₦airaland Forum

Catholic church is like a big market, the absence of one person is not noticed.

AAA593:
Abuja cabals will never ever do that

That would be easier to achieve than UTAS! Would you rather all unions in the country start coming up with different payment platforms and going on strikes to get the government accept such platforms That would create a lot chaos.

AAA593:
Fraudulent ke. ASUU cannot receive better pay with Ippis. Ippis will do illegal deductions and tax deductions

I believe that domesticating IPPIS in the universities and having ASUU monitor its operations would solve the problem of undue deductions and reduce the stress of lecturers having to travel to Abuja sort out issues with payments.

I just hope ASUU excos are thinking properly!

From the way the payment platform issue is going, it is looking like an impossible task for ASUU to insist on UTAS. Already, SSANU has developed another platform which they called U3P or whatever. Very soon other unions will start coming up with their own platforms thereby defeating the noble purpose of IPPIS. No leader would want to be in that situation!

ASUU should please, in the interest of students, stop this insistence on UTAS. Instead, let them work with the FG to domesticate IPPIS in the various universities in order to help monitor the platform and curtail the bottlenecks in IPPIS.

Let them strive to always fight a just fight and not a fight that would create chaos in the polity. If they've been able to negotiate better pay with the Brigg's committee, let them forget UTAS and work on improving IPPIS, otherwise, they maybe giving Nigerians the impression that they have another fraudulent agenda with the UTAS platform.

NOETHNICITY:
I don't like what is happening to this man. He did what every other person would do to help his or her child in need

Nonsense!

He did what every person would do by looting Nigerian treasury and wanting to use it to save his own at the detriment of poor Nigerians who cannot even afford quality treatment for malaria let alone kidney transplant!?? And to make matters worse, he wanted to exploit another deprived Nigerian child in a manner akin to killing the child to save his own!

You selfish lots are the reason why Nigeria has remained underdeveloped. It's always about your selfish ends! Not thinking about how to create a better society through selflessness!

The day Nigerians begin to think beyond their immediate selfish needs to consider the needs of the generality of Nigerians, that is the day Nigeria would be on the path of development. If Ekweremmadu in his 20years of being in the senate had thought beyond his nose to see the need for a functional healthcare system in Nigeria, he would have built one that would not only benefit him and his family, but serve the healthcare needs of the rest of us. And by so doing, he wouldn't have been in this mess.

I have no pity for Ekweremmadu and other corrupt and selfish Nigerian politicians.

BigBashiru:
Females that are 21 - 25 years old are not ready to settle down.... this is the harsh truth. This is for a number of reasons:

1. Still a lot of options as guys flock and approach her everyday.
2. Still thinking she has a lot of time.
3. Her parents "wanting her to finish school"
4. Her parents thinking she is still too young etc.
5. Still thinking she can get a better man.

21-25 year olds are girlfriends not wives....

Guy you're wrong! Y'all should stop with your generalisation. Many ladies even in their 18-20yo are ready for marriage! While many in their 30s ain't even ready. My elder brother's wife was 20 when they got married and they are still together and enjoying their marriage. I know many other examples. It's about individual differences dictated by factors like culture, religion, exposure and family background!

Ogamysamo:
your answer is yes-its a thing of the heart which means not all ladies can do it but that doesn't none of them can do it.

still on still a responsible guy should not depend on his girlfriend to cater for him.

didn't he has family? didn't he has friends?

the lady can't assist him sha but to some extend

NB: from the chat sha i believe dude is just trying to collect some part of what he had spent on her before letting the cat out of the bag if not... i don't know what else to say but the 150k monthly bill is just something else you dey work for her?

Do you know how much the guy was giving her when he was working I'm not encouraging any guy to depend on his woman but the selfishness of that gender is just too much! Somebody who might have enjoyed millions of the guy's money is now complaining because of few months the guy has depended on her for up keeps.

Guys! Wise up and stop seeing women you are dating as your responsibilities. They also want the same thing (or even more) from the relationship, so why should you be the one doling out the money In this generation, sexual relationship should be symbiotic not parasitic.

I feel so ashamed of myself whenever I remember what I did that time. Crying, kneeling and begging one yeye girl that's not even my match in anything. Just because my mother was involved in linking her to me, I lost all guards and fell in love with her. Not knowing that she was busy planning marriage with another guy.

But it's good I had that experience. It taught me that ladies are really not as innocent as I had thought prior to that incident. It made me understand how selfish and vile ladies can be when it comes to the issue of relationship with men.

The way they'll turn against you and show you no iota of mercy once they want to leave ehn. You'll begin to rack your brain in search of where you offended her. The same lady you've shown nothing but pure love would turn so cold towards you like you're her worst enemy in the whole universe. Fear women!

Who knows the sort of slavery that boy was subjected to in the hands of the Ekweremmadus before he ran to the authorities.

The political class in Nigeria see the ordinary Nigerians as slaves, hence they unleash all manner of inhuman treatment on Nigerians.

If that boy wasn't treated badly, he wouldn't have reported.

When Nigerians understand that we are differently wired at the micromolecular levels and that such micromolecular differences influence us greatly at the macromolecular levels, that is when they'll begin to appreciate humanity better.

Just like you have tall, short, dark, fair etc, we also differ in the amounts and functioning of the different biochemicals, and also physiological processes that make up life. That explains why some people easily cry while others hardly do. While some people are homosexual while others are hetero or asexual.

So op, your gf might not be a witch but might just have poorly functioning tear glands.

Is it not enough that you raped the poor child of the resources that would have been used to see to her welfare in Nigeria Now you want to harvest stem cells from the child's vital organs to prolong your life thereby possibly ending the life of the child.

How wicked can Nigerian politicians be

ASUU strike has claimed the life of another unfortunate student. Count the number of students that have died since the strike started and perhaps then you'll appreciate the tragedy this incessant ASUU strikes represents.

If these youths had remained in class they wouldn't have met their untimely deaths!

I share the same view. The greatest beneficiary of the Peter Obi candidacy might be Tinubu and that would be too bad because when Tinubu who is a Muslim rules for 8years, he'll return power to the north and to another Muslim. The result is that it'll take donkey years before power gets to a Christian or to Igbos.

But if Atiku wins, he'll spend 8years maximum and return power to a southern Christian. That'll be sooner than waiting for Tinubu and the Muslim northerner that would come after him.

If southeast and south south vote for Obi, it'll significantly cut down votes that would have gone to Atiku from the two regions and if Tinubu scores more votes in the north, he'll coast to victory because southwest is already on lockdown for him.

Labor party lacks the requisite structures to win this presidential election and I hope our people realize that and vote PDP and Atiku instead.

bigpicture001:
Try grow sense...no kind of excuse should b the reason a public servant would insult an aplicant like that....soludo the failure has started so badly..that woman shld be sacked or suspended......

Do u know no single teacher in DAT state would be encouraged to ever confront her in issues bodering in school...

Sh had a choice to reject appointment nd ride in Ego..but no, sh want to b public figure nd go through the crowd without her clothes being touched by the multitude...

Nonsense!

You are the one who should grow some sense!

Why would the applicant call the commissioner in the first place When instructions are already laid out on the conduct of the exercise? Perhaps the applicant was too daft to understand the instructions as spelt out yet she's applying to teach? Someone who couldn't understand instructions wants to be a teacher? And she wasn't even polite but resorted to using foul language on the commissioner!

Sentiments aside, that applicant needs to undergo some mental examination before she can be allowed to progress in the employment process i.e if she still stands any further chances of being employed. Those are the type that would flog people's children to death if they become teachers. Cases of those insane teachers that flogged some kids to death in Lagos and Delta should serve as warnings.

Reminds me of that saying "when Warsaw saw war, they war no more!"

That's a good one from Mr governor. The new coordinated wholesale center will make it easy to regulate the activities of merchants of death among the drug dealers.

The current environment is not healthy for drug distribution.

Kudos to the governor! That's why it is good to have a learned man as leader.

Op, the problem permeates every profession in Nigeria! Our leaders are mostly illiterates who can't think properly to see the dangerous effects of quackery and how it contributes to low life expectancy in the country.

Just take the health sector as another instance. Only in Nigeria are school drop outs forming associations (NAPMED or what are they called sef) and parading themselves as "doctors" and administering all manner of drugs to ignorant Nigerians. Tell me why our lifespan will not be low with such quackery in our health sector?!

Check out countries like Ghana, they don't have such practices as patent medicine dealers! They have only qualified pharmacists dispensing drugs. That's a country with sound minds as leaders!

Why do we even send people to schools to go and study those professional courses when we cannot thoroughly checkmate quackery in those professions? Why not just allow everybody become quacks so we can outrightly kill ourselves!

Op is obviously a learner. He shouldn't have gone back to that girl. He just gave the girl the opportunity to prepare her heart and do the dumping herself.

As a guy man, once you have made up your mind to break up, do it without looking back!

And some people believed this story??!!

Even if the demands are for improvement of lecturers welfare alone, it is still a legitimate demand if ASUU could find another way of going about it than strikes.

The whole strike thing is a direct punishment on the students as they're made to spend donkey years in school with extra expenditures. That is outside the psychological tortures they're subjected to. Then at the end of the strikes, the lecturers would still not try to ameliorate the impacts of the strikes on students in any way.

I wish ASUU could device another means of getting their demands met without resorting to strikes. I also wish we could have sound minds as leaders who would not wait before doing what's right in our universities!

FlipModeSquade:
Yeah?
He is an Igbo when it suits his purpose and an Ika when it doesn't..

Okowa has never denied being Igbo.

There's no doubt about that, sir. Only haters and mischief makers say otherwise.

To all of you cussing at the poor lad, remember we're differently wired by nature! Some people have weak hearts by nature.


He should have managed it better by opening up to many people in his circle and get helped to overcome the heartbreak

RIP to the guy!

The spiritual realm is a reality! That force which keeps alive and active is immortal. Call it quanta of energy or soul, you are right. Your consciousness is embedded in that. Your brain serves as a link between your physical self and your spiritual self.

While some people have be guided to master how to switch between the two realities, others experience it by using drugs to significantly influence their brains. Some in the process become mad!

We continue to reveal these things to you but some will never believe. Coming from an ex skeptic

It's a pity that this lass had her life cut short in this manner. However, I'll state that this is the result of greediness the female gender are now known for.

The more you ladies broke shame guys and monetize sexual relationships, the more some guys will indulge in killing your gender for money.

If you like come on social media and post rubbish about how you cannot marry a man earning less than 200k a week, or how only men using rolls roys wet your pvssy, your gender will continue to suffer am.

Greedy lots!


Anyways, RIP to the dead.

Thank you op for this write up.

That mindset is honestly one of the reasons I'm beginning to hate the female folk! Placing so much demands and expectations on a guy even when they have equal or even better opportunities to financial success.

Even in the days past when women had less opportunities, the demands were not this much on their men. They made do with whatever their men were able to provide. But nowadays, with all the women empowerment programs and higher job opportunities women enjoy, they have become even greedier than their forebears. No wonder many guys have taken to crime in order to meet up.

You see a lady from a wretched home whose father has nothing to his name, making unrealistic demands from men! Tell me why men would be eager to marry

With the way they're going, I think I'm beginning to align with some the believes of the Taliban in Afghanistan who understand the uselessness of the so called women emancipation, hence have sent their women home from schools and work places. Women empowerment in this part of the world destroy the family system! Unless women agree to go back home and take their positions in the kitchen and bedrooms, they have no justification to place all those demands on men.

If they like let them not change their mindsets, they're the ones who would later start singing "Carry me dey go my husband house". Yeye gender!

Nice one


Kudos to the priest!

That's a nice one!

Good that they're now waking from their slumbers

That's a nice one by the pastor!

Nigerian Christians should wake up from their slumber before the bloody Islamic fanatics repeat the history of Elexandra Egypt and Turkey here in Nigeria.

Even the Bible made it clear that the kingdom of God suffereth violence and only the violent shall take it by force.

Any man who has the money is very free to ACQUIRE as many women as he wants. After all, no Nigerian lady deserves fidelity from a man because marriage is a poverty alleviation program to them.

If most Nigerian ladies would not marry a man who isn't financially well off, there's absolutely no reason why a wealthy man should sacrifice his desire for prettier ladies just to please his greedy wife.


Happy birthday to the cute boy

dominique:
I'm 100% certain that a poor man did this to her, rich men are not this crude and barbaric. Broke men are angry, bitter, frustrated and very prone to violence. Most of them free up in dysfunctional homes where violence is the norm.

Ladies don't let any broke man guilt trip you into sticking with a poor man because a rich man won't treat you right. You're more likely to lose your life to a poor man due to violence than a well-to-do man like this lady in the op.
.

Guys too should be wise and stop getting married to broke ladies! Financial issues should be a priority to any man getting married in this days and age.

With the women empowerment and more women getting jobs these days, couples should be able to make 50-50 contributions to home finances.

The era when men worked their asses off while their wives stayed home to milk their husbands to death is over!

Guys should never settle for broke ladies! Any lady who doesn't want to work hard and bring equal amount of cash like their men for maintenance of their homes shouldn't even think about marriage. Las las we go know who go begin sing "carry me dey my husband house".

Op, I think in the same line with you. But I believe that Wike is too radical and might not be accepted by the north. I think Atiku should pick Okowa as running mate while Wike (if still possible) should go to senate and be projected for senate presidency.

A vote for Obi is a wasted vote and would rather weaken the PDP and pave the way for another APC misrule. My Igbo brethren should be wise and support Atiku once again because he will most likely help to actualize the much needed Igbo presidency.