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Sisi Jinx:
Ask him

ask ke? actors dey naija

arrant nonsence indeed

right to hate

this is the 2nd or 3rd relationship NL is killing today

MrCrackles:

What is the point of these now?
This is how you guys unnecessarily fuel the fires of religious hatred
Next time, read the post and topic well before typing with your fat fingers
It doesnt pay to create more problems!!

nice one from agent provocateur himself

**osisi:
I wish I could dash you the 10 pounds I already lost.
Life is so unfair.

very unfair

MrCrackles:
You guys have come again!!

For fucking hell sake, quit all these religious shenanigans and get a life!!!

go get your own religious do gooder my brother. this na another ogbele business

JosBoy4Lif:
You are missing the point of this thread completely.

point being?

bindex:
This is what happens when you allow religion to destroy your brain cells. Its either your way or the highway.

There is no connection between light and darkness the bible says there by advocating the permanent we vs them mentality. What a shame

@ poster don't come here whining about how people prosecute you for befriending moslems because that it what the two religions teach. The bible teaches christains not to accept moslems just as the koran teaches moslems not to accept christains. Read the bible and the Koran both of the Gods that are taught in those books strongly advocated segregation, racism and intolerance towards people of other faiths(Christainity teaches maiming of body parts if it causes you to sin and total seperation from the already condemmed while islam teaches total segregation and the utmost racism form the already condemmed unbelievers.). So to come here and start whining that people prosecute you is to not know what your religion teaches. Most people live their lives according to what they feel is right not according to what they were taught by their respective religions.

i see moslim beggers dont discriminate when taking church goers money.
by the way she is not talking prosecution yet.  chill see what a child goes through and you call someone being told to stop taking money from a mole woman prosecution.

bad belle people. una don scare this girl away. poor mr patel abi na mr singh.

sorry for posting verses from Joshua 23:14

9 “For the Lord has driven out great and powerful nations for you, and no one has yet been able to defeat you. 10 Each one of you will put to flight a thousand of the enemy, for the Lord your God fights for you, just as he has promised. 11 So be very careful to love the Lord your God.

12 “But if you turn away from him and cling to the customs of the survivors of these nations remaining among you, and if you intermarry with them, 13 then know for certain that the Lord your God will no longer drive them out of your land. Instead, they will be a snare and a trap to you, a whip for your backs and thorny brambles in your eyes, and you will vanish from this good land the Lord your God has given you.

14 “Soon I will die, going the way of everything on earth. [size=18pt][color=#990000]Deep in your hearts you know that every promise of the Lord your God has come true. Not a single one has failed![/size][/color] 15 But as surely as the Lord your God has given you the good things he promised, he will also bring disaster on you if you disobey him. He will completely destroy you from this good land he has given you. 16 If you break the covenant of the Lord your God by worshiping and serving other gods, his anger will burn against you, and you will quickly vanish from the good land he has given you.”

lagosboy where are you?

larez:
I appreciate your advice and encouragement. As stated in a previous post, I treat all my clients the same with respect regardless of if they are Superstars or Joe Blo next door. So far, my experience in Nigeria makes me question if I will be able to do business with the average Nigerian with wealth. [color=#990000]The culture seems to promote self-aggrandizement and the demeaning of others. You have to understand that after College in Philadelphia and moving to Atlanta in 1984, I have had minimal exposure to Nigerians. The last time I visited home until recently was in 1983, and have had a serious culture shock since returning recently.

After over 20 years of dealing with various clients, it is natural that one develops a 6th sense for various characters. I therefore can sense potential troublesome clientele and know to avoid them, but in Nigeria it seems honestly and integrity is a rare trait which causes me to be very discouraged. An example is this stranger who comes here making various false allegations. In my paradigm, this person will have to be a lunatic. But in Nigeria, it seems to be acceptable for people to openly show what Obasanjo terms as "Bad Belle". How does a person operate in [size=18pt]a society devoid of conscience or morals?[/size] I am sincerely thinking to pack-up and head back to what I know. However, I have found much beauty in the Land itself, and hope to be able to add to it's development.

In summary, yes I am open to clients and collaborations if we share common values such as honesty and integrity. I will be honoured to work with people such as I describe. Thanks [/color]

welcome to nigeria

RichyBlacK:
Excellent post!!

I've been meaning to write something along this line but you beat me to it.

Don't listen to all those idiotic "religious" imbeciles! Look at our leaders, they all go to church/mosque but they are some of the most corrupt SOBs in the world!

No religion should make us hate each other, but that is not what we see. So pathetic.

not even you

watching

some want to loose some are begging to gain

Kobojunkie:
Welcome to the biggest problem that we have in Nigeria. Look around you here on Nairaland and you will find that is common practise here. I am not sure what the root of the problem is but I believe it may have to do with the culture of pride we continue to pass on to our kids in that nation. Who knows?

i tot you were a card carrying member of this sect. am i mistaking you for someone?

i am preparing a badge for you and o pls dont go cheat on your partner too

DaPhoenix:
I love when men are insecure and they put it up for display . . .  makes me remember that they can be human too.

sad to say some people in that ood land of ours are cheaters

OBJ couldnt scare them they are afraid of owls

kritikul:
I will get myself a seat in the church the whole of that day, cant put my trust on any man than God. Most men have become polygamists, even bachelors. cant aford to share my man with anybody. so would rather spend my val with god.

brein:
Its a real pity, i dont have any one i can call my VAL on val's day, cos niger girl would jump from 1 guy to another and from 1 man to another,
just can't leave among this bunch of cheats!,

does it have to be this way?

akaa:
MADAM, STOP ACTING OR TALKING LIKE A KID, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE EXTRA MARITAL AFFIR IN THIS ISSUE. CHECK YOURSELF VERY WELL YOU SAID YOU PEOPLE HAVE FOUR KIDS NOW AND THAT IS THE WAY HE HAVE BEEN DOING IT.IT MIGHT BE ONE OF THIS PROBLEM
1. EITHER HE DOESEN`T LOVE YOU
2. OR YOU JUST DEVELOPE A BAD ODOUR
3. OR YOU DON`T TIDE UP YOUR ROOM VERY WELL, THERE MIGHT BE A SMELL OF URINE IN YOUR ROOM SINCE YOU START BEARING CHILD OR
4. HE OVER WORKS HIMSELF AND WHEN HE COMES BACK AT NIGHT INSTEAD HAVING A GOOD SLEEP THE CRY OF THE KIDS DISTURBS HIM
INFACT SIT HIM DOWN AND FIND OUT THE PROBLEM, YOU ARE A WOMAN USE YOUR POWER OF WOMAN

not funny

aisha2:
You wan give me husband?
My dear, am no expert oh, i am a social worker and i see the effects of cheating on a marriage and the kids. I also used to be a HIV testing counselor and i have seen the physical implications of cheating on a marriage. Some times, women come in confident for a pregnancy and normal antenetal HCT counseling only to realise that they have been infected by thier husbands and the husbands refuse to come get help till its too late.
Its really sad the psychological torture i see women go thruogh in my feild of work and the audacity of the men who do not understand the marriage vows they take. If you want to be a player, then stay and play, at least you will be using a condom then but what i dont understand is why you take a woman and fustrate her life by humulating her through cheating and then have be stupid enough to shift the blame on her.
@pennywise,
The reason for my lecture is that
1, He is my collegue and we are a bit free with each other, we dont work in the same office we just work in the same field
2. he is a social worker too and so he should know better, we have handled cases where kids have to be taken to an orphanage because Daddy decided to be foolish with not only his life but with mommys life too and they both die leaving kids behind
3. We have also handled custdoy battles between couples and we see how the sweet looking couple turn to complete enemies as a result of infedelity

most social workers need their own social worker. we never had social workers when we were mostly illeterates.
i am not a great fan of naija men. i believe some women in our society dont know the consequences of sleeping with these foetus we call men.

Pennywise:
@Sisi jinx,
One simple sentence from pennywise and you are having multiple orgasms already

Pennywise:
Sorry JJYOU I cant comment on your response because I dont know the direction you are heading.Are you a friend or foe.

too many foolish undeveloped foetus walking the shores of naija

they are your parents not your enemies. go out of your way and be nice to them. let them know you dont mean them no harm or intend bringing shame.

you are better having parental blessings dont let nobody deceive you. i wish your inlaws would adopt you as theirs but my experience is that not having your parents backing you makes you vulnerable in a relationship.

you are still young if it takes the next year being the best child of your parents go ahead and get what you want.

hope the man deserves all this agro? dont run off with a man that would send you packing soon. your loss would be too much. you still have opportunity to redeem this situation

Pennywise:
All you need to tell him is that you are not interested in going out with him rather than spend 2hrs pontificating on his marriage.Some guys are really daft. I cant believe he spent all that time listening to you over a yes or a no matter.In any case if he had common sense he wont ask a workplace colleague out.

It is amusing sometimes the way some girls elevate themselves to a pedestal and appropriate undeserved social reckoning even comparing self to madam because the man chose to make a fool of himself.

too many fools around

ok most girls in naija tell lies what if she is telling the truth?
make sure she is not telling fibs.

miscarraige affects women more than you know. be very careful with her my brother.

aisha2:
Woman, dont torture yourself psychologically, You have done nothing wrong its not your fault, you have given him four lovely children, if he cheats on you, its his loss. Dont let anyone tell you its your fault.
I am single but i can tell you many married men have serious issues. When they ask you out and you refuse citing their marraige as an issue, they look at you as if you are crazy because you remind them of their marriage vows. They feel they have immunity to cheat, i dont know why. Then on top of it they have the audacity to blame their cheating ways on their wives. I spent over 2 hrs yesterday lecturing a married collegue on why he should work to make his marriage work. He keeps chasing chicks, and he asked me out and i asked him why he doesnt respect his marrige vows, he told me his wife has gotten fat, i told him to register with his wife in a gym and do so nicely instead of berating her and hurting her.
What am i trying to say: Marriage is work, and men need to know that both of them need to work to make their marrige a success, its not the womans job to make the marriage work its a collective issue. In am tired of men not wanting to take any responsibilty.

i am so glad we still have a few of you in that blessed country. it is so good you can say NO sadly majority of the ladies dont  or cant say no.  they actively flirt and encourage the mostly pot belle idiots as if their lives depends on imorality. this is why most men think you are strange ie the odd one out. this is mostly where the moral bankruptcy of being nigerian raise its ugly head. like i always say the naija woman is as bad as the naija man. they are in competition to out do one  another.

[size=18pt]marraige is not just work but a very hard work that is well worth it
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keep it up. dont join  everybody is doing it gang. it is never worth it.

amebo

why she go cope?

living under d same roof wt a man u love and d father of ur kids,and in the 365 days we have in a yr,he makes love to me only twice?plssss smtimes sex can be food,cos wtout it done in d home,there is no satisfaction and dat home is not complete

this shows dat the man has a babe outside,else he wouldnt be able to cope too

talk about having sex  not making love.  twisted minds like these are not capable of making love.  the seed they create in the process produce another generation of hateful young men and women in the society.

may God help this woman

spoilt:
sex just twice a year and only at his instigation? 
you must be miserable.

there is more to life than sex people.  we must not empower people to the point they control and determine our happiness.

@ OP, wait for osisi and co and lets see how you survive. you dont have something better doing?

Jiokeh:
I'm breaking the news to her today. She called to tell me she'd be coming to the house. I'll let u guys into what went down. Ha ha, today is the Hang man's day. Its painful though cos I still love her silly. I just hope I'd be able to do it.

wicked man. you wan break my sister heart you say you wan break news. which kind news?. i beg make you leave her jeje for another man to meet in peace. hope you find peace to treat her right.
i think i like you for seeking counsel and being calm.

wish you luck