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PureNigerDeltan:
Nigeria will just wake up one day and tag anything they like “illicit”…. Mumuest country ever🤦🏾‍♂️

Illiterate spotted!

Mercury is a heavy metal which is poisonous to humans! Cancer is now rampant in this country and can be linked to these heavy metals.

People like you who're not knowledgeable should stop commenting on matters you're clearly ignorant about. This is a major problem in this country! We sometimes allow uninformed people in a particular field to head positions of authority that relate to fields they know nothing about.

KendoRide:
The level of wickedness in this country is actually alarming. I tell you what we see on the internet could not even be upto 1% of the evil going on in every sector of this whole system.

I tell you.

Evil pervades the length and breadth of this country.

Alot of people are being killed untimely in this country especially in the healthcare sector. Some people are there in the open drug markets killing Nigerians with fake drugs while others are in different quack private hospitals sending people to early graves.

When you hear that life expectancy in Nigeria is as low as 48years for men and 52years for women, these are the causes.

Since the goverment appears not to be serious in regulating the health sector, I think Nigerians should rise to the occasion and employ jungle justice on these unscrupulous killers.

Ibechris2:
I really donnot understand this news.

Is it that it contains mercury or that u want them to start production in Nigeria...I really do not get this matter.

I remembered when Dora used to tell us then that colgate toothpaste was poisonous not until colgate started production in Nigeria,hence stopped being poisonous.


Added note: someone here said I was stupid because I mentioned how Dora told us how colgate was bad and today,the same colgate is producing in Nigeria. At that time,the only people that disputed Dora was Sahara reporters and the same trend might be rolling out.

Below is the evidence at that time.

Products manufured outside the shores of the country pose greater risk than those manufactured in Nigeria. This is because the unscrupulous importers connive with their foreign manufacturers to compromise quality!
They'll present the quality products to NAFDAC to gain registration only to go back to their foreign collaborators to produce entirely different thing.

Talking about Colgate toothpaste, it's possible that quality was being compromised probably by adding dangerous additives when it was being manufactured outside the country. Now that it's manufactured in Nigeria, NAFDAC and other regulatory agencies can have easy access to their factory anytime any day. Under such scenario, quality will be much more guaranteed! Same is what they want to do with this crusader soap.

Many of you don't know how these importers have succeeded in sending many Nigerians to their early graves. Some pharmaceutical importers are the worst. They go to India and China, import unwholesome drugs and continually kill Nigerians through that means. For example, paracetamol that is supposed to contain 500mg of the active ingredient would be made to contain only as little as 50mg and bulked up with cheaper expicient! Same with other drugs!
Doctors will be treating while patients are dying!
This is one of the reasons why goverment is working hard to close down own open drug markets and relocate the honest dealers to a coordinated wholesale center where regulation will be easier. But the dishonest dealers are fighting to frustrate government efforts. They will come and whip up pity from ignorant Nigerians like you while you blindly support them to frustrate the noble efforts of goverment, yet you go back and blame goverment for our failed healthcare system or blame politicians for seeking healthcare abroad!

In a nutshell, healthcare products (including cosmetics) that directly or indirectly affect human lives are better manufactured locally! In the event that the country cannot afford to manufacture all, then very strict regulatory measures should be adopted to control import of such products. Some of you don't know that an enemy country or a country that does not like Nigerians can easily send containers of poisons as drugs or cosmetics to wipe off Nigerians!

This is really heartbreaking!

That woman should not be allowed to go unpunished! Human right groups in the country should rise in defense of this poor child.

My heart is bleeding at the sight of this girl! I wish I could get hold of the devilish woman so I can mend her by myself!

kkins25:
Domestic chores can be done in one to three hours. This idea of domestic chores draining all one's energy is really strange to me. Most of the day is spent doing nothing. children are even in School, so what work exactly are they talking of?

The wife has lost interest abeg. If anybidy should complain that sex is tasking, it should be men. unless, the wife is doing some reverse cow girl, which i doubt never hapoens..

If there's no medical condition involved, then the husband has ever right to kick her out. Women divorce men on the grounds of poor sexual performance, so why all of a sudden, the man is on the "selfish" side?

Acidosis, your arguments don't hold at all at all.

Exactly! Don't mind Acidosis and his likes that like to make excuses for lazy women.

Acidosis:
I don't think the idea of contributing equally will ever work. That already defiles the purpose of marriage.

Rather than contribute equally, then everyone should just fend for themselves na abi? When you return from your 700k job, you will make your food and change diapers for one child. Allow your woman manage herself and one kid. Trust me, a lot of women will wholeheartedly agree.

And you think I have problems with changing my kids' diapers? I will wholeheartedly accept your suggestion too

correctguy101:
Brother no waste time dey vex too much. We're on a cyber space especially when this Emperor Seun's anonymous forum is concerned.

All the nonsense here could be converted to teaching an AI about us all and I fear for humans if the results got any AI to act like most Nairalanders... No mind me, I'm idle again today. ...

And don't get me wrong.

I'm one of the men who do not like their women working. Old school that I am. I personally see nothing wrong with it. My sisters has scolded me about it many times but my opinion is: I just don't need a woman to be working before I can like her. As long as she's in possession of what I like,she can relax and let me take care of her.

The woman I should've married those years wasn't doing anything and we were doing okay with all I had. I was even prepping for if I died before her. But she left before me....

That's why I always excuse any werey that believes they're in love... smh

Only that my baby then refused to accept any cleaner or cook. We had washing machine (I don't miss this as I'm lazy and I don't expect it from my woman as there are laundry businesses we could patronize).
So she's always the one taking care of all I had as I'm a careless person...

But I still recall that I do handle the washing machine sometimes and I sometimes clean the bathroom and toilets too, each time I handle the laundry.

So it's really nothing. The two people involved should just get their shiit straight. The secular emotionless world is crazy and I feel we Africans are already assimilating with it.

SMH

It has never been our culture for women to sit at home and lazy around while men work. Rather, women were involved in farming and worked in their husbands' farms. That was one of the reasons why men married many wives in those days. Women were also involved in trading. All these never stopped them from doing their wifely duties at home.

So, while your likes encourage women to be lazy by not allowing them work, just do it because you want to. Don't attribute such laziness in women to our culture because no parts of our culture encourages women to be lazy and not work.

Acidosis:
Trust me, only a few women would be willing to sit down in the house for domestic duties. The reason is not farfetched seeing how you guys denigrate women and chores. The reality now is that many women would rather go out 7am everyday like you do to battle it out with 35k job than sit in the house cooking for you only to return in the evening and spread your legs like a newly coronated chief. They will rather contribute from the little or plenty they earn to run the home. You will have to create time and help out in the house or pay to get the job done.

Maybe when men begin to appreciate chores and "housewives" again, the reality will change. You may need to clearly avoid educated women to achieve this imagination of yours.

I even prefer that both of us work and contribute equally to the family's finances and also share domestic chores. The problem is that most ladies would want to eat their cakes and still have it. They'll want the man to be the one shouldering the family's financial needs and at the same time help in domestic chores while they lazy about and gossip. They don't want marital responsibilities whilst they're the ones that enjoy the family most on the long run.

Chetas81:
only mad citizen failed to develop their motherland, those who japa, failed their contribution here in Nigeria, someone should tell us, this guy's have any tangible contribution, to the country they want to go

Develop a country where my vote doesn't count You shouldn't expect patriotism from Nigerians after rigging elections and forcing yourselves on the people. It doesn't work that way!

A country where people beg and bribe just so they can have a job is not worth any iota of patriotism. Go to the West and you see job boards established by goverment to ensure everybody is working and contributing to economic growth while in Nigeria, getting a job is a prayer point!

Nigerian leaders are not yet ready to make the country workable. When they're ready they'll do the needful. For now, Nigerians who have the opportunity to japa should not hesitate to do so.

correctguy101:
I don't know about having a wife at home...

But I feel 100k a month should be okay for food for such a family, they're not much and the children are still small, haba mana. This is Nigeria, and the times are not favourable to those even earning as much as OP. The couple should be proud and work together towards their future ....

Let's see..

HALF A BAG OF RICE: 25K
FULL PIG: 40K (or you could sometimes go for a portion of a ram or cow or buy a full goat. It'll last that family for more than a month, with their almost always not at home schedule)
DRIED CATFISH: 20k (could be more now. The last I bought at Liverpool in Apapa is still at home)
CRAYFISH, STOCKFISH, EGUSI, OGBONO, HAUSA LONG PEPPER: 35K (All from Liverpool Apapa)
On top of all these, I sometimes get fresh catfish anytime I need Banga soup or peppersoup. (Note that all the others could last more than a month, stretching to even two and three). Well, it still depends...

Still..

All these are if you want to be extravagant. I only buy staples and meat like stated above(I'm greedy for meat). The rest can be measured and you'll last for more than 3months spending less than that 100k a month on food. Provided you buy pepper and tomatoes in baskets, grind and refrigerate them (you'll be shocked at how much you can save if you do that).

Maybe it's because I'm not always home or we don't really eat much like other families..but I'm sure my daughter would've complained if it's not always enough. These days, I've gone crazy with okra, and I'll always buy and make it myself to mix with whatever soup is made at home.

After the major foodstuffs are made available, it'll take another 2-3months before meat is exhausted but rice and some other staples could take more than 3months before we finish them. So before I spend up to 100k on foodstuffs again in a month, it'll take that long. (Note that I hardly eat outside, except drinking peppersoup and buying kpomo and that's only when I'm where I get my voltage high )

So, what are they eating that will be taking more than 100k each month? At least for a period of time, that should hold the house, plus their children are not even grown...


But ...
I'm sure the real issue the OP's concerned with is not all these.

The woman has denied him sex and he feels he's doing his duty as a man and husband and deserves more affection which prolly includes mind-blowing sex.

Now, I saw people making a list of all the stresses they perceived the woman must be going through.

I'll say, the man should check again and see what he could do to reduce it and that's after speaking with his woman. Number one on my list is, I can't stress any woman with me with laundry (Not when I have the means). So he should fix that and maybe spare a little more for cleaning the house. (But if the man has plans to increase the family earnings and this could affect that project negatively, Ii feel he should call his woman and speak with her to get her understanding and cooperation). Yet, it depends on many other factors too..
Let's not talk about cooking (cos I tend to have something with any good female cook. So if I'm ever married, my woman better be the one making my food, else... No one can blame me, I like good food and those who make them. )

Then if this continues, ah, baba has finally achieved agbako.

The iya no longer finds him attractive or someone else is thoroughly farming on that land.

Exactly! That 100k is more than enough for a month. I even have a feeling that the wife is saving part of the money.

Some of those castigating the op and making excuses for his wife are those who believe that it is okay for a woman to just relax at home doing nothing while the man works his butt off and still come home to do domestic chores. This is the reason most men die early while their wives live longer to enjoy his wealth and their children.

Acidosis:
How is she lazy when the husband already mentioned her qualities (one being that she is a hardworking woman)?

I think it is disrespectful to relegate domestic duties because someone employed you to work for them. A very big disrespect to your partner or whoever you choose to pay to do these tasks. I imagine that you also think very low of your dry cleaners, cleaning companies, and caterers. May be I should send you a proposal to clean your apartment for a year (used to own a cleaning business btw). Then I would also send you my IG plug for food delivery. By the time you pay all year round, nobody will teach you how to appreciate your woman or those rendering the services to you FOC.

I would not disrespect nor think lowly of my partner if she carries out her domestic roles without complaining since that is her own contribution to the family. If she feels the domestic duties are too much for her, then she should enter the street with me and hustle for the family's finances, that way we can have enough funds to hire a maid.

Don't compare commercial services to domestic chores because commercial laundry and catering services target large number of people while domestic ones are meant for just the man, his wife and a few kids (4 maximum in most modern homes).

Acidosis:
I am not speaking for women/men; rather I am addressing op's matter based on the extent of evidence given.

Check my post on another thread here (https://www.nairaland.com/7837010/woman-husband-left-me-pregnant/7#125738852), where I faulted a woman's decision for denying her husband sex.

You see, unlike you, I address matters as they are presented. I don't go looking for threads to blame women (or men). I addressed contexts, not gender.

It's not hard to see the underlying issues especially one that the op already indicated in his post. He started by listing the amount of work his wife does and ended by mentioning her constant complaints of fatigue.

"First to report no means say you be victim."

What I am sensing is that op's wife is a naturally lazy bum who is too bone lazy to do the simple work of taking care of the home front while her husband works to take care of the finances of the family. Forget the fatigue complaint! That's what all lazy wives do to cover up their laziness and make it look like the task of taking care of the house is killing them.

I hope you're aware that in this same country, there are women who work and bring money to the family's table and still do their wifely duties at home? Yet despite not working and contributing to the family's finances, op's wife is too bone lazy to do her wifely duties at home? And you still blame the op?

I have sisters who are married, working and carrying their families and still still do their wifely duties at home without complaining. In fact, one recently financed relocation of her family abroad (something the husband could only dream of). If my sisters and some other women out there are doing the above, no woman has any excuses for being a lazy bum and depending solely on their husbands!

The above is the reason why I'll rather not marry than marry a lady I'll be the one carrying like some handicapped person, when my own sisters are the ones carrying their men.

wirinet:
It seems you don't run a family and do not understand what it takes to run a family as a man.

As a family with 3 children (2 teenage boys and a girl) with an aged mother, and an income similar to the OP, N100k is not enough in month for food alone. Except of course you want to degrade your family lifestyle and status to that of a factory worker.

To me it is foolishness to degrade the living standard of your family in exchange for a long term project that might take more than 10 years to complete. By the time you finish your project your children would have become adults. You would have degraded their childhood by not giving them the best childhood you could afford. Now I am not saying projects house projects are not important, but it should not be at the expense of the comfort of your family, you must strike a balance.

I value my family far more than the OP. I spend a small fortune on my children's education, not to talk of their comfort. During the last break I spend more than 100k for the boys to learn coding, apart from school, they have home lesson teacher and music teacher.
Everyone has different priorities in life. To me my number one priority is my family.

That's the difference between rich men and average men. While rich men would manage at some point in order to attain higher financial status, average men would lavishly spend any money they come across and remain average!

Meanwhile, you don't even know how op's family standard of living is. That 100k when used properly is enough to afford good for the family in a month. Besides, it is possible that op buys some of the food items in bulk and give his wife the 100k just for food ingredients. It is even possible that the wife is still saving from that 100k for herself instead of working and making her fair share of contribution to the family's finances like her mates are doing out there.

wirinet:
You just don't get it. Its not about the woman but the family itself. The lifestyle of the family of a man earning 700k per month is different from that of the one earning 70k. You don’t expect a man earning 700k to live in a face me I face you, not even a self contain. You expect him to live in a 2 bedroom in a nice neighbourhood. Even an office that pays its workers 700k per month is expected to be located in an expensive neighbourhood. Same with the food the family eats, you don't expect such family to eat ogi and akara for breakfast, drink garri and grandnut for launch and go hungry at night. Same for the school the children attend.
I am not even talking about the upkeep of the wife yet (things like cream, hair, make up and cloths).

I am certain the husband spends more than 100k per month on himself alone. He will spend more than 100k on clothes, office launch, airtime and
data, drinks and flexing in a month.

100k upkeep for man earning 700k per month is an insult to the woman and his family.

And how much is the partner and co-owner of the family bringing to the table

Op gives 100k just for food o. Children' school fees and house rent is not included in that 100k! Besides, it appears you didn't read where op said he has a project at hand that will increase the family's finances when it matures or you just want to type jargon in order to be seen as woke by appealing to the selfish women in this forum?

Op is doing more than enough for his family already with that 100k he gives for food. Some of you who are against the op are not even doing half of what he's doing for his family!

Acidosis:
If the female gender likes and appreciates my posts, then that means I am posting things that matter to them. Why are you resisting happiness? You don't want to keep your wife happy and sane?

I am not making excuses for his wife. I have only given him tips for his own sanity. In life, you have to always make choices. Some will help you, others *may* destroy you.

You're posting things that appeal to their selfish nature while ignoring the well-being of the man. Why do some of you have the mindset that the needs of women matter more than those of men? Yet, you're still the type that clamor for gender equality!

Now FYI, even if op hands over his paycheck to that wife of his, it won't stop her from being lazy and denying him sex! So, don't make it seem like her attitude has anything to do with the level of help or amount of money she's getting from op.

Acidosis:
Workload is the amount of work you'd prefer your wife to do to the point of exhaustion, rather than spending 2% of your income on a cleaner.

Y'all wicked men will buy expensive phones for your girlfriends that contribute absolutely nothing to your lives, but watch your wife at home work herself to a state of exhaustion and unconsciousness.

Stop typing rubbish just to be seen as woke and have your post liked by the female gender.
A wife who contributes nothing to the finances of her supposed home should at least compensate by cleaning up the house and cooking for her family. 100k is some people's two months salary! There are women who contribute equal amount of money to their families' finances, yet still cook, clean and fvck their husbands without complaints, so stop making senseless excuses for op's wife!

onuman:
Need for a chaperone has come for surgery in Nigeria's hospital theaters, as done in some other countries. Nigerian doctors who also want to be rich like Nigeria's politicians are multiplying daily.

And the new minister of health wants to finally put the Nigerian hospitals into their pockets with the proposed selective privatization of public hospitals in the country!

Nigerians and even Tinubu don't understand the evil motives behind that proposed move! If that partial privatization is not stopped, what would happen is that the minister of health would simply share the various health institutions among his colleague doctors in NMA.

They'll select the aspects that involve doctors' welfare (eg employment, salaries and allowances and free residency training) and make those responsibilities of federal government while the aspects that concern patients ( such as cost of healthcare, accessibility and patients' rights) will be determined by the doctors! You and I know how exorbitant private hospitals are in this country! Poor Nigerians would simply not afford healthcare anymore.

They'll also take advantage of the selective privatization to perpetuate their vendetta against other healthcare professionals as they'll be the ones deciding the fates of these professionals. The result is that the majority of these professionals would leave the Nigerian healthcare system and travel abroad, consequently, quality of healthcare would nosedive while death rate would increase!

I hope Nigerians understand the dangers ahead and nip that proposed selective privatization in buds before thoughtless Nigerian physicians in NMA and prof Pate would put the final nails on the coffins of our healthcare system!

jmoore:
A hospital that is not hidden, doctor operating for many years and NMA is saying he's not their member.

Which senseless statement is that?

Don't mind them! They're denying him just to save face.

NMA that'll not encourage Nigerian doctors to study continually and improve on the several areas of medicine and surgery, instead they'll be busy dragging spaces and fighting unnecessarily with other healthcare professionals.

LegallyBlunt:
"Our records don't show that he's a medical doctor" - NMA

When it rains, it pours. Some people go about their evil business and inclinations thinking the world revolves around them, and that they'll never be caught. But just one day, a deluge of problems and karma rains on them. That's what has happened to this man.

How can you, a non-medical 'expert' take out a patient's kidney. Haba. For what!? Investigation must be full, open, and conclusive on this matter. Patients might have died on his table or after weeks of being operated on.

The police must rise up to the occasion!

It is possible that guy is a medical doctor!

When Nigerian medical doctors are caught up in malpractices like this, the first reaction of NMA is to deny them in a bid to save face.

Many more Kekeres are operating freely in Nigeria and NMA and Nigerian ministry of health are complicit directly or indirectly.

It is obvious that the judges of the election petition tribunal are carrying out an order from Abuja to pervert the course of justice against the labor party.

If not, why have they been sacking LP candidates who were massively voted into office by the people? That is very unhealthy for our democracy!

Lawyers should not allow themselves to be used as tools in the hands of those who want to truncate democracy in Nigeria. Some of them maybe passing these biased judgements against LP in a bid to spite perceived enemies or even on tribal bigotry! They don't know that their actions today could come back to hunt them in the nearest future. Typical Nigerians would rather shoot themselves in the foot thinking that they're spiting a tribe or group of people. That's how thoughtless many of you are!

People expressed their anger with the Nigerian system by massively voting Labour party in the last election, only for some group of unscrupulous and thoughtless lawyers to have the wishes of the people quashed!

Which way Nigeria!!! Who cursed this country abeg??!!!

I think I support the Minister's position on the matter. She's only after the truth!

It appears she already extracted the truth from the students via a recorded conversation and is only warning them not to give a contradictory statement at the pannel.

The VC clearly wants to set the man up and take her pound of flesh for an earlier misunderstanding with him.

Reelmii:
God bless u for this ur comment....if the man was at fault, he would have opted for an adoption,,he would never want his wife to leave him talk less of her getting pregnant by another man...

Men are selfish in nature,, it is only wen it benefits them that they stick around...i am a guy so i know this

I dont know have time for those quoting me,, na them get their phone and data

Men have the right to protect their interests in marriage! That includes protecting his interest in terms of having his own child! If that is what you call selfish, so be it.

Why should a man compromise his innate desire to have his offsprings just because of a woman who would most likely not agree to marry him if he didn't have money Why?

Having his own offsprings is the only thing a man gains from marriage for all the expectations and responsibilities he has to shoulder in the marriage, hence he must not compromise that for whatever reasons.


PS: my advice to married men and future husbands is to always double-check any fertility test results before accepting that they're the ones with fertility problem! We've seen many cases where the wife connive with doctors to pin the blame for infertility on their husbands in order to shift attention and stop the man from chasing them away.

Op, just know that in Nigeria, people only complain of corruption when they ain't the ones benefiting from it. Once they start benefiting from corruption, they'll make up one thousand one excuses to rationalize the menace.

Some nurses in a certain public hospital where I work now see me as enemy for blocking the channel they use to siphon drugs and medical consumables from goverment. To them, I'm the over sabi Pharmacist who is trying to gain recognition from management, but to me I'm trying to protect the interests of poor patients who need those drugs at affordable rates to stay alive. I'm also trying to keep those nurses and other employees of the hospital on their jobs because those drugs and medical consumables help to generate funds to keep the hospital running as goverment will not hesitate to close down the hospital if revenue generation declines abysmally. But they'll not see the bigger picture of what I'm trying to do.

That's how deep corruption has eaten into the fabrics of this country. Too bad!

Kingosytex:
I smell sarcasm here

Ladies have no power of commitment but set unrealistic standards, they become offended when men set theirs.
A broke lady doesn't consider herself broke, a broke lady sees herself as being in the class of a rich dude.

You got my drift.

That gender and their double standards

Kingosytex:
Allakaduna perfectly depicts them below. As a lady setting unrealistic standards, know that everyone can set theirs.
Don't feel offended when men start setting theirs too, two can play the game.

How dare you tell men to set standards for the kind of ladies they marry Don't you know that men are to sulk up all the rubbishes from women and not complain about it Or do you want us to be termed misogynists for expecting the best qualities from women?

nairalanda1:
I don't think he properly divorced her


Modified

Seems he did.

He did

legitnow1:
NO, I ABSOLUTELY AGREE.


THAT IS Y WE WILL DETAIN HIM IN JAIL, SO HE WONT CONTINUE TO IMPREGNATE OTHER PEOPLE WOMEN.


IF U ARE FUCKING HER, U CLEARLY LIKE SOMETHING THERE AND WHEN U CANNOT EVEN BE BOTHER TO TAKE CARE, IT MEANS U WANT MARRIAGE AND FAMILY.

You are typing jargon!

Do ladies fvck just anybody who ask for sex from them No! They fvck only those that catch their fancies! What does that tell you Of course, that shows they also enjoy the sexing around. It is not like they were forced into doing it, so why would you punish the man for something that they both wanted and enjoyed.

You no get talk walahi

nairalanda1:
If you don't want to get married, don't marry. Simple.



That's why we have options like divorce.

And that's the option the man has decided to choose. He did the right thing by taking that option. He even waited for too long!

nairalanda1:
At the end marry because you love someone. Not because you have needs

Do women marry for love

I pity any man who allows himself to stick to a woman who can't bear him a child. Women of nowadays that would not touch a broke guy with a long spoon o.

[quote author=Zooposki post=125728827][/quote]Men have no reason to see women as any other thing than a replaceable commodity. This is because even women see themselves as commodities to be acquired by the highest bidders. Women are not in any position to complain about men not treating them with love and emotions because NO WOMAN TRULY LOVES A MAN OUTSIDE WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF PROVIDING FOR HER.

We have all agreed that broke men do not deserve love nor sex from women, so why not also agree with us that a man with money has the right to change women the same way they change other commodities That is not too much to ask for from a gender that doesn't consider us beyond our bank accounts.

Reelmii:
Ok...ashawo dey ur husband eyes before so dont think u were the problem, he just used ur issues as an excuse....

My advice is for u to see ur therapist..i believe u will be fine, time will heal ur wounds....thank God he did not leave u with a child, atleast u are mot a single mother so it will be easy for u to move on with time...

A man that can throw away 14yrs in just a short period of time was just a disaster waiting to happen....
I pity the new woman because he might leave her too one day because of a flimsy issue.....but by then,, u would have healed and moved on

Nonsense talk!

After enduring childlessness for 14years, all the f00lish lady could do was start denying him sexz

The man did the right thing by seeking satisfaction outside and having a child in the process. I'll not even wait that long before I start trying with other ladies should I find myself in same situation as the man God forbids.

If not witchcraft, I don't understand why Nigerian governors and presidents would not want to be succeeded by their deputies.


One would think that since the deputy governors understand the programs and projects of the governors, they're in a better position to succeed the governors but no, Nigerian governors would rather die than allow that.

Too bad!