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Op, they'll castigate you for this post because many don't like to hear the truth. They'll rather you lie to them and decieve them instead of telling the truth.

So, save your energy and precious time. Las las people will live with the consequences of their decisions.

maasoap:
Her decision on relationship has flaw. I hope it doesn't take her long to realise that. When and where is the man earning more than her coming from? Is he coming at all? What if comes but with some other intolerable baggage?
What kind of respect is she expecting from a man who earns far above her? In relationship, you must have something to trade off to make it real and last long.

That lady doesn't have sense!

Her type usually end up with scammers who present a false impression of being wealthy only to end up defrauding them or shiting family responsibility to them after marriage.

The likes of Churchill!

gaius01:
Bro keep fooling your self on this space.

Why is it that if a female monicker on this forum is sexually expressive, some of you think they're guys hiding under the female monicker?

Does it mean you've not met ladies who freely express their sexual thoughts without minding what anyone thinks?? I have met a lot of such ladies and I must confess they're my kind of ladies.

pansophist:
Omo, calm down o.

Just get PR move back to maybe Ghana or naija. No point living in Canada if it destroys your soul. Or you understand the game, work with the coin you're giving in life, and play to move up there.

Then be equally ruthless in mate selection, since you've been at the bottom of the selection before and know that place very well. The top always feels better than the bottom.

As a man, always position your self in a place where you'll have "comparative advantages". Meaning that a Nigerian with a western passport will have far more romantic opportunities in Africa than in the West.

For example, Davido or Yemi Alade will never blow like they did in Nigeria if they are in the West. Same as Burna boy, wizkid, etc. Your home will always crown you.

Better be a lion in a jungle, that a dog in a city. This life, na like game, know your cards and play to your advantage.

So don't ever catch yourself complaining or being angry at the game, it's the way of loosers. Don't do it. Get angry with yourself that you allowed yourself to be beaten.

Life is not for the weak. Toughen up man.

'Loosers' are those who are not happy about and reluctant to conform with the deceptive life most people now live just for materialism. The devil is truly in charge of this life!

Las las we'll all learn to live this life of lies since that is what the world now want ( especially ladies).

This is why it is not very proper to empower the female gender.

Power



This is because with power, money is almost assured!


Some people have been chasing power with money for so long but it has continued to elude them.

Power can strip one of all his/her money within a twinkle of an eye but with all the money in this world, one can't do anything to someone who has power.

So, I'll choose power if I'm to choose one of the two. However, my focus is to gain both of them.

OdefaGirl:
And the men? Do they also have body counts or na wood Dem dey insert their rod?

Men and women are not judged alike when it comes to issue of sex.

By the time you come back to this forum to complain about this same lady, all the people here trying to guittrip you into marrying that girl would blame you and accuse you of ignoring the red flags.

rolams:
The parent of those promiscuous also said this before.

Is the guy not guilty too?

I know my bloodline and I can assure you that promiscuity is not part of us.

OdefaGirl:
Time will tell.... Don't make noise yet. You call that promiscuous?

Somebody who has had ten body counts is promiscuous! The ten are just those she told op about, there may still be many more she didn't disclose to op.

OdefaGirl:
But he that hid his past from us and even confirmed that we would judge him..is a saint right? You described her with such derogatory word cz she opened up to him.... You are a mean human, very uncalled for. I believe you would get married tomorrow and have female children

My female children can never be that promiscuous. Never!

Rubbish thread!

Op, run for your dear life! Don't let anyone guittrip you into marrying a public toilet in the name of wife. You can't satisfy a lady who has had sex with 10 different guys!

Beware!

Little21:
Hope they are still guys that sees other quality's in a woman than ' breast and yansh" . No matter where they were asked , "90 percent" will say those two. They don't even wanna know if she has morals, good behavior, reserved, smart, humble, there are a lot of quality one can look for in a partner, but sadly what most Nigerian guys sees is those two. I don't even know the essence of having those two in excess. When at the end one is used for "Extraction" the other is used for "Breastfeeding". I just don't know their problem with someone else's body.

Ehn, leave us with our choices hanty.

We love b00bs and azz because it makes you more feminine physically and attract us. ;DIt provides a great relief from the troubles of this world when we hold those soft, firm and succulent feminine body parts.

Confidence, fearlessness, extroversion (but not talkativeness), knowing when to be empathetic.

Reno, the political jobber!

His desperation to be in the good books of the people in power is fast turning him into a parrot. Always speaking from both sides of his mouth and making a f00ll of himself.

If this is how best to hunt for political job, I'll rather remain in my noble Pharmacy profession abeg.

illicit:
Please read the attached SUG press release

Her corpse wasn't mutilated


The OP said (Eyes "allegedly" plucked out)

And then the SUG press release dispelled the rumour

Try to be patient when reading or else you will fail WAEC English Comprehension

Who then burried her in a shallow grave? I can see something like blood stains around her groin area, doesn't that suggest she probably had some organ removed?

In your attempt to escape tribal bigots, don't try to shield this obvious case of ritual killing.

RIP, young lady. May your killers never find peace.

zed7:
Shut up and stuck to topics your age.

Tell your father to shut up, mugu!

zed7:
Nothing surprising here. Men have left their roles to women, expect more of this.

As a man, never allow the woman wear your crown. Encourage her to excel but work twice as hard to remain the man. Even if she is financially better off, at least you will not be dependent on her.

Women are not wired to be providers, men are. You're handing her a role she knows nothing about. This is the consequences. Men should sit up. If you marry a high flyer, be twice the flyer she is.

Stop typing rubbish when serious issues are being discussed! It's nauseating to say the least!
Need I remind you that Bill Gates was 'providing' when Melinda left him. Many men have lost their wealths to some hungry wives?


As if we have not seeing men who are "providers" being treated worse by their wives! This is how you pull theories from your azs and want us to believe such!

Exmilitant:
Either ways you are still been f.uc.ked.

Ladies are the ones fvckking (using) men in the real sense of the word!

They sap our energies and money too

While I'm aware that public hospitals have the potentials of being the best when it comes to quality healthcare, your experience is an exception compared to the experiences of millions of Nigerians.

Alot of things are lacking in the system, both men and equipment

I think it is because they don't usually logout their accounts but stay logged in even while doing other things.

Supported!


Nigerians are too stubborn to be treated with kid's gloves. If any government wants to make headway in terms of policy implementation, then some measure of ruthlessness must be applied.

KarinaSlim:
Thank you ma for this information.

Edo men should stay far away from me biko.

That reminds me, I did NYSC with one Edo guy like that. He was in my PPA. That boy ehn, VERY CUNNING.

Because he didn't let you chop him abi

Reality3080:
u igbos n your narcissist attitude, u will b d criminals n still b feigning ignorance.

I can bet my life that an Igbo will b involved 100%, check this same nairaland n see a video where a Thai police was interrogating an Igbo boy n he made it clear igbos are a curse to Nigeria n Africa at large

Don't mind those people o. Let them continue disgracing the Igbo ethnic group.

Recently, the PCN wanted to relocate the sabon gari open drug market in Kano to a coordinated wholesale center (CWC) where they can be thoroughly regulated by government agencies, it was this same Igbo drug traders that opposed the move. If not wickedness, tell me why anybody would oppose such move aimed at improving health of Nigerians.

Thank goodness for the political will shown by Kano state government led by Umaru Ganduje in ensuring that the move became a reality.

This menace has continued to destroy our health care system due to the failure of goverments to implement the national drug distribution guidelines (NDDGs) which was intelligently crafted by the government of Goodluck Ebele Jonathan in 2012.

These guidelines states that when manufactured, medicine are to be moved from one registered premises to another. It was meant to replace the current chaotic open drug markets which does not give room for regulation but rather encourage people to falsify drugs, mishandle drugs and thereby sending many unsuspecting Nigerians to their early graves.

As the system is right now, while some people operate outside the open markets and under strict regulation by goverment agencies, others operate unregulated in the open markets. If goverment fails to implement the NDDGs, a time would definitely come when everybody would move into the open markets and join the destruction of our healthcare system. You cannot be regulating some people while others operate unregulated while the government fold their arms and watch.

With the NDDG, drugs would go from manufacturers to a Coordinated Wholesale Center (CWC) from where pharmacies and hospitals can purchase their stocks. With this system, the governments or private individuals can invest in a Coordinated Wholesale Center (CWC) by approaching PCN for licensure and meeting other requirements stipulated in the guidelines.

However, since the NDDG was crafted by goverment, successive goverments have not shown the political will to implement it. Those who currently benefit from the chaotic system have continued to hinder the take off of the guidelines by bribing governments and politicians at various levels who then look away while they operate unregulated.

Governments should know that any investments made in the health sector without a thoroughly regulated drug distribution system is tantamount to throwing away funds into the ocean. Drugs are very critical in healthcare and should be thoroughly regulated. Some drugs are readily degraded by environmental factors such as sunlight, humidity, temperature etc. In the open markets, most of the illiterates operating they don't even know how to preserve the different drugs to ensure that they remain wholesome throughout their shelf lives. This is aside the fact that the criminal elements among them deliberately fake these drugs thereby endangering people's lives.

Usually when an error is noticed in a batch of products or when death occurs from use of a product (Eg, the case of My Pikin), there's a guide for the recall of such products from circulation but these open markets don't know about such guidelines, hence they'll continue to sell the product and thereby killing more people.

Therefore, the goverment of His Excellency Bola Ahmed Tinubu should as a matter of urgency implement the NDDGs and put an end to this messed up open drug market system we currently have. That policy will not only protect Nigerians from untimely deaths and injuries from use of unwholesome drugs, goverment can also benefit greatly from the policy. Governments would gain increased revenue from taxation and also save money from having an improved healthcare system. The policy will also create millions of direct and indirect jobs for Nigerians thereby helping to solve the problem of unemployment in the country.

The minister of health should please, call the attention of the president to the NDDGs policy. I'm very optimistic that when implemented thoroughly, the policy will help sanitize the drug distribution system and consequently improve the nation's healthcare system.

Kobojunkie:
How many of those with 3 kid can afford all of them? Most Nigerians can't even afford one kid let alone three. Stop telling this lie abeg!

2. Abegi!

All the ones I know are comfortably taking care of their kids. But I've noticed that you view everything from the lens of the western world.

Left for you, Nigeria and Nigerians should cease to exist because they never measure up to your western standards. With such mindset, it's a tough call trying to convince you that some people in Nigeria are actually conscious of and checking their rates of reproduction.

Kobojunkie:
Stop telling this lie abeg!

The epidemic is nationwide.

I am telling what I know about. I know that most couples in my environment don't birth more than 3kids these days. I also know that cases of childlessness due to infertility is high in the southeast and that is why baby factory is a booming business there.

If you consider the fact that Igbos generally don't marry early and also that old age is a factor that contributes significantly to infertility, then you don't need anybody to tell you that population is being checked more in the southeast. I know there are outliers but that can't be compared to what you have in other Nigerian regions.

Most people in the south, especially southeast, don't birth much children these days and several factors checkmate population down south. Such policy should be directed at the north.

emmi14:
Is Nigeria leadership not qackery? Buhari has no valid acedemic records and related certificates yet he finished 8years in aso rock. Bola Tinubu have come with another mapped out years of jamboree. Tinubu must go to jail also or leave the fake doctor alone..

You or someone you care about might be a victim of quack medical practice someday, maybe then you'll understand.

Protein0:
Lolll
All of the deaths he recorded were investigated?

Don't mind him.

When we hear that life expectancy in Nigeria has fallen to 48years for men and 52years for women, people are always quick to blame goverment for the declining life expectancy but fail to realize that they're complicit.

High death rate in Nigeria is multifactorial and quackery is a major contributing factor.

I'm pretty sure that this ediat must have killed many unsuspecting Nigerians due to his quackery. However, because there's usually no autopsies when people die in Nigeria, people like him get away with killing Nigerians in the name of medical practice.

We really need to make autopsies compulsory even in our hospitals. Once a patient dies, an autopsy should be carried out immediately by forensic experts to determine cause of death before the dead is intered. This would help to unravel alot of malpractices going on in our hospitals so that those culpable are punished appropriately.

There have been cases of death from wrong use of drugs in our hospitals, but nobody asks questions! Nigerians are too ignorant and that is why they swallow everything the doctor tells them without asking questions. While I am aware that there are quite a few good doctors who update themselves with knowledge of medicine all the time, there are quite a number of those who seldom update themselves to stay intune with trends in medical practice, but resort to cut-and-join practices thereby sending people to their early graves.

This is why patient folders need to be guarded by patients and their relatives should there be need for litigations.