₦airaland Forum

Wow. I hope the bill is passed!

It will definitely cause our leaders to take the country more seriously.
if you want to send your family abroad, then don't become a public officer.


I think it is a genius bill. If it is passed, the effects will be positive for the country.

Cuddlemii:
The wife that sent this letter is a big re-tarded fool, is she that jobless or dependent? She is a lazy woman. If your hubby can publicly disgrace you by planning a white wedding with a celebrity, must you further show your insecurity & stupidity by writing a letter to the press. What exactly has this done to upgrade her life. Why would a woman be involved in a marriage that would allow her hubby do this when there are laws & penalties to this effect, meaning her marriage too was just a rub and shine marriage with no legal backings.

Trust me, if the wife was working in Exxonmobil for example, do you think she would use the remaining energy she has to write a letter when she has kids to take care of. She should have sorted this out with family members and also ask the hubby's family to settle the matter. So the letter has broken the marriage abi?

It's not that easy. Even if she were working in Exxonmobil, it doesn't erase the shame she must feel admist her friends and friends and even gossipers.
Even 9ice's wife. a very successful woman was dragged into her husband's mess and she had no option but to go public about it.
It is mostly because of the shame and rumors esp since the marriage is very high profile. Trust Nigerian people to always discuss it and ridicule people when misfortune fall on them.

I think she used d outlet to tell her side of d story. Although I'm sure she is also looking into legal divorce.  at least she should be othewise, she must be silly as you say. lol

[quote author=ekt_bear link=topic=728064.msg8871319#msg8871319 date=1312681118]This song is catchy as hell, lmao.

Man I've been playing it a lot[/quote]well, you suck.
I listened to it once and never want to hear it again in my lifetime.

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how could any woman be attracted to this guy other than for the fact that he's supposedly a "prince"

I really don't get it.

stillwater:
The truth hurts.

Anyway that's true, we don't see clearly when we like someone. That is why you need people that love you to open your eyes.[b] If you deserve that kind of nonchalant love from a man, by all means stay in it. [/b]The ones that are married to foreigners and make it work do not act that way, they are more attentive and ready to please. Three weeks is too soon for him to be acting this way. Maybe he thought you were a citizen and when he found out you weren't, he lost interest.

abi o.

I think desperation has a huge role to play in it sha.
the "love" becomes stronger when the woman knows she has no other option or cannot meet someone to treat her better.
the bitterness afterward also becomes stronger for the same reason.

some woman sha want to have a relationship by force.
they will rather remain in an emotionally abusive relationship than be single.

Sagamite:
How do you know he is a scumbag? Do you know the wife and if she was a worthy wife? You have information about her conduct in the marriage?

use ur brain.  a sensible person will get a DIVORCE if don't love your wife anymore and you want to marry someone else.
why practice bigamy and keep the first wife in the dark about a second marriage. and make her a topic of ridicule for friends and family members.

cottoncand:
Since you corrected my essay construction I think it fair to tell you what the word bashful means according to the dictionary

bashful:uncomfortably diffident and easily embarrassed; shy; timid. Examples: The young maiden has a very bashful attitude. or Young girls that are not very exposed can be quite bashful.

somehow I don't think that's what you were trying to say were you? You meant we shouldn't be speaking negatively of them I presume? I thought so 

the word I meant was bashing. not bashful. thanks for the correction.
and i'm also glad you took my advice and typed your new entry in a readable fashion. 

anyways I hope you got my other advice.

why is anyone even bothering to listening to what S&P has to say?
they're just a mouth piece to the banks.

I feel worst for the two kids and mother involved
it must be hard and embarrassing for them esp. since the new marriage is very high profile.

"office building for governor's wife"

that is development?

as a matter of fact, I am starting to feel that Nigerian men are being very generous to some of you desperately lonely women. In fact too generous.
You should be thankful not bashful.

also learn to type in paragraph form. your post is very difficult to read.

you know that the song was sang by 2 boys right? not the entire 24 million ghanaians.

of course he is.
I see him as an icon of political and social activism.  and of course he advocated mostly through music.

They could never be Nigerians in their wildest dreams anyway.
funny song though

emofine:
So first the South Africans dedicate a movie in our honour next the Ghanaians compose a tribute song to us . . yet some people still wonder why Nigerians have superiority complexes. Stop polishing our egos with all this unbridled attention awww I think I'm gonna blush

lol

why is everybody blaming it on gluttony. Where is the proof that married women eat more than single women?
personally I believe that it's mostly a combination of hormones (pregnancy, contraceptives etc) and the quality of food (not quantity!) that doesn't sit well with a woman as she gets older.
sedentary lifestyle is also an important contributing factor.

PA1982:
Jenifa, where did you hear that about the anti-fertility campaign?
Are you sure it's not an urban legend?
Look at how blank was confused on the issue of vaccines.
I think that education has to be a key issue here.

But irradicating the horror of polio has to come first.

we can't really find out for sure if it's true or not.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12346214

I think trust is more important than education in this case because if the people do not trust, they will receive the "education" in one ear and it will go out of the other very fast.

the polio vaccination is very important and I wish it didn't have to resort to jail threats. that increases the mistrust even more.

^ they have taken over US and UK sef
next US president will be half igbo, half igbo. lol

^

Hertsnite:
Why is it ok for Afircans in Zimabwe for example to say that White people are not welcome in their land, yet it's ok for millions of Africans to come over to Europe? How would you feel in Nigeria if millions of unskilled white people descended on Lagos for instance ?

Nigeria doesn't need unskilled white people. we already have a huge reserve of black ones already.
Europe on the other hand has a shortage of unskilled labor. that's why they bring in immigrants.

even Mugabe is starting to learn his lesson and white farmers are returning to Zim.

Nigeria will never turn down skilled immigrants though. that's what we have a shortage of.