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Shokoloko:
I'm interested in researching about this point
May I have your source??

Just pay a visit to that market in Onitsha, spend some days and observe what's going on there. You'll understand!

But why don't these NDLEA officers go to open drug markets like bridge head market in Onitsha Those guys in open drug markets are connected with these illegal drug supplies! Like that case of Chima Obi who was arrested in Yobe en route Borno, I'm sure his consignment came from bridge head Onitsha.

If NDLEA wants to win the war against illicit drugs (especially opioids and other psychoactive prescription drugs), then they need to beam their searchlights to those open drug markets! If not, they can never win the war against illicit drugs!

Toks2008:
See bro.. As a rule I usually ignore trolls like you. I don't stain my intellect rambling.

Can you see the recent comments? Those are the type of people I give attention to.

It is not about disagreeing with the thread but the manner and emptiness of your post is so appalling.

Let me ignore you and focus on people with standard IQ.

Like I said before, I didn't start reading your gibberish today and you've never made sense when it comes to relationship advice. You always let your d1ckk come in between whatever point you think you wanna make. Any discerning mind reading your trashy posts will readily pick up the fact that you're thinking and typing with your d1ckk whenever you write those so called "advice" to ladies! And your "advice" is always to the ladies! One wonders if you're that sex starved!

Every m0ron always think they have high IQ.

Toks2008:
Another olodo making a mockery of himself.

If what I wrote does not make sense to you then it is obvious that your IQ is unapologetically low.

The problem with many of you is that you always rush to comment without Comprehending perhaps you guys just lack the ability to comprehend.

Many people will just want to counter a thread and end up paraphrasing the same write up.

Calm your brain down. Stop making comments based on titles but always try to read the contents before making disgraceful comments that portrays you as dumb.

My friend go and sit your smelly asz down somewhere! We didn't start reading your gibberish today!

Better go and look for another vocation because you're pathetically poor at relationship counseling.

I don't know what this Toks2008 guy is always feeling like A relationship counselor or what exactly?

Tbh, anybody relying on the gibberish you write here in making relationship decisions will only end up getting burnt severely!

What an excuse for a relationship counselor!!

Jayzel:
Our everyday life affect every~thing about our relationship, insecurities u say depend on the enviroment we build our foundation from .
NOTE: Wealthy background makes most relationship last

@your last line:


Last like that of Bill and Melinda Gates, Aliko Dangote, Kim and Kayne etc

And these vagina people keep validating the red pill everyday!

With what this lady has done, why will any man believe that being beaten up by their men is not enjoyed by the female folks

Franzinni:
yep you did.... There are real men...

It you don't get it, I understand.

Your idea of a "real man" is actually that of a coward and pussy wiped niggas who dare not express themselves in the presence of their wives!

Thank the gods for redirecting his feet to the religion of his ancestors.

I have always said it that our traditional African religion is much more better in building and upholding moral values than the imported religions.

However, I still prefer the Christian religion to Islam a million fold and this is because Christianity is more tolerant to divergent views than the other religion of violence and blood bath.

To all you ex Christians turning atheists or traditionalists, please always ensure you still stand by Christianity and choose her over Islam when the need arises, at least with the way Nigeria is tilting today. Your unborn generations are safer with Christianity than with Islam.

Fool thought he was in Nigeria where our foolishly ignorant leaders aid and abet illegal sales of prescription medicines leading to poisoning and untimely death of many unsuspecting Nigerians!

If people knew how deadly drugs can be, they'll desist from taking drugs without professional guide.

Franzinni:
A real man should never raise his voice over any conversation with any individual. Ever !!!


The more you control your tone while you express your opinions the more the other person caves in under your masculinity.

Women don't know how to respond to that type of conversation when they are ready to biker and nag.

Just remain calm and voice your opinion with the most controlled tone you have, you will see magic ...

I knew I was going to see "real man" on this thread!


Real man kor

This is not true!

LutanFyah:
Nigga, I'm not a terrorist (muslim).


Polygamy doesn't mean there will be population explosion but you seem not to understand that. I even gave you a working examples like Saudi Arabia and China but you don't seem to reflect and ask pertinent questions.


As a youngster,learn to think for yourself. Don't allow Oyibo people do all the thinking for you.


Every indigenous people had a life before they were wrecked by the colonialists and because our fathers were conquered doesn't mean we can't think for ourselves.

Our ancestors engaged in polygamy out of ignorance. Most polygamous homes I know in my place are full of problems! How many times will I say it here that my position on polygamy is not based on religion nor western influence but on hard facts on ground in my vicinity

LutanFyah:
Same way they told you homosexuality is very good and your likes latched on it.

Same way they told you that polygamy contributes to population explosion and you Swallowed it hook,line and sinker without asking them what happened in China or India where there is no polygamy.

UAE,SAUDI,KUWAIT,IRAN etc has been practicing polygamy for more than hundred years but we don't see population explosion.

Like I said before, everything no be by Oyibo wisdom.

LEARN TO THINK FOR YOURSELF, YOU GET BRAIN.

Stop typing trash!!!

Nothing whatsoever justifies polygamy! Only Islamic fanatics like yourself try to rationalize polygamy and bring up all sorts of hogwash to make us believe that the practice is the best, even when all evidences around us suggest otherwise.

Anyway, why am I even arguing with you Anybody that feels polygamy is the best for him/her in this 21st century should go on with it. That is why I have stopped dashing money to all the destitute Hausa children in my area. Because I know that many of them are products of men like you who believe that all there is in life is to marry many wives, fucckk, birth children and fill everywhere! I cannot be paying for your foolishness!!!

LutanFyah:
In your small mind,you think it's every man that you can cheat on?

In your warped mind,polygamy is bad while monogamy is the best thing after slice bread?

You need to understand that not every thing is explained by science or Oyibo man wisdom.

And in your deluded mind polygamy is the best How some of you reason ehn. All the evidences are there to prove that polygamy is not suitable for a healthy family and society, but some of you chose to deny the obvious. Go ahead and practice polygamy, breed children and fill everywhere! Life is all about your ego, you hear

It should be GEL FORMATION or simply GELLING


Pharmacy students will understand better.

The truth is that sometimes Olevel does not determine who's intelligent or not. Some people may have not so good O-level results due to challenges beyond their control but along the way they do better in other exams.

Congrats to you bro.

Just say that you want to be fvcking outside after being married. I know that's what some of you plan. Polygamy is the easiest way for a lady to be married and still keep men outside.

RightToReject:
I wonder what kind of nonsense I will not hear from you small-minded lots on this forum about Igbos. I wonder where you got the statistics that most Igbo families do sentimentally send their daughters to school instead of their sons or deny their sons formal education, and that by extension, saying that men from other tribes are more educated than Igbomen, even when the SSCE and JAMB records and other proven statistical measures locally and internationally said otherwise. The way some of you propagate lies and misinformation because of ignorance, hate in any guise, ethnocentrism, or conceit is both appalling and irritating. I do not care whether you might claim to be an Igboman or not, whichever way, you are definitely not an informed and just one. Stop either using your family as a standard for the bona fide Igbos or stop saying nonsense about what you know nothing about. Distorting facts, misinforming the public, and casting aspersions on others unjustly, regardless of the reason, amount to small-mindedness and insanity in general.

In summary, I have not seen a bona fide Igbo family that does discriminate against their offspring educationally to be particular.

I won't care about any gibberish you might wish to spew, so direct it, if any, to small-minded people like you.

Isn't it obvious From the way many of you react to issues From the majority that supported criminal elements in IPOB to supporting drug dealers and other criminal money-making deals even on this forum Educated people show it in their ways of life not by mouth nor by typing jargons on the media. I'm talking about real education not certificates that many of you run to acquire and brandish from your many substandard state universities. Real education in the southeast is nosediving seriously and worst of all is among the males. You may decide to live in denial but that's your cup of tea.

This matter should never be swept under the carpet regardless of the guy being a supporter of Buhari's government. Human life should never be made that cheap! All those involved in the killing should be arrested and prosecuted accordingly.

Let's not start setting bad antecedents in the name of politics.

#Justice4Kenechukwu

Datboredberry:
Actually, women still aren't faring better...

Domestic violence...
Sexual abuse...
FGM...
Child marriages...
Human trafficking...
They are denied of their right to be educated...

I'm glad you've accepted that men are the reason for this... So dont complain that you have to fix the mess your myopic ancestors created... To promote equality, raise the girl child to the level of the bot child..

And I hope that after raising her to the level of the boy child, she'll stop being a burden on the boy child She'll not expect the boy child to provide for her wellbeing And that she'll see marriage as shared responsibility and not the responsibility of the men alone

zed7:
It's funny that most of the laws favouring women are made by men. Weak men who make laws in the bedroom.

Men go through a lot. If feminism wasn't hypocrisy and was practised right, it would have been embraced by men because it is supposed to ensure equality and fairness.

Unfortunately, women are generally selfish and only use feminism card when it's convenient.

Very selfish gender!
That is why after sacrificing the education and empowerment of the boy child for them, they'll still want to "marry up" even if it means marrying aliens so long as he's well off.

Ow0eg0kudi:
Hmmmm @Godoverevery

Except if you choose to swim against the tide...nature has created the female gender to be nurtured, especially by the male gender hence the results of your research.

Save in exceptional cases, there is something in a man that wants to pamper and give a TCL to a woman.

I'll enjoin to accept the fact that it is a law of the universe, just like gravitational pull, that YOU cannot change except God (who is over every) chooses to reinvent the wheels.


E kú research . . .don't be an online professor but please ensure it is published in a journal��

Stop bringing nature and the universe into this. It is simply the way the early men set things during the stone age. That time, the means to survival were highly laborious and required so much brawn than brain. So, they felt the females were weaker (even though arguable), so they were put behind the males, such that the men did most of the work and catered for the women in exchange for sex and reproduction. That was how it all started.

But now things have changed. Modernization has made it such that survival requires more of mental energy than just physical and from what we have seen so far, the women are fairing better than even some men in this jet age.

So, to maintain peace, things just have to change. We need to redefine certain things, otherwise a time would come when men and women would be in great conflict.

Angela62:
Not until I gave birth to my son and started raising them, before I understood the kinds of challenges the male child faces. Society is built on the false premise that women have challenges only, and men are the cause if it. So therefore, male child are ignored. Before I use to tout anything female, but now, I can see that it's not a good approach because both gender suffer.

But I ask myself, after developing and elevating women, will they date and marry themselves? Isn't the same men that society ignored and don't want to invest upon will be their future husband, Co workers, pastors and much more? You can't tell me you love women and want to help them, why refusing to help men, same men that the majority of female happiness comes from. The earlier we open our eyes to the bigger picture, the better for all of us.

I love your post and your sincerity on this subject.

That is what I have been saying. In our societies today, especially among the Igbos, more emphasis are placed on educating the girl children while their male counterparts are sent to go learn trade or skill with little or no education. When the females are done getting the best of education and jobs, they start searching for a suitable partner and unfortunately, they hardly find the kind of guys they want from amongst their people. So, some of them are left with no choice than look for equally educated men from other tribes while others settle in the awkward marriage with their barely educated Igbo traders. While the rest remain unmarried.

I believe there's need for value reorientation among our people. Equal opportunities should be given to both genders in terms of education and jobs. After all, so much is still demanded of men in our societies when it comes to shouldering family and societal responsibilities.

Opeyemiextra:
Do these set of men understand that what they give is what they get?

I knew I was going to see this argument here!

For your information, this argument is not entirely true. Feminists and their apologists have propagated this notion that a child's gender depends solely on the father's contribution of X or Y chromosomes. However, those of us in the medical sciences know that it is not true. Many other factors contribute to sex determination.

Factors within the woman plays a determining role! Some women have their bodies adapted to recognizing mostly the x chromosomes from the man.

Every ejaculation contains significant amounts of both X and Y chromosomes, but the woman's body ends up determining which chromosome combines with her x chromosome. With the exception of a few cases where the man may be genetically wired to produce mostly x, but that's rare and not always the case.

AfriqueDuZuid:
Don't tell me you not aware that people here are highly skilled.

People go to colleges and universities, many industries are being developed, cities have a plan in motion, are being developed into technological cities.

That's why Johannesburg no longer depends on gold, it has developed beyond minerals

What technology can we boast of from Johannesburg?

TMKsouth:
See Africa's richest tribe using platinum wealth well without white looting (Royal Bafokeng, South Africa)

cc franchasng

What if platinum wasn't there in the first place? Or loses its market values for any reasons What would be left of our beloved Africa In terms of human capital? Technology? Etc

Mind you, some of us who criticize the way things are done here in Africa ain't doing that because we hate on our kinds but because of our burning desire to see Africa stand shoulder to shoulder with the rest of the world. Manh, when you place the black and white races in comparison as they presently stand, the differences are just too clear in terms of reasoning and ways of life generally. Every critical thinker will always question why Africans have continued to remain the way we are.

Most polygamous homes are war fronts because women are too competitive with other women. This is fueled by the fact that in such polygamous homes, there's always mixture of blood from outside as most of the wives are bound to resort to start meeting up their sexual needs outside. That is the case with even the Muslim homes but worst with the traditional religion homes.

I know many such polygamous homes in my village in Igboland where some men married as many as 4 to 5 wives in those days. The men were cucked silly along the line because they couldn't keep up. That was then o, when women were genitally mutilated and traditions were in place to checkmate infidelity. Try that now with modern feminists. The other day it happened at Edo, where the lady even had the guts to bring home her side guy to her matrimonial home!

All these guys here supporting polygamy in this day and age seem not to be thinking. Or perhaps they're cuckolds who don't mind being cucked I know the category of ladies who might be supporting it. Of course, the lazy ones who can't work and earn a living by themselves, the desperate ones who just want to answer Mrs and the Muslim ones who have been ignorantly brainwashed to accept polygamy as a norm. However, a common denominator among all of them is that they're highly likely to cuckold the man along the way.

Pumpumking:
how?. ..u should be happier Siofra add u to the ugly least..ediiiiiiioooot boy!!

E pain am....(ÑO OFFIENCCEE)

Lol

Pumpumking:
how?. ..u should be happier Siofra add u to the ugly least..ediiiiiiioooot boy!!

E pain am....(ÑO OFFIENCCEE)

Lol

Pumpumking:
The nest time u compare me too any of this ugly looking gorilla ape shinpazy monkeys called Davash222, jman06, TheGidredpiller, Walesoflyf and nairaland redpillers......I will personally slap that yor stretch mark face tru the internet!!(TEAL TALK)

But you're ugly sir(no offienccce)

siofra:
Bera

But why you too hate the redpill.


The redpill is the pill of life y'know