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Siena:
Siena certainly did.

DeltaVAG^TM

i am shocked. i can see why AJ ran away from here. i miss her though

[quote author=tonye-t link=topic=227552.msg3429669#msg3429669 date=1233841457]@Okija_juju

men i swear i m grateful that at least someone is seeing things from my seeming perspective

when we talk about love, to me it spans beyond just the heart, to me its got everything to do with compatibility, tolenrence, and not when one is a deaf n dumb and the other is a speaking machine


to me o,i guess maybe she must have been bitten by one love bug and i pray one day the whole senerio will clear from her eyes


@Ben20000000000000001 and czarskit,

men tell me the gospel truth, if it were u guys will u date a deaf n dumb?

u just come here and open ur wide mouth here and talk things u know u wont do even in the life to come



lets be sincere[/quote]the world has moved on bros.

Sisi Jinx:
Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice Interview!!!!!!

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sis, you are so funny i just love you. that is plus and including all your faults as they say.  did sienna ever write that?

@plap, sorry this is eating you up. they say it is easier to tell truth than tell a lie.

solution to this is very simple let them know you are not working and unlike some other people you dont have a dozen hookers making money for you in europe streets.

only your mum is important in this matter. you should help her along with the help coming from your sister and the rest. it should not be only you and your hubby's burden. all you women lib movement you see what you have caused? we never used to depend on daughters for feeding.

get your sister in europe to help out too.
your elder brother is not your responsibility. learn to ignore him and tell your husband exactly that too. he should be told to grow up and stop gambling like there is no tomorrow.

on the team plus 2 reserve bench, you are not their parents so technically not your wahala but i can see why telling now is going to create some problem. walk this rope carefully.

i normally charge for this but i will give you this free on this occassion. try being nice and go the extra kindness mile until you come out clean. by this i mean no matter whatever he does from now you will/ must ignore to the point he owes you a lot. it may be hard but knowing you neeed the bridge yourself walk it.

you may also need to talk to your people that you cant afford to feed them and your family. and make sure you wean them of his money. they survived without it before they will survive again. i cant understand why some people dont have respect for their kids

FBS:
one should not look at it from that angle that the guy is white or not. He is a human being that deserves to know the truth. end of story. Put yourself in his shoes, what would you have done, knowing that your wife lied to you?

she is not hiding her own child/ren for goodness sake. these are people she should never be responsible for in the first place. these people are unique. i dont want to say what i think of them.

putting a young girl under pressure should never be permitted[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=229139.msg3429335#msg3429335 date=1233837678]poster should start looking for a job now, i know it maybe hard with you having small kids. in case you tell him or your siblings does and he leaves.

na wah! so oyinbo dey fear our large family? maybe if the family is stinky rich, oyinbo won't be afraid.[/quote]she shouldnt look for no job. her kids are young. she should cut off the funds they send home. she has another sister who can easily take that responsibility if comes to that.

on a day like this i thank God for my mum and dad.

the cost of the world playing into the godless chineese and indians hands. stupid criminals

nigeria banks are licenced robbers

plappville:
You are right my sister, i wonder when women will have a right in their matrimonia home in  Nigeria, the most annoying one is when the husband dies befor the wife, it is always the wife that killed him, but when the wife dies first, no one cares even if it's the husband that killed her no one will suspect him[b] it's crazy[/b].
@ poster U are wrong to have said in ur topic women the cause, why? if u were to be a woman that got married to a cheating husband and a punching bag husband, would u keep him simply because u do not want to divorce?? if the men play a good role, i think the rate of divorce will reduce, its not a thing to pass blame on women only, as they are not slaves, women desarve to be treated tenderly and with respect, expecially the nigeria husband family thing, passing other to a woman in her marimonia home, what a nonsence.

it is this kind of not me guv non challant attitude that is ruining the beautiful land of nigeria. it takes 2 to tangle. majority of the men and women drinking pepper soup into relationships have no business being together at all let alone creating children that is barstadizing that land.

my granny used to tell us good people are creating bad children imagine what will happen when bad kids start reproducing after themselves.

this is old

i dont think so however most have symptoms or should i say behave like cursed people

if there is a spiritual problem some where along the line it will definately affect.   most broken homes are not ordinary

[size=18pt] Why banks allow robbers to steal their money[/size] – Okiro
By Olusola Fabiyi, Abuja
Published: Tuesday, 3 Feb 2009

The Inspector-General of Police, Mr. Mike Okiro, on Monday said that banks in the country did not care about security in their banks because of the insurance cover they had taken on their cash.
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Inspector-General of Police, Mike Okiro

Okiro, who stated this at a meeting with banks’ executives in Abuja, lamented that out of the 24 executives expected at the meeting, only 13 attended.

He said that their refusal to attend the meeting showed their lackadaisical attitude towards security matters in their operations.

The visibly angry IGP said that the bank executives believed that even if their money was stolen, they would always get it back through insurance.

But he wondered if the lives of policemen who were always victims during bank robberies would get their lives back.

Though he did not say what would happen to the banks that refused to send their representatives to the meeting, Okiro said he would get their names and take necessary action.

He said, “I am surprised that out of the 24 commercial banks operating in Nigeria, only 13 showed up, that is like half. That shows the level of commitment to security in the banks.

“I do know that banks insure their money and that has been the problem. They insure their money and they don’t care even if the money is stolen by robbers. The insurance companies will pay.

“But the question they are supposed to ask themselves is: no matter the amount paid them by insurance, does it cover the human life lost? Does it cover the lives of police officers? What of the lives of bank workers? The lives of customers who come to banks to transact business? The insurance does not cover them.

“The turnout here shows the kind of interest they have in providing the security in the banks. It is unfortunate that banks will not care about their security. They want to make profit, they want to make money.

“Even if they do not care about security, if a particular bank is open and prone to regular attacks, definitely customers will pull out their money from there.”

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* Fred From Ireland, You chat nonsense. Who is in a better today Okiro or Mallam Nuhu Begger Ribadu? Look at how Ribadu life has turned out, no money, no pension. Who would u like to be like Okiro or Ribadu??

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Okiro is a complete failure to the NPF.Just few months to his retirement he decided to summon bank executives to Abuja for security meeting or briefing. Where have you been since last year when armed robbers were killing hundreds of customers, bank officials and improperly equipped police officers,You were busy planning on how to get rid of Ribadu from the NPF on behalf of Ibori de thief and other corrupt ex-governors. I am not surprised half of the bank executives did not turn up.Go & retire

Posted by: Fred From Ireland , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Miss Southeast, I have not criticised the name u have chosen so get the point. 1st, go and learn your spellings. It is Brain and not BRIAN. As Ibori, he is one of the greatest Nigerians and Governors. He is so wealthy that he will never finish his money until he dies. People talk nonsense about him it does not affect him. Where is ur Ribadu today? Stupid Ribadu could not even afford a plane ticket. Ribadu is beg for money today. Who is in a better position today - Ibori or Ribadu?

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Lol!!!ibori-de thief-chairman! U make me laugh!U ARE THE ONE WITH NO BRIAN and you know y? because all u do here is pick a sentence from pple's statements and use it against them for no reason. Tufiakwa yadda yadda! It's quite unfortunate but just confess u didn't understand the rest of my comments asides the sentence.Or do u want me to explain mockery for u?? LOL!

Posted by: Miss Southeast , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Miss Southeast is extremely stupid. I chose the name to show everyone that Ibori rules. No matter what anybody says Ibori controls Nigeria and will continue to control Nigeria. So, forget the name for now. The fact is that u have no meaningful contribution to make apart from "the western world will laugh". Stupid Woman with no brain.

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* When there seem to be some hope; people like "easterner" make you loose hope completely. Where does ethnicity fit into this? This guy must be as daft as the IG.

Posted by: olumba-olumba , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Want to know why the bank chiefs didn't show up, Mr IG? How about opening saharareporters.com, and read the article: IG Mike Okiro and Sons PLC? The reason ur subordinates, and perhaps everyone else in this country, don't give much value to ur command/wishes is cos, everyone knows how corrupt you are. Why wld serious bank chiefs waste their time in a fruitless meeting wt u when they have better things to do wt their time, when they know you'll only be interested in serious 'egunje' from them?

Posted by: Ade King , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Okiro is airing a problem that you have never heard in your life!!do u come from a no man's land? His only problem is that half d executives didn't turn up in d meeting. Insurance is not enough - so what?? WELL-BEING and security of Nigerians is d reason he holds d post, not collabo with IBORI. I'm refering to you IBORI DE THIEF - imagine d name u use here! haba! if that's d only thing u could pick from my statement then so be it! yadda yadda.lol

Posted by: Miss Southeast , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Ibori de thief, U r just as your name says, 'D theif!'go and collaborate with your Ibori Fraudulent organisation and stop attcking pple here with ur disgusting statements. If you've got nothing meaningful to add, leave d forum cause ur presence here make no difference ;-( ewu!

Posted by: Miss Southeast , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Although I am not a fan of the IG, it's obviously irresponsible of the banks' chief executives not to, at least, send representatives to that meeting. Security is everyone's business and as a professional auditor, I know banks have a lot to contribute (not just money!)to ensure safety in their premises.Police have always maintained that many cases of bank robberies have always been possible by informantion supplied by insiders. Banks should learn to be responsible corportate citizens.

Posted by: Kudos , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* okinba launko; You are just a frustrated tribalist, knowing that the big man is from the east it makes no sence to you that he will be the #1 police officer, there is nothing wrong when he says the true position, it is all about financial Lords that form the bulk of lobbyist in nigeria refusing to do the right thing. you probably might be previlaged Mallam that is not in the bush with your cattle , so the real order of things in the real world got you confused as is always the case.

Posted by: easterner , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* it is a known-fact that no bank ever care about their customers. they only care about the money to be deposited their banks.if lives of the customers couldn't be secured, i think people should think of another means of keeping their money and thus having same or better value.in financial market, banks are not the only places were money can be guarrantte.banks have become threats to lives

Posted by: Aruna Ibrahim , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* sir,sir mike okiro,aparently they know it will dovetail into them contributing into a kind of security fund which obviously they have been doing for God knows how long.moreover,you may have some of your wards you want to give employment to.or rather if you visit olopa something must drop.plz,sir go and cry somewhere else.it was back in the days that olopa is used to intimidate small children into orderliness not anymore.then u collected samco from them,we now know y.

Posted by: yomi , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* the enormous stupidity of Mr Okiro's comments can only be surpassed by the size of the danger this loose cannon constitutes to peace and security in Nigeria. When a no 1 police officer begins to blame crime victims for being victims then you can begin to understand why we have the type of police force we have in Nigeria today. Given his comments it's apparent that Mr Okiro is not fit to occupy the position of Inspector General of any right thinking police force

Posted by: okinba launko , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Dr M U Bello, Why not all that you listed be given to all Nigerian workers? Why just to the Police?

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Dr M U Bello, Why not all that you listed be given to all Nigerian workers? Why just to the Police?

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* PEOPLE SHOULD NOT YARB OKIRO AFTERALL THERE IS POPULAR SAYING THAT "USE WHAT YOU HAVE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT" U KNOW OKIRO WILL SOON RE-TIRE?HE WANTS TO BEG FOR SECURITY MANAGER POST IN ONE OF THE BANKS AFTER RETIREMENT,BUT UNFORTUNATELY THE BANKS HE LIKE DID NOT SHOW UP.THAT WAS WHY HE FUMED.

Posted by: DEJI , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* yes Okiro has right to call a meeting considering the escalating bullion van armed robberies.The policing of nigeria is not shown the right seriiousness as done in other countries.We expect better remunerations and salary for officers and better housing and insurance for policemen.The officers need proper trainning and equipment.The are not supermen.the manpower is low too and the need a new leadership and reorientation.the govt shuld be alarmed too.

Posted by: Dr mu Bello , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* This bloody Miss Southeast does not quite realise what century she lives in. All she suggests in every comment is about cover-up, "don't say this in public", "don't say that in public", they will laugh at you yadda yadda. Has Miss Southeast never heard that 'a problem aired is a problem solved'? Miss Southeast is as backward as they come.

Posted by: Ibori De-Thief , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Okiro is an arse hole. Rank and File don't respect; Bankers don't respect him; general public don't respect him. Anyway, who would listen to him when his full-time job is with IBORI Fraudulent Activities Incorporated

Posted by: Mgbemena 4 Deputy Gov , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Insurance by banks is a 'cover-up' for lack of training and equipping the Nigerian police -unfortunately.But don't balme d man - he is following d same trend his ancestors has left for him! Okiro,pls don't say such things in public,other nations will use it as a mockery against U.Ur men are not competent n d banks have taken a step further by insuring d money of their customers!hence d low turnup of executives.They don't trust u and ur work because it's cost them lives of workers/cutomers 4 yrs!

Posted by: Miss Southeast , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* I have read so many comments here and i cannot but wonder the kind of country Nigeria is.Many just open their mouths and vomit rubbish without using their brains.For the record,Nigeria is a country with 147 Million and a total population of 130,000 police men and women.Work out the ratio and reflect on what you get.Many tend to always want to compare our police force with that of other advance countries.This is equally senseless.What is the pay of a policeman in Nigeria?Is he covered by any

Posted by: WALE,USA , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Okiro is an arse hole. Rank and File don't respect; Bankers don't respect him. Anyway, who would listen to him when his full-time job is with IBORI Incorporate.

Posted by: Mgbemena 4 Deputy Gov , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Okiro has the right to invite banks executives for security meeting. Don't forget security is the duty of every citizens. Okiro is not a magician. He has population of Nigeria policemen to contend with. With a population of about 16 million, Metropolitan police has popultion of 7.2 million and covers 620 square metres while Nigeria Police covers 923,768 sq. km. Security's a sytem involving everybody and it's necessary for the banks to cough out money for its effectiveness.Okiro can't do it alone

Posted by: Olufemi Oyedele, London, UK , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* MR okiro,it,s a shame we nigerian thought you and your men are our friends,but not! what consign do you have to discourse issue with banks,when you can,t even save ordinary citizen in the slump,we don,t need ur security anymore but god wish,u and ur men is a shame to nigeria

Posted by: iyke ( home and abroad base nigeria) , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Obviously that man is an idiot. How can he come out and say something like this? who is he? stupid illiterate. We are not secure in this country even as bank workers and they cannot secure the roads or anything and he is saying he wants to take action? he should take action against the robbers. Big IDIOT he is! When are we going to get people wit sense in public office?

Posted by: Beredugu , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* The IG was visibly angry and promised to take necessary actions the report says. What would this be? an arrest of these bankers, a withdrawal of the police attaches, what would an angry IG do. Has the IG exhibited due diligence with his utterances, has he portrayed discipline and character, most of all can we trust this man with our security. Most frightening, who can call him to order, no one in my books. The IG's act is very shameful, very shameful act indeed.

Posted by: Clement Low , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* The other day Okiro was complaining that his men does not respect his command, I'm asking why will they respect his command when his appointment was not based on merit! Police force has lost the little respect it has due to internal politics within police force. The issue of appointing IG should be left solely to police force to chose who they want to be there head, not by president and the so call police commission. This is just my opinion and it might not be right to some people. Good day!

Posted by: AMBROSE, from Guangzhou , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* It cant be the Inspector General of police in my country that is saying this.Someone is saying complete rubbish.

Posted by: olumba-olumba , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Why do Bank managers need to attend meetings with Okiro before they can be guaranteed security?

Posted by: okechukwu , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* This is a high level of illiteracy. He wants to secure banks, when he hasn´t even secured our street & neighbourhood People die every second on the street, nobody cares. Count the numbs of accidental and criminal death in Nigeria for a month and also count to compare the numbers of death in Afganistan/Iraq. Dont be suprised of your outcome. Quality & Security of a dog life in the EU is higher than a Nigeria human life. Take it or leave it! So why suprise when oyinbo thinks we are just monkeys!

Posted by: ola, uk , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Banks can never intentionally made themselves vunerable to attacks as most attacks always involve loss of lives.Mr Okiro, hope while addressing the Press, you were not under the influence of alcohol or other substances.Sometimes you made me laugh as most comments by you sometimes beggar belief.Banks can never trade their lives for insurance claims.Get this into your skull ok.

Posted by: abimbola kumapayi , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Mr Okiro needs to be educated. Insurance companies are no father xmas. They do investigate the acts of crime, and if the crime is successful due to the negligence of the banks on their securities, they wont pay the bank a dime.So, the banks dont have a choice but to beef up their securities. The truth is the banks have no TRUST in you, Mr Okiro and your team of INCOMPETENT ROBBERS, oops, sorry officers

Posted by: The Parrot , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* It's quite sympathetic that our police men and women in Nigeria are made the scape goat for our misdoings. I have said it before and will continue to say it, that 'all cases of armed robbery in the banks are due to insiders' information'. I was in the bank before and I know some of the staff are criminals. At times when the fault has 'leaked', these criminals invite thieves to come and save their faces. Henceforth, banks should insure the life of their police attachees to the tune of N50 m each!

Posted by: Olufemi Oyedele , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Here goes another senseless talk, it make you wonder if these people really engage their brains before going to press. A nation only get the kind of leadership she deserve through the people who represent them, this IG is a joke and so also his boss - ie Yar'Adua

Posted by: Kennedy , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* The IG of police Mr Mike Okiro should not be surprised if the banks ignored his call, because like many Nigerians they have no trust in Okiro and his police force. Statements like this from Mr Okiro is aimed at encouraging armed robbers to target banks,especially the ones that did not attend his meeting. Henceforth,those banks should hold Mr Okiro responsible if their banks become targets for the criminals. If the police force is really worth it's name,there will be no room for such tirade.

Posted by: lawrence ( France ) , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* Well I don't have much to say for the Bank officer's are informants to the Robber's. Nigerian Police post in Banks are not well trainded to confront Robbers and rubbers knowing their weak points,alaways outsmart them. Well in Less than 2 years now, I will be a degree holder and will apply to the Nigeria Police to reform it for they are really lagging behind. Banks knows hoe far with what he face but the informans should no forget law of Kamar oh

Posted by: iyke , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* IGP Ikiro must be talking from his nose & economical with the truth. The main point is Police men posted at banks are security posters or decoration. They are not trained to fight nor combat armed robbers when confronted. Further most Nigerian Bank employees are crooks themself. They collude with robbers who already know the weakness of Nigerian Police who shiver at first gun shot. Nigerian Police are ill-trained, indicispline, lawless in nature 7 pursue travail issues rather than law & order.

Posted by: gasky truth , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

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* lamentations of okiro.

Posted by: akin raphael , on Tuesday, February 03, 2009

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200902037565751

PDP is a collection of crooks. i wonder why people bother voting for them

i think agbayaism is the NL word

JustGood:
na buildings be development?

that is the image the pics are conveying

superboi:
well this is the was the issue i was trying to raise yesterday. development is a totally encompassing word and unless african government and people sit down and decide what is their development piorities, they will never be developed. most development you see in africa today hardly impacts on the lives of real africans, because like development of the colonial era it is still mainly focused on extracting resources from the continent. i belife that real development of a person, a group, a region or even a nation is what that unit decide to do that would lead to that unit being really productive to its self first of all then to the larger society(globe) as a whole. in most of this country that are being mentioned the people really feel disenfrachised from the so called development.

101% right

brb

developed as in buildings only or what?

[quote author=seun* link=topic=227552.msg3419753#msg3419753 date=1233662947]so JJYOU are you saying if they get married their offsprings may all come out speaking well?[/quote]all my cousins speak and hear without trouble. like i said the first daughter lived with me here for 4yrs i didnt notice any impediment. i talk to the others regularly and have never noticed any. first 3 are out of uni the last 3 are currently going thru school.

is deafness hereditary? i didn't know you can inherit that.

vivaladiva:
that kind thing no fit happen ( we must try b4 we buy)

so what happens if this happen 1 month after your test drive?

bigboyslim:
@ topup

Must you always be so reasonable? You have a very valid point. while i believe that sex is vital in a relationship (at least at the onset) the other elements you listed are also vital too. There's nothing as good as leading a balanced life but as humans we are imperfect and we always tend to have a bias for certain elements over the other. I guess striving to achieve that balance should be the goal of both partners in any relationship.

na mama arugbo this girl be

topup:
[color=#cc0066]Exactly!

That magical word 'balance', it's very difficult to achieve and maintain but we should all seek that. It is so much more easier to find a good sexual partner than a god partner for life. Maybe people have given up complete hope on finding true love and companionship these days. I don't blame them, but if there is a 'best' out there i.e. great partner (with many great qualities , including sex) then aim for it. Don't settle for any less, I'd say.[/color]

always the tops as usual. God bless you

how can a born again christian abuse a wife/ husband in the first place?

@ OP, as you are in Benin if you are serious to learn i can send you to my uncle in okoh central to learn how to live with deaf and dumb people.  he is a medical doctor. has been married to one pretty Ibo lady for almost 30yrs now. they have 4 boys and 2 girls all in their twenties.  she still cant talk proper but i think she is the most lovely person God created. she came to that city as a house help today she has her own degree.

by the way all 6 kids talk. i had the privilege of hosting the senior girl in UK for 4yrs. she is so well brought up you wont know her mum cant talk. me and youth she assisted in church were crying when she left.  disability is a mind thing. there are many talking and hearing disabled people about especially in that naija of yours.

i know the trouble my uncle went thru becos of her thanks to narrow minded people like you.  majority of those people dont have marriage today yet the deaf and dumb they say is no match for their brother is keeping a happy home.  you never hear her complain always smiles. wish i can post her girls graduation pics for you to see how beautiful the mother is.

there is nothing love cant build on. there will be challenges but love will ALWAYS conquer all insurmountable mountains.  

hope you learn to leave the girl alone and not spoil her joy with your silly remarks.  you definitely know talking people who cant express themselves.

[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=119277.msg2215383#msg2215383 date=1209731259]Na ya house all ur children go dey for long time o[/quote]bad belle

epi:
After reading the responses - some of you were privilege growing up. For us, eating in the bed room was a “no-no” and we were not allowed to have a TV in the bedroom.

The one thing we all agree on though:- it's important to eat together


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that is very obvious. we never had the luxury of seeing a parlour as they called it then let alone eating together in one. my mrs on the other came from such a home and keeps the religion with military precision. though she wont cook she does know how to set the table and dishes that you cant resist.

i think it is a good idea. it gives you opportunity to bond, relax and talk.

you see why naija have problem.

vodka:
old post or not, i'd drop mine
@ poster this is what lot of nigerian women do
this is cos in Naija we make excuses for our men. "its a guy thing" "they are dogs" blah blah

cheaters 101. it is not just the men most of the women are expert- cheaters. it starts as early as secondary schools boys/girls.

this is what they pay the people that gave them good education with.too many proffessors and ekiti this and that. ado ekiti, usi ekiti, ipe ekiti, ikole ekiti, erio.

maybe they should turn all them to different states. nigeria can afford the bill

shapey, so sad to read this. sorry you are going through another wahala. hope you and armsky are still in touch? there is time for everything. keep the stiff upper lips as they say for now. this must be a carry over of the naija fight/drama. naija people know how to spoil happy families and environments.

take good care of yourself and your baby.

the Lord our God is with you

easy believism the christianity without responsibility, conscience and sacrifice is the trouble with most nigerians.

it used be better than this. these group of politicians are evil thieves. why cant we have military govt and do away with these demothieving group. foolish people.

NGO is non governmental organisations what has a governor's wife got to do creating one?

Siena:
I was affected, yes, but positively.

Had a client who had booked me for 3 days, carrying out a conversion on his car, at his home.

I was able to bump up the price, it's a 130-mile round trip, not worth doing on regular hourly rates.
Bad weather = more ill-maintained cars breaking down.

DeltaVAG^TM

SIENNA! even you. you see what hanging out with this people turned you into? cant move at the moment.

dyabman:
your sick , is that a babe or an old woman with shrink faces, her pussy is fussy she cant do the doggy style , i'll knock her out round 2 , TRICK!

SHAMELESS