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Datboredberry:
Mist women don't want to date a man with a potbelly, it's normal... And perfectly ok...

Same way most men would prefer fairer girls... Or those with bigger boobs and asses...

Rejecting the advances of someone you're not attracted to is one thing... Openly condemning them is another...

Women say, "I won't date a man who's short".. they rarely single out a man to criticize... Unlike men who would download an image of a woman just to highlight her flaws...

I've met guys who are into plus size women... I never complain... But if one decides to deliberately hurt me for the sake that I'm not his 'type' then I would call him out...

A woman with strechmarks turns you off... It's alright... But don't say to her that she's ugly...

It's of no benefit to you... Which just makes your actions unnecessarily cruel.

Sorry, I don't tell lies. If a lady is ugly, I'll simply tell her to her face that she's ugly. No need sugar coating it

Datboredberry:
Ugliness? I see a natural woman... If you would prefer her edited... That's cool.

I've learnt to appreciate flaws... It makes the real... And in a way, beautiful...

A flawless skin, perfect curves...none of that is possible...

If you think she's not beautiful, that's your personal opinion that you mustn't share...

Delibrately hurting another person is low and inconsiderate and it makes you a horrible person.

Women don't body shame men... It's the other way round...

Women do broke-shame men... But that's a topic for another day...

Do women complain that a man's ass isn't shaped a certain way? Or that his forehead is too high or low? Or his hair isn't the perfect texture?

Don't be silly.

Many ladies do body shame men and you know that. I have heard many ladies body shame guys for having pot bellies, being short or having one bodily fault or the other. Many of them have rejected love advances from men on account of one bodily fault or another. When they do that, no body calls them out for that but once the table is turned, they cry blue murder.

Datboredberry:
The future is insecure... It's horrible that most of you think it's funny but what did I expect from such narrow minded men?

So many women look in the mirror and see themselves as ugly... Even though they aren't... And cruel people like you do not help but give these women reasons to hate themselves more!

You might have a lovely daughter... Try telling her that she's beautiful... It would hurt that she might not believe you. Even your mother or sisters or the women you've dated...

A little sensitivity goes a long way... For one positive feedback, you could be the light in someone elses world.

Nonsense! So we should go about deceiving ladies that they're beautiful even when they're ugliness personified Many of you ladies are good at body shaming guys but can't take it when you're told how ugly you are.

There are some funds generating agencies that shouldn't wait for government approval to employ workers eg All tertiary hospitals, NAFDAC, NHIS, SON etc. These agencies are self sustaining and not like those that wait for funds from government, yet they hardly recruit and I wonder why?!

The truth is that if I was to be the one in charge of giving out this award, it'll be hard for me not to hand it to Messi over and over again. I too like gentle and selfless guys like Messi.

Martinez39s:
There is no excuse for replying females, I grant that. CaveAdullam didn't really want to give her attention and he never felt the need to procure her attention. He simply wanted to distil a useful and beneficial truth from the post of the troll, but he went about it the wrong way. There were better ways to point out the truth he wanted us to notice (the truth of the illusion of control that women play) instead of mentioning that female: he could have just written a new post discussing the illusion of control and he could, though not necessary, have made vague allusions to the post that motivated his write-up instead of mentioning the female. He could have also written how he thought the red pill benefited both genders without mentioning the female or alluding to her post.

Nobody is infallible, and I wouldn't want this moment to be used as a reflection of CaveAdullam's red pill practice in real life. To err is human.

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By the way, the clever plot to elicit a response from redpillers is fully alive now. Redpillers, take note; it's all a trap. Forget about the facade and veneer of open-mindedness and readiness to righteously discuss and learn: that is nothing new here and it is all lies. Stay strong.

Lol...it's very glaring that those ladies are making frantic efforts to elicit exchange of words with redpillers here. Unfortunately some guys fell for it. They started by making some guys feel like they're the better redpillers. Now, they're also playing the "bitterpillers" card to get some guys react to them. It's all a mind game.

I don laff tire here

federal9:
It could be group beating tagged as cultist.

Let us know how to report news in the right way.

Is it that you don't know that cultism now permeate even our expensive private schools?

WibusJaga:


Congrats to her. & good for motivational speakers.
But I'll prefer bagging my 1st Class without being expelled at 400 level (wasting 4yrs)

Though I'm not encouraging people to do wrong and get expelled, but sometimes certain experiences are needed to put some people on the right footing.

At least the experience made her realize that she wasn't supposed to exchange any information with another student in an examination hall. Some people hated me in my class for that reason because they failed to see the bigger picture of why I was right for not asking for or giving out information in exam halls.


Congrats to the lady.

Ehmmah588:
Mine happened in a very wicked way and it still gives me a serious phobia of leaving money in my account... Some weeks back,I hard to go for a concert in Festac.And as a guest minister,I took my singers and instrumentalists with me...We got there and did our thing. Towards the end of the program,I just felt like checking my account balance cos the cash I had on me wasn't enough to take us home.Can you believe that my account was empty!!!...I nearly ran mad cos the money was sent by the organizers to assist us with tfare to and fro the venue.....Ah,I was just thinking of how we should start the trekking back home (Atbara,and some stay at badagry)can you believe that??!??

Chai! That was too bad.

MufasaLion:
You pity someone that allegedly committed a premeditated murder? Don't be too emotional, nigga!

My guy, I'm trying hard to kill every bit of emotion in me but no luck yet with that.

Westchester:
Same here, I don't understand that Bank to be honest, I usually leave some money from the substantial amount for charges, but still yet they'll take it and still take money out of the main money, how can #380 just disappear out of nowhere in a day

The thing is too much!

Mine was about #460 just last week and this week again, #200 has disappeared from my account again. These monies may seem small, but assuming it's one crooked UBA staff that's doing that to customers accounts, you can imagine how much the idiot would end up making from such withdrawals.

It seriously calls for urgent actions!

ChizzyBuna:
Go to the North, you can buy it very easily and cheap. Here in mende Maryland it is so easy to get.
Many Agberos take it daily. It's not a new thing. It is the reality of the streets. Whether online or offline it won't stop 100 of thousands from doing it.
I come in peace

And you had to lie that a Pharmacist gave it to you! I don't blame you, I blame regulatory bodies that fail to do their jobs, hence having many quacks claim pharmacists while selling controlled drugs and leading people to their early graves.

UBA has been debiting my account in a way that is very suspicious!

I'll soon go and make serious trouble with them.


Thieves! Pretending to be bankers!!!

Itohanmiwa:
Don't worry people. There's only one great ife in the universe. If you can graduate successfully from oau your brain go tell you. Because he go humble and reconfigure you again. They just don't operate garbage in garbage but rather force you to think critically. I am a living witness. That being said congrats my guy. Graduating with a first class is no easy feat.

That guy is still far better than many OAU graduates.

chatinent:
Quantity Surveying? ...in Nigeria?

Quantity surveying and building tech is still a good one! Those guys are never out of jobs. It's better we have them doing our building projects than some quacks that would building rubbish for us.

I don't know why I always pity this girl. What kind of devil really pushed her into this mess Mtcheeww.

I just pray she's given a second chance at life because I know she'll do better if given another chance. Sentence her, but not to death abeg.

Machidon:
Chemist.

Go and learn tailoring. What you call "Chemists" are quacks and they're about to be phased out. Drugs are poisons and are not meant to be sold anyhow without training.

Before now, Nigeria had fewer pharmacists and that was why those patent medicine guys were allowed to deal on some few medicine. But now, more universities are training pharmacists and very soon the "chemist" people will be phased out.

So, unless you have the brain to go study pharmacy and get licensed to practice pharmacy, it'll be better for you to go tailoring.

Pharmacy is highly regulated and it is for professionals.

Bolarineliza202:
Well, we women posses this egostical feeling whenever we are on top (not all women though),and we mostly feel superior to anyone below us
I guess this attitude was provided by nature.

Even if you have to have that feeling of superiority against your man on account of your superior financial powers, control it in such a way that you don't humiliate him totally. I think where many ladies get it wrong is that they think it is OUT OF PLACE for them to out earn their men. That feeling is what makes them to develop resentments for their men, and believe me, once that resentment comes in, it is a big problem because nothing the man does will please the lady. Even if the man does ALL the chores in the house, madam will still not be happy.

I'm responding to this matter not on personal grounds because I have already made up my mind on the kind of marriage I may be considering. But in this time and age, more ladies are bound to marry men whom they are richer than. I have like three cases of this nature affecting people I know very well right now. The ladies work with FG parastatals while their husbands are under employed. All the ladies show that same attribute of not being happy to be the family's financial backbones. Even seeing their men eat in the same house becomes a very big problem no matter how hard the men try in the home front to make their working wives happy.

Unless we want to totally destroy family system, that trend needs to stop. Ladies need to decide whether it is best we withdraw all our girl children from schools while educating and employing only the males or have them educated and employed but with an understanding that it is not a bad thing for them to shoulder their family financial responsibilities.

I have heard many working class ladies complain that men are not marrying them but are getting intimidated by their successes. The reason is not far fetched as it stems from this same issue we are deliberating about. As a guy, I know that many men would rather soak gari and be happy with their poorer wives than eat the best meal under same roof with a richer wife who disrespects them.

I think it's better the menace is given all the hue and cry it deserves now. Even though it might be exaggerated, it's better we fight it off once and for all.

The reason is because I know my people. If you allow that sh1t take root in our region, a time would come when people will make "business" out of it and sell it with reckless abandon without minding if many are dropping dead on a daily due to effects of the drug. The next thing if you want to talk about the dangerous effects, the sellers might even go and form union and start claiming you wanna keep them out of "bizinessi".

So, yes! Let's fight meth to a standstill and protect our people from its dangerous effects!

obembet:
Funny enough another innocent girl will still fall victim.

God will save us from all this wicked men.



Like for Lewandowaki Share for dwarf

I shared for the dwarf because he's a gentleman and a baller too!

Kudos to my lovely people of 0-4-2 for this campaign.

As we campaign against the use of the illicit drugs in our region, let us not forget to go after those criminals that sell these drugs to our people. Jungle Justice should be meted out to all drug barons operating in the east. Many of them are in open drug markets selling these hards and their raw materials (eg pseudo ephedrine).

The only way we can successfully win the war against illicit drugs is by also stopping sales to other people. We can't be supporting killing other people's children and expect ours to be safe.

NwaAmaikpe:




They should take that campaign to the branches of The Lord's Chosen church.

Because if it is not meth, how will anyone believe that their mere apron is bulletproof, or that they won't die as long as they have it on even if the car they are in crashes to pieces.

While we fight against the evils of hard-drug addiction, we should also fight against the evils of fanatic indoctrination to religious dogmas.

What happened today NwaAmaikpe? Why did you make this sound post?
Seems your suppliers didn't show up today

heykims:
U know nada about health, so it's better u STFU.

See f00l. I'm better qualified to argue on matters related to health than you.

I repeat, a lot of quackery take place in the Nigerian healthcare system leading to death of many Nigerians. And these issues get covered up. I have witnessed many so I know better!

OK...your update finally exposed how ignorant you are on the subject matter. So, assuming the deceased had a cancer (which was never the case), the next best thing to do was for your incompetent "surgeon" to get him killed on the surgical table Can you listen to yourself

Bringing up a few successful medical/surgical cases does not erase the so many professional negligence and outright quackery that have sent many Nigerians to their early graves!

heykims:
Ignorance alert!!

Ignorance on your part, I presume?

Amazondepth:
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But Stella Obasanjo died from surgery related complications abroad na.U all need to cut our Drs some slack.its not yet Uhuru but trust me we still have some of the finest here in Naija

For every case of Stella Obasanjo dying from surgery abroad, there are like one hundred cases happening in Nigeria, and to matters worse, these cases get covered up. The stat is too wide!

Some Africans have blatantly refused to think!!!
To them, everything must be black or white. No room to accommodate those things they don't know or have outrightly refused to know!

Redemption is still very far away from Africa tbh

Kobicove:
Is there a risk of this happening in a surgical operation done to correct a fracture that did not heal properly?

Of course there's a risk of it happening if the right things are not done.

petitejolie:
Omo....how people die from leg operation beats me. Some people just wake up with leg pains and d next thing is they re gone. How leg naaaa?

I believe it's as a result of too many quackery in the Nigerian healthcare system. There are standard operating procedures in place to guard against careless loss of lives in the system, but some incompetent doctors simply do not follow these procedures. And when deaths result from such malpractices they get swept under the carpet.

Uncleodi:
Probably fat embolism or anaesthetic complication which can happen anywhere in the world.

I commiserate with the people and government of Plateau State

"Which can happen anywhere in the world " seems like a lame excuse to explain away some people's incompetence!
If fat embolism and anaesthetic complications leading to deaths become that commonplace then I think human extinction might just be around the corners.

Some quack doctors might have just goofed and I hope they get punished and not allowed to continue sending more Nigerians to their early graves!

walkingshadow911:
they see it masculinity but they will never tell you And the thug will guit trip her to think she was at fault and that would settles the scores. believe me, she had been seriously dickmatized

Too bad bro.

Op, you don't just "venture into pharmacy". You need to study pharmacy and get licensed to open a pharmacy! Or if you have money and want to invest in pharmacy, you get a pharmacist as superintendent to register the pharmacy for you.

Even the license of a pharmacy technician cannot open a pharmacy because pharmacy technicians work under the supervision of registered pharmacists. They're like dispensing assistants to pharmacists.

Pharmacy profession is highly regulated as you're required to renew your premises license every year otherwise your premises will be closed down.

So, your best option is to go learn tailoring!

Children are the loveliest humans to be with. All you need do is pamper them when they start crying and remove whatever it is that is making them uncomfortable.

Some people are praying seriously to have just one child and here's someone who is blessed with three yet trying to harm them! The op should see a psychiatrist fast!