₦airaland Forum

InvestorRicky:
There are alot of things that went on between the both of u that u are not telling us but hope its not what I'm thinking. When a woman has fallen deeply in love with u,do not take her threat for granted! You thought she was going change but couldn't stop every form of intimacy with her until u see the change. Instead of u to wait for critical moment or think of a good setup & then use as excuse for breakup u are here giving her irresponsible reason for breakup & expect her to take it likely after certain sacrifices for two years. U did not tell her u are breaking up because of her attitude but because you're in love with another girl hence indirectly telling her u have been cheating. Clearly u were just wasting her time & should face d consequences of ur actions.

U were deceitful & not committed to your relationship with her, SO FACE IT.

All of you here are very annoying! I don't want to use abusive words on y'all and that was why I used "annoying". So, it is now a crime for a guy to end a relationship with a lady when he's seen the red signs that they're not compatible abi? Even if it took him 5years to decide to end it, he's still on his right to do that. A broken relationship is better than cat and dog marriage.

BTW, if a lady was the one who ended a relationship with a guy, would you still criticize her for doing that Of course, I know you'll tell her she did the right thing by ending the relationship.

I'm just trying hard here to pick my words so as not to insult, but reading your post really stirred up some anger in me tbh.

ZendayaColeman:
This girl low self-esteem na inbuilt.

I wanted to report your post for referring to an old woman as "girl".

Some guys on this thread (even the op) are very deceptive! Telling them ladies what they wanna hear to hook them. And the foolish ladies keep on applauding them. We know those kind of guys!
Tell them what they wanna hear, after marriage they'll see your real self. We know una.

My own be say, I'll rather marry an illiterate girl I'm sexually attracted to and keep her at home to maintain the house, quench my konji and bear my children, than having a working class feminist whose income is meant to be kept for her selfish goals while mine is to be consumed. I'll not be comfortable knowing that I'm being cheated under my roof and I'm not good at deceiving people.

Sexually hot dumb girls are bae

But politicians wicked sha. All those elders and traditional rulers that kept urging this man on only wanted to eat his money.


I fear who no fear Nigerian politicians

Biglittlelois:
The bolded is the reason he cheated and why he had the guts to say his wife is wicked, the man has six females from his wife, your little brain did not tell you that this man cheated on his wife just to bear a son, he tells you sob stories about his wife to garner sympathy for his evil deeds, and you swallowed it hook line and sinker as nothing but the gospel truth, carried the issue on your head as life long goal to meddle in what doesn't directly concern your existence,

And the annoying thing is that, they are your in laws, you have the guts to confront and deny your mother in law her right, what kind of an in law are you? Her daughter that married you must be regretting by now cos you're a disgrace for being against a family that accepted you into their home

That beating you got is small, they suppose remove all your teeth to give you an everlasting scar.

You sound so imbecilic!

Whose money are we talking about here The man's of course! If the stvpid evil wife couldn't give him a son, he has the right to get a son by another woman. It is his money we're talking about here!

I don't blame all you selfish and stvpid Nigerian ladies, I blame some men that fail to treat your fvcks up with some iron hand but pamper you until you grow wings and start challenging their authorities. If not, tell me why the man couldn't marry the lady that bore him a son but allowed his son to remain outside until he died. Nonsense!

Kudos to you op for carrying out that man's wish. His spirit would have tormented you so badly if had failed. And you should have reported the evil wife to the police the time she made that threat.

Martinez39s:
What I have been called by females throughout my stay on nairaland:
(1) Gay
(2) chronic mastubator/ porn addict
(3) pig
(4) broke boy
(5) Ubunja assistant
(6) Ubunja wannabe
(7) low budget ubunja
(8 ) freebasics user
(9) misogynist
(10) Ubunja (some taught I was Ubunja's alternate account).
(11) nobody
(12) bitter man
(13) pùssy
(14) incel

I could go on and on. Shaming language is normal. If women are always complimenting you, giving you public approval and calling you a "real man", you need deliverance.

Lol...don't mind those yeye people

Regex:
You for the almighty word that makes men tremble and quit the movement 'gay' .

Yes, that's another label they use.

fattprince:
Please my fellow redpillers, just want to know something. What do we do that makes this other gender and Simpsons to either insult or brokeshame us. I mean they always come to our territory to say bad things about the redpill. I don't understand. Even when they know in redpill space we talk about self development which also includes financial aspect but they just want to still brokeshame I think they do that because they are emotional and illogical.

You should know why already. The red pill movement is a threat to the old order of men slaving for women, and as manipulators they are, those trolls want to employ the broke shaming tactics to make faint hearted guys here to abandon the red pill movement. They still use their age long phrase "real men" to emotionally blackmail us into abandoning the movement.

So, if you want to remain in the movement and enjoy all its benefit, you better brace yourself to accept that you are a broke ass nigga( even when we know you're not), not a "real man " and that you're a chronic m@sturbator (even when you fvck them everyday). You need to come to terms with those labels because they'll continue using them in trying to manipulate you into abandoning the red pill. Shalom

Gadafii:
boss abeg u fit help us reveal two sure odds make boys stake like 10k ontop

Sorry, I don't do gambling. Gambling is against the rules of wealth acquisition.

It'll end in premium tears

Your mistake was professing love to her. You made her realize that you love her more she did love you, and to many Nigerian ladies, they want a man they'll be the ones in love with, while at the same time the man would have no choice than spend his resources on her and her alone even if he doesn't have much feelings for her.

In summary, naija ladies want it ALL for themselves, the guy can go and die in their opinion. Very confused creatures!

Anybody who has been following my post on this forum would have seen where I gave the prophecy that Soludo is the next governor of Anambra state. That was even before it became obvious to others that Soludo was going to contest.

I give my prophecies after having the messages spiritually revealed to me. It is not prediction or some gambling!

Winnerly:
Tough question. Maybe over time, they begin to confuse the acceptance for love?

Maybe they have even been brainwashed to the point they feel it’s normal for a price tag to be on a man’s head.

Remember, alot of people are still stuck in the matrix and genuinely believe they don’t deserve to be loved except they meet certain criteria e.g money, cars etc That’s the extent of the wickedness of these females.

Honestly! The thing is too much.

Iyaebe:
wait wait wait,how much do you guys even have to begin with? I'm not talking about entitlement here,you simply do no understand me and you don't even understand my response to which you quoted.gush!!! how did you guys reach this point?how? only if you can read Toks(2008) last topic and search for franchas(ng) comments,maybe you'll understand better,just maybe. In reality how many of you guys are truly rich here,I mean in the real sense.It's never about entitlement or paying bills for me, Its about having a good sense of responsibility.

We have our own sense of responsibility, of course we are responsible for ourselves. We are only demanding that you also have some sense of responsibility and be responsible for yourselves.

Iyaebe:
Have I said I'll not work and earn money but the way you young men have made it a point of duty to rub it on women's faces to pay their bills is nauseating. Real men don't have eyes for their partner's money.

Ehn, we agree we're not "real men". Until the society goes back in time to the ages where women stayed home without competing with men for the available jobs. The time when men were given preferences in employment and businesses, we'll continue to demand that you use your own money to pay your bills.


Real men ko

CAPSLOCKED:
THEY UNDERSTAND ONLY ALLAHU AKBAR AND VIOLENCE. NEVER MISUNDERSTAND THIS.

The violence aspect is what I don't like, but I think the Taliban and other core Muslims know how to handle women better. They use them for what they're meant for, meeting a man's sexual needs and bearing children.

CAPSLOCKED:
"ONLY THE MILITARY"? LMAO
LAUGHING HARD AT THIS THREAD WHILE RECOUNTING ALL THE REGRETTABLE CHOICES I MADE IN MY PURSUIT OF THE HOLLYWOOD LIFESTYLE. STAY TALIBAN FOLKS HAHAHAHA.

Those Taliban really understand women!

Winnerly:
Had a great laugh. Imagine if the guy ever finds out, everything he has ever worked for will loose taste in his mouth.

Indeed no wonder they say niceness is always a form of bribery and manipulation tactic. The guy is extremely nice because he knows he is lacking in certain areas. Infact he thinks the girl is too good for him.

Relationships and marriages just seem like too much work. You never know what they are thinking. That lady you have sacrificial love for may just be managing you

If you check well, the bitch is a social media indomie generation girl looking for who to post on her whatsapp status or SM.

My demeanor these days is such that i hardly even put in effort into my looks anymore just to be accepted by a mere mortal like me. I wear wtf i want, my shoes are probably worn out and look ugly. I wear a dead jeans not because i dont have an impeccable fashion sense but because i’ve become complacent.

Infact, i consider myself the worst looking millionaire

I used to want to get to the money to be more accepted but I don’t even want that kind of acceptance anymore. I wonder how guys cope with knowing that the chick they are banging is only down because they have a car, nice apartment, work a nice job, look a certain way etc. i don’t even want that kind of sex even on a platonic level and this is coming from someone with looks and money on his side

You just asked the same question I have been asking. How do men put up with women knowing that they're with him for all her selfish reasons? Yet, the foolish women still expect love and loyalty from their men.

I now understand fully why men cheat regardless of how pretty their wives look.

This is the work of the gods.


The gods are wise!

Andremalan731:
Exactly bro
The most annoying part is that she has a job
She is a teacher in one private school

She was working there before she gave birth and she has resumed back
Where her own salary dey go ?

I’m taking care of the baby
Why can’t she take care of herself with her own money ?

Don't mind the scammer

Andremalan731:
After I transferred my baby mama’s 20k monthly allowance to her this morning
She texted me on WhatsApp saying 20k is no more enough.

I asked her if she was joking
20k is not enough to buy diapers and food in a month for a 9 month old baby?
She said I only care about the baby, what about her own food and clothes ?
I asked her if they don’t cook in their house or she has been walking around naked before she gave birth to the baby

Can you imagine the nonsense
I’m just waiting for her to stop breastfeeding
I will collect my daughter and give her to my mum

#20k is enough bro. I'm sure she won't even spend all the money on the kid. She's only looking for a means to milk you

beejaay:
See how you opened up your ignorance and uselessness.. You generalized every female which your families are among.. Someone even pointed to the fact that not all of them are like that and you still rejected him and went on with your rabid tantrum forgetting you have females around you... You see next time learn not to generalize cos it will come back to hunt you.. If you have hardworking females around so those other people have hardworking and wonderful females around them even if it's just 5%.... There is profit in introspection, use it to your advantage... Everything is not curse and abuse, grow up and be a man you born to be

Full. "Grown up". We have seen you and your growth. I stated my opinion and what I'll do with women, it is non of your business, is it? Grown up people know how to mind their businesses but 1mbeciles like yourself would not mind their businesses even they claim to be grown up.

Ishilove:
You really have a lot of growing up to do

Emotional blackmail as usual. When a guy does not agree with your selfish feminist agenda, it's either he's not a "real man" or "he has a lot of growing up to do". Sorry, I'm not the type to fall for such blackmails.

I simply stated my opinion on the subject matter and went further to state how I would love my wealth to be handled if such fate befalls me God forbid. I have my reasons. If you don't agree with me (which I knew you wouldn't), simply scroll down to the next poster.

delpee:
I've seen children suffer greatly because their Uncles took charge of their deceased father's properties. Many promising lives have been cut short or destinies delayed because of that. Brothers usually take care of their families first before they think of others. I remember the case of a man who trained his brother and later made him the administrator of his estate. It was always a herculean task getting him to sign cheques for the children's school fees and needs even though they reverted to public schools and they had sufficient funds from their dad's investments. The woman ended up taking on so many petty jobs in addition to the basic one just to survive. She had no say and wasn't keen on remarrying.

May we be blessed to guide and care for our kids till they're strong enough to stand on their own. May we live long to reap the fruits of our labour.

Always best to write a will. A wife can be restricted due to lack of trust but she remains the best guardian for her children.

You know you are exaggerating things. You have seen those, yet I have seen cases where a man died and his brothers took over his wealth and handled things very well to the point that they were able to send the man's children abroad for studies. I have also seen cases where the man died poor and his brothers took over the training of his children up to university levels. You lots don't see all those ones but are quick to poke nose if the man happens to be rich.

meetme01:
Woman offend you in your former life?
Do not wish bad for any gender no matter the havoc they have caused. Not sure you have a child and if you do, not sure you have a girl child.

If you have a girl child, I pray you live long to see her husband in this situation or more. Then, you understand why you respect people no matter the gender or havoc.

Now, the woman is the problem because she's female and brothers are right because they are male? And you co-accept their attitude? Without even checking whether the news is fake or real or even listen to both sides.. All these just because you dislike the female gender.?

For real. You must be a psychopath.

Though the news maybe fake, I reacted based on what's happening in our society these days. In most cases, people blindly support women in situations like this all with the excuse of taking care of the man's children. Many women who were not there when the man hustled his money have capitalized on the societal sentiments to kill their husbands and personalize his wealth. Whereas in many cases even, the man's family take care of his children better. In my own family, we have children of dead poor uncles who are under our roofs being taken care of. So, I know that no woman will take care of my children better than my siblings.

If I have daughters, I'll raise them to be independent minded. To make their own money and have some wealth of her own that can be inherited. Not hoping and looking for a man to leach on. I'll teach them to relate with the humanity in men and not with their material possessions like most Nigerian ladies of nowadays do.

sharpwriter:
Not too intelligent bro. You are only trying to sound like it. I don't know if you are married but don't use your matter to judge others.

You don't know the relationship between the man and his wife. That he may love his wife doesn't make him a simp like it's being over exaggerated on this forum.

Let some men be fvcking hundred pvssies everyday, it doesn't mean they don't love their wives. Not every man has bitter or stereotyped heart against women.

And you don't know what is between him and his wife (different relationships have different events, covenants that bind them together).

Now, the dead man is still young and may not even have a will already despite his stupendous wealth, he didn't envisioned he would die so soon.

Also, life is deep and this is yoruba land and Africa. Greed and selfishness is real here. Those brothers you are talking about trusting and entrusting your wealth to, do you think they will settle your children as expected to your satisfaction?

You're joking if you think relatives will use your wealth well for the family you left behind.

Even if the wife will flex, it is her only that can settle the dead man's kids 100% with what their father worked for.

There are billions of people on earth but honest, real and nice humans are scarce and rare. So before you judge a matter, meditate deeply on different life scenarios and possibilities before you talk, even using others as case studies!

Shalom!

You're free to hold your opinion on the subject matter just like I'm also free to hold mine.

And I repeat, if I couldn't write my will before dying, my spirit will be more at peace knowing that my blood brothers are controlling my wealth than some useless wife But I know I'll do a proper will beforehand so I can share my wealth the way I want and no wife is getting a dime from my wealth. I have my reasons and my reasons are justified.


Shalom too

Rolly22:
Mumu men like you no even get Kobo

At least I'm richer than the full you call father.

tchidi066:
How much do you even have, oga park well jhoor, it's the innocent lady that will end up with a miserable being like you that I'm sorry for... Empty barrels make the loudest noise

F00l. Numbskull calling her better empty! FYI, your generations can never be as rich as mine. Not in this life and neither in your next life.

Oloshho looking for a simp to swindle. Tue!

Zooposki:
Lol. That’s why I like Karma and Fate. Two beautiful women right there. Karma is a bitch and Fate is fickle.

Meanwhile, I may change my mind about how to relate with women if I eventually find the kind of woman that deserves it, but it is becoming a bit late for me to find such lady as things are already becoming smooth for me. And any lady that comes into my life after I make it, her name na sorry because there's nothing that can convince that she's not there for my money. Absolutely nothing!

beejaay:
Thank goodness you have sisters and will surely have daughters as well, if you think all women deserve your judgment then your daughters and sisters will suffer same since your justification is general.if you think all women are useless then your sisters and would be daughters if you don't have yet are also useless, it's simple logic.. What goes around comes around..

I don't have the kind of useless sisters and daughters you have.

My sisters are hardworking and not banking on swindling other men's resources in the name of marriage. Likewise if I have a daughter, I'll raise her to be an independent woman who'll not hope on a man's wealth. I'll teach her to relate with the humanity in men and not their material substance because that way, she'll find the right man to be comfortable with.

Zooposki:
Be ready to marry plain Jane then.

I have my own plan with women, but I'm never gonna let her have access to my wealth just for being "beautiful" (beauty is relative). Once I have 2 or 3 kids, she is totally on her own.

Zooposki:
Just as men look for beautiful women, women look for security in men. It is what it is.

Marry a Christian for the above bolded. That is what your bible teaches you. I’m not a Christian so don’t subscribe to that.

Toh, I cannot use my hard earned money to "secure" her! To hell with her beauty! Very selfish creatures!