₦airaland Forum

siofra:
Pumpumking, Davash222, jman06, TheGidredpiller, Walesoflyf and other nairaland redpillers.

You need to see me babe. I be fineeee boyyyy

siofra:
Really

I mean I agree that pumpumking looks worse than a cretin but me

Dude did you take a look at my profile pic?

Abeg no go get depression o. You be fine geh. I just dey whine you

Siofra


Pumpumking

rayopt:
It is today I know that NL's niggas wey dey form alpha are real broke. I mean, just imagine the comments I dey see for front.

The man is right in every sense to spend his money how he likes. And I am putting emphasis on his money because you won't know how that feels until you have yours too blow as you like too.

The only thing that made me lose respect for him is how he is broadcasting about online. But, I guess he wanted full revenge anyway.

You have no sense for tagging people broke just because they don't subscribe to wasteful spending of money on something as useless as a woman's pusszy. If you check well, that guy might not have got any investments anywhere but just stumbled on some undeserved funds he's throwing away!

cococandy:
Stylishly looking for money

See the problem with you ladies?? Though I don't support dating married ladies, but I know for sure that some guys are genuinely interested in being with married ladies. It is a sexual fantasy for some guys.

My advice to op is to kill that yeye fantasy in his head to avoid incurring the wrath of the gods.

UTILITYMAY:
Lies!
I attended the burial of a man who was 146 years old before he died in 2015. I have seen obituaries of people above 130.

Nigerians of those generations never kept accurate information about their ages. It was always based on hearsays and outright lies. No real records!

My problem is that many of you condemning this guy are not doing that out of patriotism but are just being parochial in your reasoning.

Meanwhile, if I were the guy, I would look out for lecturing job in a university with such qualification. I'm sure if he toes that path, in a few years he'll thank God he did.

Who police work help sef

Foolish girl!

That guy is clearly done with the biatch. I'm sure the next thing is to just keep her as a booty call to cure conji. You can never get a guy to be with a lady he no longer wants. The lady will just be punishing herself.

I observed the lackluster attitudes exhibited by the majority of Igbos on the issue of drug regulations in that part of the country. To them everything is 'business'! That is why one shinedu would stay at bridge head market and package methylated spirit and sell same as vitamin syrup, and the people would be watching. While many uninformed Igbos have died untimely due to the activities of those charlatans!

Too bad for a people that call themselves "wise men from the east".

I expect them to also target all drug barons in their locality for jungle justice! They should also go to bridge head in Onitsha and fish out all those dealers who connive with drug barons to distribute illicit drugs in igboland.

You cannot drive out meth out of your own home while making it available to other people's children!

Serves her right. The man did well

FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.

GTFO!

It should be the other way round! The stvpid lady needs to be locked up and made to pay damages to the man for cancelling the wedding and for all the man's money she ate!

prigoz:
Effect of meth and hard drugs, babies of late 90 and early 2000, lack of discipline, home training, no regards to their parents and so on, if care is not taken he must be a cultist with empty brain. Imagine laying his filthy hands on lecturer. I weep for their generation. Pls my simple advice, if your friend, brother or any of your relations is taking hard drug(s), beg him to stop, but if he refuses, stop burning your rags bcoz one day, he will need them ( bcoz of kolo, ara or madness)
Good morning good people of God, pls go to church to hear word of God and have a pleasant Sunday

If your relative is addicted to drugs, the solution is not to "beg them to stop" nor criticise them. Simply take them to rehabs (hospital)! Drug addiction is a sickness. Like other sicknesses, drug addicts can only do little to help themselves! They need professional help.

2loadedguy:
Stop all these your long essay quoting nonsense. The western countries that you are trying to emulate with monogamy have the highest divorce rates. Conversely the children born in polygamous homes in the North have better morals than the ones from monogamous homes down south.
There's nothing wrong with polygamy, it's just your religious brainwashed personality that thinks there's something wrong with it.

It is common sense for any right thinking person to be against polygamy! It has nothing to do with the west or with religion. Polygamy is against nature! Tell yourself the truth, how many women can you have sex with at the same time? Or rather, how long can you last on a woman per round of sex? At most 30minutes! And I'm sure you can't do more than 4 rounds in a day. So, can you now see that nature did not imbue you with the power to be with more than one wife? Forget all the exaggerations you guys do about your sexual prowess.

Our forefathers that married many wives did that mostly out of ignorance and ego. Even at that, they employed measures like female genital mutilation, cultural taboos and so on to keep the women's sexuality in check. It is not like they were super power sexually.

So, there's nothing to support the claims that men are polygamous in nature! At least, not from the angle of sex.

Economically speaking, marrying many wives and filling everywhere with children does no one any good. In the northern part of Nigeria where polygamy is rife with a soaring population, there's nothing to suggest that they're are economically well off. Instead, they score low in all economic indices, suggesting that a large human population does not translate to a thriving economy. Evidences have shown that a smaller population of high quality individuals is better placed to thrive economically than a larger population of low quality, poorly educated, unhealthy and unskilled individuals.

Some of you argue about Arab countries that practice polygamy and use them as standards to promote polygamy. But on a critical analysis of those countries like Saudi, you'll see that they thrive on oil reserves and on proceeds from religion, and not on human capital. Even at that, they're not that fantastic.

Now, compare those Arab countries with our poor Nigeria. You'll see why every right thinking person should never encourage polygamy. We should rather be worried about our astronomically growing population!

Toks2008:
So in your head you are the reasonable one making sense.

Well I don't blame you. Nah you get sense pass.

To think that I wrote this for ladies but some guys are here mastrbating over the matter when they have no clue of how these ladies feel.

You even went ahead to propagate your ignorance by asking ladies to get married to dildos rather than have a man to themselves and nah you get sense pass.

Why did I even respond to you? Mr Mature

Mttttccchewwwww

I wonder who appointed this one minister for single ladies affairs on nairaland I'm sure that any lady who follows the craps you write here as "advice" will land into serious trouble.

I cringe at those of you that are always quick to encourage polygamy! And to think that some of you consider yourselves "mature" makes the matter worse.

Our forefathers did polygamy out of ignorance and many of them lived to regret that choice. Polygamy breeds poverty! Most polygamous homes I saw while growing up were mini war fronts!

Step siblings against step siblings, wives against wives, Husband being seen as loving one wife and her children over the other. Even In-laws against In-laws in some cases. Check children from polygamous homes, they're always toxic and battle ready even while dealing with outsiders.

Are we talking about the economic implications Imagine catering for a polygamous family as a man under this government! No be die be that

Polygamy also does not curb sexual immorality and promiscuity, rather it even encourages it. It is even better for a lady to use her vibrator if she cannot find a guy to marry or date her than getting involved in polygamy!

Many people in an attempt to appear "mature" actually expose their ignorance and lack of sound reasoning. It is too bad!

I'm almost certain that that guy's problem stems from drug abuse. He must have started smoking weed on entry into the university and the stuff messed up his head. Many bright students post sec school suffer similar fate.

The SIWES issue is something that could have been resolved if he had his mind intact. Very easy to resolve

clockwisereport:
Indians are some of the people I doff my hat for. Those guys are doing well in IT, Finance, academia and medicine.
If not for indian tutorials on YouTube, one will graduate from a Nigerian University without knowing how LM35 looks like.

You're very correct brother! Those YouTube tutorials really help.

faithfull18:
I reject it in Jesus name, kilode na, I offend you before

lol...ah

faithfull18:
Na answer wey I no fit explain I wan dey give now.

And na zero wey you no fit carry you go come dey score now

yemi1504:
You can say that again! Guy doesn't know he is a Captain Save A Hoe and defender of the universe. I won't be surprised if he thinks women shit roses and can do no wrong lol SMH. I know them as I have one as a father. Women seem to like their ilk though SMH.

Women don't really like them sexually. They're mostly in the friendzone where the lady exploits them while getting fvckked by the bad toxic guys. It may sound like a joke but that's the reality of most ladies. They get sexually attracted to guys that don't give a fucck about them!

massinola:
And in a bid to register your dissatisfaction and frustration, you had to accuse me of having an eye for a married woman because I was helping humanity? You are so pathetic and should always weigh your words before using them. Good day

You are not helping any humanity. If you wanted to help humanity, you should have just taken away the small child, called the man and speak to him man to man. Perhaps, you need a crash course on how to help humanity!
But what you did is "operation save the hoe" and that attitude is that of pathetically beta SIMPle guys! Real guys don't do that!

Op, mind your business!

All the time here we read stories of how ladies take their loving husbands for granted and met out all manner of ill treatment against them. No one raises an eyebrow.

And just in this single case of a man trying to reset his wife, you're there forming hero and hoe saver! I just wish that man could do you some strong thing so you can learn how not to poke nose. If you were protecting the little child involved, I would have supported you, but I'm suspecting you have an eye on that man's wife.

Meanwhile, did the woman complain to you If she doesn't want the marriage anymore, I'm sure she knows the way to her father's house. I'm almost certain that that man's iron hand is what is sustaining that marriage, so face your front op.


PS: make una no mind this my post above, I dey vex with women because they're all confused creatures and I'm officially tired of trying to figure out what vagina people want. In short, my head don dey pain me sef.

osuofia2:

It surprises me how broke ass naira Landers have opinion about people's way of life
Even if he is broke the dude has left been broke.
Person wey him Papa na big name ,owner of oil wells and service firm were OBO is a Board of director. I haven't even mentioned the Adeleke University.
If this is how to be broke looks like oboy I wan de broke like this too.
At OP I won't be surprise if you turns a witch tomorrow because na your type be wicked elders and village people

You are even talking about his father's money? Davido's royalties from all his music is enough to make him forever rich. Not to talk about all the endorsements and so on.

This op head just dey pain am

Tonnyray:
Nike Adexa is right. Nothing harsh about it. Hypergamy is a reality, it has been since time immemorial. What is befuddling is why we're hyperventilating about it. Nature has structured it such that being physically weaker they must harness their only resource (beauty/sex appeal) to ensure their survival and optimal wellbeing as well as that of their progeny. So the real question remains why does it bother us so much all of a sudden?
How many of us would do better if we were born female?

To me, hypergamy wouldn't have been an issue if women accepted to be where nature placed them; in the kitchen and the other room (like bubu puts it).

aktolly54:
when a single father grow old, who will take care of him? Baby mama

If you are expecting any wife to take care of you at old age, you're on a long thing.

Oizee:
I love your analysis, but what do u think wl bcom of a single man in old age..... it would be worse mehn....think about it thoroughly.

At old age, he can employ a maid to do his chores while he relaxes in his home enjoying his pension and savings. He can also keep friends with other oldies. How many married men who are old in this country even get cared for by their wives or children

God knows that I'll rather marry an illiterate, poor but sexually attractive lady than marry a richer, educated feminist. God forbid!

Look at them typing jargons here! Mtcheewwww

Lightway:
Thanks for such a detailed reply.

I think a lot of people on this group are confused about the redpill because I see some men dating girls, asking them out, and all that. Some say, they don't care if a girl leaves them which doesn't make sense. I mean what do you gain by having a girlfriend? I even see some guys hoping to get married in the future but claim they will vet their wives, which doesn't make sense since AWALT.

I always noticed this divide in the redpill which makes me believe most people are just fake.

The reason I always mention Ubunja is because he is not married and he has a babymama. Which makes sense since a woman is never an investment. She will always stick with you as long as you're her best option. If that changes, she leaves.

This is why MGTOW is one of the most significant parts of the redpill.

I don't think there is such a thing as a happy marriage with women. I mean in this generation.

I also think that dating a girl and spinning plates is also a fool's venture. Why date a girl when you know that when the chips are down, she will leave you? What motivates you to look at a woman and date her when you know she doesn't really care about you? All she cares about is how she feels when she looks at you, thinks of you, touches you. If she looks at you differently, or sees someone more handsome and richer, she will leave.

What pushes you to date girls after knowing this? Is it love? I thought redpillers don't fall in love? So what are you gaining?

So I'm asking other redpillers, why do want to get married when women never marry for love but for your resources and security. Linda Ikeji has resources and security so she stole a man's sperm and gave herself a child.

If you know all these, then why do you want to get married?


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One of the reasons some guys are considering marriage is the fact that the society and our culture still expects a man to be married at certain age. It is not easy overcoming the pressure from your folks left, right and center reminding you everyday that you should get married.

Imagine having all the guys you grew up with married while you're the only one left. So long as you remain in the same society, you'll always have that feeling of being the odd man among your peers. I think that is why many red pilled guys consider marriage but try to do it in a way that they remain on top of their games even while married.

BigYash:
If you have their kind of money,guy you will do worst.. Moreover its not even showing off like you claimed.. Man utd niggas are driving their cars to work,same way you drive your own car..

Same way he drives which car

That guy you quoted has not even a tyre!

I doubt this guy's story of being arrested and locked up in Lagos. Doesn't he have relatives or friends who knew he was supposed to be on SIWES? They could have simply contacted the establishment where he did the SIWES and his university's SIWES supervisor to explain things and work out a solution before it was too late.

Now, under the influence of drugs, the young man has just gotten himself expelled from school. Drugs are bad, my people!

debbydams:
go back to the story where she said, she was the one taking the guy responsibility's

What initially got her hooked to the guy was clearly the flashy yahoo guy lifestyle.