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jamace:
Eyaa. She is regretting the missed shagging years.

she should have worked that out before senseless anger took hold of her

jidobaba:
@sweetpain, u get time sha

check his record he is always causing my sisters pain.

spikedcylinder:

This was what I was going to say while reading through the thread.
Forget the history and dynamics of the issue, if a woman does not want more children, she doesn't want more children. No amount of religious/cultural cajoling should make her look like a demon for not wanting more children.

But after seeing the OP's last post, all I'm going to say is; SORRY. Your marriage is over, just try to accept that and move on with your life.

100% correct.

davidylan:
bro, my definition of sensible also includes fine.

i trust you and your eyes on this.

Higher:
@ Poster
I strongly believe in given reasons for someone to something rather than forcing it on him/her. Why nt jst sit her up n discuss ur reasons n what she stand to benefit with her. Who knows she could reason with u n settle for a favorable conclusion.
Don't forget love doesn't,

i wish there was a medication for these kind of head aches.

JustGood:
what happened to all the old american women using young Nigerian men to satisfy their thirst for companionship and the boys also getting into it knowing that they are only in it for the passports/greencards? Is that not a case of love 419 from both sides?

i dont know where you live but you must be very naive to think there are old american women using young Nigerian men to satisfy their thirst for companionship  

just picture a group of senior citizens lining up for their pick of nigerian security guards, cab drivers and what have you as if their lives depends on it.

i am old enough to know right from wrong. you dont have to deceive people to get ahead in life. this  is very difficult for people like you to understand.  you should be angry with your likes who see nothing wrong in deceiving people for fun or finance.

in case you missed it there is a write up by oluwdashmi another deceived sister here.

what else do you want to do other than declare to him that you have caught him and walk away. Although it is painful depending on how long you are able to put yourself together but life goes on. As for your family, don't tell them anything but if they ask you about him, tell them you are no longer together.

I am a victim of your story but in my own case, it was the wife that called me and was weeping badly on phone as if she was dying. She kept crying and begging me to stay away from her husband cos he has been a different person ever since he met me (she knew me thru calls and text msgs). Although, I noticed the guy is cunny and finds it difficult answering some of my questns about marriage but I decided to be calm until his secret is revealed.

Immediately, I called my guy but he denied it saying the lady is a blackmailer and that I shouldn't mind her. I pretended as if his explanation was understanding but called the wife and we both met. She told me how he has been maltreating her, how he has promised to divorce her before the end of 2008 and that she has been crying for days. Infact her eyes were swollen and she kept crying in the eatery where we met and I was even the one cosoling her. The wife and I planned to keep it secret that we ever met then I turned him to a money making machine.

This is a guy who comes visiting my pple as a son in-law to be. Anyway, I didn't tell them anything and they never asked about him cos they said they prayed about it but received a msg that I should be careful.

But sha, I showed the guy.

sosodat:
It cuts both ways

@ JJYOU
Stop generalizing puleaseee! It's a case of a fraudulent man and hence not equal to labelling it all Nigerian men

how did i label it all nigerian men?  
can i ask why it is difficult for some of you to say what  a man or nigerian did is wrong

fegflu:
AHHH.  Entry level.

is that wat u think.

finish d sch first, and start findin d entry level .

it is a different ball game entirly wen u get to d outside.

o boy dont discourage people from educating themselves.  education is very good and important.

eldee:
For goodness sake, please explain interships and work experience to your friend
Education in the UK is only 50% in the classroom, bout 30% internship and the rest extra-curricular

Almost every UK politician has one time or the other headed a club or social group in university
That's part of education too . . .

sorry sir almost 50% of the mps in the house of commons never went to university. i read this in the guardian just last year.

in this day and age no one should argue against education because it gives you access to many doors.

fegflu:
Eldee,
Wat can of job are u doin in london?
is it related 2 ur paper qualification?

lets start from there first.

you are attempting to preach to the choir.  ignorance they say is bliss.

education is great but very highly over rated in nigeria.

you are supposed to be a saint now abi?

**osisi:
There could be different reasons why he doesn't want any commitment. And only him and God knows why. All you need to do is pray about it and ask for God's will to be done.

You could also discuss the issue(Igbo men and Yoruba women) with him. I hope for you he tells you the REAL reason why he doesn't wanna marry you

Goodluck sis


na wa for all these stereotypes
how come na me come marry the Igbo man without ego?

funny but are you igbo enough? NL have too much tribalists.

Bishop:
I am sinceley proposing that there should be a law enabling women to pronounce men 419 for chopping thier thing under false pretence punishable by hanging .abi what  is  nairalanders thinking

nice one but you know how many NL dudes will go under.

i think it is time for seun to do a disclaimer on NL. hope you dont get sued for any pregnancy resulting from NL.

JustGood:
I sense that you have a bitterness towards Nigerians.

Not really my business but you dont have to go around trying to label us all as evil simply because you were unable to achieve some things which you thought you could have achieved.

i generally dont have time for people like you. what am i trying to achieve? deceive a nigerian woman into relationship that i know i am not prepared for or what? label you. u that effortlessly without my assistance. are you insinuating i am behind all the men/women telling lies to the men/women complaining in various threads here?

you have issues. the bad belle word you pasted was taken from the thread you and your likes were showing hatred for another nigerian woman. you hate truth. why cant you condemn the idiot doing this non sence rather than trying to justify nigerians stupidity with americans are doing it.

that is my last word on this.

**osisi:
At what point did you know she was vain?
I'm sure you saw this coming at some point but her beauty blinded you.
You'll pick more carefully next time.

.
who says you can't bear children and have a career?
I'm a good example of such.
she's found another man
simple!   [size=15pt]YOU BE WOLI?  FEAR NO DEY LET SOMEBODY TALK FOR NL BECOS SOME FEMI NAZIS GO ABUSE SOMEONE[/size]

!
[size=18pt]she is sick of the marriage and doesn't want to be tied down with 2 kids from your loins.
The marriage is over
you need to accept this reality[/size]  [size=18pt]AWFUL TRUTH. [/size]

.
No
It's the problem with marrying a shallow airhead brought up by a  divorced man-eating mother.
I'm sure you saw the warnings and ignored them

.
You'll be a fool to beg her to return
She's too immature for marriage and will make your life a living hell because she'll move out whenever she doesn't get her way.
she wants to be free because she's unable to handle the sacrifices, compromises and selflessness that comes with marriage and raising a family.
remember she was raised in a household without a man (as you said later) where her mother's words were law.
She sees you as useless afterall her mother raised her without a husband.
And she's treated you as a nobody in her affairs and that of "her" child.

My brother let her be,before you die young

you are always a breath of fresh air.  a living example of a good wife is from the Lord.  i dont know why things like this has to be men vs women issue. 

i nearly ordered one years ago.  thank God for a praying mother.

oyb:
@ op

sorry  seems shes an immature woman who you had no business marrying, as she is unwilling to grow up and is looking for a boyfriend, rather than a husband.
her beauty is only skin deep.  


GO AND GET THE DNA TEST DONE.

TOH imho, the highlighted explains everything.

@OP, pull yourself together and prepare for war. otherwise she will continu to fu-ck you over.

thank you for this. there is more to being a woman than having a pair of child bearing ribs.

davidylan:
Dude, it seems you "love" this woman because she is "so fine".

You think being "fine" is all there is to a woman? sometimes you have to marry "sensible" rather than "fine".

combination of sensible plus fine my brother. God forbid you begin dey produce another set of OBJ and his kind for us.  you have to improve on the next generation.

JustGood:
you are exhibiting the problem people who feel inferior exhibit with ease. Why is it that you dont go and find out if other men do it before you start speaking for Nigerians?

you will not get the licence to continue your deception with ease from me. majority of you are frauds and criminals in the way you go leading people you should have no business with into false relationships.

get over yourself and stop trying to defend unacceptable behaviours.

wbb

u are about to cause another pain.

JustGood:
What exactly then is the problem with me also airing my opinion on your opinion?
It is not specifically about Nigerian men but you made it out to be about Nigerian men. . .it was about a man!

you are exhibiting the problem naija men and women have with ease. how come you dont have problems with people taking advantage of others like our people do without shame

folaski:
i wish to thank all of you for your resposes to my question. i know personally that homosexuality is a sin. However i was given a topic to write on and there is a need to conduct a test and have a first hand experience of how people would react to a suspected homosexual in our country Nigeria.

it is our intention to help people with this sexual problem.

it might interest you to know that i am a pastor in training in one of the main line churches in Nigeria. Am married with two children.

for those who think am a gay please take note and stop sending me invitations.

thank you

admitting you are a pastor is greater sin on NL. wait for the reactions

crazykid:
Sunday, I know how you feel, but you have to let go. A girl that cheats and lies isn't qualified to be tagged wife material. So move on with your life because that's exactly what I would do if I were in your shoes.

crazykid get sense person wey dem born for sunday dey do go slow.

omaseo this boy and his wahala.

i_laugh:
God sent man? wasnt him screwing your best friend last night?

Ask him.

bad belle

glorina:
I will. Stay tuned

congrats and best of luck. may you guys increase on everyside

JustGood:
So it is only Nigerians ehnn?

Where exactly do you live where everyone seems to be a saint? People break each others' hearts all over the world- not peculiar to Nigeria.
How many foreigners have you actually LIVED with to see how they also manipulate themselves?
How many churches are in America also decieving and manipulating gullible people?
How many people lost money to fraudulent investment 'gurus' in America?

My point is that Nigeria is not unique in those things. Of course Nigeria has many faults of her own but to simply put Nigeria into the equation whenever someone does something wrong is not the correct way to analyse things.

mr just good this is NL. what is your problem? do i have to seek your counsel before airing my opinions? this thread is about a nigerian man deceiving a woman just like the women do too how do you bring american investment fraud here>  

should nigerians be playing and destroying peoples confidence becos americans are doing fraud?
what else would you like me to blame americans for?

nawa 4 u ooo

DeReloaded:
Quit being dramatic JJYOU. What does "hatred" have to do with anything?  

Then why is he against her getting a job or what else do you do when you get a degree?

You skipped my comment on purpose. If the OP were female, your answer would be completely different,. Admit it.

our minds are our personal properties. we are allowed to think whatever we like however you know me too well to believe my answer would have been different if she was male.

have a good day

goin_crazy:
thanx NL 4 all ur responses even though some were more insultin than objective. please no insults - she's still my wife

i got thru to her @ 3am this morning and she really sounded happy (mus have caught her at a good time). I BEGGED her to come back (for d fifth time) and she refused again. she finally confessed she stopped lovin me 2months into d marriage and wuld've left but for preg and school. she said i was too serious minded. she had felt choked for the last 2yrs & 10months and really needed some space. i asked if she was willin to work on the marriage, and she said NO cause her feelings wuldn't change overnight. she's currently out of town wit some friends and left my baby wit her mum (this kills me). she has scheduled a meetin wit her lawyer for next week and when i asked if she will be willin to tell her lawyer d truth, she laughed at me and said (in her own words) - "don't worry, i know what i will tell my lawyer".

i am currently so depressed and feel like a failure (always been an achiever), not been to work today and already downed a bottle of wine. i really love her still and wuld give anythin to have her back (she's so fine).

maybe i shuld have given her momsy and siblings more money
maybe i shld have spent more time wit her instead of chasin money
maybe i shuld have been more sensitive (whtever dat means)
i guess i was tryin to be a straight and responsible naija husband instead of givin her enuf fun.

i jus dey confused and a bit tipsy,  

all becos a woman no like you? oga i beg relax it aint the end of the world. i have travelled this road and worn this T shirt twice so i know it can be quite painfull but you do get over it by Gods grace.  

it is not worth travelling the journey of life with an unwilling partner you will never get to your destination. i beg your family and your daughter needs you.  stop wasting time go talk to  your lawyer too before they deal with you.

wish you luck

DeReloaded:
Since when have you started advocating divorce?   abi it's cos this story involves a guy. When it's a woman, she's supposed to "forgive and be patient" abi? [size=18pt] i didn't know you hate me this much.[/size]

All these slavemasters screaming "blah blah he paid tuition". so bloody what? They force his hand? He wanted to show off wealth abi? Now the girl wants to use this "tuition he paid for" to do some actual work and here you are all crying like market women.

The same people will then say Naija womann dont wanna work and rather rely on others. O bo lowo yin.

you know me too well to say that. this relationship looks like it has past its sell by date. wisdom shows throwing some more good money after an already bad one is not good idea.

why do you need feel the need to call people slave masters?  how do u know he wanted to show off his wealth?

wbb

Deep Soul:
I'm a sucker for properly spoken and written English but really, it isn't the reason for this post.

You guys should leave the girl's English alone jooo!

Atleast we all understood what she said!

thanks deep soul, some people didnt get the benefit of free education thanks to our theiving and mis guided politicians
people, leave this girl alone. english is not our first language.

so sad this is yet another case of lies, damn lies and more lies.

oluwdashmi:
@ poster

what else do you want to do other than declare to him that you have caught him and walk away. Although it is painful depending on how long you are able to put yourself together but life goes on. As for your family, don't tell them anything but if they ask you about him, tell them you are no longer together.

I am a victim of your story but in my own case, it was the wife that called me and was weeping badly on phone as if she was dying. She kept crying and begging me to stay away from her husband cos he has been a different person ever since he met me (she knew me thru calls and text msgs). Although, I noticed the guy is cunny and finds it difficult answering some of my questns about marriage but I decided to be calm until his secret is revealed.

Immediately, I called my guy but he denied it saying the lady is a blackmailer and that I shouldn't mind her. I pretended as if his explanation was understanding but called the wife and we both met. She told me how he has been maltreating her, how he has promised to divorce her before the end of 2008 and that she has been crying for days. Infact her eyes were swollen and she kept crying in the eatery where we met and I was even the one cosoling her. The wife and I planned to keep it secret that we ever met then I turned him to a money making machine.

This is a guy who comes visiting my pple as a son in-law to be. Anyway, I didn't tell them anything and they never asked about him cos they said they prayed about it but received a msg that I should be careful.

But sha, I showed the guy.

the wonders of being nigerian. God help that country of ours. everybody just tearing each other hearts as they go along.

yimiton:
@ Poster,
You made some silly mistakes but it's time to stand up, dust yourself and go ahead with life.
You cheapened yourself by agreeing to get involved with a man who is even a prospective divorcee. It just spells 'desperate'

Next time, stay away from married men, weather they are about to get a divorce or what ever. They are married and that is what they are.

can you condemn the liar too. i always say the naija women are as bad as the men.

storm0210:
KAI , NAIRALANDERS,

see as una finish the poor girl wey think say she go gather small supporters. i laugh!

i read her story but quite frankly every other person has said it all. wat i want to highlight is this,
its not everyone that comes to nairaland that has a degree or can express themselves in good spoken or written english. pls u guys shuld reduce this attitude of insulting people. if Seun ever reads this, i think he shuld begin to address this issue of fellow nairalanders throwing insults at people for starting up threads regardless of how dumb,irrelevant and senseless the contents of their threads may be.

Also from my experience, any girl in this country or anyother place can be fooled by a guy. some girls intentionally allow themselves to be fooled. no b u holy pass, so if she admits that she dated a married guy, please let d girl be.

My very humble contribution

thank you especially when it is naija man with thier PHD in telling lies and scheming you are dealing with. people that can easily set up churches and mosques to deceive men and God who wont they deceive? my sister was gulible so what> is she the first or last? make una go sit down jare.

damola1:
why dont you see beyond your tribal mind? must everything be reduced to tribalism in nigeria? i bet you dont know yorubas, ibos and other people from other tribes doing these things. what a shame


That's not tribalism, he said; MOSTLY COMMON, it's like saying, FRAUD is common among Nigerians than in Africa, that statement did not banish the entire Nigeria, rather said, it's common.

However, I think it's better to avoid such negative comments unless neccessary, cos every man is unique and we are all different, regardless of where we were born, however most likely can be influenced by our environment, only if we allow it, and a LARGER % always allow it.

using mostly doesnt mean anything here. almost everyone i have heard do this kind of things are mostly yorubas and ibos. do i get a credit for this?

Seun:
Heh.

seun why heh? una never get new ambassador? are there not all male clubs in the usa?.

alfchye:
THIS IS MOSTLY COMMON WITH THE EDO GIRLS.

why dont you see beyond your tribal mind? must everything be reduced to tribalism in nigeria? i bet you dont know yorubas, ibos and other people from other tribes doing these things. what a shame

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/4a/Robin_Sanders-ambassador.jpg
[size=18pt]How Sanders taught Island men a lesson[/size]
By Juliet Bumah and Abimbola Adelakun
Published: Thursday, 5 Mar 2009

By now, Nigerian women are used to their men‘s sense of gender superiority. An average Nigerian man can acquire up to four wives and still not see a woman as more than an object to decorate his house with.

Recently, the United States ambassador to Nigeria, Ms. Robin Renee Sanders, was at the Island Club to deliver a lecture on Political Democratic Transitions. After the lecture, one of the guests, a female, pointed out that the Island Club was all male.

”In this 21st century,” Sanders replied, ”you can‘t be a leader if you exclude half of the world‘s population from being members of your club. If I had known about the all male status of this club, I would have reconsidered my invitation.”

To salvage an apparently embarrassing situation, the former Secretary-General of the Commonwealth, Chief Emeka Anyaoku got up and responded, saying, ”Thank God you didn‘t know about the club‘s all male status before getting the invitation. And now that you have pointed this out, it will serve as food for thought for the Islanders

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art20090305620675

Comments:


    * sanders if u were in saudi arabia .will u tell tem how to live their lifes there?.knowing full well it is traditionally and even religiously male dominated.make u take ur yeye time oh!!!

      Posted by: natural male , on Thursday, March 05, 2009

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    * look at wht the so called (unatural) feminism is doing to the western society where sanders is from.it is no coincidence they have the highest rate of divorces,single parenthood dwindling population in the world with its attendant consequences in their society.nigerian women embrace equal rights for women until its time to pay for something.y is she and pple like condi rice not married?are they lesbians or something?to hell with ur alien culture!!

      Posted by: natural male , on Thursday, March 05, 2009

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    * It is noteworthy for the US Ambassador to make this sort of remark in such a forum of men of influence and affluence in Nigeria-the elite, Lagos Island Club. The society should be an egalitarian one-providing a level playing field for all participants irrespective of gender, race, status, nationalities, etc. Today, the most powerful personality in the world, after God, is a black man, an African-American, in the person of Barrack Obama who white supremacists would have rejected some decades ago!

      Posted by: John Ekundayo @ Singapore , on Thursday, March 05, 2009

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    * The lesson here is when invited to any occassion in any capacity inform yourself about the place that you are invited to; the lady US ambassador to Nigeria please take note.

      Posted by: Emmanuel Ben-Edigbe , on Thursday, March 05, 2009

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    * It is easy to bash men for their ego. The women rulethe world!!! They surrendered power to the men. Their assumed powerlessness is to becloud the real fact. Has any woman been denied membership of the club just because she is a woman? How many women have been able to put themselves up for elections and denied just because they are women? ANd if women want power let them start with being the head and breadwinners for their homes and opening the car door for their husbands.

      Posted by: Julius Joel , on Thursday, March 05, 2009

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    * It is so refreshing to read about the audacious and indicting observation by the U.S. Ambassador to Nigeria - Ms. Sanders, concerning the all-male membership of the Islanders. It is hoped that her somewhat regretful remarks for honoring the invitation to give the lecture, will send a message of empowerment to women across the world to make their voices heard in similar male monopoly of the stage. I salute Ms. Sanders and wish her all the best in her mission to and assignment in Nigeria.

      Posted by: Rev. Victor A. Owan , on Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Woman granted amnesty from life jail, laments early menopause
From JOE EFFIONG, Uyo
Thursday, March 5, 2009


What shall it profit a woman who regains the whole world but loses her womb? This appears to have been the question which flashed through the mind of Adiaha King Jack, a 44- year-old woman who had spent 26 years in prison for killing one of her brothers.

Fate, however, smiled on Adiaha Jack recently when Governor Godswill Akpabio visited the Uyo Prisons and decided to grant her amnesty. The prerogative of mercy covered not only her; her brother, Akpan King Jack, also convicted of the same offence the same year but incarcerated in Ikot Ekpene Prisons, also breathed the air of freedom.

Thus, Adiaha and Akpan regained their freedom, each person received N500,000 lifeline. They walked away free from the gulag with joy but a heavy heart.

At 44, Adiaha prematurely, had been hit by the naturally irreversible female impotence. And considering the fact that when she was convicted in 1985, she was only 18, without a child, the joy of her release became tainted and she expressed her low value in the African society.

“I’m grateful to God and to the governor for granting me pardon. My only regret in life is that at 44, I have been hit by menopause which means I won’t be able to have a child again.”
Menopause at 44, for someone who never enjoyed being a wife or a mother before she was sent to prison may appear a cruel fate. In fact, a gynecologist in the University of Uyo Teaching Hospital , Dr. Emem Bassey tends to agree.

“At 44, it seems menopause struck her a bit early because in our environment, it occurs in women between 45 and 50 years. Maybe it is because of the stress she went through in the prison. But it is still normal because menopause can occur in women at any age from 40 years upwards.”
But with modern science, can menopause be reversed? Bassey gave an emphatic No. “Menopause means that the woman is no longer ovulating she can no longer produce egg.

The condition cannot be reversed. However, the woman in question can still have a child if she can meet somebody who would be willing to donate eggs to her so that she can be made pregnant through invitro fertilization (IVF) method,” he said.

But isn’t there a concession that could be granted to such people who are condemned to life imprisonment at tender age to try and fulfill their natural responsibility like procreation within or outside prison?
The Public Relations Officer of Akwa Ibom State Prisons Command, Mr. Charles Isong told Daily Sun there is no such luxury.

“As emotional as it may sound, we cannot create a separate law for a separate case. The laws that we are operating is not our own laws, but the laws that the society entrusts on us. It is what they ask us to do in prison that we implement. We can’t allow that to happen. Once you are imprisoned, you are under confinement. Your right to movement, right to sex, if at all there is such a right; right to vote and be voted for, are all restricted. But you’re free to enjoy every other rights,” Isong explained.

Similarly, the Chairman, Nigerian Bar Association, Uyo Branch, Mr. Ekanem Ekanem, said there are no separate laws for those serving life sentence and others for those serving shorter sentences, which could have provided some respite for people like Adiaha Jack.

“Perhaps, the law may have to address that problem and fashion out a way to help people fulfill their natural obligations because for now, the prison regulations apply to every prisoner,” Ekanem reasoned.
But Akpabio, who is the first governor to visit the prison ever since the state was created in 1987, and the first to grant amnesty to those serving life jail, advised the King Jacks never to look back at their wasted period in prison but to match forward to live their lives to the full.

“We saw this in the life of Malcom X, and also in the life of Nelson Mandela, who did not allow 27 years of being political prisoners to embitter them against society,” the governor recalled.
He stated that the prison is an institution designed for people who have been convicted of crimes, saying, “that fact that there is restriction of movement in the prison does not mean there is restriction of the mind.”
While advising them to spend time developing their minds to overcome mischief and bitterness, Governor Akpabio reminded them that Malcom X was educated in prison to become a respected civil rights activist in the United States.

“Turn the hand of your destiny and become a new man. I believe you should tell the prison authorities that you need a counselor,” the governor admonished.
He lauded the state Advisory Council on the Prerogative of Mercy for carrying out campaigns on rehabilitation and re-integration of former prison inmates and using mass media to sensitize the people not to discriminate against ex-convicts.

Will Adiaha King Jackson ever live a fulfilled life in Nigeria, as a woman, without a child or will miracle happen? Nobody even knows exactly what awaits her as she returns home after 26 years in jail for killing a brother.

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2009/mar/05/national-05-03-2009-07.htm


so we have do gooders like this in naija now. what about the brother they killed not having kids? killer at 18.

tRoOE:
This will not be the 1st or last

hope it is the last

blackspade:
They robbed a congregation in the house of god? People are wicked!

evil people. you wonder why the women and kids they use the money to feed turn night mares

Akatamba:
I would advise you to upload a picture of yourself as soon as possible, (to clear up any misunderstanding or whatsoever, do you understand me?)

o boy leave your sister na.  go get another girl picture. this one is already engaged. try again in 2080AD.

wish u luck

aus123:
@jjyou

You are only patronising,

Who knows, she might just pay some dollar into ur acct.

I dey go class,

I non get time 4 pple who are not real to themselves,

yea yea. better to patronise for dollar than hate. i beg leave the lady alone.  be happy when you see good thing happening in peoples lives. it could be you next time.

makapella:
i think you are the next girl on his ritual list.so hurry up and enjoy all you can before the D-day comes. R.I.P.

what a life. is that all you can come up with?