Politics › Re: Gbajabiamila Lost His US Law License Because He Didn't Renew It Not Fraud by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:08am On Sep 20, 2023 |
Okay o |
Politics › Re: "I Acted In Self-Defence": Olumide Awolumate Explains Attack On Commissioner by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:14pm On Sep 19, 2023 |
sultanofpigs: Why do Yoruba like fighting each other?
Later you will hear one has been killed.
Yoruba are 1........bullshyt8) Hustle. Make money. But no show yassef o, because ya cousin bloder fit kidnap you |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery To Start Refining Petrol By November 30, 2023 – Devakumar Edwin by Jeezuzpick(m): 11:02am On Sep 19, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Terem Moffi: Nigerian Striker Mocks Mbappe After Defeating PSG by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:11am On Sep 19, 2023 |
gaby: What Super Eagles is he striking for? We'd be lucky to have him in this form at the AFCON |
Education › Re: Statistics Of Out Of School Children Per Regions In Nigeria by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:06pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Nonny95: This is an embarrassing number for SE. We must reduce this number to zero. Every child must go to school! Those few sef, must have been caused by hardship (destitute, fatherless or orphaned kids). The rubbish in the North and South West, na religion cause am. |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Arrested By Talibans In Afghanistan For Drug Trafficking by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:45pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Amusan Wins 2023 Diamond League Trophy, Her Third Consecutive by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:29pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Gajagojo: Congratulations She should learn to obey rules in future and take responsibility for her actions and live with the consequences No one is trying to take her down and no one should try to play victim or blame racism for her recent travails She is an adult and a professional in a very serious industry and must understand the huge responsibility on her shoulders. Obey the whereabouts rules and don't act in a way that causes unnecessary suspicion I'm sure if she really didobeyed the rules, she would have been brought down by those racists. Look how the poor girl was affected in her last race. |
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Career › Re: How Do You Deal With Sexual Harassment At Work? by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:15pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
oladele00: Work on your dress. The size of your back might be the reason for his action. Stop dressing seductively to the office and stop the flashy makeup and all these would be gone. That is not true. Tell me you don't know that a lot of men are billy goats. They must not see a girl, wahala don start. |
Career › Re: How Do You Deal With Sexual Harassment At Work? by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:05pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
sunsweet33: My office hired a new manager and as I was standing by the side doing something he came up behind me put his hand on my lower back/waist and asked “how are you doing”. At that moment all my usual fire went out of the window and I just froze up. Actually there were 3 other senior staff around who must have seen it and warned him because thereafter, he only tapped my shoulder or shoulder blades (which I dont have any problem with).
Now a couple of days ago I had my hands full again doing something and this man passed behind me, held both sides of my waist very briefly and brushed against my back.
the whole thing was over in less than 5 seconds and I didn’t even see the person until I turned my head to see him watching me from the other side of the office.
bearing in mind this is a senior boss, I don’t feel I can shout or confront as normal so I have just been giving some stern/cold attitudes and stepping out of the way in a more exaggerated way whenever he passes by me. And he has started reciprocating the awkwardness which made it easier for me.
But how realistic is this? In another thread somebody wrote that his brother tried to get his female colleagues fired for rejecting his advances and I fear something similar may happen to me.
Its so irritating. This guy says he has a girlfriend so why not go home and touch her? WTF. Before you think it's only women who suffer sexual harassment at work, lemme add my own. 1. During an intense job at the office (on my first job) I commented that I was tired and joked that I needed a nap. An older lady coworker nearby pressed her boobs and told me, "see pillow here, if you want to sleep". 2. Another one: I was working at my desk, and a lady coworker leaned over as if to talk to me, with her blouse not fully buttoned. I simply remarked to her that "they" are very nice, but could she please button up, because what she's doing is sexual harassment. 3. A friend was looking for a tech support job many years ago. A lady (maybe a Senior Manager) asked him point blank if he was ready to make herself and other (older, probably married, mostly Northerners) ladies "happy" if they needed him to. The guy said he didn't understand (of course he did!). Well, he didn't hear from them again. In your case, seek out a senior female colleague and tell her your worries. I think that may help. If the guy now starts acting badly towards you, it proves your suspicions to the senior lady. As for us guys........ we're on our own. Any guy facing such will sooner or later kiss that job goodbye. |
Travel › Re: FRSC Official Crushed By A Moving Tanker While Chasing Bus Driver (graphic Pic) by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:50am On Sep 18, 2023 |
talk2hb1: Are You Serious? They need to learn that their uniform is not iron man's suit that grants them super powers and rights to do and undo. |
Politics › Re: Osun: Gov Adeleke Declares Curfew In Irepodun, Orolu Lgas by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:48am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sultanofpiglets: The LOVE themselves so much that its ONLY Igbos that kill eachother.
Worthless people.  To be serious, what's it with one tribe laidat and killing of their dads, mom's and brothers? |
Christianity Etc › Re: 19 Year-old Coco Gauff Goes Down On Her Knees In Prayer After US Open Win(Photo) by Jeezuzpick(m): 12:27pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: Wait till she starts winning bigger. Some of them started like this as a teenager.
The issue is not starting in faith but continuing and ending in faith. Yeah? Name just one. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can I Still Go To Church After Having Sex On A Sunday Morning? by Jeezuzpick(m): 11:13am On Sep 17, 2023 |
stanlink: Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise  Have sex with whom? Having sex is not the problem. Give us the complete gist, let us know if you have a problem or not. |
Family › Re: Strict Parents Raise The Best Children. by Jeezuzpick(m): 10:59am On Sep 17, 2023 |
The best way to raise a child is not by decree (strictness) but by example (inspiration).
A reSTRICTed child is the result of "strict" parenting, and such children often run amok once they taste freedom.
The best child is an inspired child. An inspired child already knows what he/she wants and will not bow to pressure to do otherwise.
Let's learn to inspire our children. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can A Genuine Christian Guy Plait His Hair? by Jeezuzpick(m): 10:50am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Why will a man even want to plait (braid) his hair?
Let's leave Christianity out of it first, can anybody please tell my why men suddenly started braiding their hair?
This is a thing previously exclusive to women and certain men for strictly ritual purposes and positions in African culture.
In Ancient Yorubaland, not every man was free to braid his hair. Only priests and devotees of Sango did (and still do) it. It was taboo for just any dude to do it even then, before we had Christianity.
Okay, why not ask if it's all right for a "genuine Christian man" to wear a dress, or lipstick?
No "genuine Christian" will even consider such nonsense, to say even less of asking about it. |
Politics › Re: Abia: Alex Otti Commissions Emelogu, Shallom And Cemetery Roads In Aba by Jeezuzpick(m): 11:54am On Sep 16, 2023 |
BOSSkesh: Stop playing politics of bitterness
The court will sack him apc will win Some people just hate good things...... It's like you feel suffering is your birthright. Not everyone is born to suffer, and those who aren't know who to vote for. |
Sports › Re: Best 100 Players In History' Named – And Fans Absolutely Lose Their Minds by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:16pm On Sep 14, 2023 |
Baso7272: As far Messi is at the Top. i have no problem where anyone else is If Pelé is not number 1 with Maradona on 2, the list is utter rubbish! You're not even talking about George Weah and other African greats not being on the list. Instead, you're gushing over Messi and using him to justify this piece of shit list. |
Politics › Re: Manufacturers Slash Output, Jobs Over FOREX Crisis by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:52am On Sep 14, 2023 |
lexy2014: This news is from the stables of ipob. Tinubus trip to India is bearing fruit. there is a huge $14b investment in the nigerian economy as we speak Yes o! People are dancing in the streets. |
Politics › Re: Manufacturers Slash Output, Jobs Over FOREX Crisis by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:50am On Sep 14, 2023 |
BitterTruth01: The national bureau of statistics will soon release a report of how unemployment has dropped to zero percent in just 2 months of the Tinubu administration.
And the APC supporters will cheer . Including those who are unemployed. What an irony . Yep.....soon, to be employed, we'll only need to work 10 seconds per week.  |
Politics › Re: Manufacturers Slash Output, Jobs Over FOREX Crisis by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:45am On Sep 14, 2023 |
Don't worry, folks!
BULABAA says more people have become magically employed.
All you need to do is work an hour per week!
YAAAAAAY!!
Never mind that you need to survive for the remaining 167 hours on what you made in the single hour of "employment".
This is what happens in a country where stupidity and wickedness are the main attributes for choosing leaders. |
Celebrities › Re: I Am Alive – Buchi Debunks Death Rumour by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2023 |
Na waa o |
Celebrities › Re: If I Die Na Naira Marley Na Kill Me- Mohbad Old Video Resurface Online by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:21pm On Sep 13, 2023 |
BrokenCondom: Naira Marley will need a powerful PR on this case. No evidence to probe him but....
His PR go too strong for a strong comeback & personally, i think that his speech has to do with voodoo, if not, Naira Marley is not only gonna need a new track but a strong PR to bounce back He doesn't need all that. He just needs a collab with an American artiste and all will be forgotten. Una go shock when Nairamarley blow jus laidat. Na de way, naa. Sacrifice tins. |
Romance › Re: Meet Identical Twins That Share Everything, Even The Same Boyfriend (pics/video) by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:16pm On Sep 13, 2023 |
Kingozymandias: Kafirs with their life of empty catastrophies . Kafirs should never be trusted . They bring only evil and sin Non-kaffir marry 5 or 10 wives..... |
Romance › Re: Meet Identical Twins That Share Everything, Even The Same Boyfriend (pics/video) by Jeezuzpick(m): 8:15pm On Sep 13, 2023 |
Vicboy1: The should kukuma marry him na It was on TLC yesterday. They can't marry him because of the law in the US. |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Mohbad Is Dead, Aged 27 (Photos) by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:55pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
OmekaguGCFR1: Chai jesus i never believe untill he's dead body is show online What da f........?!?! So his fam should display his dead body for you? |
Career › Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:43pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
millhouse: welcome to living in lagos …you will have to fill a form to join the exclusive MBA club ( Married But Available ) .
In 6-12 months after joining I don’t think you will see the need to have your family moving down here to join you , best you pay them a visit once in 3 months . Sharon , Derby and Co. will be doing enough work on your body than you can imagine . Na waa for una o....MBA!  |
Career › Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:40pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Uche7779: I've moved three states in 5years. This is the 4th so I ain't moving again. Difficult you know, but I've got to endure.
I appreciate you, thanks.. It's well with you, Bro. I've set up a base for my family, by God's grace. I get to go home and rest at regular intervals. Enugu is a wonderful place. I've been there. Loads and loads of Gentlemen. It's a great place to raise your kids. As for Lagos.....Na weyrey full there! I don't even know how they survive.... phew! |
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:34pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Good evening fellow NL members, My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.
I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating. Her qualities are She can cook She can keep the house clean She can manage resources And she is accommodating to my people In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.
My qualities are I work and earn like about 700k net a month. I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of. I don't drink or smoke I don't keep late night and I am the best friend to her and my kids. Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her. I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her. I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.
My decision between now and December is 1 Avoid asking her for lobe making 2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything 3 when she comes close I avoid her. 4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back
Is there anything more I can do for her? Advice me pls... Better have a talk with her about the sex issue. I'm sure she will adjust. Truth is, they say they're busy with kids, buh, mehn....unless a woman is already gone (I mean, cheating on her hubby), she won't want anything to jeopardise her marriage. |
Crime › Re: Bauchi Man Kills And Eats Two Of His Apprentices by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:27pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Kingozymandias: This one is a cannibal. He lives off human meat He's a humanitarian! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 |
Sports › Re: Ebosetale Okhueleigbe Wins International Golf Tournament In Tanzania by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:23pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
She's a stunner! But.....that grill, mehn!....looks like it was drawn in with a sharpie! Like.....  |
Career › Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:14pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
charles009: Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.
Guys please encourage me. New phase of manhood initiating. You will now know how much you can really sacrifice for your family. I'm speaking from a lot of experience: Bro, e no easy! But then....... No one said it's easy being a man. All I will advise is, build good rapport with your coworkers and boss, be ready to cover for others so they can cover for you when you go home to see your lovelies. Plan to go either fortnightly or once every 3 weeks.....make it regular (equally spaced) so your workplace gets used to it. When you have the chance to move your family, then do so, but this should depend on how frequent transfers can happen. It's not too good to shift young kids about frequently. |