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Fool!

He "deceived" you and got you pregnant or your long throat led you to him

Always shifting blames!

drnoel:
Your guy is making an issue out of nothing. If he would listen to words of wisdom, then I will write this. It is best to have Ur relationship intact than allow the issue of "see finish" destroy the understanding you have built with someone over the years.
U must not be close to his siblings or relations before he has put a ring on Ur finger. It is good if you are but U must not be, that is not mandatory. That he is close to Ur family is good and it just reflects his personality, nothing more.
The issue of see finish is a problem and I am writing this from experience. I have said my own.

Y'all should cut the guy some slack abeg. Always looking for means to blame guys in everything related to women.

The guy's siblings are actually right. If the guy can build a rapport with her own family, nothing stops her from doing same. So, she should put in more efforts or get herself off the way for the guy to look for another lady.

I think it's high time Nigeria changed her flag. The current flag is too plain for my liking.

Stargurl20:
I never knew men get hurt as well. I used to think it's females who get hurt in relationships.

Of course, men are not humans so they don't get hurt.

MadamVanessa:



Even though i am a lady, but believe me, you're a very foolish man. You're a true definition of what Nairaland guys called "SIMP".

You love are so much and you make it so obvious that you can't stay without her hence her using you like 10 and 11 spanner.

If the op is a lady getting treated by her boyfriend like this, I hope you'll still use all the harsh words above for her

Johndagr8t:
oga am an electrical engineering student for jos, so no dey overdo!!

Take down your picture! You don't know who's viewing this thread and what could be their reactions. Imagine if someone that knows you sees this thread and happens to be the bigoted type, he/she might use it against you.

I wonder what he expected the lecturer to do about the missed SIWES, A 6 credit load course at that. Not even the HOD has the power to waive such course.

I understand that some lecturers can be mean to students sometimes, but in this very case, the lecturer has no blame.

twosquare:
Abeg, come gist us...Something to cheer the mind in this Buhari economy

The only thing I can tell you is that if it is possible for me to leave my body while lying down on the bed and still come back to it, then know it today that the spiritual realm is a reality. Thank you

All these doubting Thomases haven't seen anything. There's spiritual realm people!!!! I have been there!


If I tell y'all that I have experienced leaving my body on many occasions, you'll say it's OBE. Even scientists aren't sure of their stands on the many debates about the so called OBE. They're just hypothesizing.

This story might be true, it might also be just the op trolling. Doesn't stop the fact that the spiritual realm is a reality.

Shalom

But why do some men use their hands to invite trouble for themselves In this time and age, someone is still marrying two wives Like one is not enough trouble already

Nonsense and polygamy!

Hayee:
you you fully understand what you did not create

Honestly, trying to understand what really makes a modern lady happy is one hell of a problem! You try to be good to them, they'll start taking you for a fool. Too much drama abeg!

Y'all are trying so hard to strip men of the little things they enjoy in this life. Even to get some soothing warm touches and sex from his wife after the day's hustle is now a big deal and a subject of debate! As if y'all will accept it if the reverse is the case.

No wonder many married men now roam the streets in search of sugar girls to satisfy them.

ILoveDemMANNA:
Marwa is doing a good job since he became the head of NDLEA.
He's a go-getter.
The type of people will need at the helms of affairs.
Thumbs up Marwa.

The man is really doing well. I commend him

Meedon:
No oooo who told you that? If you deh inside relationship with many women na suffer you go suffer ooo

We are saying the same thing

BigBashiru:
And for their selfish ends! For any man that wants a gf relationship or marriage the first question he should ask the girl is whether her money is hers alone and my own money is for me and her.... this is will give you an indication of if the guy wants you to labor for her all ur life never mind she's already been used up by numerous previous bfs b4 she met u.... disgusting selfish gender!

I am telling bro. Too selfish!

fattprince:
Cab you imagine the hypocrisy. You said the same thing she said but she feels you are wrong while she's right. Because you are make while she's female. And somebody is still telling me redpill is toxic. I mean it's okay when a woman enjoys freedom but selfishness for a man to enjoy freedom. These female wouldn't stop to amuse me

Don't you know that men are born to suffer? Na JOB the sufferer them ladies dey see us as

Copying and pasting someone else's research works, including their results, discussions and their contributions to body of knowledge is plagiarism! It is theft of intellectual property and the height of mediocrity!

Even when reviewing literatures, you are not expected to copy the author verbatim. You rephrase them in your own words.

This pastor is obviously a mediocre!

This one must be the president general of Nigerian SIMPs association (NSA).




Siiiiimmmmpppp!

Mumu girl Siofra

JennyOfOldstones:
By the time she sues him for breach of promise to marry, he'll also learn that he has the right to remain silent by not making promises he can't keep

Nonsense! How many guys have sued ladies who accepted to marry them only to dump them at the eleventh hour Oh, I forgot, it's a different standard when a guy is at the receiving end. Or have you not heard of ladies dumping their fiances even on the eve of their wedding??

I don't blame y'all, I blame some guys who can't brutally take decisions like real men but bring up issues for hypocritical people to guilt trip them.

toren:
Oga you cannot read or you're just simply blind or is it comprehension skills you lack? He said he'd been deceiving her, knew from the get-go he wouldn't marry her yet outrightly told her he would.

Even if he told her he would, he also has the right to tell her he wouldn't anymore. No be by force

Hathor5:
You are a coward.

How is he coward.

Assuming you're in his shoes, and you discover along the way that a relationship isn't favourable to you, wouldn't you dump the guy Something y'all do to guys all the time but when the reverse is the case, the guy is bashed for it.

cpu2006:
did you have sex with her or not?

And so


So because they had sex with each other, they must marry even if they're not compatible

The double standard you folks use in judging matters like this is nauseating. Reverse this scenario now, let it be a lady that wants to dump a guy, y'all will encourage her.

Shove your stupid advice into your azs!
Special adviser.

Go ahead and date all the used hoes in this world, we'll happily be with the virgins. The end justifies the means

That's what happens when two toxic people get married. They'll continue to fight and contest authority until one person succumbs and become the cold partner who provides the calm atmosphere for the home while the other partner takes the authority.

Authority that God gave men from beginning, these end time ladies now open eyes and collect it from SIMPle men. Tueh!

Death to all SIMPs!

Polynek:
U said u wud hv to kill the conscience abeg oo

Honestly, the thing dey affect me negatively sometimes. I too dey pity people

I'm introverted but when situation requires me to talk, I talk my talk.

Polynek:
No matter how broke I am, I can never scam someone, steal, or engage in any criminal act, let alone killing someone bcoz of moni
Abeg which conscience I won use chop d moni

I tire o. Me wey be say small thing my conscience don dey deal with me seriously. Honestly, I don't know how some men manage to suppress their conscience and do some things. I would have loved to be able to kill that conscience a little because this our country seems to favor only the evil ones. Take for instance, when you keep saying the truth about your age, employers and even government agencies will deny you jobs.

bluefilm:
Who are these evil people that are desperate in turning this bitch into a Star?

It's high time people learn to stop rewarding Bad Behavior.

Because that is what has got us to the extent of Moral Decadence we are now experiencing in any corner you turn to look at.

Which bad behavior are you talking about Since when has dancing become such a grievous offence that would attract the kind of condemnation and humiliation you hypocrites are meting out on the girl

For crying out loud, this twerking took place in the female hostel of her school and it was not like she was completely naked. Mr man, you watch porn, you m@sturbate, you fornicate and get involved in other immoral behaviors. Have we humiliated you in the manner you're doing to this girl Y'all are heartless for making yourselves judges over this matter! Stop! It is not fair!

Her parents should better take her home now so they can show her love and monitor her to avoid her repeating that suicidal attempt.

In fact, let me even go look if I can see her on Facebook so I can encourage her to stand strong and shame all of you who want her dead for no serious offence. Nonsense!

Biglittlelois:
You are sick in the head, imbeciles are better than you in all spheres of life, if your fathers first wife was rubbished to the ground by your father cos she bore only girls, and you are a product of a side chick cast away by his legal wife when he died, thereby not making your mother, his side hen, a second wife, of course you will foam in the mouth cos life dealt you a heavy blow thereby making you see your miserable self as important to the extent of seeing men as authority and husband's properties as solely his own, when in actual sense, you are a cesspit to the world, a mistake of a human, a nonsense that tried to make sense but couldn't.

Ediotic 1mbecile! I know your entire generations are cursed with harlotry and reaping from where they did not sow. Ashawo motor park! How about the motor park tout who impregnated your mother resulting in her bearing an ashawo like you? Hope he still fuckks you and your mother at the park Ewu! Smelly thing! I can even perceive your stench from here.


Tueh!

InvestorRicky:
U're worst & more annoying! Nobody is restricting him to an unfavourable & undesirable relationship. He's insensitive & lacks empathy else he wouldn't proceed to certain things. He's clearly immature,irresponsible & unable to think properly else it wouldn't get this bad. Merely looking at their conversations everything is clear. Why not be upfront & tell her HE'S BREAKING UP WITH HER BECAUSE SHE'S HOT-TEMPERED & UNCONTROLLABLE as he alleged here or come up with something more justifiable instead of using those irresponsible words contained in the image attached below which indirectly portrays an intention to hurt & waste the lady's time.

Assume the position of the lady & check the below image again then tell me if u would take it likely. Perhaps u're another heartless & reckless beast!

Stop quoting people without a proper grasp of the intended message.

You're just ranting all over the place like a mad dog!

In relationships, men have seen the worst from ladies and no one goes about blaming them. Ladies have broken up with hurtful messages like 'you're not my type of man", "The feelings I have for you is no more there" " I'm in love with someone else " etc. We guys simply sulk up such messages and move on. We are not even expected to express emotions in such situations, hence some guys resort to alcohol and other substances to control the hurt. Like in the matter at hand, I'm sure that if it had been the other way round, many of you would even abuse the guy and call him names for threatening the lady.

I don't know why some of you hold the believe that in romantic relationships between a guy and a lady "the guy is using the lady", hence when the guy ends the relationship he is accused of " using and dumping the lady". We know that in such relationships, the guy is the one mostly on the losing end. He loses financially, he also loses sexually and so on yet he's accused of "using and dumping the lady". Sometimes, I even wonder why the ladies being supposedly used and dumped keep going into relationships knowing that they'll be " used". It is supposed to be a mutual relationship that should normally benefit both parties, but in this part of the world, ladies benefit the most due to our archaic culture.

So, free the guy mehn! Nonsense!

saintgp:
He did not lie,he was only playing the girl all along.
Don't tell me u believe that the girl's temper was d MAIN reason why he's breaking up with her after TWO YEARS.
ANYONE WHO CAN READ BTW THE LINES OF THE "WATSAPP CHAT BTW HIM AND THE GIRL WILL KNOW OGA COLLINS OVER DO.I WON'T BE WRONG TO CONCLUDE THAT D GIRL IS IN HER LATE TWENTIES IF NOT THIRTIES.

And you knew that oga Collins over did just from reading the lady's emotional tantrums You already passed judgment against op even when you don't know the lady in question