids 20 years back.
The asteroid will be seven million km away from earth which is 18 times the distance between earth and moon. It will be visible to small telescopes for several nights in late August and early September. There have many cases of asteroids passing close to earth but are estimated to be small in size as compared to Florence.
The last time Florence had passed this close to earth was 127 years back in 1890. As per the TOI report, NASA said that Florence will be an excellent target to ground based radar observations.
Notably, any asteroid larger than one km could be a reason for a planet-wide catastrophe. As per TOI report, NASA claims that there are over 880 rocks buzzing in the vicinity. Florence is among the largest of them all. If the asteroid crashes into the earth it would be an ‘Avada Kedavara’ for humanity. Earlier, in 2013, a meteor had crashed in Russia’s Chelyabinsk. The rock was about 20m and weighed 10,000 tonnes. Serious injuries and widespread damage occurred after the crash.
Meanwhile, on October 12, asteroid 2012 TC4 will pass within 50,100 km of the earth. Thankfully, the space rock is just 15 m and so there won’t be any danger.

that's great o! but I bet they all have naira in their pockets and not Biafra dollar! I really don't get this if they're biafrans in truth they won't go to a shop and say "give me pure water ten naira"!

na wa ooo!! I for don smash record for internet too o because I've been doing this to all my kids! 3 kids from 2003 til now and even though the youngest is getting on 7years old she still loves the chance for me to attend to bathing her!!! chai!! why social media no full ground that time?
i miss!!!

you must follow up seriously but carefully. go through what pictures he has around him and find out if by chance he listens to naija music often and if he watches telemundo with his mum. unfortunate that our songs are contaminants now rather than soothing...
that's your first move
then you guide him in speech and actions. like when you see two guys fighting tell him this is wrong or when you hear swear words etc from people around draw his attention to it and tell him why its wrong and tell him the right thing to say or do....that's how to father a child.
goodluck.

ladies get emotional when a man genuinely care for them...and become TOO attracted to the guy, her body language changes... the guy isn't blind and is attracted by what he SEES and bingo! there's a spark, no denying it! so, its not POSSIBLE!

IMO... you should take the initiative and find time to ask him some salient questions. work business and social questions and tap into the root of his being. he's your hubby therefore you should know his weak and strong points! third party intervention should be the last resort cos even us giving you a shoulder to cry on here cannot truly truly help in the real sense of the word....we only offer advice.
what were the things you guys engaged in as boyfriend/girlfriend things back then? were there pranks you played that you enjoyed? food? games? pictures? find them pray and see what happens!
don't kill anyone
don't do porn
put a smile on your face always cos sometimes a worried look might tell him he's hitting you where it hurts!
good luck

MizzD:
Women have too much to give in marriage and this really bothers me. The moment you get married, you get pressured into having kids. You successfully achieve that, you worry about nurturing them, sometimes career sacrifices are made for these kids. You endure sleepless nights to nuture these kids, and while sacrificing it all, you have to worry about getting your body (Tommy, vagina, what have you) back in shape to prevent your husband from straying. You worry about picking up your career or academics where you left it.

If you're unable to bear kids or choose to delay a little to focus more on your career, you are also at a risk of losing this man to aspiring baby mamas or crazy exes.

You are also expected to bring something to the table hustle with the man, while you perform all wifely duties alongside. Sometimes i think these sacrifices can be so challenging and when a woman is unfortunate to have a husband who doesn't appreciate all that is done to keep it all together, you begin to wonder if it's ever really worth it.

Madam Op, the solution to your problem lies between you two. If your husband does not encourage verbal communication, pls write to him. There's no point reaching out to him via social media when you can pen all these frustrations down for him to read too.

Except you are being punished for a sin or you married a robot, you should demand and get a response / reaction or whatever and then you take it from there. Be firm and sort things out. Demand answers. Be ready to accept and admit your flaws. Address ALL related and unrelated issues that got you both to this stage and get yourself out of this misery. The outcome of your communication will determine your next line of action.

Lastly, if you keep nursing the thoughts of killing anyone, pls stay away from that environment to cool off. We have enough murder cases biko.

er...you started like it's a woman's portion to bear every negative consequence in marriage I hardly swallow that. its funny that when in courtship most ladies ignore lots of red lights and once in their first to shoot from the hips in complain. agreed most men hardly lift a finger to help their wives in domestic chores child care etc but in retrospect it's cause the women themselves don't engage in knowing how a man behaves in these ways before marriage. the outings the gifts and all the vanity keeps ladies blinded till they are in the home then suddenly they are made to do chores and they begin to tell everyone "my hubby does nothing to help with the house work "!
I'm a firm believer in doing things together as man and wife no matter the busy schedule
but lo! most women tend to abuse the situation when hubby begins to help out all the time!
pls find a balance! marriage is sweet only if we kick off on simple and two-into-one foundation

Nwodosis:
I'm inclined to believe that it was as a result of bad roads and not overload. The condition of Eastern roads is enough for agitation.
May their souls rest in peace. Amen

I want to agree with you bro but let's see a situation where you want to cross a rickety bridge over a river and you have a bag filled with yams...would you put the whole bag on your shoulders and pray the bridge holds while you cross? if yes then I'm sure you understand you have your self to blame in an eventuality.
those traders and transporters are the root cause of these problems.. overloaded vehicles are a risk and everyone knows that whether on a good road or bad one...
point is we all are to blame because we fail to caution ourselves!!

good to hear this...he's been warming up since last year for this....its heart warming.
now can we see more of this kinda moves from the west and the east and stop talking about issues that don't bond people together??

thank you for this information... I've been looking out for meteors since I was a kid and of course was up and awake to view the perseids two days ago even though the sky wasn't very clear. in November we shall have a better shower and enjoy it in clear skies!
OP do you own a telescope?

first I want to thank the OP for such rhoughtful topic.
then i want start by saying the men must first take the blame ...because its how they perceive rheir wifes appearance and approve that the wife transfers to her kids specially the daughters. if a man loves his wife in bum shorts no problem, but that should not become tradition to pass on to kids of tender age and this can be curtailed by the man, the woman understands and makes sure the kids are dressed as kids not kids in adult mode.
movies women watch also has great influence on them. telemundo series has captured and imprisoned our wives so much they no longer concentrate on basic chores. especially the spanish versions where sex and smooching always take centre stage. because the wives cant miss a serie they are weak in changing channels or watching in privacy. kids see all the erotic moves and why not? they do same or their bodies respond like it or not.
music is no longer the food for calmness and rest...lyrics are filled wit lewdness and the videos sell basically because hips are swayed and skin is exposed! its disheartening.
deal with the situations now else you will have a lot to regret in future no matter how you deny it.
fathers mothers work together and save yiurselves the embarrasment!

obailala:
Then you obviously have no clue the kind of stinking greedy politics that goes on with community development funds at the local level. You cant expect the federal govt to be responsible for development of minor roads in villages do you?

I feel many of the citizens if these areas still haven't understood what their leaders are doing and the kind of theft and deceit going on there by political elite. problem is these thieves know what you like and use it against you. they give you pittiance and you jump for it and praise them. see ibori, despite the jail term he came back a "hero" praised as the true son of the soil! HOLD YOUR LEADERS AND THEY IN TURN KNOW WHO TO HOLD....and the beat goes on....

wives should also take a hands on approach to domestic chores not sending for cup from the kitchen then while the child is halfway you send for pillow in the bedroom just because you don't wanna miss a conversation on telemundo!
also they should take correction with tolerance ...husband's effort to correct your attitude isn't judgement or life sentence... no need saying "you too you are not pure yourself after all you stole meat from pot in 1900 and you were caught"!
if your hubby is the kind that helps in chores don't ever begin to feign tiredness before you come from work just to dodge....no matter how tired join in and a caring man knows you need rest and will let you off....

Zeze06:
NK, I see no crime in what are doing....

Even if you die today, history will never forget your struggles for a true course...

Martin Luther king Jr. Fought and died for the truth, with forces much stronger than the ones opposing you right now....

Be strong and not lose faith, "for the Egyptians you see today, one day you shall see them no more"...

Martin Luther King didn't make hate speeches or call anyone names...try a different approach sir...

ehimeayeni:
When you speak in tongues it's not for anybody to understand because it's not man like yourself that will answer your prayers. It's God that understands that will answer your prayers. If you want to speak so that people will understand then pray to men

pls kindly read the bible in acts 2 you will find that this tongues mean other languages of men. nowhere in the bible does anyone speak in any tongue that's called "heavenly " and that's not a human dialect. pls do your research objectively. thanks.

pressplay411:
I think Trump and Kim need to see this!
All these dic swinging childish threats between them must cease.

true! even here in Nigeria people need to see this and know that war is never the answer to a nation's problem! agitations must be done with words not hate speeches!!!