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Kobojunkie:
We do not need FREEDOM OF INFORMATION ACT to do what the Poster is suggesting. We only need SERIOUS MINDED INDIVIDUALS ( NOT the I WILL SIGN UP but never show up afterwards or participate group of block heads we have walking around claiming they are for CHANGE).

We have individuals working under these politicians with access to every information that one can think of, all that may be needed is that we buy then a beer or two, or even dash them one Tommy Hilfiger shirt one time and they will bring you all documents showing all you need from their oga!! I think it is time we start applying western 'agbara' with some naija under-g moves in getting what we need.

P.S It is not illegal to dash someone a Tommy Hilfiger shirt or buy someone a beer!!

TH is different from the millions of dollars you keep hearing exchanging hands my brother.

just imagine if these allegations here are true  

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=274507.msg3900807#msg3900807  or  

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-274894.0.html#msg3901646

tpiah:
no, its not a form of encouragement.

I'm just saying dont make a bad situation worse by capturing it on tape.

Same way people are advised to practice safe sex and use condoms.

mmmmmm one great day is coming soon. when all these immorality will be wiped off the surface of this planet earth. we should all continue to live as if we are owners of our bodies.

there is a great eye watching us. one day whatever we all do with our bodies will be accounted for camera or no camera. there is a camera not made by canon and polaroid that men cant wipe nor erase.

a day is coming when disease riddled bodies will not be attractive to mortal man.

when men and women will be crying for their Lord and saviour but their cries will be too late. our body is not our own. i would rather shout a victory in Jesus the saviour that love me so much than running from some camera.

The Lost were Told of Their Fate

I dreamed that the great judgment morning

Had dawned, and the trumpet had blown;

I dreamed that the nations had gathered

to judgment before the white throne;

From the throne came a bright,

shining angel

And stood by the land and the sea,

And swore with his hand raised to heaven,

That time was no longer to be.

The rich man was there but his money

Had melted and vanished away;

A pauper he stood in the judgment,

His debts were too heavy to pay;

The moral man came to the judgment,

But his self-righteous rags would not do;

The men who had crucified Jesus

Had passed off as moral men, too.

The soul that had put off salvation–

"Not tonight; I’ll get saved by and by;

No time now to think of religion!"

At last, he had found time to die.

[size=14pt]And oh, what a weeping and wailing,

As the lost were told of their fate;

They cried for the rocks and the mountains,

They prayed, but their prayer was too late.[/size]

eina:
Everyone is free to cheat and theres nothing wrong when you do it and dont get caught. it only becomes a problem and an injury to your partner when you are caught. play it smart if you wish to cheat. goodluck to all cheats!!!

and the choir said amen

na wa oh:
Hey Guys
I have cheated on girls for as long as i can remember, most of them deserved it.
Am with this great girl now, kind of hard for me to be faithful to her. I have other girls on the side, i don't care about them as much as they don't for me.

I believe i love my girlfriend, she has no idea i cheat.

I cannot leave her for any other, no matter what they have to offer.

Is it possible am lying to my self?

there is one principle that never fails world wide. i hope it works for you too it is gauranteed as the bible said. prepare to enjoy your harvest bros.

[size=13pt]Galatians 6:7[/size] (The Message)

7-8Don't be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. [size=18pt]The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he'll have to show for his life is weeds![/size] But the one who plants in response to God, letting God's Spirit do the growth work in him, harvests a crop of real life, eternal life.

[size=18pt]You will always harvest what you plant[/size].

Galatians 6:7 (Amplified Bible)

7[b]Do not be deceived and deluded and misled[/b]; God will not allow Himself to be sneered at (scorned, disdained, or mocked [a]by mere pretensions or professions, or by His precepts being set aside.) [He inevitably deludes himself who attempts to delude God.] [size=15pt]For whatever a man sows, that and [b]that only is what he will reap.
[/size]

may God help us in that naija. how can a tanker be allowed to stay on road that long?

babalobi:
One of the governors of the Delta that we investigated offered me $15m in cash to stop the investigation against him.

Read story
http://assemblyonline.info/2009/05/nigeria-newshow-i-rejected-15m-bribe-ribadu/

how many delta govs did this guy investigate again?

Lagosboy:
That is the difference in the principles of the 2 faiths. In islam we defend the honour of God on earth as we are his [size=18pt]vicegerent[/size] on earth. He will not come down to do things but out of real Love for God we defend the honour of the prophet of Islam. There is no break to apply but only telling troublemakers here to be civil and respect the faith of others. Respect begets respect.

this one reach to blow oyinbo for? wetin be vicegerent i beg? that one na another fight word.

i leave you with this in matthew 26.

Jesus Is Betrayed and Arrested
47 And even as Jesus said this, Judas, one of the twelve disciples, arrived with a crowd of men armed with swords and clubs. They had been sent by the leading priests and elders of the people. 48 The traitor, Judas, had given them a prearranged signal: “You will know which one to arrest when I greet him with a kiss.” 49 So Judas came straight to Jesus. “Greetings, Rabbi!” he exclaimed and gave him the kiss.

50 Jesus said, “My friend, go ahead and do what you have come for.”

Then the others grabbed Jesus and arrested him. 51 [size=15pt]But one of the men with Jesus pulled out his sword and struck the high priest’s slave, slashing off his ear.

52 “Put away your sword,” Jesus told him. “Those who use the sword will die by the sword. 53 Don’t you realize that I could ask my Father for thousands[b] of angels to protect us, and he would send them instantly?[/size] 54 But if I did, how would the Scriptures be fulfilled that describe what must happen now?”

55 Then Jesus said to the crowd, “Am I some dangerous revolutionary, that you come with swords and clubs to arrest me? Why didn’t you arrest me in the Temple? I was there teaching every day.

Lagosboy:
Honestly this is what i am saying tackling/deleting insults to Allah and his Rasul (AS) is simply not negotiable and uncompromising. I feel Abu zola's pain and any real muslim will as well.

Insults to us is different and me for one do not reply insults with insult but what do we do if they insult God in our presence. ignore?laught it off? condone it in the name of tolerance? Certainly no and i think I have been patient on this forum but been patient should not translate into been passive.

Lets do some real work so this thing will not degenerate into something else!!!! We do not want bros and sis leaving this section on NL we are already few and we dont want to be fewer do we?

why does a great and an almighty God require mere men to fight for and defend Him?

Jehovah said i am God i kill and make alive.  why would a here today gone tomorrow us start picking up fights unbehalf of the mighty defender of the hebrew people/ 

it is the other way round not you fighting for him.  last year it was fatua what is it this year jihad or suicide bombers i beg apply brakes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFIfgaSh8IY

[size=18pt]Niger Delta: War Spreads To Ondo, Edo, Bayelsa [/size]

Thu May, 21 2009






About 300 homes were razed by the Joint Task Force (JTF) on Wednesday in Oporoza, the largest Ijaw community and headquarters of the Gbaramatu clan in Delta State.

It was the sixth day of offensive which on Tuesday had hit Okerenkoko in the search for militants holding Nigerians and foreigners hostage.But the Ijaw National Congress (INC) and prominent Ijaw leaders like Godspower Gbenekama and Bello Oboko lamented that there is a plan to wipe out all Ijaw communities.

They said their intelligence report showed that the attacks would be taken to Egbeme in Delta State and other Ijaw settlements in Edo, Ondo, and Bayelsa.Oboko alleged that "the JTF is no more fighting but on the rampage because all the people in the affected communities had fled before their homes were razed."Military air bombers and war ships reportedly moved into Oporoza at about 8.30 a.m. and set it ablaze.

But there was no report of casualty of the villagers, since all had fled some days back.Troops shot at homes in the NPA Waterside area of Warri, killing a young man and leaving a lady with serious gunshot wounds.Some survivors who fled into the forest died. A man named Boyle lost two children aged 11 and 13 in the woods - where, ironically, some pregnant women gave birth.A source said security personnel arrested 13 persons in the Miller Waterside area, and that another man was arrested in Pessu with ammunition contained in about 17 cartons.

The source explained that the stop and search operation going on is to ensure that the gun battle in the creeks does not spread to cities.JTF Spokesman, Colonel Rabe Abubakar, confirmed in a statement that the operation is to mop up arms and ammunition from the villages.

He denied the killing of innocent persons.The statement confirmed that "large quantities of arms and ammunition, which include Anti-aircraft Guns, General Purpose Machine Guns (GPMG), Rocket Propelled Grenades (RPG), locally made guns, machetes and native charms, were recovered at Okerenkoko and Oporoza communities, all of Delta State, when the (JTF) moved its foot soldiers there for a Search and Rescue Operation.

"The operations at the two communities were executed after a reliable intelligence source fingered them as grouping points for the dislodged militants from former camps presently being occupied by the JTF."Abubabar denied that the JTF conducted the invasion with jet fighters and helicopter gunships, saying only foot soldiers searched and recovered the items, which turned out to be a timely operation considering the caliber of arsenal discovered.

He confirmed at about 10 p.m. on Wednesday that two more Filipinos have been rescued from the militant camp in Gbaramatu.About 23 foreigners are still believed to be held.However, the militant group, the Joint Revolutionary Council (JRC), has vowed that the Army will pay dearly for the destruction in Delta State.It also joined those demanding the resignation of Vice President, Goodluck Jonathan, for failing to stop Abuja from launching the attack.

The JRC comprises the Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta (MEND), the Martyrs Brigade, and the Reformed Niger Delta Peoples Volunteer Force (RNDPVF).Its Spokesperson, Cynthia Whyte, said in an interview that events of the last few weeks only demonstrated that Nigeria is a sick country governed by sick leaders who have no consideration for the masses.

She argued that the nation would have been better governed if the rulers really won election, and insisted that Jonathan must vacate his office, warning that the Army should get ready to pay for "desecrating" Ijaw land.Said Whyte: "Which of the Governors of the Niger Delta (apart from Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State) protects the common man on the streets? Name one?"Is it Rotimi Amaechi (Rivers Governor) who had sat in the corridors of power for eight years as the third most powerful man in Rivers State (as Speaker of the state House of Assembly) and yet today blames Peter Odili for all the woes in Rivers State? What did he do in that time?"The people of the Niger Delta have been losing a lot since oil was discovered in their land.

The Nigerian State is very ill. All is not well."Whyte maintained that the solution is to remove President Umaru Yar'Adua because "he is not capable of ruling the Nigerian State."On calls for the resignation of Jonathan as initiated by the MEND, Whyte said: "The people of the Niger Delta existed before Goodluck Jonathan existed. We never saw Jonathan as a messiah of even his own home, not to talk of the Niger Delta."Whyte later issued a statement which read in part: "On behalf of the (MEND) and its alliance groups thereof, we wish to declare forthwith that the Armed Forces of the Nigerian State and those who were responsible for bombarding the palace of the Agadagba of Gbaramatu must be made to pay by any means necessary.

The bandit Armed Forces also attacked school buildings, school libraries, etc."Let us also warn that any soldier of the Nigerian State who breaches the rules of engagement in this campaign will be summarily executed. Any attack on unarmed and innocent village-folk will be revenged. Any attack on community people will result in an equal attack on families of soldiers in any barracks we choose to attack. It will be an eye for an eye henceforth."It is laughable and ridiculous that the Nigerian Army and Rabe Abubakar of the JTF Media Centre have been beating their chest and giving themselves great credit for the destruction of Camp Five.

Let it be known that Camp Five had long become a tourist centre and haven of sorts for various Ijaw organisations that seek to keep the peace."Let us remind all men of goodwill that the attacks on Gbaramatu Kingdom represent the height of an attempt by a Northern cabal to fully sink their teeth in oil production operations in the Niger Delta. This cabal, comprising largely of serving and retired Army Generals, will no longer be given free passage through the creeks of the Niger Delta anymore.

"The Gbaramatu engagement was the culmination of an attempt by these elements to cage the rising stature of Government Ekpenkpolo, a true Ijaw freedom fighter and emancipator who has over the years been at the forefront of the delivery of peace to the people of the Niger Delta and Delta State in particular."Government Ekpenkpolo's resolve to stop the extortionist enterprise founded by these thieving Generals remains the cause of the upheaval in the Gbaramatu Kingdom today.

"This cabal of serving Generals own large sea going vessels and have enjoyed long term contracts with many oil majors. They operate strategic business alliances with cheap Filipino and Russian companies and now claim our creeks as part of their estate. Not any more."If Yar'Adua is serious in his campaign, let him probe these Generals now and get them to explain the source of their stupendous wealth which came not too long after their appointment.

"Meanwhile, the Federal Government on Wednesday described the loss of lives in the conflict as sad.Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Odein Ajumogobia, told journalists after the Federal Executive Council (FEC) meeting in Abuja that crude oil production has been cut by half since the crisis escalated.The meeting was chaired by President Umaru Yar'Adua."The loss of lives, whether the militants or members of the Armed Forces, is sad. I mean, they are all Nigerians and so we will try and do what we can to prevent loss of lives," he stressed."Everything this administration has been doing is to restrain the military in its activities to try and minimise the loss of lives.

It is best to hear from the military; they will be able to give you a more accurate account (of the casualties)."On the economic cost of the conflict, Ajumogobia noted that "Nigeria has a production capacity of 3.2 million barrels per day (bpd); today we are down to about less than half of that. We are over one million (bpd) down in shut-in. I think it is something that should concern all of us."To take one example, Shell has lost most of its production in the East or is completely shut down, and the irony of it is that onshore oil is the cheapest to produce, and therefore the return on that investment is greater, but that is where we have most of the shut-ins. The financial loss is huge. I mean, multiply today's oil price by a million barrel per day.

"At $60 per barrel, the loss is calculated to be $60 million or about N8.7 billion per day.Ajugomobia said domestic fuel supply has improved significantly because "we have conquered the supply problem. There are still some distribution bottlenecks so you will still see some queues in some areas of some cities, but we will get around that as well."Minister of Information and Communications, Dora Akunyili; her minister of state, Ikra Bilbis; Minister of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Adamu Aliero; and Minister of Environment, John Odey, also briefed the press on the the FEC meeting.Odey added that "we went to Council today with an oil spill response boat and other equipment that will be used in Niger Delta and other parts of the country".The FEC approved the purchase of the boat and equipment for the National Oil Spill Detection and Response Agency (NOSDRA) at a cost of N558.99 million.

Aliero announced the FEC's decision to set up a committee headed by the National Planning Minister to review his request for variation of costs, as well as prioritise and suggest funding for abandoned engineering and infrastructure projects in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).





- Daily Independent
http://www.thetimesofnigeria.com/Article.aspx?id=1756

lwise:
Fashola Moves Against Landlords

Governor Babatunde Fashola has sent a bill to the Lagos State House of Assembly to stop landlords from collecting any form of advance payment for house rent.


When passed into law, it becomes a criminal offence for landlords to collect advance payment of rent from tenants. What this means is that landlords who collect one or two years’ advance payment for rent from the would-be tenant or tenants have committed criminal offence and are therefore liable for prosecution. The Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Olasupo Sasore (SAN), said the new bill, Tenancy Bill 2009, is already before the State House of Assembly and is meant to relieve the plight of tenants from shylock landlords.

He said the bill is meant to make multiple collection of rent in advance from tenants, by landlords who greedily exploit the people, criminal. Sasore stated that the bill would consolidate all existing tenancy laws in the state and would also reduce the period when landlords would commence civil procedures against tenants. The commissioner added that a public hearing would be held on the bill to enable Lagosians add their input before it is passed into law.

Landlords in the state had for long exploited would-be tenants with many of them collecting advance payment for rent ranging from two to five years, while tenants have been groaning under their exploitation as they, landlords, continue to feed fat on the hapless tenants. Meanwhile, the commissioner has said that the state was determined to sustain and build on the success of the Criminal Case Tracking System (CCTS) by establishing a Crime Data Bureau (CDB) which would maintain a Crime Data Register.

“Among others, the Crime Data Register will be a repository for both custodial and noncustodial sentences. “The goal of the CDB as a whole is to deliver effective crime data-processing and crime record-keeping support to the Lagos State Criminal Justice System,” he stated. Sasore added that in the next one year, the ministry would continue with the implementation of the reforms in the administration of criminal justice. According to him; “it is expected that the amendments to the Administration of Criminal Justice Law will pass through the legislative process. “The implementation of the Community Service Scheme and the establishment of the Lagos State Rehabilitation and Correctional Centre are also expected to crystalise in the next one year.”

i disagree with this guy on this.  is he going to put a gaurantee in place that landlords can get the money scheming nigerians will owe then move to another property.

nigerians dont generally like paying for anything.  

KnowAll:
Lagos state should start buling its own prison, beacause all those defaulters would have to be jailed or punished somehow, do they jail them in a federal prison, cosidering they have commited a state offence and not a federal offence.

something for nothing nigerians will love this man. he has not tot this one thru.

cerry:
my ex was into scams 419 and i knew it even though i never told him i knew. See I am a christian i just prayed that God would change his heart . As time went on he broke my heart and dumped me it happens no big deal , but that not the case i am married now and happy but i know some information about him my (EX) that could keep him out of jail as his playing with fire and if he doesn't slow done he my EX will get caught and go to jail for a long time. Should i tell him that the police are on to him. Risking major issues/ or lying to my husband my everything, or should i just leave him to the hands of God as it not my place any more and he know what risks a involved. Is just that he is just 28 years old and has a young daughter.

pls help advice,

who are you? this is your first post? i bet you benefited from the proceeds of his crimes

mmmmmmmmmmmmm Lord help and heal my brother fast

why cant he tax all the thieves masquerading as chiefs all over the place?

tonye-t:
one day they'll ask worshippers to pay tickets b4 entering their place of worship

all because they want to raise revenue

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DRANOEL:
whoever posted this or made such accusations is dead on arrival,and i cant believe some people bought this junk,the documents for one are not signed and trust me when i tell you that is not what abuja land allocation documents look like!

ngr

amebo no1.:
@poster


He loves you but does not trust you, he loves you but he sees you as a LovePeddler, he loves you but gave you the beating of your life? yes thats love isnt it?

What a stupid and childish lust

cant believe common sence is not common to some people.

tell him to bring his friends to beat you some more to show him how much you appreciate him being God sent in your life.  foolish love.  does she know what colour love is?

luxoire:
tell him - you are not about to lose your job to his jealousy and insercities - come to think of it - WHY ARE YOU PLANNING TO MARRY A MAN WHO DOUBTS YOU ON NO EVIDENCE?

WHY ALSO MARRY A MAN THAT BEATS YOU? surely of of these are signs that you both take a step back and reasses your relationship and why you are really getting married? is it because you ar eboth 'comfortable' in the relationship? you might think love - but LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH REASON TO BASE A MARRIAGE ON. it is imprtant just not th ONLY reason.

u wan pour sand for her garri? dont you know her life depends on this guy beating? marry him quick. if you need wedding gown we can help with one from oxfam

tribalists

amebo no1.:
i enjoy making her sweat like a frozen frog

it is not worth it. you are bigger than this and i suggest you choose a better cause and fight.

you know better than this.

Sky Blue:
I hope you will follow suggestions and ideas with some form of action instead of yet again another case of debating ideas and letting them die online. When people post stories or make postulations with regards to the situation in Nigeria they should ask themselves what they can do about it more often instead of yet another post for the simple purpose of yet another debate (personal view).

so we shouldnt do anything at all?

one of the most beautiful young child i have ever seen has to 2 blind parents. i just wished God could open their eyes for 10 mins to behold her. she was so intelligent at 5 you would think she was 15+.

haley:
I met kola when I got my HND admission, I was so much in love with kola and  I later got to know that his family had finacial problems . We were in second semester  HND I when he called me and told me that he will have to deffer his admission till he could get enough money to finanace his education , I  was not happy, I knew  my family doesnt have enough money but I promised him that I was going to try my best for him ,

kola was in school for two good year and cant even boast of a single spoon in his room  not to talk of pot and he survived for good two years, I was the one paying his school fees , hand out, I cook for him , wash his cloth, in short I never let him feel that the parent cold not help at the time he needed them most,

in return for all my gesture , kola promised that he will never betray me and that he would love me for the rest of hs life

I was so much in love that even when he offend me , I will still be the one to apologise to him

we finished in 2006 and went for our service , I was posted to abuja and him to gombe, after our service year in 2007 december he was called back from where he serverd , I was not really happy with the fact that he was going to a far place

he promised that I will be the only one in his life and not to worry, I started noticing changes after thre month, when I called he doesnt pick up and when he picks he giving me one excuse or the other and I never let that get to me I kept on praying that he change ,

but to my suprise kola work me up on july 15 2008 at around 6'0clock in the morning when iwas still sleeping, KOLA TOLD ME IT WAS OVER  AND THAT HE CANT MARRY ME , HE SAID HIS PASTOR SAW A VISSION AND TOLD HIM THAT HE CANT MARRY ME  JUST LIKE THAT

I almost died of the shock but thank God I am still alive to tell my story ,

I heard he got married last  month  and want all nairalander to pray for me because its too much for me to take OR BEAR

I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START FROM

I  A VERRY SAD LADY RIGHT NOW  AND I CANT STILL BELIEVE KOLA GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER PERSON

sadly that is nigerians for you. we dont know how to keep our words and promises.  we beleive we can get away with every wicked acts.  betrayal of trust is nothing to people who have no qualms murdering.

dont worry more than necessary. he was never meant for you. i have been there. i know the pain of betrayal but there is tomorrow.  pray to Go to heal you and move on with your life.  

you never did wrong helping him.  he was not worth it.  if he loose his job tomorrow he will go blaming everyone but his wicked mind.   good to know he has a prophet because he will soon need one.

I hope you know God will judge him.  i wish you well.

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 (The Message)
13 . The last and final word is this:
  Fear God.
  Do what he tells you.

14 And that's it. Eventually God will bring everything that we do out into the open and judge it according to its hidden intent, whether it's good or evil.

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 (Amplified Bible)
13All has been heard; the end of the matter is: Fear God [revere and worship Him, knowing that He is] and keep His commandments, for this is the whole of man [the full, original purpose of his creation, the object of God's providence, the root of character, the foundation of all happiness, the adjustment to all inharmonious circumstances and conditions under the sun] and the whole [duty] for every man.

   14For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it is good or evil.(

jamace:
@ How can that be possible?
These lawless cabals have developed thick skin at curses and abuses from every quarters. Not even the preachings in the churches/mosques can change their hardened hearts.

Something other than peace is needed to bring change.

we can start by embarrasing them big time. enough of this do nothing mentality. romanians sorted out theri Nicolae Ceauşescu, the phillipinos Ferdinand Emmanuel Edralin Marcos

when will nigeria lead africa in sanitising politics and governance?

~Lady~:
I'll take my dignity anyday. My university degree won't stand before God for me, but with my dignity I can.

Also I can marry a man with a univeristy degree.

you are a star in my eyes. God bless you

chaircover:
Thanks a lot JJYOU - Finally a voice of reason.

With all the build responses & advise I was seeing I was beginning to lose focus on the difference between right and wrong.

It is clear that in this particular situation, the poster is experiencing difficulty in her marriage and by her own admission in a previous topic she posted, the marriage was built on pity and financial gain on the posters part. It was an escape from poverty for her and I think she got a little carried away with the prospect of a good life in the Uk without taking time to check that the man was indeed a good man or not. Good men do not beat their wives for whatever reason. They do not stifle their wives but they encourage the wives to be successful women.

In “normal” marriages it is not “normal” for husband and wife to do things independently of each other. Building or purchasing a property is probably the most expensive single item that one will buy in ones lifetime, how then it can be right for each side going off and doing their own thing without the other having any input or knowledge of it?

For sure if you have dodgy relations who you think my want to play a fast one if God forbid something terrible happens to the husband, then both husband and wife can decide that some of the house(s) may be in either the wife’s sole name or jointly etc. A good man will provide for his family anyway in case something happens to him.

Yes - no one knows tomorrow and men are known to do silly things but you won’t because of this go the extra mile of building a house behind his back “just in case” he marries another woman and throws you out. . . . .what happens if he doesn’t?

As for me God forbid that I go and build a house behind my husbands back. I respect him far more than that. It doesn’t matter how much I am earning be it £1.00 or £1 million.
All our properties built/bought home and abroad after the marriage are in both names. The only thing I can say was my sole input is my deciding how I wanted the kitchens to be designed & furnished

Remember doing things together as a husband and wife further strengthens the relationship.
It is all about team work; 2 heads are better than one and you will find that the house will be completed much quicker if both parties are fully subscribed to the project.

i thank God for your life. you are the type every good woman must have as a daughter in law. people like you are the very rare un-common wives. you reassured me my sons and daughters will find a blessed woman generation to marry. i dont understand why people turn relationships to war/ game zones.

topup:
[color=#008855]Are you KIDDING me!!
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[color=#008855]Okay, so if your ex called you, hinting if he could see you once, and you ignored him, then a few months later, he still asks you'd still ignore him??

Am I supposed to avoid him forever??
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yes ma'am. i would.  i know this is a hard one for you. most people are in your life for a season.  learn to move on with your life dont hold on to people you should let go easily.   ask the millions of women left holding some jerks babies  they wish they took the first exit.

i am not saying this is easy but trust me it is always better you get on with your life. i am talking as someone who spent years holding on to a big time waster.  thank God i got over.  you will if you do a proper closure. you dont have to meet him but if you must do without feeling bad about it.  your life is your own.

is this the same fellow you were asking how to close a relationship?.

can i add that i still think you are a fab young lady and trust you will be better at the end of this.

amebo no1.:



"on" not "in"

ok this says it all, with this we know you are just a growing up teen looking for curse words on google, i mean, we all have gone past the mummy and daddy yabs, please upgrade my dear

SO what did the doctor say? did he say your womb is off or still intact? have you seen a "gynae" im sure a gynae might be of help too

dont forget to tell the doctor that it was kanu that raped you? come to think off it , hope you are not one of the sluts in tarkwa bay that were raped recently by some soldiers

are you the HIV infected sandra?

why do you dignify this person? you are smarter than this.