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Op, did you run a thorough background checks on your wife's family before marriage? Is your daughter's condition hereditary? If yes, I suspect your wife is using reverse psychology on you to shift attention and blames from her own side, especially if you're a big catch for her. I might be wrong though, but it's possible.

None, please!

Say no to addictions!

Premiumwriter:
When I read stories like this I get depressed.

Not about the people in the story but about my own girl. She's sweet and innocent.

But What if after everything we've done together and I fell out of love with her? What if after all the promises, things don't work out?

I know the sacrifices that girl has made including her religion.

Can't imagine how the op's girl must be feeling right now. 3 abortions, countless sex to please and still lost the man.

This is why I find it hard to hate on women even as a redpiller. The game of life is hard on everyone

She wasn't having the countless sex just to please the op. She wanted sex as much as op did. She's not a baby!

Another long throated gold digger has jumped in to replace the old one. Later they'll want us to sympathize with them when they get dumped.

Mumu people!

Igbira boys are too stubborn! I'm sure the guy must have really provoked the policeman. But that's not enough reason to pull the trigger on him. The policeman should have used some physical combat instead of shooting.

I don't know whether our policemen are not trained on physical combats or what. Always resorting to shooting!

All you have written are not in tandem with what WE SEE happening in the real world.

So, I'm not convinced!

You're a devil for even contemplating such. We're talking about your blood sister here o!

Why would you wanna backstab your own sister It's unfair and would create permanent enmity between you two. It will tear your family apart!


Don't do it!

Growing up in my village in Enugu, we heard stories of men who disappeared without traces leaving their families mourning and devastated. Man's inhumanity to man!

Welcome home, great warriors!

All women are basically the same as far as relationship with men is concerned. Whether educated or not. They are the same!

So, why should I be insistent on marrying only the so called educated when she's most likely not gonna be any different? Chances are even higher to get better deals with the so called uneducated ones.

Fools that can't reason properly! Starving millions of Igbos and destroying businesses because of one man who's feeding fat in DSS custody and will eventually be released to partake in the Nigerian politics and government.


Keep destroying the Igbo nation!

I don't support FGM for whatever reason.

Gerrard59:
At your signature: If Nigeria does not divide by the end of this decade, she will be Islamised before 2050.

Honestly, it is looking like the 'Islamization' is gonna happen. Quite unfortunate!

Glycolite:
"Mature ladies" is another word use by the gullible to think the older a woman is,the more respectful and loving she is.
Another sentence use to sugarcoat most of this ladies waywardness and terrible chioces when they were younger,hot and attention is coming their ways from every corner of the street,which they think will continue forever since they think they are the "big catch".
As they get older ,they now realized that all the attentions have drastically reduced,and men are finding it difficult creating long term commitment plans with them,and men are going for younger women,they will start playing the "I' a mature lady now and I now know what I want" bullshit card.
Men that could see through their manipulation,they will start shaming them and telling those who cares to listen how younger girls are not good for serious commitment brouhaha.

Most of this ladies in their 30s that didn't get men to commit with them in the long term that now hid under the umbrella of "mature ladies",there are reasons men don't take them serious anymore,and you should be blaming the ladies not trying hard to shame men that are not ready to put up with the baggage of thier past .

@Oldienavie

[ This post might also help you to understand this "mature ladies" trash the society feeds the gullible]

Don't just mind them and their "mature lady" nonsense!

Take a look at most marriages having problems today. A great majority of them involve the so called "matured ladies". Same matured ladies are the ones cheating on their husbands with their exes. They're the ones who challenge their husbands and nag them like babies because, of course they consider themselves " matured ".

If people want men to pity the old ladies and marry them, they should come out clean and beg on their behalves. Not telling loads of lies and trying to trick people into settling for less based on some non existent maturity!

remsonik:
What goes around, comes around. Look for the younger ones and when you grow old that you're down she starts flirting around and you face a lot of dramas that you can't fight. No one to cleanse you, no one to keep your company, help take care of you, feed you or even fulfill your sexual urges that will only come once in a month. Your balls are weak and can't produce good sperm for a child and she brings in children from another man into your home which you cater for unknowingly

Typing rubbish as usual! As if women of any age cares about taking care of their aged husbands!

I pity those who allow themselves to be deceived by the biased comments from your ilks here.

Any man who wants to be honest with himself will agree that women offer little to a man in marriage aside procreation. If that's the case, it is much better for a man to go for younger girls who stand better chances of birthing his offsprings.

Older women with loads of exes and high body counts are more prone to cheating! Get that into your head!

hammer567:
PRECIOUS IS STILL THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THE APE FACE EVER MARRIED.


HE SHOULD GO AND THANK GOD FOR ONE NIGERIA, ELSE, THAT WOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN POSSIBLE IN THIS LIFE AND THE NEXT.



AFONJA!

Stop typing jargon due to your tribal bigotry!

I'm Igbo but that precious of a wh0re is nothing but an opportunistic parasite! She thought it would be easy for her to hold down and dominate FFK and his wealth. Such a dreamer she was!

Op your own don too much o


Me I know I hate other women outside, but you see my mom and sisters? I can kill for them!

I believe women are better off as mothers and sisters, not as wives or girlfriends.

Misterone:
it is normal and natural that every human being must sow his or her wild oats. it is a phase in our human lives, a time when we explore either secretly or openly. we pray that our wives don't do it in our houses but in their father's house. so if you like decieve yourself. bad attitude does not only mean having sex before marriage. it means other things too. I have seen a virgin girl that is more corrupt character wise than lebechi the witch.

So, in your mind you think a lady who was promiscuous at younger age would change as she gets older Old age hardly brings changes in behavior in women! That's the point you fail to understand! There's no basis to marry an older lady on the grounds that she'll be better behaved on account of her age!

If she's promiscuous, she'll still be fvcking her exes and other men under your roof! If she nags a lot, age would not stop her from nagging. That's a proven fact.

Whilst there are many young girls with good upbringing who are still virgins and would be loyal and faithful to you with all her life. Not everybody, especially girls, enjoy sowing wild oat like you put it.

Olayetan:
Op, for you to even have this thought, I wouldn't advise you to go for the 32yr old lady, if you go ahead to marry her, you may regret you didn't follow what your mind thought.

Chances of you getting a younger lady is high with that quality but have it in mind to face some infantile behavior from her...

You people exaggerate the so called infantile behavior! Read through posts on this forum from the supposedly matured ladies, you'll find out that many of them are worse than the younger girls you like to underrate.

Ladies attitudes boil down largely to upbringing. There are many younger girls who are better behaved than the older ladies.

Das1mama:
Pls o i want to know if it's a sign of a Redpiller, when dis kind of news come from 'femails' i feel good? cos if is a man they will say he's a Simp but what should we call this act from a female? strictly answers from a Redpiller.

"Simpress"

pocohantas:
It is not even about my age, but that I see nothing wrong in getting OLD. In fact, I love old age. Old age gave me firmer legs, thick highs and big bumbum! When I was younger, I was straight as a ruler.

I am now more organized and my sixth sense is very active. I see the end from the beginning.

Even at my age, when I go to fast foods, young girls with perky agbalumo breast would be stealing stares at me. There is this confidence, charisma and swag that comes with old age. Old age really favoured me. Thank God my man met me in my old age.

OK o...happy old age!

pocohantas:
Is this supposed to be an insult? When will you guys get it that I am a premium evening newspaper?

Some of your mates are dead, why are you still alive? Or should a car knock you down today and slam that your coconut head against the sidewalk?

You ehn

You know I apologized to you the other day because of something you did when I sounded harshly to you that got me feeling guilty, today you wanted to do the opposite. But it's OK.

I know say you be sweet sixteen, so no mind me!

pocohantas:
Oh you care. You really do care and it is evident in your outburst. I have not advised OP not to take a younger girl, so slow down before you induce a cardiac arrest on yourself.

Care to share one rubbish I spewed, hopefully you can get something right in your lifetime.

Evening newspaper!

I wonder what you have gotten right in your life when you're still roaming about streets of Lagos looking for a man to carry your burdens when your mates are already building good homes and even expecting their grand children!

Yeye woman!

Raalsalghul:
Exactly! And the truth is that men are guilty of this too so I'll chalk it up to the society as a whole.

To buttress my point go through below thread: the lady isn't clearly Op's class but they all shamed him into dating her: majorly men.

https://www.nairaland.com/6928910/how-peacefully-end-relationship-gf

The thing is very annoying!

I think guys should stop seeking opinions from random people about who they want to be with. They should just go for what they want and damn what people have to say about their choices.

pocohantas:
You actually shame women for making their choices. You call them olosho and gold-digger. Don’t get all emotional and act like you have any bit of civility for women who do not desire you. Please shut up and sit.

Honestly, I don't care a hoot about the choices of men ladies make!

What annoys me is the kind of rubbish people like you spew when a guy states his own preferences in women. A guy is free to desire even a teenage girl who's within legal age of consent. Evening newspapers like yourself should not turn overnight relationship counselors when a guy wants a younger girl. Period!

BigBashiru:
Wen a women states what she wants, "she knows what she wants". But wen a man does the same, he is "age shaming" the woman.

Look a 36 yo has moni and hopefully of good character- so he should be able to attract what he wants in thr market for marriage.

Don't just mind those yeye evening newspapers!

When a man makes his choice, he's "age-shaming" women or "unrefined despite studying abroad". But a woman is free to make her own choices without being called names. Such double standard!

Misterone:
you said you are traditional. if you want respect, peace of mind and authority over and in your marriage, go for the 32 years old. but if you want your heart beat to be racing up and down like a Ferrari sport car, then go for a younger girl. the older woman has seen life. she knows what it takes to get a boyfriend not to talk of a husband. she would respect and value you but the younger woman would still want to explore no matter how christian she is. she will test you to your limits. if you cannot cope then sorry is your middle name.

This is nonsense generalization! Not every young girl in her prime has bad attitudes. As a matter of fact, there are many of such girls who are better behaved than some evening newspapers

Chances are high that the 32yo woman is just pretending and forming good girl just to trap a niggar, knowing that age is not on her side.

Op, go for a younger girl! It is better to marry a younger girl and stand higher chances of birthing healthy children than marrying an older woman only to start doing TTC. Even if the younger girl turns out bad, provided you're able to sire your offsprings through her. Church dismissed!

ghostboy:
because your mother is a wh0re does not mean you should call other women "wh0res", dont you think?

Foolish son of a cheap wh0re telling us how wh0rish his mother is.

We all know you were born in a brothel, and that you don't know whom your father is from among your mothers numerous customers! Son of a #500 ashaw0!

ghostboy:
stop spreading hate against women on a faceless forum cause your mother has once done most of the things you condemn about women. Preaching "redpill" is different form preaching "hate".
Anyboby both male and females can be manipulative, so don't act like females are the only demons we'd come across in our day to day lives.
I believe you even do all these things cause it's a faceless forum and you know you can't be held accountable for your hateful posts against women

Captain save a wh0re!

When the truths about women are revealed, Simps like you call call them hate.

In your mind now, you're the " mature man"! What delusion!

chatinent:
The hate tho.

Unu zukwanuike

What rubbish hate are you referring to That op complained for being falsely accused by the idiotic lady What nonsense!

@op, even here on nairaland, the bias against men is very obvious. Ladies here make posts against men on a daily, they brag about how they turned down men or used and dumped men and everybody hails them for that. They're encouraged not to settle for less and all, yet when a guy is the one making such posts, he's called a hater, misogynist and other unprintable names.

The most annoying ones are the guys who encourage such biases against their fellow men. They expect you to be a "real man" by sitting back and absorbing whatever bullsh1t thrown at you by the female gender. "Real men" kii them dia! I hate such men who always wanna form "real man" by taking sh1t from women with passion! They disgust me!

Op, God bless you for standing up for that little girl. You're wise and a beautiful soul. We need more of your kind in this country who stand for the truth no matter whose ox is gored!

Please report that mother of yours to the nearest police station and have them rescue the girl.

That is why many men are addicted to alcohol and other substances because they help them suppress those annoying emotions. Without these substances, many men would be wailing like babies on the streets due to the struggles of being a man.