₦airaland Forum

marcopollo:
It's unfair that people are criticizing the girl - she didn't do anything wrong. She didn't bring another person with her or anything. It's cruel that the guy just left her there, alone and embarrassed.

Why did she collect the guy's money previously without honouring the date Is that not scam

That girl is not innocent. She just met a senior in the game

Jovialjune1:
The guy left her to pay for what he ordered, so what if she only have enough to pay her own bill? Who will pay the guy's bill since he left her without paying anything?

Let her use the money the bros sent her for tfare before to settle the guy's own bill and they pay her own bill. The equation is balanced.


That guy is a legend!

Nsogbu001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxHZx_fnmT0

Marriage is not by force. I keep saying this always. Parents stop betrothing your daughters to a man when they are still kids. Some part of Nsukka people still do this. Love shouldn't be one sided please.

Just imagine this nonsense.

Did the bride tell you she wasn't happy with the marriage Must people be shining teeth all the time to show they're happy

Some of us like to wear "down-to-bussiness" face most times. Doesn't mean we ain't happy

Marriage is a scam. Enjoying my single life!

I'm really happy that more guys have learnt how to "marry up" and not get entangled with broke azz naija ladies! The era of men slaving for women is over! Women must now bring MONEY (emphasis on purpose) to the table!



#Men'sLivesMatter

#LetTheMenBreath

UnfairLife7:
we men don't have shame. Instead of him to go work his ass off and marry a Nigerian woman. He's looking for cheap means of getting paper through this ugly shit

Tufia

And why must he work his asz off just to marry a Nigerian liability of a girl When he can get a richer oyinbo lady that can upgrade his status?

Did he tell you that his name is JOB the sufferer

If Naija girls would not marry a broke guy, why should guys be the ones to marry wretched Nigerian girls??

I like what the guy did jare! Even though I personally might prioritize other factors in choosing a partner, I honestly like it when guys also go for who's financially ripe when choosing a wife, provided they would be committed to the lady and not scam or treat her badly on the long run.

What is source for the goose is also source for the gander

Jennyclay:
Another broke Nigerian monkey at it again

Biko I can’t laugh

As you brokeshame and reject them, they're left with no choice than to marry real women that can upgrade them, not some bunch of broke and entitled Nigerian ladies with zero values to add in a man's life.


Why e still dey pain you

You people should stop killing beautiful and harmless animals like antelopes that pose less threats to our existence!

We urgently need increased mental heathcare in Nigeria! More psychiatrists are seriously needed!

Most of the reasons people comit suicide are things that can easily be handled by psychiatric care. If we had a functional psychiatric healthcare system, some of these people commiting suicide would have gotten all the help they needed to deter them from suicide.

But our doctors would rather be dragging spaces with other healthcare professionals instead of developing medical care in Nigeria.

Miravik900:
Yeah that’s true but the last girl I dated was still naive I’m the one that disflowered her she was even scared she might get pregnant so was insisting I will be using condoms anytime we are at it but I told her she shouldn’t worry as I would be doing the withdrawal method


But as time passes I stopped doing the withdrawal method and started cumming inside but she didn’t take in we had it for like 3 months

Go to the lab and run fertility test. It is one of the simplest tests to do. Just a smear of your sperm on a slide bearing a drop of normal saline viewed under a microscope would give info on the viability of your sperm

I know you are crushing on that girl




Many Naija guys are currently crushing on her but it'll pass with time

Kobojunkie:
1. Are you now insinuating that all those who raise children in Nigeria end up having to depend on their ward in their retirement years or what?

Again, my post did not suggest that.

While there are FEW who might have had access to larger wealth and as such might not necessarily depend on their children at old age, the MAJORITY of Nigerian parents pay through their noses to push their children up the ladder hence, are left with little or nothing at old age.

Until we have a functional society, I need you to always consider how things presently work in Nigeria before accusing people of deliberately birthing "slaves" to care for them. Unless, you are saying the majority of Nigerians should stop procreating, which is not possible!

Good night ma'am

Kobojunkie:
What you have admitted to here is that even with the system as it is there are those who were still able to put together a retirement plan that does not include birthing slaves to cater to them in their old age, right ?

I have not admitted what you already conditioned your mind to think. My thought is pretty simple to understand.

The childless didn't have to spend their earnings raising children, so they saved up. Same cannot be said of those who spent their own earnings catering for their children.

Any sensible child who passed through Nigerian parents in Nigeria and got supported up the ladder by same parents in Nigeria would agree with me that the least he/she could do is pay back such parents by caring for them at old age.

Unless you're implying that the majority of Nigerians should stop procreating and save up their earnings for old age, which would beget the question; how do we ensure continuity of life in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
What percentage of them as it is are being "taken care of" by their children in their old age?

In that same Nigeria, how have the childless been able to get by all the while?

My post did not suggest that all of them are being taken care of. I'm only implying that parents who have worked hard to raise their children without any govermental support should be cut some slack when they expect to be cared for by same children at old age.

The childless must have saved up their earnings for old age, so they've been getting by spending their savings.

Kobojunkie:
You mean you need to birth a slave to care for you when you are old, abi? you call them family but they are in fact slaves intended to cater to you after you have spent your life refusing to plan for your old age.

Until Nigeria has developed to the point of having a support system for children and even the elderly like it obtains in the west, we'll continue to have this cycle of parents expecting care from their children at old age and it is justified.

The scenario in Nigeria today is that parents work their butts off during their working years and spend whatever they make in caring for their children with NO governmental support whatsoever! So, it is only normal that such parents are cared for at old age. Unless you and those with similar views as yours are implying that the majority of Nigerians should stop procreation and save whatever they have for old age. If we are to go by that, wouldn't that lead to generational extinction

The point I'm making is that, unless that time we have a functional system,Nigerian parents are very right in expecting care from their children at old age especially when they used their youthful energies in working hard to raise such children. Sometimes while trying to be western in our thinking, it is good we also consider the perculiarities of our environment.

I was one of those who believed Tonto from the beginning because I knew she was telling the truth about this man.

Churchill is just a Playboy who has vehemently refused to grow up and change from the Playboy lifestyle.

Unfortunately ladies continue to fall for his type because they have mastered the art of decieving women with fake lifestyles and telling them what they want to hear.

Ibkhaleel:
Dont deceive yourself......LP is an ethnic based party...the north will never accept LP

You're the one who's seen LP as ethnic party because of your unwarranted hatred for the tribe of the party's last presidential candidate. LP is a party owned by the Nigerian labour Congress (NLC) and the last time I checked, NLC is a union of all workers in Nigeria regardless of tribe.

Remember the first time the party produced a governor in Nigeria was through Dr Olusegun Mimiko of Ondo state. Also, aside producing the Abia state governor, the party produced many national and state assembly legislators not only from the southeast, but also from the southsouth and southwest regions.

So, if the leadership of the part can consolidate on what they were able to achieve during the last election, they are in a better position to displace PDP as the only viable opposition party in Nigeria.

Op, no go kill yourself sake of say you wan give 0rgasm. You don't owe her any 0rgasm!


I believe the man and woman has to hustle their individual 0rgasm just like they would hustle while eating to fill their stomach.

She has to study her body and know how best to get herself to cvm.

Like someone suggested up there, cowgirl can help her sort herself. There's alot of things to think and worry about than a woman's cvmming.

That Adaobi is such a disgrace to the Igbo nation.


I dey shame for the golddigger

PDP is fast going into extinction!

Very soon, LP will replace PDP as the major opposition party in Nigeria. I just wish LP leaders at all levels could up their games and displace PDP.

Meanwhile, thanks to Alhaji Umaru Ganduje for the political will he demonstrated in relocating sabon gari open drug market to the current coordinated wholesale center. It takes a man of strong will and wisdom to achieve that feat.

Fugazy2023:
No amount of noise and crying from the igbos in Niger republic can stop the invasion.
Leaders are not moved by sentiments, noise and emotions.
This isn't even about Tinubu as you delusional clowns are painting it. It is about ECOWAS decision and the legitimate democratic elected government MUST be installed back.
All this cheap blackmail will not work.
Even if it is your Peter Obi that is in power, Nigeria will still be part of the country that will invade.

Why do y'all like to politicize everything Have you ever thought of this Niger coup as a possible bait by vested interests in the international community to create a major crisis in the west African region that could possibly consume you and yours

Is Nigeria ready for any wars at this time after years of fighting Boko Haram Imagine how long it took to subdue Boko Haram let alone Niger republic in alliance with other international interests which might include Boko Haram and ISWAP fighters

We've got to tread with caution in this Niger issue, after all, we ain't gaining anything from that country.

mariahAngel:
Imagine; they're taking jobs away from Nigerians, but still want to sell them their products.
The environment is not conducive for operations, but good for sales.
Exploitation much.

The worst part is that most Nigerians don't even see they're being cheated, making excuses for these companies, and blaming the government for everything.

The government already has a policy that would thoroughly regulate importation and distribution of any company's drugs in Nigeria and that is the National Drug Distribution Guidelines (NDDGs) which had been developed at a time dating back to Obasanjo's administration. The problem is that successive goverments had lacked the political will to implement the policy.

If we can have those guidelines fully functional, we wouldn't have to worry about people importing substandard GSK and other company's products since the NDDG would ensure quality control of all drugs being distributed to any parts of the country.

What Nigerians need to do now is get the federal government implement their own policy and stop pandering to those who don't want the status quo changed in our drug markets due to their selfish interests.

Ignorance at its peak!

Ogbanje literally means one who comes briefly to the world and is meant to die early even before growing into adulthood.


I'm sure most of the members of this church doesn't know what ogbanje means.

Nothing beats a younger and fresher pumpum

orohbirodeysmel:
You men sef...
You people say, you guys will no longer propose to ladies that it is not befitting of an African man...

Now ladies wanna propose and it is still a problem to you people...

What do you people want sef

It is not a problem to us that you're proposing but can you carry the responsibilities that come with marriage propositions?

He should have used his position to sue those doctors that were supposed to be on duty in the hospital at that time.

Alot of things are going wrong in our healthcare institutions because Nigerians don't sue doctors for medical negligence. We seriously need to incorporate litigations and punishment of erring doctors in our healthcare system.

Many have been sent to their early graves due to negligence on the part of our medical doctors. Enough is enough!

A man would see a pretty lady with all the alluring Physical attributes and go for her with every determination to work hard and cater for her needs.

On the other hand, a lady would see a handsome dude with a hot body and fall yakata for him, but instead of working hard to cater for him like a man would for his hot wife, she'll rather start complaining of the guy being deadbeat.

They refuse to spend their resources in satisfying their amorous desires! Talk about eating their cakes and wanting to have it. That is why I don't pity any lady in similar situation as op's neighbor.

This is why the federal government should immediately implement the national drug distribution guidelines (NDDG) and ensure that the coordinated wholesale centers (CWCs) replace the current open drug markets system.

Doing the above will ensure quality control of drugs being imported and distributed in Nigeria by government regulatory agencies such as PCN, NAFDAC, SON etc.

The current system gives room for any foreign pharma company to dump whatever products they have into the open drug markets! This has contributed to the declining quality of healthcare delivery and life expectancy in the country.

Government seriously need to take drastic actions to close all the open drug markets and ensure that foreign pharma companies stop seeing Nigeria as dumping ground for unwholesome products.

In this time and age where cost of decent living has skyrocketed and women become insatiable in their craving for material comfort, it is very important for men to insist that their women bring MONEY to the family's table otherwise, men will continue to die untimely thereby leaving their offsprings to suffer.

Women must bring equal amount of MONEY to the table to ensure a financially stable home

I think the Niger coup may just be a bait set by some international terrorist groups for Nigeria and other sub-saharan African nations to escalate crisis in the region in other to actualize the so called Islamic state of Northern Nigeria.

Let's play wise and not fall into such bait! After all, it's not like we're gaining anything from Niger republic as to warrant an intervention into their national affairs.

Exactly!

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