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There's nothing good about marrying short girls.

Thank you!

Truth is that money answereth all things!

With money comes confidence and swag.
With money you can afford those dresses, cologne, cars etc and all these boost your confidence.
Observe any guy who is always quiet and timid, you will discover that his account balance is on red alert. But once an alert of say 100k enters the account, there's always this sudden transformation. His confidence level goes up and everything changes.

My people, money is good o! Please run away from anybody who tells you that money is evil.

Spaceclenzy1:
Men of Honours.... Can somebody suggest any Book that can Horn a Pharmacist more clinical in diagnostics making and identification of Health issues with prescription of Appropriate drugs... Wat am saying is, No more reffering to a Doctor....am Book on that?

What level are you in? And what school?
I'm asking because if you are in good school and has started clinicals, you should be well groomed in histopathology of diseases. If you are still in lower level like 300l downwards, i would advise you to calm down, you will still get to be taught all the you need in higher levels especially if you are in good school. That's the advantage of the pharm.D programme.

RIP to the girl.


I am tired of advising ladies to stop being longer throated, all i can say is, let adults do whatever they want to do with their lives but don't blame anybody or seek pity party when the consequences of your choices start to manifest.

Biafraqueen:
Are u from france.
Do u speek french...


Ur signature

lol...no i am not. I just love that phrase. It means "what is written is written".

Are u from coal city state? That's my state.

blackgold2018:
dumb question..

How is that your business please

Biafraqueen:
That's what majority of girls wants.
Not over hyped and extrovert cheaters.

Hello! I like you. Can we be friends??

Like a poster said above, what it takes to fall in love sometimes is getting closer. But most people(both guys and girls) are superficial and would not get closer once the person does not meet their physical requirement.

So many things can make a guy fall in love. Agreed that chief among them is physical attraction, things like voice and intelligence can also make some guys fall.
For guys, it is not even about facial looks but body structure and sexual appeal. I have one girl right now who is so facially cute but she is too slim for my liking. All these tiny kind of ladies mehn! Whilst the one i am "dying" for is not even that facially fine sef, but has the kind of body structure that readily gives me a hard on just by thinking of her.

Shugavee:
exactly a woman being independent is what we need first to degrade patriarchy!! Feminism is not 4 every one!! Feminism means ur ready to fight to it, n represent it!!! I know alot of ladies that dont belive in feminism but respect it!!! I know how many ladies i hv finacially helped to start little bizneses, this does not mean u cant collect from ur husband or man but dont be dependent on him!! Hv something doing!! I hate the ideology that implys if a woman earns more than man, a man should still take full responsibility of the bills!! Like he is a finacial slave!!! No even if he doesnt ask!!! Take participation in the bills!!

Thank you dear! Good to know that there are still Nigerian ladies that reason properly! Please reject all forms of enslavement from the menfolk. Many abusive men make their wives financially incapacitated so that they could live at his mercy. Some foolish ladies think that living and depending on a man means that the man loves them and that he is the "real man" like they call it. They forget that most times men would make a woman dependent just so that they could have all the advantage to throw all sorts of rubbish at their wives. Majority of women who suffer abuse in marriage or who are being cheated on by their husbands are housewives with no means of livelihood.
When a man knows that his wife has the means to stand on her own without him and that she will not take rubbish from him, he would respect her the more and not treat her like trash.

And later when they finally marry such guys they expect him to suddenly transform to good and loving husbands. Next they start disturbing the cyberspace on how they are being maltreated by their husbands. That is why i don't pity some ladies who are in abusive marriages.

Chikita66:
Men and women are not equal but then both can't be smooth without each other.

Are women any less than men??! This your "women are not equal to men" is nauseating to say the least. Who messed up your mind like this If you are less than men, why are you expecting to be treated with equal respect?? Or do you have another definition of equality?? I will be very careful in raising my daughters so they don't grow with this mindset that they are less humans than their male counterparts.

That's my kind of lady!
Pretty and strong!
Not like all these fragile-looking ladies we have here.

Chikita66:
Even the bible does not believe in equality of men and women, women should be submissive to their husband, I know my right as a woman and I also know that I should be submissive to my husband because he is the head of the house and I know that no matter how much I try to equal to a man, I cannot be, I cannot be a father figure and that is the reason why I dread being a single mother cos no one not even me can fill the void of a father.

Like I said earlier the male gender should endeavor to respect and value the female gender. Removing any form of degradation to the female gender, that's is what I stand for and not some stupid feministic movement.

Stop with the bible nonsense abeg! See, submissiveness in marriage should be a mutual thing. It should imply mutual respect, it should imply you being able to correct your husband when he is going wrong and him accepting your correction. It should imply being able to take a joint decision that would benefit the family! Reason i don't agree with the notion that women must be the one to always submit to their husband is that men are not more intelligent than women and so, they cannot be said to possess the ability to take better decisions than their wives. In other words, men are not all-knowing and incapable of mistakes, hence submission means him being to accept a superior opinion and corrections from his wife for the overall interest of the family, likewise his wife accepting a better opinion and corrections from him. That is why i advocate mutual submission in marriage. Some of you ladies like getting yourselves into trouble with your wrong mindset of "I must submit to every whims of my husband", yet deep into the marriage when the chips are down you start complaining.

Chikita66:
Respect is reciprocal, I am not equal to my parent but he treats me with respect.

You bringing the whole slave issue is another dimension altogether.

If i may ask, why do you think men and women are not equal?? I'm choking with curiosity!

Chikita66:
The fact that I don't support some things men do towards women doesn't mean that I believe men and women should be equal, each gender especially the male gender should have respect and treat the female gender with respect and accord.

If you don't support that men and women should be treated equally then don't expect men to treat women with respect. Just accept your place as a slave to the male gender! Slaves don't expect their masters to treat them with respect!

Wallade:
No body go tell you. Experience will teach you

Feminists are different from misandrists .

I will date and marry a feminist because I want the best for my daughters.

I'll order for omosexy version of sex doll. I too like that lady and envy her husband. I wish she could give me one of her daughters!

I like her courage!!!
At least she was bold enough to ask question.

The solution is to ban open drug markets, create coordinated drug distribution centers and ensure that patent medicine deals don't have access to such drugs. Such drugs are meant to be sold on prescription by qualified pharmacists who would counsel the patient and monitor him/her during the course therapy.

People only have access because they can easily walk into a patent medicine store and get the drug. The patent medicine man is not a professional and is concerned only on making profits. Let us get things right for once in this country for goodness sake!

FG Bans Open Drug Market In 2019
The Federal Government says it will shut down all open drug markets this year to curb unwholesome drug distribution system.The Minister of Health, Prof. Isaac Adewole, disclosed this in a statement issued after a ground breaking ceremony of the Coordinated Wholesale Centre (CWC) in Abia.
Adewole, in the statement made available to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) by the Pharmacists Council of Nigeria (PCN) on Wednesday, frowned at the chaotic drug distribution system in the country thereby endangering the lives of the populace.

This is a very welcome development as it will help address issues of chaotic drug distribution in Nigeria. It will also help address issues of drug abuse and misuse being witnessed in the country.
I suggest that every state in Nigeria should create co-ordinated drug distribution centers to be manned by qualified pharmacists and that strict penalties should be meted out on anybody/company who goes against this ban.

Thank you FG for taking this bold step towards getting things right in our drug market. Let us strictly monitor how drugs are used in the country. It will go a long way to better our health sector and improve life expectancy of Nigerians. Let us stop quacks and untrained people from killing unsuspecting Nigerians with drugs.
Hurray!!!!!!

Source: psnnational.org

Everybody is just seeking attention these days! He ain't even half as toned as I am yet no bragging.
Bros, stop embarrassing the great Unibest.

It still baffles me how a lady would have the heart to humiliate a caring husband in this manner. The worst sin a lady can commit against her husband is having another man bang her, let alone getting impregnated in the process! That's the height of disrespect! It is a sin to even think about forgiving such a lady!
It will be better if she kills me first so that i won't be alive to witness such.
Men who are married to faithful women don't know what they have.

Even the ones you have been "toasting" and she has been doing shakara for you, once she hears that you are finally hooked to another babe she automatically becomes your enemy! This makes me wonder if she had been thinking that no other babe would find you good enough.

Ladies and confusion are like 5$6

Some men really don't know how to treat women sha! Too much ego! Men should understand that women are highly emotional creatures. Just some sweet words to stroke their emotions will have most women doing what you want. But our egos will not let some of us.

I'm sure you saw all the signs of a bad spouse before marriage but you ignored them because of the frivolity called "love". You ladies make wrong choices of marriage partners for frivolous reasons. You reject a jewel and settle for a jerk and when the "love" clears from your eyes you start seeing all the faults! By that time you start disturbing our peace with your complaints.

Having highlighted the above, i'll advise you to try once more at settling whatever issue you have with your husband. If he will agree to see a counsellor with you, good and fine. But if after making all efforts things ain't getting better, please divorce him. So long as you have money to cater for your children, go ahead and divorce him. Children of divorced parents only suffer if there is no money to take care of their needs.
Everyone deserves a happy marriage so no one should settle for less.

Sterope:
It didn't happen.

It happened to me! I was 5-6yrs when i started "bedding" my childhood wives and i got real erecttions then. I mean it!

Marriage is a good thing if the man and woman RESOLVE to make it work. There must be a conscious decision from the partners to work on their marriage and succeed in it.

Marriages fail because many people marry for all the wrong reasons. Please build your marriage on tangible substance and not on frivolities. Never marry anybody just because of "love"! What we call love many times is mere bodily attraction which fades when we get used to the individual and begin to meet other people we are more attracted to. Build your marriage on sound character and compatibility. Marry someone who is of good character, patient and can stand with you when the attraction vanishes and reality sets in.
If you know you love wealth so much, please marry someone who is wealthy! Don't go and marry a poor man because some people are shaming those ladies that look for rich men. However, be ready to take the disrespect that might come with being a liability to your man. If you love respect, look for an average guy who can worship the ground on which you walk. In summary, marry someone who complements you.

Sterope:
False memory. It is not possible for a boy of five to have erection, biology 101.

It is possible! The age of puberty you were taught in biology does not apply to everybody!

sanpipita:
True I started having sexual urges at 8 I can't remember anyone or anything influencing me to it, our problem is since we think kids shouldnt be having sex then it's becomes unnatural for them to have urges, we need to fix this mentality

Honestly! The thing is fuccking natural! Some people think that because biology textbooks stated certain ages as age of puberty means that everybody must conform to that. They forget that whatever age their biology texts specify is an average age and that some people could fall below that age while others could go above.

dangotesmummy:
if the story is true,there are 2 possibilities

1. A close adult female relation may have been sexually abusing the lad at age 3-5 or 6 till he now developed sexual attraction for women which is unusual and unnatural.it could also be a female nanny or house help touching and handling his penis while placing him on her legs and putting her brez in his mouth or making him touch her nipples.btw if you have female adult nannies at home babysitting your young sons while you're at work,it's advisable to fix cctv cameras in secluded parts of your house before they turn your son into a depraved sexual deviant or someone with warped attraction for older women by sexually abusing him at a young age without your knowledge

2. The mother may have unknowingly foked up his psyche by always being naked around him or bathing in his presence or having sex in his presence

All these men that have attraction for older women,or are rapeest,sex maniacs,nyphomaniacs or pedophiles.an adult female had sometime in their early life sexually abused them knowingly or unknowingly and not all of them have recovered from It,hence they become animalistic

Little boys mental health need to be protected as much as you protect the females

Madam, some lads are simply precocious and get to develop sexual feelings at early ages. I was there! How can you explain a 5-6yrs old boy getting a rock hard errrection at the sight of an attractive lady I'm not ruling out the possibility of sexual abuse, but it could still be that the guy naturally developed sexual feelings earlier than what biology textbooks stated.

Sterope:
That was curiousity not sexual urges. You must have been exposed to things which you should not have been exposed to.

Does curiosity make one get an errrection? I wasn't exposed to anything i can remember! It just came naturally!