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ednut1:
Apply again providing the necessary home ties. Provide evidence of income and your bank statements. From your profile in that letter , japa and not come back is written all over it. So they made the right decision.

To immediately reapply will be waste of time and resources.

He has a virgin passport, and needs to disvirgin it first.

He was invited for a visit, not like family member applied an immigrant visa petition for him so appealing the denial will be foolhardy. He shouldn't do it.

emmanuelbrown26:
My brother, when late bros dey cum wit en back, I no say na him:
1. Same height
2. Voice but a bit faint
3. Face, changed a bit
Then, when late bros made money,en dey always say some parables that translate to "u no no when u go kpai, so do ur ting and leave d rest"
Baba talk plenty ohhhhh,but no bi everything man see man dey talk, coupled wit say na online we dey

Normally I wouldn't have believed this but you sounded believable so I will because I know now there's more to this life.

I remember some elderly village men weeping bitterly at my dad's funeral and threatening that they would go to Calabar or so to find out if there was any foul play by enemies of good thing in the community but we never believed such existed so we saw it that they had too much to drink.

ahnie:

Why didn't you do justice to those foofoo?

emmanuelbrown26:
Lolsssssss, my brother, things dey happen ohhhhh. Na pikin wey dem back no no say journey of a man no bi by having 2 scrotum.
En get one bros wey die for our side. Young bros, bros dey do well, dey help families, dey help community.
After some years, we lost bros, so we waka enter one hood go find out waiting kill bros. As we enter, d man in charge of d hood mak some incantation with his mirrow, d man dun already tell everybody inside d hood not to panik if bros spirit show, that bros spirit go hint us waiting kpai bros.
After like 25 or 30minutes, incantation, we cum dey see something like smoke, d next think something in human form just dey appear with en back. D hood man signal us not to panik and talk. Bros cum face us, tell us say nobody kill am, say na secret society wey en join na waiting en sign bi that. Bros forget, men dey see things. Or d one wey op experience, me dun experience am when I seminary school

How are you sure it was the same bros you knew who appeared to you?

Was there a particular thing he said or did that made you believe it was really him?

I'm just curious.

pashiano:
A childhood friend of mine came back from school to attend a relative funeral, long story short, he drowned in the River Niger while they went to carry some logistics for the burial, it was a Tuesday, but the body was seen on Saturday and recovered. well the issue now is that the coursemates said that he has been attending class since Wednesday that week. So this shits are real.

Hian.

How could that have happened?

I like that you are scared because if I were the father of the 19yr old girl and see you, a 33yr old man around her, you are dead.

I know 19yr old is already young adult but sometimes, it's better to let kids play around with their mates and not an agbaya as you just called yourself.

Out of respect, I won't discuss your wife and her issues but what you just did shows you shouldn't have gotten married because you ain't ready yet.

Shalom.

Please ma'am, think of those beautiful little souls you have and the hell they will go through if you harm yourself.

If your marriage is no longing working and you believe it has gone beyond fixing, please separate from your husband immediately.

If he is a good father and has more resources than you, let the kids stay with him while you two work out coparenting plan.

Shalom.

I always advise folks to save themselves first before saving anyone else family or not, and they even advocate it during flight.

If you keep doing what you do, you'll neither save yourself nor anyone else. Worst is that you'll be underappreciated and all your good deeds will be dismissed as nothing later on.

Move out of your family house and start your own life. Since your family members survived without you before now, they'll continue to survive until you're done saving yourself and come back to save them.

If you keep doing what you do currently, neither you nor them will experience growth and if there's a chance that someone will, be rest assured it's not you.

Shalom.

You have a lovely little angel and you are here asking if you should go see her or not.

If I were you, I can't even imagine a life without my daughter. There's something about little kids that makes me soft especially baby girls.

I beg you, go see her and spend some quality time with her no matter what it takes.

Halcyon123:
If you know you know

Care to explain what it is for those that don't know? Not saying I don't know oo.

Horseband from hell.

Good gesture and good woman but...

If you're so worried and think it affects your health, talk to a physician and get a more professional and practical solution.

For the time being, a little exercise may help.

I have a colleague who once had this same sentiment about hers and she detested going under the knife. With constant drills and less worries about her body shape, her complaints on the issue is now getting lesser by the day.

She is not there yet but she is getting there and if she could, you too can.

Nigerians and bad mouth sef. Which one is Goliath's wife again?

It was demeaning to the innocent lady but it cracked me up.

You mean you are sexually attracted to your cousin, a blood relative?

I can't believe what I read online these days. Lord have mercy.

Ishilove:
The same you are advertising your long hard dîck. https://www.nairaland.com/7142626/sex-starved-need-sex-partner

You need Jesus and MFM deliverance.

Lord have mercy.

MALIGNANTGuest:
3 MOST DIFFICULT persons to Advice are;
....1. a woman in Love
....2. an uneducated wealthy man.
....3. a woman following a prophet.

Events can change numbers 1 and 2 to the right direction but you see number 3, that one is the worst.

Once your wife starts going to prayer houses, just know that a general overseer has started overseeing your marriage.

This is simple logic. If a man chykes a woman, he should first show her a table before asking what she is bringing to it.

Problem with awa burodas is that some of us don't even have a table but we dey ask ladies what they are bringing to it.

Ladies, if any man asks you that kwesion. Ask him to show you the table fess.

Hamzaaaaaaaa:
Your wife is obviously taking care of one small boy that's driving her crazy due to his big gbola,next thing you will receive now is divorce letter gbas!!!!!

He has not complained of anything else except her mismanagement of fund, please respect his marriage.

Bros, you should have added her to your credit card since she wasn't working yet instead of supporting her to get a credit card in her name. Doing that could've restrained her from seeing it as free money.

Now that things are this way, I will advise you to do a simple trick.

Advise her to call the credit card company and tell them she wants to pay down faster. This will make them increase her monthly payment.

When she starts paying high monthly bill, maybe just maybe, she will reduce her spending.

Also, please get her involved in your finances at least a little bit. When a husband shows his wife that his money belongs to the home, a good wife will automatically turn to financial manager because she won't want the home to go bankrupt.

But when he fails to do that, there will be two banks in the home running concurrently, each trying to run the other out of business.

I used a more modern DVD system in school. I think it was AIWA or Sony but definitely not this ogbunigwe biko.

FYI. I'm an old man, not of indomie generation.

This is why I've switched to chyking only women CEOs and top Executives now.

This dream of being someone's house husband must be achieved oo, who no like enjoyment and work-free life.

On a serious note, what doesn't work for family A may work perfectly well for family B.

Some things you may wanna look out for are;

1. Is your husband the type that says my car, my house, my money etc? If no, good. If yes, you may wanna think the issue over again.

2. What's his inner purpose of coming up with such decision? Is it because of his insecurity, complex issues, to dominate and be in charge? If no, good. If yes, think it again.

3. Does he want this to be permanent? If yes, think it again and if no, good. You can always go back to work after the kids get to a certain age.

Shalom.

Companionship and most importantly, the joy of having a sweet little daughter making a mess around the house.

Hmmm, I doubt any sensible lady would go that far except there were other issues behind the scene.

However, if you invite me to event in an area inaccessible to an airport considering the issue of insecurity in Naija now, I'm not coming.

If you insist that I come, I will conclude you don't have my interest in mind and I will divorce sorry difriend you.

If they don't sell foofoo and bitterleaf soup, then I'm not interested in their beauty.

I go simply walk into Jevenik and use their foofoo kill myself jare, na restaurant beauty I wan chop.

Give us peace and even when we misbehave, call us to order without making us feel like fools.

We behave like kids and just like kids, most of us are flexible so discuss our foolishness with us and tell us the changes you need in our attitudes.

Be our number one fans and show us you believe in us even when everyone gives up hope.

You see your bodies, respect them because they are our pride. The moment we have doubts about what you do with them, we die on the inside and the outcome will be change in our attitudes towards you.

Lastly, please be very patient with us. Even our mothers and sisters are going through the same issues you through with us.

Sorry about your loss, bro.

If I may, how did you verify they killed your dad?

I ask with the hope you are not assuming based on what a native doctor or a pastor said. Those folks have destroyed many families with their fakeness especially the latter.

But if you really are sure that someone or some people have hands in your dad's death, never leave revenge to God, just make sure you get prepped before executing it.

She is so pretty and I have just fallen in love with her.

Dear Ishilove, I have finally found the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh so stop searching on my behalf inugo.

I'm not even interested in her dad's monetary offer but if he insists, I'll reluctantly take it.

Biglittlelois:
The bolded, for real?

Yep. I'm sure I've seen it more than once in some paperwork.

I guess calling a lady homemaker is more respectful than calling her housewife or even soccer mom.