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Married men especially the ones with kids should spend less time at the gym and help out more at home.

The man deserves to go hungry or better still upgrade his gym membership to cover his dinner since the gym is his first home.

There can't be two adults at home and only one will be sweating on home chores.

This is my two cents and anyone who doesn't feel alright about it should not attack me but please remain single.

Start by having a mentor who is successful, he will sure introduce you and bring you into the circle that will change your life for good.

Successful folks may not be so willing to have you in their midst but with a successful mentor standing by you, they will come looking for you someday.

They will come not because of you but because they trust your mentor's judgement and will want to see what he sees in you.

Most successful folks tend to keep their circle very tight these days so don't bother trying to break into it unless you want them to use you as errand boy and that won't add any good value to your life.

Ishilove:
Enter market and cook concoction rice

You keep being good and always keep your head up, my old friend.

Cost of toilet tissue is high now so no more concoction rice if you understand what I mean. Hahaha.

Sure do. Continue maintaining beauty and don't work too hard okay.

Ishilove:
Oga, wait till tomorrow when I will be cooking for the less privileged

I've missed your yeyerity sha. Hope you're good?

Hahaha, kuku finish me patapata.

I'm good dear.

Ishilove:
You and who wan chop heavy fufu in this hot weather? Na the usual rice and stew very plenty

Okay mek I try see if this my nonsense rickety keke will start today and be on my way ozigbo ozigbo.

Hunger too much for my side now.

Your money is our money but my money is my money.

Run away from anyone with this mentality whether man or woman.

Sadly, it's a mantra one often hears from ladies.

Ishilove:
Ahn ahn, onye uku. Where have you been? It's been a while

Feliz navidad.

My dear, ike gwuru.

Compliment of the season. I hope you cooked foofoo and egusi for xmas?

Not all but the ones I couldn't, I'm kinda grateful now I didn't.

blingxx:
I belong here

Lol.

If the garri has enough milk, sugar and peanuts, then you are good to go.

While many people eat nice stuffs today, I may actually have just donuts and pizza but that doesn't take away the Christmas spirit from me.

Nobody knows it all but for peaceful coexistence, a good wife should be willing to share her reasons for refusing to yield to what her hubby asks for and vice versa.

You can't just say no, I won't do it to your husband or your wife and just end it at that, not nice.

If you plan to go there for greener pastures, please rethink it.

I've been to about six of their cities including capital Astana and one of their smallest cities Temir and I can tell you it's not a place to make it big like you dream of.

Aside that they are struggling economically, they are not so friendly to foreigners which I blame to hunger because the first day I arrived there, my car was broken into and a female colleague was mugged.

When she tried to react, she noticed they were just hungry kids looking for their next meal so she let it slide.

There is high hardship in the country that even if you try to succeed as a foreigner, the struggling locals may not be so happy about it.

Let me quickly go and search for their stocks?

Never you neglect a red flag, that's all I can advise you. It's better to be a happy baby daddy than be miserable married man.

By the way, who said you can't be a great father without marrying the mother of your child?

ibkayee:
Disgusting rapey comment

But you should be condemning the pictures or would you have put such pictures of yourself in the public domain?

By the way, I think the dude said what he said because of what evil people can do to her pregnancy, not because she could be victim of rape.

The said girlfriend could still tell him, it's not enough.

He will be unappreciated, underappreciated and be made to feel like a fool for falling in love.

Now he will be behind bars but that won't stop the said girlfriend from celebrating Christmas.

Talk about fools falling in love, talk about man.

I have my own religious group and I believe in the existence of a supreme being but Amish people to me have taken christianism to the extreme.

I don't hate them but I get pissed off at their beliefs sometimes.

One of the reasons it's best to keep low profile and keep personal matters personal.

If their marriages weren't in the public's eyes, their divorce wouldn't have been under public scrutiny.

I never knew Saint Obi and his wife are divorced too. Nawa.

Naturally we men don't have sense but as long as there's something to benefit, ladies will always find a way to manage us like that.

The trigger seems to be when our pockets starts to dry up and at that time, all the sense we don't have are reevaluated by the ladies.

It's bad what we men have to go through sometimes, not saying basketmouth is completely innocent but why manage him for 12yrs only to come out now and make such a comment?

Antimarraige:
I don't pity soldiers I see them as weak mumus

He is serving a country that values his life more than anything which is why he is proud of what he does despite his deformity.

Nigerian soldiers you have there may not be at their best but learn to appreciate their service because without them, you might be washing plates and sweeping floors for boko haram terrorists by now.

The racism african immigrants suffer in the hands of black Americans is far more worse than the racism black Americans suffer in the hands of whites.

Their racism against us comes with hate and envy unlike that of the whites of them which oftentimes is out of fear and caution.

This is why I don't give a f*ck when they accuse the whites of racism.

I remember when this forum was good and people were honest about their needs and sufferings.

Now, the way mechanics dress up makes it hard to know the difference between them and mad people.

Pele bro. I will keep you in my prayers.

How can they have divorce proceedings ongoing and still be living together? Is that not iberibeism?

He should be thankful she hasn't poisoned his food yet and she should be thankful he hasn't strangled her to death?

Zeddyzed:
Inherited wealth is hard to maintain. For one, whoever got it might not have the business acumen of the owner. For another, it's really hard to control a huge lump sum, if you haven't been handling such already.
But, his method is wrong. The best way to do it is to educate your child on the business that brings in the bucks. Involve them in the business from a tender age. Every school holiday should be spent in the office as an "intern". Imagine being an "intern" from the age 10 till the child graduates Uni, he would have learnt all the tricks in the business and then, he can handle the affairs better.

Well articulated.

Inherited wealth can be a huge responsibility for a child sometimes but that's why there are family financial advisors.

What's the use of kids if you don't help plan and secure their future?

When will they start making electric keke Napeps for we keke drivers?

Ike gwuru.

We men can be inconsiderate sometimes and it makes me mad.

His wife was booked for a caesarean session yet he took a sidechick to party. Does his stupidity know no bounds eeh?

If she is my sister, I'll personally drag her out from that house if she doesn't want to leave him.

The fool needs to be alone in the house to feel the depression his wife felt all the time he was frolicking with a side chick.

As married man, if a sidechick is so good that you can't lose her, divorce your wife and marry her. That way, your wife can move on with her life, not having to go through the trauma of sharing her home with an intruder.

You promised her marriage and you've been with her for 3yrs, only for you to realize now that she has bad sides? Oga, you yourself no dey try too but I'll forgive you because we are talking marriage here not just any relationship.

You are the one getting married not me so you should be able to know exactly what you want in a woman.

As for me, I put my peace of mind above everything including love and beauty. A lady that can't afford to grant me that singular request is not for me.

I perfectly understand the situation and I advise you go for divorce immediately.

I'm particularly angry in this your situation because she defrauded you. It's her body and she has right to what happens to it but she should have made her position clear before getting married to you.

I've dated someone like that who made it clear at the beginning that she didn't want to have a child so as not to mess up her body shape and by the time I wanted more, we parted ways amicably.

No matter what and where I am, I'm an african man and I need to lay down roots.

Let her go please...

Biden messed up on this one big time.

Yes, Paul had issues with the Marines but heck, dude served his country with red, white and blue badge on his shoulders.

Seriously, I can't wait for 2024 to be here soon.

Hanty if it's too hard for you to stay, go back home naa.

Leave Nigerian government alone, they didn't force you to go look for greener pastures in far away oyibo man land.

No be London I dey now so, I don die? Abegi

I know there is after life mystery but that the said man had children is something I'll take with a pinch of salt.

Biologically, I don't think it's possible.